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Life is what you make it.

Married my bestfriend, my lover, my life.

About Me


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I am 38 year old mother of 2, a 19 year old son Nicholas and a 15 year old daughter Megan. I lost a baby in 1990 a beautiful baby boy, Justin. Hardest thing I went through in my life was loosing a child. Has helped alot knowing theres a angel watching over us.
I am married to a wonderful man that I love with all my heart. We have been through heck and back but still leads us back to us. He has custody of his baby boy; which is now our son. After the mother has been prooven to be unfit he has became ours. I love baby James just as my own and will always in my eyes be my son.
I have learned alot in my life. For instance 1. people aren't always who you think they are. 2. You learn who your real friends are in the worse of times. 3. Just because the court finds someone guilty of a charge doesn't mean they did it or if they did don't mean they can't change. What ever happened to the statement "the past is the past"? When a person serves their time why can't they get the second chance in life? 4. It dont matter who someone thinks is right for you. Follow your heart if you love them fight for them. 5. It don't matter what family you was born into that don't make them your family. I enjoy making websites writing poems. Me I'm me for me peeps either like me or they don't I can't please everyone. As far as my life I am moving on and going to try to live my life for me. Thankfully I have some wonderful friends that have helped me through so much. I was djing for misfit radio and hope to be back djing soon.
My number one peeve is a liar. After being lied to for 7 years even about him being in the army I can not stand it any longer.
I can not stand backstabbers, don't pretend to be my friend to all of a sudden decide you dont like something in my life to just turn around and backstab me. You either except me as I am or hit the door jack.
My live revolves around my kids, my husband, and child abuse and domestic abuse awareness. My main goal in life is to pass Baby James Law for child abuse and I will do it.
Now one final thing and something very very important. As I said my husband has custody of his baby. The baby was taken away from his mother for neglect. This is short version of the story; but we are in the process of getting a attorney to terminate her rights and for me to adopt him. Please check out the site about him and his story by clicking on the banner below.
If you are a supporter to stop child abuse please also click on the banner below it is my other page for James and child abuse awareness.
I am also a victim of domestic violence and child abuse as a child. I will be using this site for awareness as well as my love for music. Please realize I may send out alot of bulletins on my causes and to support others. If you don't like bulletins you will not want to add me.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Anyone who has the same interests as me. Below is our wedding video. All three songs was played at our wedding.

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Make an on-line slide show at www.OneTrueMedia.com

Music:

All but mainly country

.. - Get Your Own

Movies:

Freedom Writers Broken Bridges

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Television:

dont watch much tv

Books:

A boy called it Supreme Love, A battered woman's story

Heroes:

My husband and my kids All victims of child abuse and domestic violence

My Blog

The Gate

The Gate From the time we was introduced,I knew you I would never hate,You gave me that boost,You opened the gate. I realized from our talks,We caried alot on both our plate,You gave advice on how to ...
Posted by Life is what you make it. on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 09:34:00 PST

Poem I wrote for my sister and brother in law for their anniversary

Our Fate We started young, Moved along fast, Our heart sung, Starting our past.   Had our hard times, Not knowing what tomorrow would bring, Counting our dimes, Not knowing if future we would sin...
Posted by Life is what you make it. on Mon, 01 May 2006 07:15:00 PST

A poem I wrote for 2 friends getting married in Voodoo

FRIENDS FROM DEATH DO YOU PART They met as friends,Growing each and every day.Never seeing a end,They found their way. Eachothers arms,sharing a heart.Their goodluck charm,Not growing apart. For bette...
Posted by Life is what you make it. on Mon, 24 Apr 2006 06:49:00 PST

A poem I wrote when about a crumbling life.

Crumbling Sit here wondering,Tomorrow will be?My mind plundering,Begging for a plea. Cold air comes, More tears fall.All I hear are the drums,Knowing this will be a long haul. My life crumbles,Will th...
Posted by Life is what you make it. on Thu, 12 Jan 2006 02:31:00 PST

A poem I wrote about hurting ones you love

  My Word Hurting the ones we love,Causing so much pain,Needing help from above,Down flows the rain.Not knowing why,Never wanted to hurt you,Feeling like I could die,Not knowing what else to do.H...
Posted by Life is what you make it. on Sun, 04 Dec 2005 01:52:00 PST

A poem I wrote when I was reunited after not seeing my father for 20 plus years

Dad's Search Seems like forever since we seen eachother,They told you I didn't want to see you,Searching I was beginning to think why bother,Your feelings I had no clue.I cried when I got your addre...
Posted by Life is what you make it. on Sun, 04 Dec 2005 01:44:00 PST