Member Since: 4/1/2007
Band Members: ALTHEA HEWITT-ENTERTAINER/SONGWRITER/ACTRESS/MODEL
Influences: FROM ELLA FITZGERALD TO SARAH VAUGHN. FROM ANITA BAKER TO REGINA BELL. FROM BERES HAMMOND TO DENNIS BROWN. FROM MARCIA GRIFFITHS TO SHIRLEY MCKLEAN. FROM DIANA KING TO ALAINE. FROM STING TO GOO-GOO DOLLS. FROM YELLOW MAN TO CAPLETON DE FIRE MAN. FROM SHAGGY TO SEAN PAUL. FROM SANCHEZ TO FRANKIE PAUL. FROM SHABBA TO PUFF DADDY. FROM DOLLY PARTON TO JAMES BLUNT. FROM LADY G TO LADY SAW. FROM CELINE DION TO BEYONCE. NATALIE COLE TO ROBERTA FLACK. DIONE WARRICK TO WHITNEY HOUSTON. EVEN RIHANNA. SO MANY INSPIRATIONS. I COULD GO ON........BE STRONGHEAR WHAT OPRAH HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not
meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you
find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends
because the man was not treating you as you deserve then
heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things
are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship
is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why
would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more
nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two
way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing
cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you
are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for
granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that youneed. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
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Record Label: VP RECORDS
Type of Label: Indie