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There was a time when most forms of abuse, if not all, were never talked about and were just the family secrets. Well no more!!
The times have changed and those who were once known as victims are now known as survivors.
No matter what type of abuse you have suffered, you need to know that you are not alone and you are no longer a victim, but a survivor!!
I have decided to start this site to allow not only survivors, but friends and collegues to join in and help one another. There is strength in unity.
The time to heal is a long road but a very worthwhile one and I hope that this site will aid in the healing process.

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What Is Abuse? Abuse in families can take many forms. It may be physical, sexual, emotional, verbal, or a combination of any or all of those. Neglect - when parents don't take care of the basic needs of the children who depend on them - can be a form of abuse.
Family violence can affect anyone, regardless of religion, color, or social standing. It happens in both wealthy and poor families and in single-parent or two-parent households. Sometimes parents abuse each other, which can be hard for a child to witness. Some parents abuse their children by using physical or verbal cruelty as a way of discipline. Both girls and guys can experience abusive physical punishment by a parent - but male children are beaten more often than female children.
Physical abuse is often the most obvious form of abuse. It may be any kind of hitting, shaking, burning, pinching, biting, choking, throwing, whipping, paddling, beating, and other actions that cause physical injury, leave marks, or produce significant physical pain.
Sexual abuse is any type of sexual contact between an adult and child or between a significantly older child and a younger child. If a person is abused by a member of his or her immediate family, this is called incest.
Emotional abuse can be difficult to pin down because there are no physical signs to look for. Sure, people yell at each other, express anger, and call each other names sometimes, and expressing anger can sometimes be healthy. But emotional abuse generally occurs when the yelling and anger go too far or when a parent constantly belittles, threatens, or dismisses a child until the child's self-esteem and feelings of self-worth are damaged. And just like physical abuse can cause physical scars, emotional abuse can bring about emotional damage.
Neglect is probably the hardest type of abuse to define. Neglect occurs when a child doesn't have adequate food, housing, clothes, medical care, or supervision. Emotional neglect happens when a parent doesn't provide enough emotional support or deliberately and consistently pays very little or no attention to a child. But it's not neglect if a parent doesn't give a kid something he or she wants, like a new computer or a cell phone.
Abuse doesn't just happen in families, of course. Bullying is a form of abusive behavior that may happen in a peer group - among people of any age. Bullying someone by intimidation, threats, or humiliation can be just as abusive as beating someone up. People who bully others have often been abused themselves. This is also true of people who abuse someone they're dating. But being abused is still no excuse for abusing someone else.
Abuse can also take the form of hate crimes directed at people just because of their race, religion, abilities, gender, or sexual orientation.

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Friendship

Friendship A friend is a person that is always there. A friend is a person that always cares. Friendship is something that should last forever, It's sharing, caring and doing things together. If ther...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Sat, 02 Dec 2006 02:56:00 PST

A Mouse Tale

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package. "What food might this contain?" The mouse wondered - he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap. Retre...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Sat, 25 Nov 2006 09:51:00 PST

What are the Effects of Abuse?

What Are the Effects of Abuse? If someone is abused, it can affect every aspect of that person's life, especially self-esteem. How much abuse damages a person depends on the circumstances surrounding ...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Wed, 25 Oct 2006 09:38:00 PST

Victim Abuse Forum

Make sure to sign up for my forum!  Survivors and those who support them are welcome.   WWW.BeSilentNOMore.org/forum WWW.BeSilentNOMore.org   You won't regret it!  Together we can ...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Tue, 24 Oct 2006 09:48:00 PST

Thru the eyes of a child

The reasons I started this site are many, I have seen such much abuse in my life growing up, within my family, my friends and even strangers I may never know. But even with friends no one ever spoke ...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Wed, 11 Oct 2006 10:29:00 PST

What is Abuse

What Is Abuse? Abuse in families can take many forms. It may be physical, sexual, emotional, verbal, or a combination of any or all of those. Neglect - when parents don't take care of the basic needs...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Sun, 17 Sep 2006 09:17:00 PST

Get Help for Domestic Abuse

Get Help for Domestic Abuse If you are abused or have a loved one who is abused, get help. Learn how to minimize your risk of becoming a victim of sexual assault or abuse before you find yourself in a...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Sun, 17 Sep 2006 09:11:00 PST

Breaking the Silence

Abuse comes in a variety of forms. Some are very easy to recognize and there are those that are very difficult to see. This is a place for friends, collegues, survivors & those who wish to support...
Posted by Be Silent NO More ™ on Sat, 16 Sep 2006 09:23:00 PST