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My name is Debbie Golemon.I am short,smart,emotional, creative,sentimental and funny.I collect rocks.I cut hair.I love being outside.I love the woods,the mountains and the beach. I volunteer at the Gas Station youth group,at Northeast Church.I love the Great Spirit, my family and my friends more than anything.I love art and music!The background painting on my profile is by a Native American artist and musician,Bill Miller.It is called "The Three Wise Men".I am Cherokee - not full blood,but it is my heart.Originally,I got a MySpace so I could talk to my friends and students from The Gas Station,our youth group at Northeast Church(GodWhy.com in Sumner County in my Top friends-edgy,relevant,accepting,real-check it out!),and I still do that! But one day when looking at Bill Miller's page,I realized there were lots of Native Americans on MySpace.Interesting and intelligent people,that I could talk to,read their pages get to know better and learn from. I can't believe how ignorant I was, and how ignorant MOST people are of Native American causes. It is important to make as many people as possible,aware of the unjust and antagonistic treatment of the Native peoples of this nation by our government as well as ignorant,uninformed individuals!And it is STILL going on!I believe that many would be appalled-if they only knew. Oh - I realize that some will never get past the end of their own noses because of selfishness and greed.But I believe we were all put here to love and serve others. AWARENESS is the road that leads away from ignorance and hate.NEVER STOP LOVING AND LEARNING! ( Check out some of my friends-you'll be glad you did!) Spirit DoG(Top friends)is my husband Will's music-Go listen! He is awesome! By the way - the beautiful artwork and graphics on the Spirit DoG flyers and banners on this page were done by my awesomely talented children,Will and Angelina!!! THEY ROCK!!! The one with two horses is a collaboration between Angelina,Will II and our great friend and artist,Jordan Bickamer! He also ROCKS!!!
A Cherokee teachings of Life story~* An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. He says to the boy, "A fight is going on inside me. It is a terrible fight, and it is between two wolves." "One is evil - he is anger, envy, regret, greed, false-humility, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, lies, pride, and ego." "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith." "This same fight is going on inside you, my son - and inside every other person." The boy was quiet for a minute, then asked his grandfather, "which wolf will win?" The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed"!

My Interests

Oh, Great Spirit, giver of my lifeplease accept this humble offering of prayerthis offering of praisethis honest reverence of my love for you.Oh Great Spirit,Whose voice I hear in the wind,Whose breath gives life to the world,Hear me!I come to you as one of your many children.I am small and weak.I need your strength and wisdom.May I walk in beauty.Make my eyes behold the red and purple sunset.Make my hands respect the things that you have made,And my ears sharp to hear your voice.Make me wise so that I may know the thingsThat you have taught your children--The lessons that you have hidden in every leaf and rock.Make me strong, not to be superior to my brothers, but to beable to fight my greatest enemy: myself.Make me ever ready to come to you with straight eyes, so thatWhen life fades as the faded sunsetMy spirit will come to you without shame.Aho , Amen , e-men .
A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE "TRAIL of TEARS": Migration from the original Cherokee Nation began in the early 1800’s as Cherokees, wary of white encroachment, moved west and settled in other areas of the country. White resentment of the Cherokees had been building and reached a pinnacle after gold was discovered in Georgia, and immediately following the passage of the Cherokee Nation constitution, and establishment of a Cherokee Supreme Court. Possessed with ‘gold fever,’ and a thirst for expansion, the white communities turned on their Cherokee neighbors and the U.S. government decided it was time for the Cherokees to leave behind their farms, their land and their homes. A group known as the Old Settlers had moved in 1817 to lands given them in Arkansas where again they established a government and a peaceful way of life. Later, they too, were forced into Indian Territory. President Andrew Jackson, whose command and life was saved due to 500 Cherokee allies at the Battle of Horseshoe Bend in 1814, unbelievably authorized the Indian Removal Act of 1830. In following the recommendation of President James Monroe in his final address to Congress in 1825, Jackson sanctioned an attitude that had persisted for many years among many white immigrants. Even Thomas Jefferson, who often cited the Great Law of Peace of the Iroquois Confederacy as the model for the U.S. Constitution, supported Indian Removal as early as 1802. The displacement of Native People was not wanting for eloquent opposition. Senators Daniel Webster and Henry Clay spoke out against removal. Reverend Samuel Worcester, missionary to the Cherokees, challenged Georgia’s attempt to estinguish Indian title to land in the state, winning the case before the Supreme Court. Worcester vs. Georgia, 1832, and Cherokee Nation vs. Georgia, 1831, are considered the two most influential decisions in Indian law. The U.S. Supreme Court ruled for Georgia in the 1831 case, but in Worcester vs. Georgia, the court affirmed Cherokee sovereignty. President Andrew Jackson defied the decision of the court and ordered the removal, an act of defiance that established the U.S. government’s precedent for the removal of many Native Americans from the ancestral homelands. The U.S. government used the Treaty of New Echota in 1835 to justify the removal. The treaty, illegally signed by about 100 Cherokees known as the Treaty Party, relinquished all lands east of the Mississippi River in exchange for land in Indian Territory and the promise of money, livestock, various provisions and tools, and other benefits. When the pro-removal Cherokee leaders signed the Treaty of New Echota, they also signed their own death warrants. The Cherokee Naiton Council earlier had passed a law that called for the death penalty for anyone who agreed to give up tribal land. The signing and the removal led to better factionalism and the deaths of most of the Treaty Part leaders once in Indian Territory. Opposition to the removal was led by Chief John Ross, a mixed-blood of Scottish and one-eighth Cherokee descent. The Ross party and most Cherokees opposed the New Echota Treaty, but Georgia and the U.S. government prevailed and used it as justification to force almost all of the 17,000 Cherokees from their southeastern homeland. Under orders from President Jackson and in defiance of the U.S. Supreme Court, the U.S. Army began enforcement of the Removal Act. More than 3,000 Cherokees were rounded up in the summer of 1838 and loaded onto boats that traveled the Tennessee, Ohio, Mississippi and Arkansas Rivers into Indian Territory. Many were held in prison camps awaiting their fate. An estimated 4,000 died from hunger, exposure and disease. The journey became an eternal memory as the "trail where they cried" for the Cherokees and other removed tribes. Today, it is remembered as the "Trail of Tears." The Oklahoma Chapter of the Trail of Tears Association has begun the task of marking the graves of Trail survivors with bronze memorials. Info provided by the Cherokee Nation Cultural Resource Center. For information regarding culture and language, please contact: [email protected] -------------- ------- "It should be remembered that hundreds of people of African ancestry also walked the Trail of Tears with the Cherokee during the forced removal of 1838-1839. Although we know about the terrible human suffering of our native people and the members of other tribes during the removal, we rarely hear of those black people who also suffered." -- Wilma Mankiller ~ Autobiography Mankiller: A Chief and Her People

I'd like to meet:

Wilma Mankiller,Leonard Peltier and YOU! "Life is a learning place. Existence is forever. Challenges are only challenges because life has given you an opportunity to grow in an area of your fear or weakness." Leonard Peltier, Sept. 2006

""All things are connected. Whatever befalls the earth, befalls the sons of the earth. Man did not weave the web of life. He is merely a strand in it. Whatever he does to the web, he does to himself."- Chief Seattle, 1854"

Music:

ROCK!My husband Will Golemon's music-which is Spirit DoG, Bruce Springsteen, Bill Miller,The Beatles,John Lennon, Jethro Tull, Robin Trower, Yes, Queen, David Bowie, Prince, The Who,Jim Croce, Third Day, D C Talk,Emerson,Lake and Palmer, Steppinwolf,The Guess Who,Cyndi Lauper,Stevie Nicks,Dan Fogleberg,Neil Young,Collective Soul,Everclear,The Newsboys,The Pretenders,U2,FOOFIGHTERS,Pearl Jam,The Jets,Family Force Five,The Killers,Keene..........

Movies:

Ghost, all Harry Potter movies, all Lord Of The Rings movies,Forrest Gump,Rain Man,Zoolander,School of Rock,Mystery Men,Holes,Airplane, My Dog Skip, Spirit, Pooh's Grand Adventure, The Pink Panther, Hoodwinked, Top Secret,Castle In the Sky,Kiki's Delivery Service,Spirited Away,Howl's Moving Castle,My Life As a House,Jeremiah Johnson,The Sixth Sense,Willow,Bridge to Terebithia,Breakfast Club,Narnia,Talledaga Nights,Blades of Glory,Stardust... I like funny movies!

Television:

King Of The Hill, Andy Griffith, Letterman, Saturday Night Live, Family Guy.

Pray for the people living at Pine Ridge-poorest area in the United States!These people were forced to give up everything-from their land,to their way of life!This is so wrong!!!Check out ONE Spirit www.nativeprogress.org to help.Please check out these videos from Red Road Awareness "We are now about to take our leave and kind farewell to our native land, the country that the Great Spirit gave our Fathers, we are on the eve of leaving that country that gave us birth...it is with sorrow we are forced by the white man to quit the scenes of our childhood... we bid farewell to it and all we hold dear."Charles Hicks, Tsalagi (Cherokee) Vice Chief on the Trail of Tears, November 4, 1838

Books:

All Harry Potters, The Floatplane Notebooks by Clyde Edgerton, The Ballad Of Frankie Silver by Sharon McCrumb,The Five People You Meet In Heaven by Mitch Albom, The Giver by Lois Lowry, Fair And Tender Ladies by Lee Smith, Where The Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawles, In Country by Bobbie Ann Mason,Pigs In Heaven by Barbara Kingsolver, The Last Picture Show and Texasville by Larry McMurtry,Thirteen Moons by Charles Frazier,Harry Potter and The Deathly Hallows by J.K.Rowling-best EVER!,Walking the Trail by Jerry Ellis If you have a chance to make life better for others and fail to do so, you are wasting your time on Earth. No matter what our station in life, we are here to serve, even if that sometimes means making the greatest sacrifice of all .Aho , Amen , e-men

Heroes:

The Great Spirit, my AMAZING husband Will and my awesome children, John McClendon and J D Wiggins for loving people back to life, all my Gas Station friends and all the Native Americans who were forced to give up everything.Wise Words of TecumsehLive your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about his religion. Respect others in their views and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and of service to your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide. Always give a word or sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, or even a stranger, if in a lonely place. Show respect to all people, but grovel to none. When you rise in the morning, give thanks for the light, for your life, for your strength. Give thanks for your food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason to give thanks, the fault lies in yourself. Touch not the poisonous firewater that makes wise ones turn to fools and robs their spirit of its vision. When your time comes to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home.Tecumseh - Shawnee
..Whatever your lifestyle may have been, understand one thing- The moment you are affected by LOVE, the moment devotion has arisen within you, that is the path you must follow. LOVE is the right decision!

My Blog

Time

"Time is a killer - and a healer." Ashley Strickland(an Awesome young woman who WILL make a difference!)
Posted by Love never fails! on Mon, 12 May 2008 08:35:00 PST

White Buffalo Teachings by Chief Arvol Looking Horse

WHITE BUFFALO TEACHINGSby Chief Arvol Looking Horse~19th Generation Keeper of the Sacred White Buffalo Pipe of the Lakota, Dakota and Nakota Great Sioux Nation~Hau Kola. Hello, friend.I’m honore...
Posted by Love never fails! on Tue, 08 Apr 2008 04:36:00 PST

Morning

'THINK on THESE THINGS'By Joyce Sequichie HiflerTo so many, getting up in the morning is the worst way to begin a day. To them every morning is the morning after, a time to feel nervous anxiety and re...
Posted by Love never fails! on Mon, 03 Mar 2008 10:34:00 PST

The Seen and The Unseen

The Medicine Wheel teaches that there are two worlds - the Seen World and the Unseen World, or the Physical World and the Spiritual World. We need information from both of these worlds in order to liv...
Posted by Love never fails! on Tue, 10 Jul 2007 05:03:00 PST

The Red Road

. The Red Road- BEFORE one can travel the Red Road, it would be most helpful to know exactly what it is. You should know that the Red Road runs from north to south, and it is the good or straight way,...
Posted by Love never fails! on Mon, 30 Apr 2007 07:51:00 PST

Judging

THINK on THESE THINGS By Joyce Sequichie Hifler The destructive hand is one that never finds a friendly hand to shake. Its finger is always pointed at someone in an accusation. It is shaking in som...
Posted by Love never fails! on Mon, 30 Apr 2007 10:58:00 PST