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Jessie

About Me

I am a survivor of domestic abuse. It happened many years ago. However, at the time I was so busy getting away from the man who abused me that I didn't take the time to deal with my emotions and everything else that goes along with it to deal with it in a healthy way. Now years later, I'm in a safe and happy place in my life and I am currently dealing with the pain, loss, sorrow, etc. of everything that happened years ago.

My Interests

(This drawing was done by Ronald Jessee, Jr., a friend of my husband's.)

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet other people who have been through the same nightmares that I have. Other people who believe the same way that I do. Other people who may just need a friend to talk to that has been through the same thing and can fully understand. Kelly Clarkson - Because Of You
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Movies:

"Enough" w/ Jennifer Lopez This is my favorite movie that deals with DV. The reason I love this movie so much is because when I left my ex I learned fast that laws, judges, cops, EPOs, etc. are not going to keep some men away. Therefore you have to take matters into your own hands. I do not promote killing even though I was a fan of Dixie Chicks "Goodbye Earl" song but that's a whole other story in itself...lol. What I highly promote is women/men/children learning self-defense and becoming strong, independent humans, like Jennifer Lopez did in this movie. She learned to fight back and I encourage anyone who has been beaten down and feels worthless to learn to FIGHT BACK!!!!

Books:

Black and Blue by Anna Quindlen; Getting Out: life stories of women who left abusive men by Ann Goetting; Dave Pelzer's books: A Child Called "It", The Lost Boy, and A Man Named Dave

Heroes:

Everyone has a "story" whether it be about abuse, depression, addiction, rape, molestation, neglect, survival...I could go on and on. And everyone has to struggle with their story in their own way. But you are all my heroes! Domestic Violence 2

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My Blog

CHILDREN SEE!

This is a video that speaks such volumes of truth! The very last example they give is one of the many reasons that I walked out on my abusive husband carrying our 3-week old baby. I did not want my ...
Posted by Jessie on Sun, 27 Jan 2008 05:44:00 PST

Why Do We Stay?

This is a poem that my good friend Edy posted in a comment to one of my other blogs.  The author's unknown but it definitely gives a good view to all of you out there who wonder why a person stay...
Posted by Jessie on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 06:53:00 PST

"For What It's Worth"

"For What It's Worth" Lyrics by: Mac Whittinghill Music by: TOTEMSOUL I close my eyes again. And I let my guard again. And I give up, I give up for what it's worth. I give up, I give up, it can't get ...
Posted by Jessie on Thu, 21 Jun 2007 04:45:00 PST

Very Important Information

This was taken from a blog from a very good friend of mine.  She has her own page called "A Fresh Start".  If you haven't checked it out, then you should.  It's awesome!  And she's...
Posted by Jessie on Wed, 20 Jun 2007 11:04:00 PST