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About Me

Well about me.. if your seriously interested and going to read this.. here it is.. I'm Julie and I was born 41 years ago, Yep so that makes me 41! :) I am a mother to 5 children and I love them all very much! I could say that they are 5 of the most wonderful perfect children.. but hey I'ts reality here and I'm honest my kids are HUMAN and have made some mistakes but I STILL LOVE THEM even when they aren't as wonderful and innocent as I hoped they would/could be. *********************************************************** I am a seeker of light, Love, success and spirituality to just name a few. I have experienced many things throughout my life and on my journey, some happy and some sad and everything in between and it all has made me who I am today.****************************************************** *****I love to spend time with my children. My family is so important to me. I was married for 20 years and have been a single mom for the past 7 years. I am a survivor of childhood abuse and domestic violence but that doesn't define me and isn't who I am anymore.. I have grown and changed so much in the past few years. I have worked hard to change who I am, however, understand I am always a beautiful work in progress. I have emerged out of my cocoon and am becoming the beautiful butterfly I was meant to be. ***********************************************************I enjoy camping, the outdoors, spending time with friends, 4 wheelin, biking, crafts, learning new things, drawing and working in my yard. I have found a new passion of 'ponding' in the past few years and love creating that new space in my yard. ***********************************************************I have started writing poetry within the past few years as well, using it as a creative outlet to express my feelings and emotions, I love it, but sometimes it consumes me until I get what I am working ..finished.. but still love it. Music is something else I love.. the lyrics to so many songs seem to fit just what I am feeling, thinking, or going through in my life. When I am stressed or needing some time for me I love to jsut take a long drive through the mountains blaring and singing to the music.. it just re-connects me. I have a blog on some of the lyrics that have touched my life from so many songs.. feel free to check it out.. ***********************************************************I am interested in metaphysics and the paranormal aspects of our universe. For as long as I can remember It all has always fascinated me.. I have had lots of psychic or medium experiences and have many psychic and /or medium friends and have been so amazed at everything that they have given me through readings etc. I have heard from dozens of deceased family and friends, I know that were just living in another dimension.. I am working on clearing my energy so that I can open up to that as well.. the more I change the more positive I am the better I feel..It has amazed me at the transformation that has taken place for me.. ***********************************************************I am honest and REAL..I am honest with my emotions and my heart, sometimes so much so that it gets hurt often.. I love to help others, again sometimes too much.. I say the F**** ( edited for children ) ;) Word, Love to drink margaritas and sometimes I get plain ol crazy..;) well not as much as I used too.. lol.. I am not perfect and admit when I make mistakes.. I always try my best to be a good friend, I value and LOVE ALL of my friends.. I am just learning how/when to set boundries with some of them.. I desire TRUE friendship, honest affection, honesty in EVERYTHING, especially communication and relationships. If you can't do at least that then keep on looking!.. ***********************************************************T o sum it up.. I think I have some GREAT qualities and perhaps according to some, some not so great qualities.. but I am who I am.. and I am FINALLY LOVING ME!.. I am learning to put more passion and meaning into my life, I want to continue to learn to heal myself and how to heal others..continue on my personal development..BE~coming all I can BE!!There is so much MORE to know about me so if you have made it this far and care to know more JUST ASK.. Thanks for taking the time to read about me.. if you made it all the way through with out too much boredom.. CONGRATS!!.. Keep smiling and have a most WONDERFUL DAY!.. * animal layout powered by HOT FreeLayouts.com / MyHotComments **********************************************************

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I'd like to meet:

REAL PEOPLE.. WITH REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES.. WHO ARE ALSO WANTING REAL******************************************************** *** Loved this saying..this defines a true friend..A loving Friend is someone who listens without judging you right or wrong, good or bad, and gently helps you define your thoughts to regain perspective. When you're feeling bad about yourself, a loving Friend is there to remind you of all those positive qualitites you may have forgotten. When you share with a loving Friend, decision-making becomes easier and problems seem less critical. A loving Friend gives you the priceless gift of time: time to share, to try out new ideas and rethink old ones. No matter how often you're together, you discover dimensions of yourself through the bonds and the mirror of Friendship. A loving Friend loves you for who you are, not what you do. Feeling so accepted, you are able to set higher goals, try harder, and achieve more. Through close friendship, you learn the fine art of giving. You expand, become more selfless, feel more deeply, and help more effectively. Seeing the happiness you bring to another person gives you a greater sense of well-being and increases your capacity to love. Wherever you go in life, whatever stage or place you reach, a loving Friend who has entered your soul is always with you, gently guiding, faithfully following, and ever walking beside you!********************************************************

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My Blog

My experience as I CREATED My NEW LIFE!

  The past four days I have been on the most incredible, most amazing, emotional, thought provoking, most exhausting, Love and light filling, life changing experience!  I can HONESTLY say I ...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Sun, 11 May 2008 03:39:00 PST

Words to live by~ Thank you Ginny

If Something Is Wrong, Change It!If You Can't Change It, Then Learn To Live With It.If You Can Not Live With It, Then Walk Away From It. In Your Final Hour You Will Not Regret The Things You Have Done...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Mon, 05 May 2008 10:58:00 PST

Have you been abused? Are you healed?

Have You Been Abused?Are You Healed? This blog was inspired while I was watching the movie Patch Adams with Robin Williams. There is a scene in the move where his girlfriend is killed because she goe...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:20:00 PST

ENERGY VAMPIRES

This past week has been especially enlightening.. it is becoming more and more evident that I have a LARGE circle of energy Vampires.. The sharing of energy is referred to as cording. This c...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Sun, 27 Apr 2008 12:58:00 PST

"Its the little holes that bleed people dry" TY Widowed from abuse

A dear friend of mine posted a great blog.. these are what truly ' touched' me.. So thank you dear Friend!.. I WILL FIGHT FOR MY SPOUSE, BUT NOT TO GET, NOR TO KEEP, ONE...IF THEY CAN BE 'GOTTEN' BY ...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Sun, 27 Apr 2008 11:25:00 PST

Attracting the Right Kind of Lover

Attracting the Right Kind of Lover How do you attract the right kind of lover? By being a vibrational energetic match to the kind of lover you wish to attract! People are really confused about how lif...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Fri, 25 Apr 2008 09:43:00 PST

ee THE JOURNEY TO REAL LOVE ee

__________________________________THE HEART OF LOVEThe Journey To Real Loveby Scott and Shannon Peck__________________________________ A voicemail from a savvy, middle-aged female friend this week bro...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Sun, 20 Apr 2008 02:58:00 PST

words that hit home for me..

  If you are quick to take offense, then you'll be under the control of those who you find offensive. If you are easily angered, then your actions will be dictated by those who anger you. If you...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Sun, 20 Apr 2008 10:58:00 PST

My Birthday..

The past few years have been an incredible journey of growth and change for me.. so I want to write today NOT about the day I was born but about the day I decided to start LIVING!.. There is so much I...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Tue, 15 Apr 2008 03:49:00 PST

Do you believe in yourself?

Here is a great self esteem test ( It's scientifically validated )  Check out this link.. http://www.queendom.com/tests/access_page/index.htm?idRegTes t=720 Self-esteem is essential to our ability...
Posted by e 4 UNCONDITIONAL LOVE e on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 03:24:00 PST