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Sandi's Random Inklings

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About Me


If you are trolling for girls Go sit under a bridge, you'll have better luck than here.
Change is good, it’s been said. And that must mean my life is GREAT! I’ve had a lot of changes in the last year or so. When they first started, I was terrified of the changes. My son had been recently diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes, I was completely starting over after a disastrous ending to a relationship I’d put everything into, and I had no idea where my life was heading. This last year has been a roller coaster of life. It’s certainly been a huge education in the school of hard knocks, but I am a fast learner. (And it makes for great blog writing!)
If you want to read some tidbits or just ramblings, check out my blog, that’s where the stuff most people are interested in hearing about anyway! I read a lot of other people’s blogs too. There are some very creative and funny folks on MySpace! They inspire me to write more, which many have told me I need to do. I have had a very interesting life, and slowly I will be posting these experiences in the form of series writing. You'll find stories about life as an erotic/burlesque dancer, a slave in BDSM world, and general struggles of being a single parent. There's many humorous stories and photo blogs - ranging from hilarious to sensual and some are downright bawdy! But one thing for sure is that the Random Inklings are... well... random! Hopefully, those who take time to read the blog series will be entertained, educated, and titillated at times. For the most part, it’s just my way of getting a bunch of memories out of my head and it’s a helluva lot cheaper than therapy! I try to use humor, and find some enlightening moral or whatever in each of my stories, but there are also the tidbits of nothingness that come out in my Random Inklings. Such is the life of a writer who puts her heart into her words.
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Fun to me is camping in rural Oregon, a day trip cross country skiing, wandering a corn field maze, sipping a new wine with friends, cheering for the Broncos, relaxing with a good movie on a rainy day, shopping for shoes :D, cutting my own christmas tree, flying a kite at the coast, family dinners, and just enjoying the company of friends. I love to dance, socialize, and simply see the things in life most people don't take time to notice.
I am not looking for a romantic relationship, as I am pretty much wrapped up in caring for my son. If you are looking at my profile because the picture caught your eye, forget about sending me the silly “Hey sexy” email, I’m not interested. I am not a superficial person and really want something that has more depth. I won’t slam the door tho, if the right person comes along and can accept that my first responsibility is to my son. Friends are important to me and I love meeting all kinds of folks, so if you are willing to build a friendship, say howdy.

My Interests

Other interests: Kids, education, friendships, football (especially the Broncos!), jigsaw puzzles, crosswords, witty puns, intelligent conversation, blossoming flowers, art shows, fun adventures. Hiking, cross-country skiing, camping, picnics, wandering museums and art galleries, dining out or planning barbeques. Costume design and roleplaying. Making memories for those around me.
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I'd like to meet:

People who live life with an optimistic attitude. Friends, humorous buddies, anyone who knows where to find a Banana Split Mocha, romantic souls, passionate folks. Those who have a passion about something important in their lives. If you are are open to diverse lifestyles, all the better. I like unique people, original thinkers, creative minds, optimistic folks, humorous wits, kinky adventurers and artistic appreciators.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Sandi
Birthday: 10/4
Birthplace: La Junta Colorado
Current Location: Beaverton Oregon
Eye Color: Maple syrup
Hair Color: Blond
Height: 5'3" (if I stretch!)
Right Handed or Left Handed: right
Your Heritage: Native American/European
The Shoes You Wore Today: Jeep sneakers
Your Weakness: Dark Chocolate Covered Cherries
Your Fears: Losing one of my children
Your Perfect Pizza: Stuffed crust Hawaiian
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Meet great people and find a true friend.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: Hahaha...
Thoughts First Waking Up: Did I already hit the snooze?
Your Best Physical Feature: My facial expressions (innocent me? Yeah, right!)
Your Bedtime: After the news usually
Your Most Missed Memory: Sunshine in the winter months
Pepsi or Coke: Dr Pepper
MacDonalds or Burger King: BK (they have onion rings!)
Single or Group Dates: Single for intimacy, group for adventures
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Fresh brewed
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Banana Split Mocha! and coffee all day long
Do you Smoke: After sex? I never looked to see!
Do you Swear: Only if I am major fuckin' pissed!
Do you Sing: Not in tune, but it doesn't stop me!
Do you Shower Daily: I gotta have my date with Mr Shower Massage!
Have you Been in Love: Yes, but it was not reciprocated.. sigh
Do you want to go to College: Again? sure why not!
Do you want to get Married: Only if Mr Perfect comes along
Do you belive in yourself: Absolutely
Do you get Motion Sickness: Only when hanging upside down, being swung by my ankles..
Do you think you are Attractive: My personality, more so than my looks

Do you get along with your Parents: Parent? Do I have parents?
Do you like Thunderstorms: I like Lightning best, but it comes with Thunderstorms
Do you play an Instrument: I used to play flute, now I just play
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yup, naked wine tasting is fun!
In the past month have you Smoked: Nothing illegal
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Nothing illegal
In the past month have you gone on a Date: A good girl never tells :D (duh!)
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Girl - mall, What do you think?
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: Not by myself
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yep
In the past month have you been on Stage: Yes
In the past month have you been Dumped: Nobody to dump me
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Yup, wanna go?
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: A few hearts (but I give em back!)
Ever been Drunk: I plead the 5th....
Ever been called a Tease: I teach the art of tease! Burlesque!
Ever been Beaten up: Naw, I'm a lil scrapper
Ever Shoplifted: As a kid, got caught, swept floors!
How do you want to Die: With mind intact, and body exhausted
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Taller
What country would you most like to Visit: Scotland, or anyplace with Castles
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Intense
Favourite Hair Color: Hair? Does it matter?
Short or Long Hair: Depends on where it grows
Height: Over 5'6"
Weight: Under 250
Best Clothing Style: Love a man in a dress shirt
Number of Drugs I have taken: None illegal since High school
Number of CDs I own: Music? a few.. Financial? zip
Number of Piercings: 5
Number of Tattoos: 3
Number of things in my Past I Regret: Too many, but I'd do it all over again, only be More Experienced.

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Music:

If my music didn't start for you, push the button. You'll be pleasantly taken to a very sensual mindset. Put your feet up, close your eyes, turn the speakers up, let the sounds surround you.. and live in the moment. Enigma has always been one of my favorite groups, and their latest remix is awesome. Discover "The Principles of Lust", and let your heartbeat follow mine, into the breathless depths known as burning pleasures of desire... feel your heartbeat. This song epitomizes me. Understand it, you'll understand me.

My tastes vary to the mood. Lately, the Rent soundtrack is my fave, and is in my alarm clock to wake me up with a smile. My CD stand has such diverse selections, from easy listening rock, to pop, to ethnic stuff. I especially love soundtracks. About the only thing that makes me screech is Gansta Rap and screaming heavy metal.

Movies:

Did you know Blockbusters has a special on some good movies? 4 for $20... I've been stocking up and will have lots of movies to watch when the rain starts falling! Many different genres.. will have something for any mood :D

Television:

Who can resist Gray's Anatomy? CSI, Desperate Housewives, Discovery Channel, A&E, TLC, and any mystery based shows.And comedy. Tyler Perry has a message that says a lot about life and what really matters. And he does it with humor. Gotta love this video!

Books:

I love true crime story writers, Ann Rule especially. I love to solve mysteries. I wish I had more time to read, but I'm the kind of girl that can't put a book down until the end so I rarely start a book right now. If I do, it's usually to escape for a day.

Heroes:

My fourth grade teacher, Bruce McIntyre, who was a dwarf in a world that had difficulty accepting differences in people. He gave me hope and stirred an optimistic viewpoint that only he could do. He opened the world of art to me, and helped me see that anything is possible if you believe in it. He told me the story of the Ugly Duckling, and explained that one day I'd grow into a swan.

My Blog

The Place was too good to be true - Landlady violence!

Note: This blog is protected by my First Amendment Right to freedom of speech. My landlady threatened to take that right away from me, claiming her right to privacy superseded my rights. Then she slap...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 01:35:00 PST

A random inkling blog ~The Good - the Bad - and the Ugly!~

Gosh, it's been a while since I just sat down and blatted out whatever is on my mind. Sometimes it's because my blond head is just full of air and fluff.. but lately, it's because there's a lot of jum...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Thu, 17 Apr 2008 01:45:00 PST

Invisible Illness

Do you remember when you were little, and you climbed up in Granny’s lap? "Be careful, darling," she’d say. "Gently, snookums," she’d whisper, as you’d hug her. She would often...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Tue, 08 Apr 2008 11:27:00 PST

Blue haired boy - a happy story on autism

Today is Autism Awareness Day in the US. Seems more kids are being diagnosed now than ever. My son Theo, now 21, has a form of autism known as Asperger’s Syndrome. He’s actually lucky in ...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:56:00 PST

The *new* Place

I packed my stuff, turned off all my utilities, and waved goodbye to the neighbors. Then I disappeared, for the most part, in a squeal of loose fan belts on my POS car and a sense of adventure that is...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Fri, 28 Mar 2008 07:59:00 PST

The new adventure.

I may seem confused lately, eh? Like I added a little more blond undertones into my gray-covering hair dye. It's how I've been feeling lately - addled. I've had an awful lot on my plate, juggling fran...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Wed, 12 Mar 2008 05:45:00 PST

Part 2, Hook, line & sinker TT Blog

I couldn't decide where to go with this story. So I am going to try something different. It's a multiple choice ending. You decide which one you want. Or just leave it to your own imagination. I think...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Tue, 04 Mar 2008 08:30:00 PST

Use care when petting your pussy. UPDATED

Most of you know the story of Pakak, the cat. For those that don't, here's a quick little recap. First, let's get past the name. I know, you think it's a weird name for a pussy. Pakak. How DO you say...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Fri, 29 Feb 2008 12:29:00 PST

Hook, line and sinker. A TT beginning.

             Driving across the washboard forest service road in Eastern Oregon, he turned onto a hidden path to his favorite fishing hole. The Li...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Tue, 26 Feb 2008 09:57:00 PST

Geocache photo adventure! Modern day treasure hunting

Treasure hunting is something that conjures up pirates in my mind. I think about perusing a tattered paper map with a big bold X to mark the spot to a fantasy treasure.  Go ahead, I know what you...
Posted by Sandi's Random Inklings on Wed, 20 Feb 2008 05:34:00 PST