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Anne Sexton

'I am, each day, typing out the God my typewriter believes in. Very quick. Very intense, like a wolf

About Me

Anne Gray Harvey was born in Newton, Massachusetts. Her father, a lawyer and woolen manufacturer, was an alcoholic. Her mother suffered from unfilled literary aspirations. Anne was not comfortable with school, but she attended a finishing school and was briefly a fashion model.
She eloped at nineteen with Alfred Sexton. Upon the birth of their first daughter, Linda, she suffered postpartum depression and was hospitalized. The birth of Joyce, their second daughter, in 1955 led to increased depression. Her therapist encouraged her to write, and Sexton’s first book, To Bedlam and Part Way Back, was published in 1960. Extramarital affairs did not prevent her further attempts at suicide, but she was strengthened by participation in a Boston University seminar with Robert Lowell and students Sylvia Plath, George Starbuck, and an increasingly close friend, Maxine Kumin, with whom she later authored four children’s books.
In 1959 both of Sexton’s parents died. All My Pretty Ones (1962) expresses her grief, guilt and loss. Live or Die was a Pulitzer Prize winner in 1966. Love Poems was issued in 1968, and she was the Phi Beta Kappa poet at Harvard. Her last writings expressed her strange hunger for death: The Death Notebooks and The Awful Rowing Toward God. Here we confront a weird view of God which she dramatizes. This makes evident to us the indispensable human need for a logical vision of God.
Anne Sexton killed herself with carbon monoxide in her garage at age 46.
Her daughter Linda edited the posthumous poems 45 Mercy Street and Words for Dr. Y: Uncollected Poems with Three Stories (1978). Collected Poems appeared in 1981. Her authorized biography is Anne Sexton: A Biography by Diane Wood Middlebrook (1991).
Sexton is the modern model of the confessional poet. She was inspired by the publication of Snodgrass' Heart's Needle. Her work encompasses issues specific to women such as menstruation and abortion, and more broadly masturbation and adultery, before such subjects were commonly addressed in poetic discourse.
The title for her eighth collection of poetry, The Awful Rowing Toward God, came from her meeting with a Roman Catholic priest who, although unwilling to administer the last rites, did tell her: "God is in your typewriter," which gave the poet the desire and willpower to continue living and writing for some more time.

My Interests

poetry

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Conrad Susa composed an opera called Transformations, based on Sexton's collection of poems by the same name.

British musician Peter Gabriel wrote a song, "Mercy Street", dedicated to Sexton in 1986. Richard Shindell included a cover of the song on his 2007 album South of Delia.

Dave Matthews has said that the song "Grey Street", from the album Busted Stuff (2002), is inspired by Sexton.

During a 2007 concert in Boston, Morrissey stated that he felt privileged to "trod the same streets as Anne Sexton. She died for you, you know. And for me."

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Anne Sexton was born as Anne Gray Harvey on November 9, 1928. She was the youngest of three sisters, and lived in various parts of Massachusetts for the majority of her young life. At the age of 17, she attended Rogers Hall, where she first began to write poetry. While attending the Garland School in Boston, she met Alfred Muller Sexton II, known as Kayo, whom she eventually eloped with. In 1952, after a short stint of modeling, she and Kayo conceived their first of two children, Linda Gray Sexton, followed by Joyce Sexton in 1954. Around the same time as Anne gave birth to Joyce, she began seeking counseling for recurring depression. In 1956, Anne’s already fragile mental state worsened and she attempted suicide for the first time. With the help of her psychiatrist, Dr. Martin, she began to write poetry once again. However, she once again succumbed to her deep feelings of depression and attempted suicide again in May of 1957. Yet, she kept writing poetry, and in 1959 was awarded the Audience Poetry Prize.
With her depression as an uphill battle and her poetry as one of the only things anchoring her to life, Anne began taking the drug, Thorazine, to control her ongoing depression and hospitalizations. Though she won the Pulitzer for her book entitled Live or Die, and was even awarded full professorship at Boston University in 1972, her depression continued to haunt her. Things took a turn for the worst in 1973 when she was hospitalized three times and received a divorce form her husband. After completing The Death Notebooks in 1974, she committed suicide in her garage on October 4, 1974 by way of carbon monoxide poisoning.
Themes and Ideas in Her Poetry
The most notable message of Anne’s poetry is her portrayal of American females in post-war society. Dealing often with the ideas of sexual awareness, women’s relegation to the “sphere of domesticity”, and the feelings of someone on the brink of suicide, Anne’s poetry embodied not only some of the attitudes of American women at the time, but also the feelings of both helplessness and courage that women everywhere were feeling. Also, Anne's poetry dealt heavily with the ideas of spirituality; even in the depths of despair, her writing shows that she was still searching for some sort of spiritual meaning, some sort of hope.
Perhaps Anne's poetry is so easy to relate to because every person has at some point felt helpless or depressed. She deals sometimes with subjects, like madness or sexual perversity, that the reader may not be able to directly relate to, but Anne's poetry makes it possible for the reader to understand, at least a little, the feeling imbued in the poem.

My Blog

For my lover, returning to his wife

She is all there. She was melted carefully down for you and cast up from your childhood, cast up from your one hundred favorite aggies. She has always been there, my darling. She is, in fact, exquisi...
Posted by Anne Sexton on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 12:20:00 PST

45 Mercy Street

In my dream, drilling into the marrow of my entire bone, my real dream, I'm walking up and down Beacon Hill searching for a street sign - namely MERCY STREET. Not there. I try the Back Bay. Not there....
Posted by Anne Sexton on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 12:10:00 PST

The truth the dead know

For my Mother, born March 1902, died March 1959and my Father, born February 1900, died June 1959 Gone, I say and walk from church,refusing the stiff procession to the grave,letting the dead ride alone...
Posted by Anne Sexton on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 12:07:00 PST

Rowing

A story, a story!(Let it go.  Let it come.)I was stamped out like a Plymouth fenderinto this world.First came the cribwith its glacial bars.Then dollsand the devotion to their plactic mouths.Then...
Posted by Anne Sexton on Thu, 10 Jan 2008 10:53:00 PST

The kiss

My mouth blooms like a cut.I've been wronged all year, tediousnights, nothing but rough elbows in themand delicate boxes of Kleenex calling crybabycrybaby , you fool ! Before today my body was useles...
Posted by Anne Sexton on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 12:05:00 PST

Music swims back to me...

Wait Mister. Which way is home?They turned the light outand the dark is moving in the corner.There are no sign posts in this room,four ladies, over eighty,in diapers every one of them.La la la, Oh mus...
Posted by Anne Sexton on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 12:04:00 PST