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Derek

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About Me


INFP - "Questor". High capacity for caring. Emotional face to the world. High sense of honor derived from internal values. 4.4% of total population. Take Free Myers-Briggs Personality Test
Your Candy Heart Says "First Kiss"
You're a true romantic who brings an innocent hope to each new relationship.
You see the good in every person you date, and you relish each step of falling in love.
Your ideal Valentine's Day date: a romantic dinner your sweetie cooks for you
Your flirting style: friendly and sweet
What turns you off: cynics who don't believe in romance
Why you're hot: you always keep the romance alive
Your Porn Star Name Is...
Jack in the Box
ABOUT ME
Name: Derek
Birthday: May 5, 1972
Birthplace: Boston, Massachusetts
Current Location: Douglas, Alaska
Eye Color: Blueish Gray
Hair Color: Brown... what's left of it :(
Height: 5'9''
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right for most things... Lefty for what's most important
Your Heritage: French, Irish, Polish, German, Native American
The Shoes You Wore Today: Xtra tuffs
Your Weakness: homemade ice cream and hot guys, the 2 in combo is enough to put me in a coma
Your Fears: snakes
Your Perfect Pizza: any without anchovies
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: to pay off 3 credit cards
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol or :)
Thoughts First Waking Up: wish someone were here to help me with this...
Your Best Physical Feature: my butt, i suppose
Your Bedtime: typically between 1 and 3am
Your Most Missed Memory: skinny dippin' in new hampshire with all my camp buddies
Pepsi or Coke: if i'd have to choose, it would be Coke... but i prefer 7-Up or Dr. Pepper over those other tonics
McDonalds or Burger King: neither
Single or Group Dates: single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: where's the option for chai?
Chocolate or Vanilla: both
Cappuccino or Coffee: neither
Do you Smoke: fuck no
Do you Swear: see above
Do you Sing: i do when i know the words...
Do you Shower Daily: if i'm near one
Have you Been in Love: a couple times
Do you want to go to College: went, but never finished
Do you want to get Married: you bet your ass i do
Do you belive in yourself: for the most part
Do you get Motion Sickness: only if the turbulence is extreme
Do you think you are Attractive: moderately

Do you like Thunderstorms: a love/hate relationship

Do you play an Instrument: clarinet and saxophone (alto and baritone)
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: no comment
In the past month have you Smoked: didn't i already answer that?
In the past month have you been on Drugs: if you consider stuff for headaches, yes... otherwise, no
In the past month have you gone on a Date: yup
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: nope
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: nope
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: i'm gay, not a lesbian for christ's sake
In the past month have you been on Stage: no
In the past month have you been Dumped: no
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: actually, yes
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: i'd hardly consider a grape or 2 stealing...
Ever been Drunk: too many times to count
Ever been called a Tease: not from someone that wasn't a tease themselves
Ever been Beaten up: once when i was in elementary school
Ever Shoplifted: not directly
How do you want to Die: while in the throws of the most mindblowing, earthquaking, crystal wine glass shattering orgasm ever recorded!!
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: haven't thought about it much...
What country would you most like to Visit: the seychelles
In a Boy...
Favourite Eye Color: green
Favourite Hair Color: red or blonde
Short or Long Hair: either
Height: any but usually prefer shorter than myself
Weight: no heiffers please
Clothing Style: who needs clothing? ok... i find metro's really sexy
Number of Drugs he has Taken: as few as possible
Has he ever been In Prison: i certainly hope not...
Number of Piercings: definitely not more than me
Number of Tattoos: any amount would suit me, i love a man with some ink and the special meanings behind them
Number of CDs he Owns: well... i won't give a number, but he should definitely be a serious music lover
Kind of car He Drives: i'm not that superficial... if it runs, we're good to go
Can he Cook: that would be great, can always use another hand in the kitchen ;)
Does he make His Bed: making your bed is the biggest waste of time and energy... i'd much rather him spend that time with me
Is he Top, Bottom, or Versatile: he'd better be versatile if he wants to be with me... i'm not selfish in bed, he shouldn't be either
Dude! You're 100% from Massachusetts!

Dude! Me and Sully and Fitzie and Sean are gonna hit Landsdowne tonight after the game, hang out at the Beerworks. I'll pick you up at the Coop at 6.
How Massachusetts are you?
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My Interests

I enjoy a multitude of eclectic activities and interests... bullfighting, German speed metal, IFC fridays, philosophy of Greek stoics, spaghettiman triathalons, pottery of the Aztecs, 60's convertibles, Viking cuisine, Burning Man Festivals, Egyptian architecture, yoga & deep tissue massages. I've also been known to delve into some of the following pastimes on occasion... wildlife advocacy, wine/beer tasting, working out (to offset the previous activity), playing tug-o-war with my dog, hiking, kayaking, camping, naked skydiving, skinny dipping, mountain top meditation, pretty much anything outdoors... photography, collecting Pez dispensers, body piercings, and sweet sweaty monkey lovin' for indoors.

I'd like to meet:

Men who think like this:

Folks that take issues like this seriously:

Men who love like this:

These 2 cuties:

Straight men that are as cool as these guys about being gay:

This incredible guy:

Guys who can kiss like this:

And last but not least, these talented guys:

Music:



Movies:

This is a tough one... I generally like in depth, thought provoking, independent films, but there are some mainstream pieces that move me as well. I'll list a couple of my favorites and you judge my taste for yourself: Brokeback Mountain, Motorcycle Diaries, Big Eden, Monsoon Wedding, Gone With The Wind, Dead Man Walking, Good Will Hunting, Vanilla Sky, Terms Of Endearment, A Home At The End Of The World, Big Fish, Borstal Boys, Y Tu Mama, Tambien, Devil's Advocate, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind.

Books:


Heroes:


My Blog

A Gay Teenagers Fantasy Cum True!

I found this video and it literally BLEW ME AWAY!!! LOL! When I was younger, it was always my fantasy to seduce a straight man. I liked challenges and that seemed like the ultimate one to me. ...
Posted by Derek on Mon, 02 Jun 2008 06:08:00 PST

Happy Earth Day!!!

I just wanted to wish you all a very Happy Earth Day! Be good to the land, and she'll be good to you. ...
Posted by Derek on Thu, 24 Apr 2008 04:01:00 PST

Incredible kid

Just another reason why J and I want kids  ...
Posted by Derek on Thu, 28 Feb 2008 05:29:00 PST

Something to warm you up on this wintery day...

I know it's been like ages since I've posted a blog... but this one is a bit too risqué to spread around in bulletin form. Hope you guys enjoy this show as much as I did! ...
Posted by Derek on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 12:41:00 PST

25 Dos & Don'ts for Gay Boy Refugees

Dos & Don'ts for Gay Boy RefugeesSo you made it out of that backwater town in one piece. Now comes the hard part... acclimating to a new place and living an openly gay life. Soon enough you'll dis...
Posted by Derek on Sun, 22 Jul 2007 02:50:00 PST

Dick Chart

This is for all of you John Holmes wanna be's out there...  ...
Posted by Derek on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 11:55:00 PST

Crossfire's gone, but not forgotten...

I'm a HUGE fan of John Stewart and 'The Daily Show' despite not having television. I get my doses in the form of webposted videos and podcasts. This one I recently found of him appearing on the CNN sh...
Posted by Derek on Thu, 10 Aug 2006 07:38:00 PST

From Coast to Coast, Help Bridge the Equality Gap

HELP BRIDGE THE GAP TO MARRIAGE EQUALITY IN THE U.S. On Saturday, June 3, 2006, Marriage Equality USA (MEUSA) and Marriage Equality New York (MENY) supporters will walk across the Brooklyn Bridge ...
Posted by Derek on Wed, 31 May 2006 12:52:00 PST

Same-Sex Marriage Debate

Hi everyone, this video I discovered while browsing on Google's video site... it's an hour and 1/2 long and well worth every minute. It's from a debate that took place in May 2004 at the National Cons...
Posted by Derek on Thu, 27 Apr 2006 05:22:00 PST