Do YOU Know the Behavioural Signs of Childhood Sexual Abuse :
These might include a marked change in the child's general behaviour. For example, they may become unusually quiet & withdrawn, or unusually aggressive.
The child may refuse to attend school or start to have difficulty concentrating on their schoolwork.
They may show unexpected fear or distrust of a particular adult, or refuse to continue with their usual social activities.
They may start using sexually explicit behaviour or language, particularly if the behaviour/language is not appropriate for their age.
The child may describe receiving special attention from a particular adult, or refer to a new "secret" friendship with an adult or young person.
What Action to Take :
What should I do if my child tells me they have been sexually abused?
Your child probably feels very anxious & embarrassed about what has happened. So although you will naturally feel very upset yourself, try not to react in a way that adds to their distress. For example, with disbelief or blame. Try your best to:
* Keep calm.
* Listen very carefully to what your child tells you.
* Make clear that you believe what they are telling you.
* Allow your child to tell you as much as they want to about the abuse, but don't force them to talk about it.
* Tell your child that they have done the right thing in telling you.
* Tell them that they are not to blame for the abuse.
Important Note:
DO NOT confront the abuser yourself. Your priority must be to stop the abuse & protect the child by getting expert advice as soon as possible.
Courtesy of the NSPCC.
Other survivors of child abuse .
James Douglas Morrison , John Densmore, The Dalai Lama, Nelson Mandela, Professor Stephen Hawking, Dr Gunther Von Hagens, Gerry & Kate McCann ( bless their hearts ), Marshall Mathers, John Lydon, Ozzy Osbourne, Francis Rossi & Rick Parfitt, Shane MacGowan, Ronnie Wood, Keith Richards, Russell Brand, Roy 'Chubby' Brown.....
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River Phoenix , Mohandas (Mahatma) Gandhi, Doris Stokes, Helen Duncan, Hunter Thompson, Dylan Thomas, George Harrison, Freddie Mercury, Johnny Cash, John Simon Richie (Sid Vicious), Michael Hutchence, Ronnie Drew (The Dubliners).
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James Douglas Morrison , My Family, Other survivors of child abuse .
A TELEVISION APPEAL BY KATE & GERRY McCANN FIRST AIRED IN 2007 .