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My name is Tammy and I have been free from abuse for 20 years. I was a victim of verbal, mental, physical and sexual abuse for 18 years. But I made a choice!! I chose to break the cycle of alcoholism and violence in my life and I chose to make a better life for my daughter and my family. I have been married to the most incredible, loving and forgiving man on the planet for 18 years and we have one gorgeous daughter ! They are the greatest things in my life, other than my Father in Heaven. This site has been established to help other victims of domestic violence to realize that they are gorgeous individuals and they too, can rise above the circumstance and go on to lead healthy lives full of HEALTHY relationships.


I lead support groups for women and teen girls in these situations and would love to hear from all of you!!!! If your in the area and have been a victim, I would encourage you to attend our group, it will change your life!!!


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I'd like to meet:

Victims and survivors of all forms of abuse...If your a survivor, I would ♥ to hear your story...if your a victim, I would like to help you form a safety plan to escape and remind you that you are an incredible individual and you can rise above your situation. There is hope and I am living proof that there is healing!!!

My Blog

When did it become funny??

I'm writing this in honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month PLEASE READ THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE As I perused photobucket.com to find the October is Domestic Violence Awareness...
Posted by on Fri, 17 Oct 2008 07:41:00 GMT

What are you going to do about it??

She was such a pretty child, as pretty as could be.The blondest hair and bluest eyes, this little girl of three.She lived next door and I would often see her play outside.Putting all her dollies in a ...
Posted by on Wed, 01 Oct 2008 09:53:00 GMT

Embrace yYour Struggles!!!

WOW!!!  I am so excited as I sit and write this out.  I normally will not blog about personal things but I am just so excited that I had to share with all who will read! We go thru life and ...
Posted by on Thu, 04 Sep 2008 12:18:00 GMT

10 things Men Can Do to End Mens Violence Against Women

1. Acknowledge and understand how sexism, male dominance and male privilege lay the foundation for all forms of violence against women.2. Examine and challenge our individual sexism and the role that ...
Posted by on Thu, 28 Aug 2008 08:07:00 GMT

Are you a survivor???

Good afternoon gorgeous!! I thought it might be a good idea for a central location to share our stories of triumph!!  Are you a  survivor?  Do you have some encouraging words to share w...
Posted by on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 10:31:00 GMT

Are you addicted to drama???

I been starin' at your photographWondering where you're at todayAnd I've been hanging by the telephoneHopin' that you'd come home and stay You told me you neededMore walks, more talksMore feelin' cl...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:49:00 GMT

Does Anybody Miss Me???

Does anybody miss me?Does anybody feel the way I do?Does anybody wonderIf my lost and lonely heart is missing you?~ Les Reed / Johnny Worth written for Shirley Bassey 1969 I grew up in a pretty nutty ...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:33:00 GMT

I MATTER!!!!!!

To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselvesthere lies the great, singular power of self-respect. -Joan Didion In GPYP we talk about "get back where you belong" messages, ...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:26:00 GMT

What is Real Love??

Real love is a permanently self-enlarging experience. - M. Scott Peck Dysfunctional and destructive love affairs make our lives smaller. We lose sleep, family, friends, material things, money and tim...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:19:00 GMT

Your Children and your break up....

One of the most difficult issues involved in breaking up is how to deal with it when children are involved. The burdens on the children can be many. At the very least, they are hurt and confused. Th...
Posted by on Fri, 23 May 2008 10:17:00 GMT