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NOTE: This site is put together and maintained by Christian Fisher and Journey of Life Productions , a national entertainment company. We work in books, music, and film.
To reach Karen Justice-Guard, please visit Safe Havens For Little People online. Thanks!
If you have a domestic violence emergency, do NOT contact us. Instead call one of the numbers below:
Police, Fire, Medical Emergencies (within the U.S.): 911
Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453

If you have a blog and would like me to re-post YOUR well-written and thoughtful blog entries for folks on THIS site to read, please let me know. Send me a message and tell me which of your blog entries I should consider. There are a few rules I need you to consider, so read my blog above for details...then drop me a note. Thanks! ~C
Order the latest book by Christian Fisher and Karen Justice-Guard for just $10.00 USD (plus shipping) using your PayPal account.
BUY THE BOOK: You can purchase a copy of the book, Keep Showing Up: Living & Healing Beyond Welfare & Abuse for just $10 at the PayPal link below.
You can also purchase the book at Safe-Havens.org .
Other retailers include:
Amazon.com
Barnes & Noble.com
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I've recently released a music video/public service announcement from one of my musical artists (from Journey of Life Entertainment), Heather Mere.
The video is below.
If you have a Myspace page or website that is dedicated to preventing child abuse, domestic violence, or that you feel this video would be an impactful addition to...please put it on your page. You can embed the video using the code available at Youtube. Simply search "Heather Mere" in Youtube to get her videos. This one is at the top.
Thanks!
~Christian Fisher
Artist: Heather MEre
Song: "Raped"
Heather Mere - "Raped"
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This is a link to an online support group for women who have joint/partial custody of their children; or just visitation or no contact with their children at all, for various reasons.
Many of the women have been victims of mental/physical abuse, domestic violence, etc. They come from all walks of life.
Some of these women have gone through and still are going through much worse. There are also a few non-custodial dads on the site who deal with the same issues. Non-custodial moms, dads, grandparents, or their families are all welcome.
This is a place for emotional support and strength. Please visit National Association for Non-Custodial Moms (NANCM) .
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Here's another link to a site referred to us:
http://www.darccwc.org/
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SAFE HAVENS WOMEN NEED YOUR HELP! Safe Havens For Little People is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization and your donations to the organization are tax-deductible. The organization also offers A Sister's Love, an original product line of aromatherapy products, cookbooks, candles, soaps, gift baskets, cooking sauces, and much more. Many women that work through the Safe Havens program have taken jobs to develop these products and bring you top quality creations. Call Safe Havens at 1-800-628-8787 or visit Safe-Havens.org to purchase Safe Havens and A Sister's Love products, or to offer a tax-deductible donation to the organization. Thank you for your support!
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Former drug-addicted twin sisters help women rebuild their lives.
CONCORD, CA - Twin sisters, Karen Justice-Guard and Kim Justice-Meyer, survived years trapped in a cycle of street life, domestic abuse and drugs. Karen’s experience took her through the high life with a multi-millionaire boyfriend whom she later parted with after rehab…an event that left her financially destitute. Kim was so consumed by drugs that she abandoned her children for four years in favor of life on the streets.
After their father, a successful landscaper, died, each of the girls received a $100,000 inheritance. Karen, out of rehab by this time, began to follow her dream: to start an organization that will help women rebuild their lives after drug addiction and abuse. Kim, literally rescued near death from a street corner, eventually cleaned herself up through rehab as well. Karen and Kim reunited with several professionals to build Safe Havens For Little People, an organization named after their father’s dying words and aimed at helping abused and addicted women leave welfare, get reunited with their children, and turn their lives around.
“My father said, ‘Help the children, they’re little people.’ My father was a huge inspiration to me,” Karen says.
Started in 1998, Safe Havens For Little People quickly took shape through Karen’s own investment and others’ donations small and large. Three years after its inception, Safe Havens For Little People was designated a certified welfare-to-work program by Contra Costa County in California.
“We are committed to the economic independence of the women who come to us for assistance,” says Karen. “We offer a 12-month transitional housing and job-training program through our W.E.L.L. model (Work, Earn, Live & Learn) to help women build their work skills, life skills and gain real self-sufficiency. Upon completion of the training, we have a variety of employment opportunities waiting for them as we continue to mentor them as graduates.”
Safe Havens For Little People also offers transitional housing, daycare, mortgage banker training, drug counseling, educational programs, and a wealth of other services and opportunities for women escaping lives of domestic violence, drug abuse, and welfare. It aims at reuniting families, fighting for welfare reform, and empowering women into success.
With success in California—having helped 150 women and 85 children in the past year alone—Karen is seeking to expand Safe Havens For Little People across the country by starting a pilot program in each of the 50 states. A large source of funding for the programs is the “A Sister’s Love” product line invented by Karen and Kim. The product line includes candles, soaps, lotions, a cookbook, cooking sauces, and more. Helping to spread their message, Karen also teamed with professional author, Christian Fisher, and wrote a book about their lives titled Keep Showing Up: Living & Healing Beyond Welfare & Abuse released last year. It can be ordered through Amazon.com, Borders Books & Music, Barnes & Noble, at http://www.safe-havens.org, or through this Myspace site directly from the authors (see below).
“Our organization has helped women pull themselves off of welfare (even third-generation welfare recipients), re-enter society after prison, leave shelters, rebuild their lives after violent relationships, overcome homelessness, get their children back from child protective services, and continue sobriety after drug programs. We help women transition back into society. We stand up for these women publicly and are fighting to reform the current government systems in place,” says Karen.
Karen and Kim, twin sisters survivors that share their story in this book. Today the twins operate Safe Havens For Little People, a non-profit, all-inclusive women's advocacy organization that helps women rebuild their lives after domestic violence, drug addiction, prison, or welfare dependency.
"Our transitional homes and our resource centers empower people to gain self-esteem and financial freedom as they and their children rebuild their lives. Becoming free from the pain of their past and at the same time building a future for themselves and their children. Healing spiritually, physically, emotionally and last but not least financially is the way Safe Havens succeeds in doing this." ~ From Karen's website .
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ABOUT CHRISTIAN FISHER
Christian Fisher knows how to rise to the top in fiercely competitive industries. Fisher owns and operates Journey of Life Productions (JOLP)(ASCAP). He is an agented and award-winning book author specializing in stories of triumph over adversity for and about women. As a freelance writer, Fisher wrote true stories of inner strength and survival, on assignment for five years, for the leading weekly women's national magazine, Woman's World. For the music industry, he has been a talent manager and music publisher since 2003.
A few years ago, Fisher had a big crazy idea to "write or publish books that become movies that feature music from JOLP artists." Manifesting this big crazy idea has since given Fisher an unique resume of accomplishments throughout the entertainment world and a healthy cross-section of relationships spanning the North American book, music, media, and film industries.
In the entertainment industry, Fisher has been key in negotiating music broadcast licenses, national magazine advertising and editorial placements, a made-for-television movie option, regional and national talk show appearances on television and radio, and much more. The latest news and specific new deals are always discussed on this site.
Fisher is also a speaker and media guest on the topics of domestic violence awareness and preventing abuse against women.
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Want to help women and children in need?
Hey, some ladies and their kids around the world and in your own hometown need your help sometimes. Help them out by doing what you can for these groups when you get a chance:
RAINN (Started by Tori Amos.)
Music Is Art Foundation (Started by Robby Takac of Goo Goo Dolls.)
American Red Cross
Women For Women International
Safe Havens For Little People
UNICEF
Children's Miracle Network
THANKS!
Some domestic violence statistics...
Domestic violence is more prevalent than most people are aware.
Rank of domestic violence among major cause of injury to women: 1
Number of American women physically hurt in some way by intimate partners each year: 4,000,000
Number of female victims of violence whose attacker was an intimate: 2 in 3
Percent of murdered women whose killers were an intimate partner: 42%
Number of Americans who have witnessed an incidence of domestic violence: 1 in 3
Percent of corporate leaders who believe domestic violence affects their balance sheet: 33%
Percent of Fortune 1000 executives who believe domestic violence increases insurance costs: 44%
Number of corporate leaders aware of employees affected by domestic violence: 2 in 5
Percent of employed battered women harassed by their abusive partners at work: 74%
Estimated absenteeism and excessive use of medical benefits due to family violence: 25%
Estimated days of paid work missed by American employees due to domestic violence each year: 175,000
Average annual medical expense resulting from domestic violence each year in US: $4 BILLION.
Odds that a pregnant woman will have a violent partner: 1 in 4
Average number of women seeking medical assistance for injuries incurred by battering each year: 1,000,000
Percentage of women who discuss abuse with their physicians: 8%
Percentage of physically abused women who report that they never discuss their abuse with anyone: 50%
Estimated number of American married couples that experience violence within marriage: 6 in 10
Violence cited as a reason for divorce in middle-class marriages: 22%
Percentage of women in prison for homicide that have killed their abusers: 90%
Percentage of women and children homeless today as a result of fleeing abuse: 50%

My Interests

Brought to you by:

Journey of Life Productions , a national entertainment company.

and

Safe Havens For Little People , a 501c-3 non-profit organization dedicated to supporting individuals and their children who have experienced any form of abuse.

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OTHER BOOKS BY Christian Fisher

Heartwarmers of Spirit: Triumphs Over Life's Challenges
By Azriela Jaffe
Contributing Author, Christian Fisher
(Adams Media; 2002)

Available at Amazon.com .

The Secret Nature Within You: Practical & Spiritual Tools & Insights For Your Journey of Self-discovery
By Christian Fisher
(Journey of Life Productions; 2000)

Available at Amazon.com .

AUTHOR NEWS AND APPEARANCES

(Please NOTE: ALL publication and air dates mentioned here are subject to change without notice. We'll do our best to keep the most accurate airing and publication dates here, but we do not control when the various media outlets will actually broadcast or publish our artists' media or music appearances. Links below may expire without notice. Thanks for your understanding.)

12/28/07 - Christian Fisher spoke with Gary Pozsik of "Health, Wealth, and Happiness" on the air at 1:00pm in South Carolina.

11/10/07 - Christian Fisher and Karen Justice-Guard are on WCRN 830 talk radio (airing from midnight to 2am EST) covering the Worcester and Boston, Massachusetts areas. That's going on this Friday night/Saturday morning. You can catch it live from anywhere at WCRN online .

11/4/07 - Christian Fisher and Karen Justice-Guard are on WMTR-AM 1250 on Sunday, November 4 at 10:00am EST. Please tune in if you're in the New Jersey, New York City, or Connecticut area. You can also listen online at wmtram.com .

10/29/07 - JOLP owner and book author, Christian Fisher, and his co-author, Karen Justice-Guard, will be appearing on central Illinois's WCMY 1430 AM on Monday, October 29 at 9:45am (CST). Listen in if you're in the area. Thanks for the support!

10/18/07 - Christian Fisher and Karen Justice-Guard will be appearing on Canada's Holder Tonight with the "king of overnight radio in Canada," Peter Anthony Holder. Listen on-air at CJAD-AM 800 in Montreal OR CFRB-AM 1010 in Toronto at 1:00am EST. You can also listen online LIVE at CFRB.com and CJAD.com . Visit the host's website as well.

10/3/07 - Lifetime (Television For Women) has recently renewed their movie option to make the movie based on Christian Fisher and Karen Justice-Guard's book, Keep Showing Up. The book is about Karen Justice-Guard's life as a drug addict and abuse victim turned national woman's advocate. We give special thanks to the William Morris Agency, Blueprint Entertainment, Matt & Jan Sommer, and others on our team for keeping this project moving forward.

6/4/07 - Karen Justice-Guard gets interviewed for Youtube.com. Part 1 of a 7-part series is below. For more of the interview series, click HERE

5/30/07 - Karen Justice Guard - Breathe Again Magazine features a quick story on Karen Justice-Guard.

5/17/07 - Broadcast - Comcast Local Edition aired on CNN Headline News will broadcast an interview with Karen Justice-Guard in 23 local CNN stations throughout California. The interview will air more than 250 times throughout the month of May. The complete broadcast schedule can be found at the link above.

5/14/07 - Broadcast - Karen Justice-Guard, co-author of Keep Showing Up, appeared on Montel today. Click the link for more details.

4/22/07 - Broadcast - Karen Justice-Guard - KQKE 960AM "What Really Matters?" show. 6pm. Serving San Francisco, California.

4/9/07 - Karen Justice Guard - Inside Bay Area

4/8/07 - Karen Justice Guard - Contra Costa Times

Guys: How Do You Know If You're Emotionally Abusive?

Physical violence is not the only legitimate form of abuse against women. Unfortunately, many of us guys believe this and think that as long as we keep our hands to ourselves, we're not being abusive. The reality is, women say that emotional abuse effects them as much, if not more, than physical abuse. Emotional abuse can family problems, depression, physical illness, and even death.

Guys, it's time for us to take a hard look at ourselves and ask some serious questions. It's also time to take action and become better men for the sake of the women we love in our lives and ourselves.

I borrowed a checklist from http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/questions_for_men.h tml which will help you take a good look at yourself and give you steps in the direction to a new way.

(The following is by Education Wife Assault.)

First, ask yourself, do you...

~ Call your partner names or put her down?
~ Prevent her from having her own life, going to school, work, or getting together with friends and family?
~ Make decisions that affect your partner or family without consulting her?
~ Criticize everything that your partner does, complain about how she cooks or takes care of the children?
~ Do everything to win an argument including threatening or intimidating your partner?
~ Give your partner the silent treatment for hours, days or even longer to punish her?
~ Want to have sex after an argument and insist it's because you love her?
~ Involve the children in your arguments, threaten to harm or take them away from your partner forever?
~ Stop her from using sign language if she is deaf or hard of hearing?
~ Blame your partner for everything and never admit you are wrong?
~ Control the money and make all financial decisions?
~ Lie and hide things from your partner?
~ Refuse to listen to your partner's thoughts, feelings or concerns?
~ Use her disability or deafness to belittle or control her?

Do you believe that...

~ You have the right to make all the decisions in the relationship?
~ Your partner is to blame when things go wrong?
~ Women are inferior to men?
~ Women's role is only to have children and take care of her husband?
~ You alone know what is best for your family?
~ It is only abuse if you hit your partner?

Think about it...

~ Most women say that emotional abuse effects them more than physical abuse. For some it is the main reason they leave.
~ You can be criminally charged for threatening, stalking or harassing your partner or ex-partner.
~ It is wrong to force or coerce someone into having sex. If the person did not consent, you can be charged with Sexual Assault.
~ Children who grow up in abusive homes are more likely to have problems in school, and later on in life. Boys may grow up to be perpetrators of abuse in their own adult intimate relationships.
~ Alcohol or drugs do not cause abuse. You are responsible for your actions.
~ Unemployment and work stresses do not cause abuse. Most people experience problems in life, but not everybody is abusive.
~ Many people may not understand emotional abuse or take it seriously. Find people that can support you to change.
~ Everyone deserves to be valued, respected and safe, not abused.

Take Action Now!

~ Many women say that what they really want is for their abusive partners to take responsibility for their behaviour and go for help.
~ Contact the community services in your area and ask for a referral. Be specific about what you are looking for. Programs may be offered in different languages, or for deaf and hard of hearing men through culturally specific community centres. For centres that do not have a TTY, contact the operator for the Bell Relay Service.
~ If you live in an area where there are no services, talk to your family doctor or someone you trust. Look for written information on emotional abuse.
~ Couples' counselling is not appropriate where abuse is involved. If you are abusive, it is your responsibility to change. Your partner is not responsible for the abuse.
~ Support your partner if she is going for counselling and do not interfere or interrogate her about it.
~ Do it for you! Accept that your partner may leave even if you go for help.
~ Your counselling must not be a way to control your partner or keep her in the relationship. It will still benefit you, your future relationships, and your children.

Copyright 1997-2001 by Education Wife Assault.

I'd like to meet:

Readers. People that want to stop violence and rights-violations against women.

If you have a blog and would like me to re-post YOUR well-written and thoughtful blog entries for folks on THIS site to read, please let me know. Send me a message and tell me which of your blog entries I should consider. There are a few rules I need you to consider, so read my blog above for details...then drop me a note. Thanks! ~C

Books:

Keep Showing Up is a book about hope. In this powerful and vivid book we, the authors, take you into a graphic world of sex, drugs, rock 'n' roll, international smugglers, millionaires, back alley life, violence, welfare dependency, and desperation. All throughout, we also demonstrate that if you're engulfed in the chaos of such a life, you can heal and change your life for you and your children.
It's the true story of twin sisters, Karen Justice-Guard and Kim Justice-Meyer, who together overcame a life of drug addiction, financial rise and fall, life on the streets, and domestic abuse.
Keep Showing Up is more than a book...it's an action you take. To keep showing up is to be taking the only action that matters to create any healing and change in your life. Keep showing up to your meetings, to your workplace, to your legal appointments, to time with your children, to the dreams you have for improving your life, and to the challenge of trusting yourself and others.
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My Blog

Music video - public service message - please check it out.

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Nice Men vs. Bad Boys (by Diane)

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Posted by Treat Women Right on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 07:42:00 PST

Let me re-post YOUR well-written blog to help others!

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Posted by Treat Women Right on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 06:15:00 PST

The famous "women don't like nice guys" dilemma...

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Posted by Treat Women Right on Sun, 29 Jan 2006 03:02:00 PST

How to talk with a co-worker you think is being abused.

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Posted by Treat Women Right on Mon, 23 Jan 2006 08:16:00 PST

FOREWORD of the book by Miss California 2002

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