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"the real" SaLi

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

*NOTE TO THOSE LOOKING FOR "HOOK-UPS* I AM sooooo NOT INTERESTED AT ALL!!!
*NOTE TO MUSICIANS:
Due to a TOO MANY requests, I've set my account to not allow them from bands. BUT IF you're a musician that (personally) I know OR I have you listed on my profile/music interests OR perhaps you had a dream that you & were really, truly friends w/some life-changing friendship, then by all means message me & I'll add you (or, at the very least, I will consider it). IF you're looking for mere "exposure" or want me to listen, PLEASE refer to one of our Twin Vision myspace pages [www.myspace.com/TwinVision_College]. THNX!
------------------------------------------------------------ --------------"If you don't live for something, you'll die for nothing..."
- "Live For This" by Hatebreed
THIS is what I LIVE FOR/This is WHO I AM:

*FREEDOM FIGHTER
*FEMINIST
*Very Leftist Liberal...and PROUD!
*Environmentalist/Treehugger
*ANIMAL lover
*Childless By CHOICE
*Organic & local farmers supporter
*Music lover/advocate
*Booklover
*Art lover
*Recycling fiend
*Passionate
*Resilient
*Skeptical
*Logical
*A dreamer
*Social/Recluse -- depending on my mood
*Philisophical/Scientific/Darwinian
*Anti-racism
*Anti-big-business/corporate monopolies
*Compassionate
*Accepting
*Down-to-earth
*PRO CHOICE
*PRO EQUAL-MARRIAGE
*PRO Gay, Bi, and Trans equal rights.
*Cold weather loving
*Moon watcher/moon lover/stargazer...
*Completely adoring of of the true-blue people in my life
*Pro-Entrepreneur/Independent (of all kinds: stores, clothing, music, zines) *
I LOVE:
*The arts.
*Nature.
*People who aren't afraid to go the extra mile:
to recycle, to speak out against hateful and unfair behavior, to support local business, to look beyond the surface, to admit when they are wrong, to stand up for what they believe in, to hold strong in the face of adversity, to be honest & true, to do unto others.
*That all of my political & social views are deeply personal to me.
*My very short stature. My curves. My tattoos & what they mean to me. My piercings & where I have chosen to wear them, for the world to see. My curly, frizzy hair. My haircolor. My freckles. My imperfections.
*Being loud & opinionated, talkative/hyper/excited/easily amused.
*Food. Yummy food: Italian, Chinese, Greek...Eastern European bakery, chocolate, rich sweet coffee.
*Challenges.
*Having control (w/a touch of OCD).
*My moments of quiet -- such as at nite when everyone's asleep, even the cats.
*My parents, whom I am very close to and adore more than anyone else (save my spouse) in the world. Also, my grandparents and aunt Nae.
*Being religiously non-affiliated.
*The idea of Paganism (but without all the ritual).
*The Earth, the stars, the moon and her cycles.
*NPR
*The simple things in life: Rain. New-fallen snow,. The smell, look, and feel of autumn & its leaves. The sound of my cats' breathing as they sleep. Daisies. A Buffy rerun. The energy on Halloween nite. The smell of Thanksgiving. My old overalls. And of course, all of my friends...old & new, close & distant, intimate or acquaintance -- YOU make me who I am -- I spring to life because of you!!!
I ALSO live for this:
MUSIC!

I work for a great company that promotes independent music to independent radio! With my business partner, coworker, and cohort in crime, Amy, we head up the College Radio & Specialty Formats department, promoting indie artists to non-commerical radio.
THIS IS WHERE you can FIND US: www.myspace.com/TwinVision_College
My bio & projects I've worked can be found at our Twin Vision: College MySpace page (just click the link above!)
LASTLY, IF you're a BAND or ARTIST that I'm not personally acquainted with, please do NOT post your shows in my comments.AAAAND, IF you are listed in my music, movies, or book section, or you are politically like-minded PLEASE feel free TO send me a msg &/or friend request!!! OK, I'm done now!!! THANX so much for stoppin' by:)

My Interests

DEREK HESS DEREK HESS DEREK HESS!!! No, not in a stalker-esque way. I am starting to only wear STRHESS clothing & collect his art. I want to, someday, get a piece tattooed on me. He is amazing, passionate, and what the whole cycle of life is all about. It's all in his art (click the banner below to check it all out!)Of the below images, 4-8 are borrowed from Mushycat.com. Click here to visit!

Human Rights (womens', gay, & civil rights), women's studies & feminism. The environment. Politics. Books, music, smart shows, movies, cats, animals, animal rescue shows, live music, writing, lip gloss, candles, getting lost in a book that pulls me in from page 1, roller derby, hiking, girls in glasses, redheads, pin-up girls, burlesque, Amber Benson, Katherine Moennig, Jeanine Garofalo, Margaret Cho, Whoopi Goldberg, BTVS, caramel, vanilla candles, bubblebath or anything, really. Tattoos, piercings, music, discovering new music, independent artists, poetry, paintings & other art. Mini Coopers, skateboarding, glitter, bangles & bracelets, new jeans, long conversations, the moon, cloudy days & lotsa rain, the scent of autumn, being snowed-in around the holidays, taking a vacation far from home w/my guy, my ratty old Chucks, Rosie The Riveter, underwear (who doesn't luv underwear?), archeology, pyramids, tombs, mummies, geology & how the earth works in her own mysterious way, any tv show on archeology & geology,etc., coffee & any foo-foo variations on coffee drinks, anything with sugar...lotsa sugar, drag shows, pride parades, my iPod, true gut-wrenching laughter at the most ridiculous of things, making up words/phrases & having them catch on, trading stories w/AND meeting new people, talking w/old friends, the Pittsburgh Steelers, and lastly (and most importantly) my cats & my family.

I'd like to meet:

Intelligent, witty, outspoken people who are proud of who they are & the views they hold AND are true to themselves (and others, of course).
Free Thinkers
Freedom Fighers
Feminists
I'd luv to meet some of the people I have long respected & admired. I'm also looking to get back in touch w/old friends & aquaintances
AND staying in touch w/long distance friends:)
JUST LEAVE THIS PAGE IF:

* Are looking to hook up or "be kickin' it." I'm in a relationship [translate: married] that I've been in for many years & don't plan on fucking around w/someone I met on MySpace (I'm NOT desperate, naive or gullible)! I am NOT looking for secret charades or swingin' times, so fuck off.
* Are a Bush supporter/Republican/Pro-Lifer/Evangelical. IF you believe that Feminism is trite. Feel the environment & its inhabitants don't need to be protected. Believe the US is always right & screw the rest of the world. Refuse to see that crime & poverty in this country are socio, economical, and political problems OUT of the hands of those held down! If you're anti-gay/think gays should not marry or have the same rights. IF you believe any of the above, then leave now.
I am here to make real connections...to rediscover old friends & acquaintances, to meet new people with whom I have a commonality of interests, beliefs, etc. I'm also here to discover & meet independent musicians, authors, & artists.

OSDA's comin' to the PHX and...
I have Derby Fever.

OSDA in Phoenix - VFRD

Old School Derby Assoc.

Anntagonist ** VFRD

Michi-Chan ** VFRD

ShortBREAK #70 ** VFRD

Music:

What I've been listening to the past few weeks:
GUTTER TWINS.
Gutter Twins.
gutter twins.
Santogold
Kid Sister
Argyle Miss
New Young Pony Club
Nouvelle Vague
Uh Huh Her
The Cliks
Elefant
Tori Amos
...and did I mention...Gutter Twins? Seriously, Saturnalia is AMAZING! ...
*yeah, pretty strange combination, right? But if you know me, you know IT WORKS*

Which riot grrrl band best suites you?
created with QuizFarm.com
You scored as Bikini Kill

You're Bikini Kill! Sadly, you're filled to the brim with the riot grrrl clighe' of smeared lipstick up your arm, and man hating. You do your best to help the people around you, and the enviorment. But be careful, don't become self righteous.


Bikini Kill


88%

Eva Chavela


75%

Jack off Jill


75%

Destitute


63%

L7


58%

Hole


25%I'm pretty much into everything (well, mostly everything)

I went ahead & did away w/my BIG ol' list of stuff that I just adore b/c, well, I needed a change. So, my boombox rocks it, and the covers below show it: IT? What I luv babies, what I luv...
HERE are the genres I dig on:
Shoegaze/Dream-pop/Trip Hop/Electronic/Ethereal
Industrial/EBM/Synth
Punk & Hardcore/Rockabilly & Psychobilly
some Metal & Hard Rock/Math Rock
female-fronted twee
Riot Grrrl
Singer Songwriter/folk/Americana/old-school country hellion heroes like Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Hank I & Hank II, Steve Earle
Jazz & Blues
Composers:
Angelo Badalamenti, Arvo Part, Avishai Cohen, Hildegard Von Bingen, Mark Isham, Philip Glass, Rachel’s
and Classicalfaves: Baroque, Mediaeval, Renaissance & Choral

Movies:

V For Vendetta** David Lynch** Hal Hartley** True Romance** Leon (The Professional) ** Romeo Is Bleeding** The Crow** The Craft** Pumpkin** Reservoir Dogs** Fight Club** 12 Monkeys** Iron Jawed Angels** Real Women Have Curves** Girlfight** Like Water For Chocolate** Frida** Our Song** Girls Town** Foxfire** Fire** Lost & Delirious** All Over Me** The Incredibly True Adventures of 2 Girls in Love** Better Than Chocolate** Aimee & Jaguar** Gia** If These Walls Could Talk 2** Kissing Jessica Stein** High Art** Prey For Rock & Roll** Romeo Must Die** Hype** Sid & Nancy** Suburbia** Chicago** Rent** Henry Fool** Whale Rider** Once Were Warriors** House Of Yes** Sin City** The Lord Of The Rings trilogy** Miracle** Ice Age 1 & 2** Monsters Inc.** Cars** Madagascar** Edward Scissorhands** Ed Wood** Nightmare Before Christmas** Corpse Bride** Beetlejuice** Rocky Horror Picture Show** Hedwig & The Angry Inch** Rent** 100 Cigarettes** Beautiful Girls** Clueless** 10 Things I Hate About You** Not Another Teen Movie** Dodgeball** Clerks** Clerks II** Dogma** Heathers** Welcome Home Roxy Carmichael** Singles** Pretty In Pink** Some Kind Of Wonderful** Sixteen Candles** Desperately Seeking Susan** Pump Up The Volume** Meet Joe Black** Interview w/a Vampire** Halloween** Wrong Turn** Carrie** 28 Days Later** Texas Chainsaw Massacre** Night Of The Living Dead** Return Of The Living Dead** Nightmare On Elm Street (1-3)** Friday the 13th (1-4)** King Kong (the original w/Fay Wray** The Blob** Plan 9 From Outer Space** Rear Window** Little Darlings** The Outsiders** To Kill A Mockingbird** Tortilla Flat** East Of Eden** Rebel Without A Cause** Casablanca** Sabrina** Roman Holiday** Funny Face** My Fair Lady** The Wild One** A Streetcar Named Desire** The Long Hot Summer** Don't Bother To Knock** 7 Year Itch** Anastasia** Daddy Long Legs** Baby Doll** Franco Zeffirelli's Romeo & Juliet** Rosencrantz & Guildenstern Are Dead** Shakespeare In Love** Elizabeth** Quills** Pride & Prejudice** Sense & Sensibility** Persuasion** Mansfield Park** Emma** Joan Of Arc** The Messenger** Pans Labyrinth** The Departed** HBO documentary "Thin" & I'm sure quite sure there are others that I cannot recall...

Television:

Ever since TV on DVD & TiVo I watch a whole lotta tv! BUT, I do try to limit myself. These are the shows that I have found worthy enough to take up my time:

Current shows I dig on:
Bones
CSI (vegas)
CSI NY
Curb Your Enthusiasm
Deadwood
Heroes
How I Met Your Mother - I don't kid--this show rocks!
In Treatment
It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia -- An Absolute MUST-SEE!! Brilliant, wrong, perfect.
L.A. Ink
Lost
Medium
Mythbusters
The Office
Prison Break (*sigh*Wentworth*sigh*)
Real Time w/Bill Maher
Scrubs
Steelers football
The L Word
The Shield
The Wire (one of THE BEST shows on TV since Homicide, both written by David Simon!)
** Discovery Times channel, Animal Planet, HGTV, anything archeological or about pyramids & tombs, and most documentaries **

Books:

A few of my favorites:

MySpace Book Lists at MySpace Toolbox

...and yet, MORE favorites:

A Handmaid's Tale** Confederacy Of Dunes** Neverwhere** The Mists Of Avalon** The Count Of Monte Cristo** Tortilla Flat** The Perks Of Being A Wallflower** Annie On My Mind** Hey, Dollface** The Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants series** Kiss My Tiara** Hypocrite In A Pouffy White Dress** Laurie Notaro** Underneath It All - Traci Lords** Cintra Wilson** Sandra Cisneros** Kim Harrison** Sheri S. Tepper** Anne Rice** Christopher Rice** Stan Rice** Jane Austen** Michael Drinkard** Neil Gaiman** Eve Ensler** Laurell K. Hamilton** Shakespeare** Anne Sexton** Sylvia Plath** Eavan Boland** EE Cummings** Gloria Steinem** Womens' Studies/Sociology** Ms., Bitch, Bust, Venus, and Paste magazines **

Heroes:

My mother. My mentor & friend, Peter Hay. My co-worker/cohort in crime, Amy. My tough-as-nails forever young friend Sade. My old college prof. & friend, David. My friends, each of whom has taught me something amazing & wonderful about myself & life in general.
Freedom Fighters: Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks, Susan B. Anthony & Elizabeth Cady Stanton (also a very vocal & admirable atheist), Alice Paul, Estelle Griswold, Margaret Sanger, Gloria Steinem, Kathleen Hanna, Rev. Jessie Jackson.
I am indebted to my mothers & sisters (and some fathers & brothers!) before me who made it possible for me to live as I do today: A free woman, allowed to vote, access to education, access to birth control, opportunity in the workplace, Equality (for the most part -- hey, we've come a loooong way since even 1970!)
THOSE are my heroes**
MY HEROES ARE FRIENDS ... old & new ... here & GONE ...
Characters like Ayn Rand's Howard Roarke. Those who follow their own path, no matter what the consequence. Because with confidence comes power -- not maniacal zeal, but a self-empowerment that can stand with the biggest egos or can stand alone -- it matters not, for they feed their own soul...and sometimes are lucky enough to find others in life who can share in that with them.
"I am that solitude. I am that power. I am the ego. I want what they do not like. I am what they hate." - Me, 3/21/07

My Blog

yet ANOTHER MySpace for me to tend to...

Per Annastasia/Anntagonist I have started my Derby page. For those of you who want in, you can check it out here: (Strawberry) ShortBREAK*70**VFRDIt's still bare-bones, as far as info, pix, and friend...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Fri, 02 May 2008 01:03:00 PST

Poop-on-a-stick is my favorite time-waster!

Serve-ATAKE THIS SURVEY!Take this survey1. So how are you? fine I guess2. If you woke up as the opposite gender, what's the one thing you would do? pee standing up!!3. Have you ever crawled through a ...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 11:36:00 PST

Happy Birthday mommy EARTH :)

So, I've gotten so many delicious messages, comments, and texts for my birthday so far today. Fuckin' RAWK!!! I didn't WANT my bday to happen...but now that my birthday hour & minute has passed in ALL...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 12:58:00 PST

THE VALLEY gets a NEW ROLLERDERBY LEAGUE...and its the one I choose.

Ok, so I have this new acquaintance whom I think will end up becoming quite a kickass friend in my life here in the PHX. Annastasia & I have been messaging for a coupla wks now. She's a Derby GrrrL, b...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Tue, 15 Apr 2008 07:29:00 PST

Not sure who I am, but baby I know where I been ...

Damn...some days are so surreal in a weird-ass Ingmar Bergman film kinda way (well, ok, I’ve only seen 1, but I can make THAT compariso, fo sho!) and some days are surreal in a BTVS (Buffy The V...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Thu, 03 Apr 2008 12:00:00 PST

high school me Vs. NOW me. Oooh, catfight

my meek, high school self is haunting me. There is something left, undone. Un...said, seen, shown. Perhaps I will go to my 20th High School reunion -- it’s not that far off, sadly. 4 years away....
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Sun, 30 Mar 2008 10:49:00 PST

horrorscopes

So...a friend sent these to me...kinda true, actually. And since I’m an Aries/Taurus cusp, I read them both and they ARE BOTH SOOOO ME! Wooohoo! Anyway, yeah, HORRORscopes...I took out all the s...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:23:00 PST

quasi-poetic small & random thoughts

Whydo you tease metempt melay unsolicited adorationat my feet?Whydo you hold metightly and do youwonder why I won’t look up at you?It’s because if I didI’d lose myselfand possiblyall...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Thu, 27 Mar 2008 01:54:00 PST

This bitch isnt just a Feminist, shes muthaeffin rollercoaster, too! ??

Ugh. Tired now...looooong day. Couldn’t sleep last nite, so made the BIG OL’ FAT MISTAKE of taking a Lunesta. Kiss my perkiness & decent moods goodbye, man. Eff that stuff...no more!!! Sle...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Thu, 27 Mar 2008 01:36:00 PST

Perhaps she’ll learn to fly...or at least, skate...once again

Man, I am such a total freak of nature sometimes! So, I was all excited just to go & check out The AZ Roller Derby Girls’ practice...really, like 5 minutes from my house (at least, their Monday ...
Posted by "the real" SaLi on Tue, 25 Mar 2008 11:02:00 PST