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Those who restrain desire, do so because theirs is weak enough to be restrained.--- William Blake

About Me

I am a certified Reiki Master and teacher in the Usui Shiki Ryoho tradition. I also work with Bach Flower Remedies and a few other things I've learned along the way.

I have a penchant for getting myself into odd scrapes and misadventures, and a knack for storytelling. Put the two together and you get "The Misadventures of a Coat Check Girl", the myspace blog I've maintained since late 2005. It's a very honest and often comical view into the ins and outs (pun intended) of living and loving as a fiercely independent woman in Portland. If you spend any time around me, chances are you'll end up in there, so be warned. I change the names to protect the guilty, but I write with a candor that alarms some and charms others.

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My Interests

Learning to let go, to trust, to love. Learning to thinkwritesay the word Love without hyperventilating.
Self-reflection, introspection, people, energy, mystery, forgiveness, truth, sensuality, having crushes, love without ownership, making out, stolen kisses, being wooed with Neruda, rope, sexy unmentionables,
adventures with Pepe (because you never know where you could end up),
healing, Reiki, Qigong,
reading, knitting, photography (fetish, fashion, music), writing, traveling, music, movies, archery, kundalini yoga, natural medicine, flower essences, aromatherapy, Buddhism, tarot, mythology, the art of Frida Kahlo, language, organic dark chocolate, lovingly cooked food, magic and magick,
my family, my friends, my enemies, the people in between, learning from my missteps, living without regret.

I'd like to meet:

Writers and muses, artists, performers, and rabble-rousers of all sorts who might be interesting to photograph.

I'm also happy to correspond with people showing a sincere interest in Reiki, flower essences, or other forms of energy/healing work.

Please have the courtesy to read the profile. If you have intelligent things to say/ intelligent questions to ask regarding any of my listed or even related interests, by all means do so. A respectful and considerate approach will be returned in kind. I won't even consider your friend request unless you have sent me an introductory email first. It is called a "request" for a reason---mind your manners.
And please do not assume we are soul mates because we are both on myspace. I do not read Michael Crichton or enjoy blowing things up, nor will I answer requests for "a piece of that American ass" (that's Colombian ass, or didn't you read the profile?)

Music:

It's pretty varied but here's just a sampling:
Jeff Buckley, Lhasa de Sela, Auditory Sculpture, Dahlia, Drumattica, Suckapunch, The Dry County Crooks, Pepe and the Bottle Blondes, Jeff Trott, Rob Daiker, Morgan Grace, Vagabond Opera, Portland Cello Project, Storm and the Balls, The Cure, Tori Amos, This Mortal Coil, Dead Can Dance, Voltaire, Cranes, Jimmy Scott, Eartha Kitt, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Julie London, Louis Armstrong, Aterciopelados, Los Fabulosos Cadillacs, Dresden Dolls, Piero, Manu Chao, Rasputina, Luciene Boyer, Edith Piaf, Marlene Dietrich, Josephine Baker, Carlos Gardel...I like a little of most everything (with a few exceptions)

Movies:

Secretary, Amelie, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Henry and June, Preaching to the Perverted, Like Water for Chocolate, Moulin Rouge, The Lover, The Princess Bride, Labyrinth, The Never Ending Story, Harry Potter series, Muppet movies, Orlando, The Crow, Leon the Professional, The Pillow Book, Roman Holiday, Johnny Depp movies, Tim Burton movies, John Cusack movies (80's), this list could go on and on and...

Television:

Buffy, The Muppets, Grey's Anatomy

Books:

Webster's New Universal Unabridged Dictionary, The Harry Potter series, The Book of the City of Ladies, Innana Queen of Heaven and Earth (best erotica ever put to clay!), The Song of Songs, 1001 Arabian Nights, The Decameron, The Symposium, The Golden Ass, The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, Narcissus and Goldmund, Sidharttha, The Chronicles of Narnia, The Adventures of Winnie the Pooh, Grimm's Fairy Tales, Essential Reiki, Goddesses in Every Woman/Gods in Every Man, The Encyclopedia of Bach Flower Therapies. Books on Mythology of all cultures, but in particular Mesopotamian, Greek and Egyptian--- some Latin American.
AND WRITERS:
Ovid, Sappho, Catullus, Julio Cortázar, Oscar Wilde, Arthur Rimbaud, Edgar Allen Poe, Pablo Neruda, William Blake, William Shakespeare, Dorothy Parker, Tom Robbins, Robert Anton Wilson, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Alastaire Crowley, H.H. the Dalai Lama, Lama Surya Das, many more...A lot of non-fiction, too (see above interests) and books on spirituality and Tibetan Buddhism in particular. I'm always reading---usually have several books going at once.

Heroes:

H.H. The Dalai Lama. My dad. My friends. The Seekers and the Sleepers, for all have their place. People who actively seek out and battle their inner demons.

My Blog

Beachside Bounceback

"So whatever happened 2 your blog? Did u finally burn through all your boyfriends?"   Well, it's not the first text or message I've received in the past couple of months asking for an upd...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Fri, 17 Oct 2008 05:08:00 PST

Steeped

Several months ago, I was asked to work on a short film project, this time in front of the camera. Well, it's not really my first foray into film--- and no, there aren't any pornos or "home videos" fl...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Tue, 14 Oct 2008 01:06:00 PST

ICG Live!

So I've been hinting at an Auditory Sculpture / Infamous CoatCheck Girl collaboration for some time. It's finally happening! I often joke that I lead sort of a charmed life, almost stumbling into oppo...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Sun, 12 Oct 2008 06:07:00 PST

MFNW

Haven't felt much like writing.I've been immersed, drowning almost, in photo stuff.Here's some of what I saw at MFNW. As always, click on any image to go to my flickr site. There are many more bands a...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Sat, 13 Sep 2008 04:08:00 PST

Beachside Bukowski

A lovely vision of a man told me a few years ago that I should not be afraid of meeting people online."You work with energy, you can feel people out. The internet is just energy...you should be able t...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Thu, 17 Jul 2008 09:59:00 PST

Woke Up In a Strange Place

Red wall, light-filled room, warm body stirring next to me...No, not home, and not my typical M.O. I'm more the hit-and-run type, the "Thanks, now turn the light off on your way out" type."Do you wan...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Thu, 17 Jul 2008 12:07:00 PST

Mississippi Street Fair

This is Portland at its very best. Summer in full swing, sun blazing down, Bastille Day, Mississippi Street Fair, beautiful people everywhere...Even though I'd got home at 9am and only slept a few hou...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Wed, 16 Jul 2008 10:47:00 PST

Bastille Day Bisous

PIX was bustling with revelers from the Bastille Day Celebration. My date was standing in the seemingly endless line, trying to get an order in while I waited at a table. I saw a familiar face a few t...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:19:00 PST

Morning musings

I rarely get to see the sunrise. When I do, it's not the kind that marks the start of day, but rather the kind that marks the end of a long, long night. This particular day... night... moment in time,...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Mon, 14 Jul 2008 01:31:00 PST

The devil is in the details...

Often, when the muse eludes or I'm short on time, I'll take advantage of the status updates on myspace to post what have become micro-blogs. Some of them elicit almost as many comments as the full len...
Posted by Infamous CoatCheck Girl" on Tue, 01 Jul 2008 03:12:00 PST