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How Many Children Die Each Year From Child Abuse and Neglect?
The National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System (NCANDS) reported an estimated 1,400 child fatalities in 2002. This translates to a rate of 1.98 children per 100,000 children in the general population. NCANDS defines "child fatality" as the death of a child caused by an injury resulting from abuse or neglect, or where abuse or neglect were contributing factors.
Many researchers and practitioners believe child fatalities due to abuse and neglect are underreported. States' definitions of key terms such as "child homicide," "abuse," and "neglect" vary (therefore, so do the numbers and types of child fatalities they report). In addition, some deaths officially labeled as accidents, child homicides, and/or Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) might be attributed to child abuse or neglect if more comprehensive investigations were conducted or if there was more consensus in the coding of abuse on death certificates.
Recent studies in Colorado and North Carolina have estimated as many as 50 to 60 percent of deaths resulting from abuse or neglect are not recorded (Crume, DiGuiseppi, Byers, Sirotnak, Garrett, 2002; Herman-Giddens, Brown, Verbiest, Carlson, Hooten, et al., 1999). These studies indicate that neglect is the most underrecorded form of fatal maltreatment.
Victims
An estimated 896,000 children were determined to be victims of child abuse or neglect in 2002. The rate of victimization per 1,000 children in the national population has dropped from 13.4 children in 1990 to 12.3 children in 2002.
More than 60 percent of child victims experienced neglect. Almost 20 percent were physically abused; 10 percent were sexually abused; and 7 percent were emotionally maltreated. In addition, almost 20 percent were associated with "other" types of maltreatment based on specific State laws and policies.2
Children ages birth to 3 years had the highest rates of victimization at 16.0 per 1,000 children. Girls were slightly more likely to be victims than boys.
American Indian or Alaska Native and African-American children had the highest rates of victimization when compared to their national population. While the rate of White victims of child abuse or neglect was 10.7 per 1,000 children of the same race, the rate for American Indian or Alaska Natives was 21.7 per 1,000 children and for African-Americans 20.2 per 1,000 children.
Physical Abuse is physical injury (ranging from minor bruises to severe fractures or death) as a result of punching, beating, kicking, biting, shaking, throwing, stabbing, choking, hitting (with a hand, stick, strap, or other object), burning, or otherwise harming a child. Such injury is considered abuse regardless of whether the caretaker intended to hurt the child.
Sexual Abuse includes activities by a parent or caretaker such as fondling a child's genitals, penetration, incest, rape, sodomy, indecent exposure, and exploitation through prostitution or the production of pornographic materials.3
Emotional Abuse is a pattern of behavior that impairs a child's emotional development or sense of self-worth. This may include constant criticism, threats, or rejection, as well as withholding love, support, or guidance. Emotional abuse is often difficult to prove and, therefore, CPS may not be able to intervene without evidence of harm to the child. Emotional abuse is almost always present when other forms are identified.
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Recognizing Child Abuse

The following signs may signal the presence of child abuse or neglect.
The Child:

Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance. Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to the parents' attention. Has learning problems (or difficulty concentrating) that cannot be attributed to specific physical or psychological causes. Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen. Lacks adult supervision. Is overly compliant, passive, or withdrawn. Comes to school or other activities early, stays late, and does not want to go home.

The Parent:

Shows little concern for the child. Denies the existence of—or blames the child for—the child's problems in school or at home. Asks teachers or other caretakers to use harsh physical discipline if the child misbehaves. Sees the child as entirely bad, worthless, or burdensome. Demands a level of physical or academic performance the child cannot achieve. Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction of emotional needs.

Hear and see what they have to say In this section, we turn to children and young people to find out about the experiences of abuse and neglect. It covers two topics.
Read quotes from children and young people about their experiences.

The voices of children

“..It just creeps into every part of your life…”
(16 year old, Belinda,)

In this section, you have a chance to read quotes from children and young people who have experienced abuse and neglect. They have given their permission for these excerpts to be used from research interviews that have been undertaken with them. Their names and identifying details have been changed to protect their anonymity. The quotes have been grouped together around relevant themes.

The impact of abuse on children and young people Children commonly experience loss, betrayal, guilt, shame and self blame. Miranda, an 11 year old girl highlighted how the impact of abuse can be more traumatic the closer the relationship between the child and the abuser:

”. . .with my grandfather that went on for longer, but with my dad it was only like pretty short, but with my dad I thought it was really hard…”

Child abuse can cause poor self esteem, learning difficulties and behaviour problems in children.

Michael (12 years old) described how his anger about the abuse would erupt in his behaviour at school:

”…Oh, we were looking for places for counselling because my attitude at school was really changing…I was getting in a lot of trouble, getting in all these fights and that… Well, if someone said just one thing to me... if someone said like one word I'd be hitting him…”

Michael
Left unprotected and unsupported, children can often take these experiences into adulthood.

“…You can't forget something like that. I'll still be dealing with things later down the track. It's always going to be in the back of your mind. I don't think it will ever go away…”

(16 year old Belinda).

It is just the way it is Eliza (17 years) was sexually abused by her father from a very early age. She cannot remember how old she might have been when it began. For her, the abuse was as much a part of her life as

"washing the dishes or taking the dog for a walk"

She thought it was normal and had no idea that there were words for what her father was doing to her. Eliza believed that her family was ordinary and normal. This is how she described her family:

"They seemed so normal and that really put doubts in my mind about the abuse and everything. You know, I’ve got a mum who’s got a full-time job and you know, has lots of friends and goes out and does things on the weekends, and a dad who sits at a desk all day and goes running in the mornings and whatever, and everyone loves him and he’s got a great sense of humour and whatever, it sounds pretty normal to me."

How hard it is to tell someone

In these quotes children and young people who have experienced abuse explain how hard it is to speak about their experiences. For example, Sam (8 years) highlighted the dilemmas of telling someone about the abuse

”…I did, but I didn’t want to tell. I wanted to but I didn’t want to….I was thinking, if I told and he found out, I would be in trouble…”

Sam (8)

Peter (11 years) said he found it hard to talk about his experiences of abuse,

”…probably because some things are embarrassing and some people hadn’t believed me…”

Describing at 11 years of age what it was like to talk about his abuse for the first time, Tom described in a loud voice how he was:

”…frightened, very frightened….trust me, it’s very, very scary...”

Finally, in speaking about counsellors that she had seen as a result of being abused Fiona (12 years) showed us a powerful insight into the inability of adults, even those trained to support children, to accept the terrible reality faced by some children. These are her words:

“…The problem with the counsellor …. was that she didn’t want to believe the truth and that’s always the problem with these people, they don’t want to believe the truth, they just want to believe the easiest side, ……. the side that is the simplest, basically … so then they get paid and go on to the next one and just pick the simplest out of that. They don’t want to hear the truth because the truth is so much harder to understand and so much longer than a lie about the truth…”

List of Children to be prayed for who have been abused

Angela
Angili
Akin
Alexandra
Alex
Ann
Brianna
Becky
Billy
Brandi
Cecilia
Carrie
Clinton
Carson
Caleb
Danny
Dan
Elizabeth
Elizebeth
Hannah
Hailey
Halley
Ian
Joey
Joana
Jhon
Jon
Kim
Leo
Lindsay
Michel
Marie
Marry Alice
Nate
Natatile
Nathon
Patrick
Payton
Rachel
Rachel
Richard
Stacy
Stanton
Siera
Samanatha
Sammul
Sam
Timothy
Tyra
Victoria
Victor
Will

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