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When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you.

About Me


I AM...
I am an incredible, joyous, wondrous & beautiful creation.
An intriguing, fantastical, mystical, breathtaking & awesome fantasy.
An explosive, powerful, frightening, intimidating CREATOR.
An intelligent, creative, talented & brilliant person.
A BOLD, INQUISITIVE, CHEEKY, infuriating CHILD.
A wise, calculating, patient & slow seer.
A soft, sensual, enveloping & warm lover
A lonely, abandoned & misunderstood victim.
A cruel, uncaring, proud & selfish victor.
A shining, bright, white light.
A strong gust of wind, a star in the night sky...a night SKY.
A leaf, a tree, a ground, an air.
A droplet of WATER, a WAVE, a RIVER, a BEACH.
A mirror, a house, a road, a car.
A thought, a feeling, a touch.
A vision, a dream, an illusion.
A word, a sentence, a paragraph, a NOVEL.
An image, a film, a painting in oils.
A worm, an antelope, a DOLPHIN, an EAGLE.
A hill, a valley, a mountain, a plain.
An earth, a sun, a Saturn, a milky way.
A song, a poem, a voice uplifted.
An eye, a nose, a mouth, an ear.
A hand, a foot, a body, a mind, a SOUL.
♥A me, a you, a them, an US.
I AM...
The windows of my soul are made of one-way glass; don't bother looking into my eyes. If there's something you want to know, just ask.
Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect - and I don't live to be. But before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean. ~ Bob Marley
THESE ARE MY RULES...
I stand up for myself and my beliefs
I stand up for those I love
I speak my mind, speak my own thoughts, and do things my own way
I won’t compromise what’s in my heart
I live my life MY way
I won’t allow anyone to step on me
I refuse to tolerate injustices
It means I have the strength and courage to allow myself to be me
So try to stomp on me, douse my inner flame, squash every ounce of beauty I hold within…
You won’t succeed
And if THAT makes ME a bitch….. So be it!

When once you have tasted flight, you will forever walk the earth with your eyes turned skyward; for there you have been and there you long to return. ~Leonardo De Vinci
Where Your Freedom Lies
I wanna run with reckless emotion; find out if love is the size of an ocean. Even if I crash down and burn out, at least I'm gonna know what it's like to feel ALIVE!
I believe that life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out. shouting "HOLY SHIT...WHAT A RIDE!!!"

My Interests


~I love. . . diversity, honesty without hang-ups, compassion, passion, fashion, real freedom, real meaning, real people...realness all together!~

...Also...
~ Everything about the OCEAN and doing my share to help PRESERVE IT
~ MUSIC
~ NOSTALGIA
~ Surrealism, vintage and modern expressions of ART and PHOTOGRAPHY
~ People and things with WINGS
~ RAIN and thunderstorms
~ Adventurous road trips with crazy, good friends
~ Finding new VEGETARIAN/VEGAN recipes
~ Dancing when no one's looking...(and when they are)
~ Deep analysis over silly topics and debating about even sillier ones
~ Comedy...can't live with out it!
~ Watching the sun set over the ocean
~ Street fairs, downtown shopping mixed with some downtown barhopping!
~ Laughing at myself or others (but usually at myself)
~ Biking at sunset or working out in the early morning (both with my ipod blaring kick-ass tunes)
~ Constantly testing my own limits, learning about almost everything, and always discovering more new interests!

I'd like to meet:


My higher power, my grandmother,John Lennon, Dalai Lama, MC Escher, Andy Warhol, Salvador Dali, Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Bettie Page,Princess Di, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis,
any artist that has sung a song, painted a picture, or written words that move me.
Yes, I know that most of the people I would like to meet have already died, unfortunately. It's also true that all of the good people worth knowing leave their traces behind. It's called LEGEND...and that's something that lives forever!

I'm always open to meeting genuine people who are enlightening to talk to, artistic, passionate, honest, or intriguing in some other fashion.

Music:

Eclectic sums it up...

INDIE(Fiona Apple, Tori Amos, The Cranberries, Enigma, Cowboy Junkies, Mazzy Star, Peter Bjorn & John, THE SHINS, Pulp, (LOVE WHITE STRIPES!!, etc.)
RETRO(Concrete Blonde, The Smiths, Depeche Mode, New Order, The Cure, Elton John,Oingo Boingo, Howard Jones, The Cars, David Bowie, etc.)

TECHNO(Cafe Del Mar, Moby, The Chemical Brothers, The Prodigy, Ponihoax, Death in Vegas, Cat Power, Digitalgodd, Goldfrapp Madonna, etc.)

ALTERNATIVE(Air, The Bravery, Scissor Sisters, Beck, The Breeders, Cold War Kids, Candle Box,NIN, Weezer, Nelly Fertado, Jimmy Eat World, Smashing Pumkins, Soundgarden,Radiohead, Oasis, Beck,etc.),

ROCK(The Flaming Lips, Alice in Chains, Stone Temple Pilots, Collective Soul, Foo Fighters, Goo Goo Dolls, The Bravery, U2, System of the Down, Incubus, Corrosion of Conformity, Queens of the Stoneage, Pink, etc.)
CLASSIC ROCK(Jimi Hedrix, Joan Jett, Jeff Beck, Fleetwood Mac, Ozzy, Metalica, Pantera, Stabbing Westward, Rolling Stones,

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE♥JOHN LENNON♥ and THE BEATLES, etc.)

CLASSICAL when I want to be inspired, Enya (great for candlelight and bubblebaths!) ....but mostly alternative.

Movies:


I love a good classic movie, movies that makes me reflect on life or myself, comedy, and awesome psych thrillers.

Audrey Hepburn flicks, Amelie, STAY. Clockwork Orange, Vanilla Sky, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Across The Universe, Elizabeth, Hope Floats, The Big Lebowski, U.S. v.s. John Lennon, Saving Private Ryan, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Girl Interrupted, Pulp Fiction, Boondock Saints, As Good As It Gets, and Wizard of Oz...to name a few...

Television:

Wierd shows on Discovery, TLC, or Animal Planet, stupid auditions for American Idol, and King of Queens. But I still prefer my imagination over TV anyday!

Books:

These days, I have only had time for my school texts...barely! One day it will all pay off!

Heroes:

MY GIRLS for making me smile and laugh every single day and for the amazing bond between us that can never be broken! ME for the challenges I face with idiots in my life and how they have only made me stronger, wiser, and BETTER! Thank you challenges and idiot people.:D

"This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness." ~ Dalai Lama

My Blog

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