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The Survivors Everywhere Project

About Me

The Survivors Everywhere Project:
Childhood/ Sexual Assault Awareness

The average age a womyn is sexually assaulted is 12.
The average age a man is sexually assaulted is 6.
The average number of victims a pedophile has before he is caught is 45. 1
Around the world at least one womyn in every three has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime. Most often the abuser is a member of her own family.
we exist, in numbers we haven't begun to imagine.. we exist in more than just secrets.. we share stories that past generations speak through, heal through.. it's long overdue to have these difficult conversations with ourselves, with each other..
this page is dedicated to adult survivors of childhood/ sexual assault 2 , & the children who are going through it now.. there is one brown ribbon i dedicate every year.. "to all the children who are going through it now.. it's alright to cry.. "
i invite you all to add this profile in solidarity.. i know myspace had some media about child perpetrators & such.. but the media also tends to focus more on perpetrators than on humanizing survivors of childhood/ sexual assault.. our stories aren't told, for those kids at home to be able to feel less alone.. for the grown person that still hurts.. for those family members that need to read this because it might be happening to someone they know.. this is a start.. i invite you to participate..
growth & healing: please respect that people heal at their own rate.. it's alright.. start when you're ready to start your healing process..
in the end, everything will be alright.. if it's not alright, then it's not the end..
[site under construction.. ]
1 : stats from a sexual assault 101 workshop, by campus violence prevention program, uc davis, 2005
2 : i use the slash to be inclusive of survivors of childhood sexual assault who may also have survived sexual assuault at other points in their lives..

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Survivors, allies, all who wish promote awareness, growth & healing.. Please let me know if you have additional resources as this is a list in progress.. or if you have any comments or suggestions for this page.. Thank you..if you'd like information on the brown ribbon campaign.. please don't hesitate to ask.. & i encourage folks to do their own research.. & to consider organizing workshops, discussion circles, healing spaces, writing, sharing poetry, sharing stories, journaling, counseling, seeking support / mentorship, etc..

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RESOURCES:
www.generationfive.org
www.darkness2light.org
Child Abuse: Types, Signs, Symptoms, Causes and Help
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Center
Incest, Domestic Abuse, Sexual Violence, Rape Prevention Resources
Organizations Addressing the Sexual Assault of Men
Gay & Bisexual Male Survivors Network
LGBT Incest/Abuse Resource Links
Sexual Assault Resources -Coalitions, Orgs, Programs, Info..
Same-Sex Violence: Facts & Resources
Resources for Partners & Allies of Survivors
Survivor Archives

My Blog

men speak out - ucsb


Posted by on Tue, 31 Jul 2007 14:38:00 GMT

men speak to survivors


Posted by on Wed, 18 Jul 2007 00:44:00 GMT

the fairytale [fwd]

*************************************** THE FAIRYTALE Once upon a time there lived a beautiful little girl that was very much loved & expected by two wonderful & gifted parents. The Mommy coul...
Posted by on Tue, 12 Jun 2007 00:16:00 GMT

Survivor Archives

In our newly published Survivor Archive I'm very pleased to introduce Phyllis Benton, author of "Living Nightmares of Abuse". I often think about how we hear so many stories in the news and media of c...
Posted by on Mon, 29 Jan 2007 14:18:00 GMT

myspace.com/findourchildren

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Posted by on Tue, 10 Oct 2006 22:12:00 GMT

meditation in two sittings

thought i'd repost this journal here.. ~jun-fung09.15.06: meditation in two sittings[inspired by thich nhat hanh, good conversations, growth, beauty, everything & nothing..]each soulconnection has mad...
Posted by on Tue, 03 Oct 2006 23:54:00 GMT

healing music (please participate)

1. get it together - india.arie*2. don't ever touch me again - dionne farris*3. girl from the gutter - india.arie*4. slow down - india.arie*5. no more drama - mary j. blige6. mistreating me - leela ja...
Posted by on Tue, 03 Oct 2006 21:24:00 GMT

Thankyou..

thankyou to each of you for deciding to add this project onto your myspace friends.. we have reached the 100 mark & counting.. cheers to increasing awareness.. cheers to growth & healing & trusting th...
Posted by on Fri, 29 Sep 2006 01:11:00 GMT

struggle, healing, self-love

"If there is no struggle, there is no progress."-fredrick douglass The way I see things, the way I see life, I see it as a struggle. And there's a great deal of reward I have gained coming to that und...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 14:13:00 GMT

anonymous story

"My story is about abuse that I experienced when I was a little girl. I lived with my grandparents and a cousin. This cousin was a boy who was a teenager. I don't remember how it all started, but I we...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 14:09:00 GMT