There is a phobia for nearly anything you can think of, from what many would consider fairly normal, such as Acrophobia- Fear of heights, to what some might consider mundane, such as Pteronophobia- Fear of being tickled by feathers. No matter what the phobia, they can all cause certain general reactions out of people. Many people admit to freezing and being unable to even flee from the cause of their phobia, others say they will simply run and not look back.
The short story collection "Phobia" is an attempt to tackle these phobias, whether they be common place or abstract. Many people simply won't be able to read something about their worst fear or phobia, but thrill seekers might do the exact opposite. I think the main reason I'm putting this collection together, is to try and scare myself. I am one of those people that intentionally tries to scare themselves because there is a certain thrill associated with being afraid. I don't seem to have any normal phobias. many things that terrify the hell out of ordinary people don't seem to bother me so much.
All definitions aside, this is what I think.
There are certain things that every sane person is afraid of, namely bad things happening to people they love. There are certain situations when anyone would be afraid, encountering a rabid dog, or a hungry bear. Being lost in the woods, etc. As far as I'm concerned this is just human nature. Of course I don't want bad things to happen to the people I love, but it's not something I'm going to let bother me every day of my life. That's simply no way to live. Now, if this is something that DOES bother you every day of your life, perhaps you are a step above.
A fear is something that you are certainly afraid of, but can probably deal with well enough to survive the encounter. Say you're afraid of spiders, you'd be able to view this page even though it creeps you out. You'd be able to squish that daddy long legs crawling along the wall.
A phobia would be the end of the spectrum, in which case, were you to encounter said spider, you would simply collapse with fear, rendering yourself incapable of defending yourself. My wife is a Coulrophobe, which is a fear of clowns. She admits that if she encountered a clown in person, she would do just that, collapse into a heap and be unable to even run from the damn thing. That is a fear of such intensity that it could kill you. A phobia. This end of the spectrum is what this collection is all about.
The Speech, about a young kid with a fear of public speaking, isn't about a phobia at all really, but of an intense fear. If you read the story, you'll realize the irony involved in that his fear isn't what ends in disaster, it is conquering that fear, which ends in disaster.
If you are afraid of any images on this page enough to barf or go limp, then you have stepped inside my trap. I want to scare you. I want to terrify you.
It is possible for an individual to develop a phobia over virtually anything. The name of a phobia generally contains a Greek word for what the patient fears plus the suffix -phobia. Creating these terms is somewhat of a word game. Few of these terms are found in medical literature. However, this does not necessarily make it a non-psychological condition.
Here are some interesting links:
How Fear Works
Some Wise Quotes About Fear
Social Phobia
Triumph Over Phobia
Fighting phobias, the things that go bump in the night.
Articles about Phobias
Phobias and Fears: Symptoms and Treatments
Common Fears
Nearly all definitions of the word 'phobia' state that it is an irrational fear of something. As far as I'm concerned, what is irrational to one person is very rational to others. The term 'rational' is so subjective as to be completely obsolete in this instance. By this do they mean irrational to the majority of people? Or simply irrational in that there is no real need to fear the thing in question. I know tons of people who suffer from Apiphobia (fear of bees), but isn't there some justification in that? Bees can hurt you and in some cases kill you. That seems rational to me even though I don't suffer the phobia myself. A beekeeper might think it ridiculous to be afraid of bees, but maybe they're wierd and not the people who are afraid.
It seems unfair to say that ANY fear or phobia is irrational, even if it seems silly to many people.
Here are a few examples of phobias that could be consider silly or irrational, but when taken into consideration and combined with certain traumatic events could be incredibly rational or at least understandable.
Autodysomophobia- Fear of one that has a vile odor
Anthrophobia or Anthophobia- Fear of flowers
Barophobia- Fear of gravity
Caligynephobia- Fear of beautiful women
Cathisophobia- Fear of sitting
Cibophobia- Fear of food
Clinophobia- Fear of going to bed
Defecaloesiophobia- Fear of painful bowels movements
Ecophobia- Fear of home
Epistemophobia- Fear of knowledge
Euphobia- Fear of hearing good news
Geniophobia- Fear of chins
Hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia- Fear of long words
Kinetophobia or Kinesophobia- Fear of movement or motion
Laliophobia or Lalophobia- Fear of speaking
Levophobia- Fear of things to the left side of the body
Mnemophobia- Fear of memories
Phronemophobia- Fear of thinking
Pteronophobia- Fear of being tickled by feathers
Urophobia- Fear of urine or urinating
Now, like I said, some of these phobias might sound silly to some people, but they are very real fears and should not be treated any different than a fear of flying or a fear of the dark. Imagine trying to survive with a fear of gravity. How does someone cope with that on a daily basis? Certain phobias I can understand being treated with drugs and therapy, but how do you survive if you're afraid to eat.
The only way I can try and justify any of these phobias is by doing my best to justify a phobia that I simply cannot comprehend.
Arachibutyrophobia. The definition of Arachibutyrophobia, is the fear of having peanut butter stick to the roof of your mouth.
This section is directly quoted from Arachibutyrophobia--Treatment and Hope .
Like all fears and phobias, arachibutyrophobia is created by the unconscious mind as a protective mechanism. At some point in your past, there was likely an event linking peanut butter sticking to the roof of the mouth and emotional trauma. Whilst the original catalyst may have been a real-life scare of some kind, the condition can also be triggered by myriad, benign events like movies, TV, or perhaps seeing someone else experience trauma.
But so long as the negative association is powerful enough, the unconscious mind thinks: "Ahh, this whole thing is very dangerous. How do I keep myself from getting in this kind of situation again? I know, I'll attach terrible feelings to peanut butter sticking to the roof of the mouth, that way I'll steer clear in future and so be safe." Just like that arachibutyrophobia is born. Attaching emotions to situations is one of the primary ways that humans learn. Sometimes we just get the wiring wrong.
The actual phobia manifests itself in different ways. Some sufferers experience it almost all the time, others just in response to direct stimuli. Everyone has their own unique formula for when and how to feel bad.
In laymens terms, what this means is that it is often not the catalyst of our fears which causes our phobias, but something associated with or in some cases completely unrelated to the catalyst. It's not necessarily the peanut butter we fear, but something that may have happened while we had peanut butter stuck to the roof of our mouth.