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If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you But make allowance for their doubting too, If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:If you can dream -- and not make dreams your master, If you can think -- and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings -- nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much, If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And -- which is more -- you'll be a Man, my son! -- Rudyard Kipling.

My Interests

My son, my friends, books, music, movies, comics..

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Music:

Classic , melodic rock , with an emphasis on the progressive : especially Yes , Asia , Rick Wakeman , Foreigner , IONA , Pallas , Zebra , Magenta , and

Movies:

The Man Who Would Be King, Ladyhawke, The Third Man , Singin' in the Rain, Amadeus, The Empire Strikes Back, Never Say Never Again , Star Trek II, Spinal Tap, Clue, Enemy of the State, anything by Terry Gilliam

Television:

Current: The Office, Bones, Boston Legal, How I Met Your Mother // Older: Star Trek, The Dick Van Dyke Show, The John Larroquette Show, Hardcastle & McCormick..

Books:

Asimov's Foundation series, Conan Doyle's Sherlock Holmes.., James P. Hogan, silver age DC Comics, classic pulp and adventure fiction (especially Doc Savage , and " Wold Newton " family members).

Heroes:

Dad, Theodore Roosevelt, Jack Benny, Jimmy Stewart, Orson Welles, Kent Allard, Rick Wakeman.

My Blog

A very short anecdote

A co-worker and I said the same thing. My comment: "It's said that great minds think alike, but apparently ours do, too." Her response: Blink blink. Blink. My retort: "Or maybe not."...
Posted by -> Ray on Wed, 27 Feb 2008 10:26:00 PST

My "greatness" has been recognized

I found it appropriate to mention the following on a discussion list: For fans of obscure guest appearances by Yes' Jon Anderson, possibly the most pointless was his contribution to Toto's "Stop Lov...
Posted by -> Ray on Fri, 15 Feb 2008 08:00:00 PST

Limerick for the Defective Detective

Last night was the latest annual dinner for the Norwegian Explorers, the Sherlock Holmes society to which I belong. I always enjoy the dinners, because there's the opportunity to be social with many ...
Posted by -> Ray on Fri, 07 Dec 2007 10:25:00 PST

Book signings (arranged by Artie Fufkin?)

It's been quite a month for me and book events. In addition to the Doc Savage convention (discussed in my prior blog), I also attended two separate author signings. I'll start with the most recent, i...
Posted by -> Ray on Mon, 05 Nov 2007 10:59:00 PST

Have no fear: The Man of Bronze is here!

About a month ago I was thinking about a trip I intended to take at the end of October.  The trouble was that I couldn't decide which trip to take.  I had two options in mind, each of which ...
Posted by -> Ray on Mon, 29 Oct 2007 12:08:00 PST

Right off!

I've agonized about this for the last week or so, and I finally decided that I needed to approach this situation as if I were removing a Band-Aid (brand adhesive bandage). It makes no sense for me to...
Posted by -> Ray on Thu, 04 Oct 2007 11:37:00 PST

So many books to read

I buy a lot of books. I buy far more than I will ever be able to read, because no matter how well-intentioned I am when I pick up an interesting title, I end up buying faster than I read. My shelf of...
Posted by -> Ray on Fri, 01 Jun 2007 07:56:00 PST

Obsolete or antique?

Over the last three days, I had two experiences that, while they seemed innocuous in isolation, taken together led me to the train of thought captured in the title of this blog. On Saturday, I t...
Posted by -> Ray on Tue, 24 Apr 2007 08:50:00 PST

Alea Iacta Est

For the last year or so, I've been putting myself in what I consider to be a fairly uncomfortable position: I've been forcing myself to go out on dates. There are plenty of women out there, and I am ...
Posted by -> Ray on Mon, 09 Apr 2007 06:44:00 PST

I am a man of principles; one of them is frugality

In my last blog, I mentioned that I had decided against telling you a story that would have used the headline attached above. This morning I realized that I could apply it to another anecdote, which ...
Posted by -> Ray on Fri, 23 Mar 2007 07:37:00 PST