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Avoid Toxic People In Your Life
Sometimes, a trick to anger management is to avoid toxic people in your life - or at least minimize their presence or influence.
You can tell if someone is toxic for you if:
* they have the ability to consistently trigger anger in you, when other people don’t.
* you don’t like who you are or who you become when you interact with them.
* you have constant feelings of resentment toward them.
* they drain all your emotional resources in dealing with them.
You don’t have to put up with people who simply are not good for you - even if they are relatives, co-workers, or neighbors.
You may not be able to avoid them completely, but you often can see them less often, give them less information about you (so they have less “ammunitionâ€), stop confiding in them, or stop making personal sacrifices to please them.(THIS SITE CONTAINS MATURE CONTENT! IT IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 18. HOWEVER, WE CAN ONLY HOPE THEY DON'T NEED A SITE LIKE THIS SOO YOUNG.)
THE FOLLOWING SLIDE SHOW CONTAINS GRAPHICS AND IS NOT SUITABLE FOR YOUNG CHILDREN OR WEAK STOMACHS.
IT IS FOR THE PURPOSE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS.
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"May they all get their deserved justice and get to rest in peace"A Mother's WalkThe young mother set her foot on the path of life. "Is this the long way?" she asked.And the guide said, "Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it. But the end will be better than the beginning".But the young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything could be better than these years. So she played with her children, and gathered flowers for them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams. As the sun shone on them, and the young mother cried, "Nothing will ever be lovelier than this".Then the night came ... the storm ... the path became dark. The children shook with fear and cold. The mother drew them close and covered them with her mantle. The children said, "Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near. No harm can come to us."Then morning came. There was a hill ahead, and the mother and her children climbed and grew wearyShe would frequently tell the children, "Keep your patience because we are almost there."So the children continued to climb. When they reached the top they said, "Mother, we would not have done it without you."When the mother laid down at night, she looked up at the stars and thought, "This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness. Yesterday I gave them courage. Today I have given them strength."The next day, strange clouds appeared which darkened the earth ... clouds of war, hate, and evil. As the children groped and stumbled, the mother said, "Look up! Lift your eyes to the light!"The children looked. They saw above the clouds, an everlasting glory, and it guided them beyond the darkness. That night, the mother said, " This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God."The days went on, and the weeks, and the months, and the years. The mother grew old and she was little and bent over. But her children were tall and strong, and walked with courage. When the way was rough, they lifted her, for she was as light as a feather. At last they came to the top of a hill. They could see a shining road with a golden gate that opened wide. The mother said, "I have reached the end of my journey. I now know that the end is better than the beginning, for my children can walk alone, and their children after them."The children said, "You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates." They stood and watched her as she went on alone. The gates closed after her. The children said, "We cannot see her, but she is still with us. A mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence."
MySpace Codes & MySpace LayoutsOur mother is always with us. She's the whisper of the leaves as we walk down the street. She's the smell of bleach in our freshly laundered socks. She's the cool hand on our brow when we're not feeling well. Our Mother lives inside our laughter. She's crystallized in every tear drop we shed. She's the place we came from ... our first home. She's the map we follow with every step we take. She's our first love and our first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can separate us from her ... Not time ... not space ... not even death!
I'd like to meet:
The people whom work for the government that allows creeps to murder, and deal drugs and hurt our society. And they do this so, they can take down other people to suit their needs. They pay SNITCHES off to get what they want and then they allow innocent lives to be taken and nothing to be done for their justice.
Just a thought for the day!OH, AND HOWARD STERN, LOL. After all the recent Drama people have tried to cause for me over my FREEDOM OF SPEECH, I would love to know how he does it. lol That guy has the gutts to say just about anything.
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"I WOULD LIKE TO MEET ANYONE AND EVERYONE AFFECTED BY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE."
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From: Kathy
Date: Jun 28, 2007 3:55 PMRE: LETTER FROM HEAVEN
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From: Kedans mom
Date: Jun 28, 2007 7:44 PM
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say
But first of all, I want you to know that I arrived OK.
I'm writing this letter from Heaven;here I dwell with God above,
Here, there are no more tears of sadness-there is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning noon and night.
That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through;
God picked me and hugged me and he said, "I welcome you!"
"It's good to have you here again; your were missed while you were gone;
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly; you are part of my great plan,
There's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do,
And foremost on the list was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.,
God and I are close to you in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years,
Because you are only human, they're bound to bring some tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain,
Remember there would be no flowers if we didn't have the rain.
I wish that I could tell you, all that God has planned
If I were to tell you; you wouldn't understand.
But for one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over,
I'm closer to yu now that I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead and many hills to climb,
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind..
And when it's time for you to go...from that body to be free.
Remember...you're not GOING; You're just COMING home to me
OCTOBER IS ALSO BREAST CANCER AWARENSS MONTH
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From: For The Missing
Date: Oct 3, 2007 3:05 AM
October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month!!! Breast cancer affects millions of lives every year. Please make yourselves aware of the facts, and pass this knowledge on to others. The key is early detection. We can't afford to have breast cancer be a tabboo subject! Spread the word, and save lives.
A CURE IN OUR LIFETIMES IS POSSIBLE!
Please make yourselves aware! Get involved! Help find a cure! Please take a look at the following facts, web sites, and change your default picture. If not for the whole month of October, at least for a few days or weeks. You can choose from one of the following included pictures or find your own!
*In 2007, an estimated 178,480 new cases of invasive breast cancer are expected among women in the United States.
*An estimated 40,460 women will die from breast cancer this year alone.
*In 2007, an estimated 2,030 men will be diagnosed and 450 men will die of breast cancer.
*In addition to invasive breast cancer, 62,030 new cases of in situ breast cancer are expected to occur among women in 2007. Of these, approximately 85 percent will be ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS).
*Facts are from the American Cancer Society. www.komen.org
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From: For The Missing
Date: Oct 3, 2007 3:05 AM
October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month!!! Breast cancer affects millions of lives every year. Please make yourselves aware of the facts, and pass this knowledge on to others. The key is early detection. We can't afford to have breast cancer be a tabboo subject! Spread the word, and save lives.
A CURE IN OUR LIFETIMES IS POSSIBLE!
Please make yourselves aware! Get involved! Help find a cure! Please take a look at the following facts, web sites, and change your default picture. If not for the whole month of October, at least for a few days or weeks. You can choose from one of the following included pictures or find your own!
*In 2007, an estimated 178,480 new cases of invasive breast cancer are expected among women in the United States.
*An estimated 40,460 women will die from breast cancer this year alone.
*In 2007, an estimated 2,030 men will be diagnosed and 450 men will die of breast cancer.
*In addition to invasive breast cancer, 62,030 new cases of in situ breast cancer are expected to occur among women in 2007. Of these, approximately 85 percent will be ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS).
*Facts are from the American Cancer Society. www.komen.org
www.25komen.org
www.nationalbreastcancer.org
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www.breastcancer"This candle is added in loving memory to Alphonse Rocco Casillo, A truly remarkable Dad who died from Pancreatic Cancer."
All you are asked to do is keep this circulating.
Even if it's to one more person.
In memory of anyone you know that has been struck down by cancer.
A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle.
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The Bible: It is a classic with many great stories in itselfPsalm 106: 'Observe Justice'
Psalm 106:1-18
Confession of Israel's SinsPraise the LORD!
O give thanks to the LORD, for he is good;
for his steadfast love endures forever.
Who can utter the mighty doings of the LORD,
or declare all his praise?
Happy are those who observe justice,
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Remember me, O LORD, when you show favor to your people;
help me when you deliver them;
that I may see the prosperity of your chosen ones,
that I may rejoice in the gladness of your nation,
that I may glory in your heritage.Both we and our ancestors have sinned;
we have committed iniquity, have done wickedly.
Our ancestors, when they were in Egypt,
did not consider your wonderful works;
they did not remember the abundance of your steadfast love,
but rebelled against the Most High at the Red Sea.
Yet he saved them for his name's sake,
so that he might make known his mighty power.
He rebuked the Red Sea, and it became dry;
he led them through the deep as through a desert.
So he saved them from the hand of the foe,
and delivered them from the hand of the enemy.
The waters covered their adversaries;
not one of them was left.
Then they believed his words;
they sang his praise.But they soon forgot his works;
they did not wait for his counsel.
But they had a wanton craving in the wilderness,
and put God to the test in the desert;
he gave them what they asked,
but sent a wasting disease among them.They were jealous of Moses in the camp,
and of Aaron, the holy one of the LORD.
The earth opened and swallowed up Dathan,
and covered the faction of Abiram.
Fire also broke out in their company;
the flame burned up the wicked.
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Heroes:
My heroes don't change for anyone.
First and foremost my mother SHE LIVED LIFE NO MATTER HOW TOUGH IT GOT, AND DIDN'T TAKE ANYONE TELLING HER NOT TO HAVE HER OWN BELIEFS. SHE WORKED HARD TO SAVE LIVES AS A NURSE EVERYDAY UNTIL SHE WAS TAKEN.My baby sister Linda, She lived for her CHILDREN. And although she tried to lived extravagantly, she had FUN in her life and DID all SHE COULD FOR HER CHILDREN.
She touched the hearts of ALL who knew her. She carried groceries for older people,always helped a friend in need without question. Mom and Linda both wanted to change the world. I am the only one left to do that for them now.Linda impacted lives even back in h.s.
To this day, they REMEMBER HER NAME. And even honored her at a class reunion. The one I initiated for her honor.
IT WAS THE PARTY OF ALL PARTIES, JUST FOR HER!!" Mi Hermana Para Siempre contigo!
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Then there is my niece's father. My Male heroe
For sanity sake, I am leaving his name out.
But, that man has worked his ass off since he was 15 years old.
He was always a RESPECTABLE, DESCENT MAN, WHO ALWAYS LOOKED OUT FOR HIS FAMILY.
He NEVER did DRUGS or HIT WOMEN.
He was always RESPECTFUL no matter what. God Bless him. He has the patience of a saint.
That is the kind of man all women should want.
And so, if that offends people, I can only say, oh well.Actually, legally, it turns out, I don't have to take down the autopsy pictures of either my mother or sister. I did consult an attorney regarding that matter. After all, I paid the hundreds of dollars for everything,which makes them mine. And they aren't copyright protected.
So, consider that a FAVOR, for the time being.So, it is only off the site as a temporary thing.
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