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Vita Sackville-West

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NOBLESSE OBLIGE
'I WORSHIPPED DEAD MEN FOR THEIR STRENGTH, FORGETTING I WAS STRONG.'

My name is Vita, actually Victoria Mary Sackville-West.

Born 1892, I was the only child of Lionel Edward, third Baron of Sackville, and Victoria Josepha Dolores Catalina Sackville-West, his first cousin and the illegitimate daughter of the diplomat Sir Lionel Sackville-West. We lived in Knole. Oh how I love its many faces! Its deep inward gaiety of some very old woman who has always been beautiful, who has had many lovers and seen many generations come and go …

In my childhood I was educated privately and I already started to write poetry. My first ballads date back to the age of 11. My Mum considered me ugly - in fact I was bony, had long legs, straight hair, and wanted to be as boyish as possible!

I love to write. It is necessary to write, if the days are not to slip emptily by. How else, indeed, to clap the net over the butterfly of the moment? For the moment passes, it is forgotten; the mood is gone; life itself is gone. That is where the writer scores over his fellows: he catches the changes of his mind on the hop. Growth is exciting; growth is dynamic and alarming. Growth of the soul, growth of the mind.

Have you read my books? At least one? I wrote quite a few novels. And poetry. Around 50 books I wrote... But spare me books that talk about travelling! Travel is the most private of pleasures. There is no greater bore than the travel bore. We do not in the least want to hear what he has seen in Hong-Kong.

Lately they discovered four of my letters that Virginia wrote me. Where? In a secret drawer of my ancient oak writing table at Sissinghurst Castle. Virginia knows. In one of them Virginia talks about the Jewish refugees Mela and Robert Spira, and the perils of traveling by automobile and airplane.


My long-time intimate correspondence with Virginia is my most precious writing. Oh Virginia, how I miss your beloved hand-written letters!

Sissinghurst Castle Kent
The land was originally owned by the De Saxingherstes until the family line died out in the 13th century. It was then owned by the De Berham family for more 200 years until Henry De Berham decided to move and sold it to Thomas Baker. It was his grandson John who made the first major developments. John who became known as 'bloody baker' for his part in the executions of hundreds of Protestants. He also came to be called 'the English Bluebeard'. With his increase in wealth and power he demolished the medieval house and had built a Tudor Courtyard House, it is known that Queen Mary once stayed there in 1557. This was then replaced by a once splendid mansion which was built in the 16th century for Sir Richard Baker John's son. It was one of the first houses in England to be constructed out of brick. In 1573 Queen Elizabeth I stayed there for three nights.

But by 1661 it had become neglected and remained so for the next 100 years. In 1756 the building was leased to the government for use a prison, during 'the seven year war' where the captured French were held. For a few years from 1794 it became a workhouse and not long after parts of the building were demolished leaving fragment of the former house which become barns, stables and cottages which labourers lived in.

Over the years Sissinghurst became more run down and if it was not for my husband Harold Nicolson and me rescuing it in 1930, it would of become a ruin. We brought it for our home and carefully restored the brick buildings and re opened the entrance archway. We also totally transformed the gardens between the old walls and buildings. Harold made the plans for the garden but I did all the work.

Now Sissinghurst is owned by the National Trust.

There are said to be a few ghosts at Sissinghurst including an apparition on the stairs and a peaceful looking monk who roams the gardens. Also footsteps and clicking noises are heard.

Sissinghurst Gardens

"These mild gentlemen and women who invade one's garden after putting their silver token into the bowl . . . are some of the people I most gladly welcome and salute. Between them and myself a particular form of courtesy survives, a gardener's courtesy, in a world where courtesy is giving place to rougher things."

I love gardens. And gardening. Sissinghurst was designed by me. OK my husband Harold gave a helping hand.. I simply fell in love with it when looking for an old house where I could make a new garden. I bought it plus 400 acres of farmland. I think every garden-maker should be an artist along his own lines. That is the only possible way to create a garden, irespective of size or wealth.

I also wrote articles on gardening that I contributed weekly for 16 years.

(Sissinghurst poppies)

The man who has planted a garden feels that he has done something for the good of the world.

The nuttery is a little grove of nut trees and said to be the only formal planting left from previous gardens. It is a beautiful place to visit, so peaceful and at the center you can see the Greek god, Dionysus forming a focal point.

The Tower! I love the isolation of this room. It's my sanctum, I hardly invite anyone up there.. I think I wrote about 20 books here: In this tiny little room are books, books and more books and pictures and the most unusual smell (history does smell right).


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My Interests

Knole, Sissinghurst, Writing, Gardening, Travelling, hot chicks..

I am glad to find that I can still be swept by a sensation I cannot logically explain to others; That I am still capable of an irrational passion, I who had grown so ordered, rational, I have established my contact with irrational humanity.



Oh all my lovers! Where have you gone? ... But Knole oh Knole, how I'm moved by your beauty's potency. You give my life..! You are my true, my one and only, my everlasting love!


I'd like to meet:


Music:

Pictures on the Radio
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Movies:

Portrait of a Marriage

Orlando (with Tilda Swinton, music: Jimmy Summerville

Books:

"Orlando"
by my beloved friend Virginia Woolf

I was the chief model for Orlando.

"Different though the sexes are, they inter-mix. In every human being a vacillation from one sex to the other takes place, and often it is only the clothes that keep the male or female likeness, while underneath the sex is very opposite of what it is above."

Virginia Woolf. Orlando.


My correspondence with Virginia (yes, you can read almost all of our intimate letters.. but the most intimate ones I was able to hide in some very secret place, naturelment!

The Letters of Vita Sackville-West and Virginia Woolf. Author Sackville-West, V; Woolf, V. / Edited by Louise DeSalvo and Mitchell A. Leaska

MY BOOKS:

POETRY

Poems of West and East (1917), Orchard and Vineyard (1921), The Land (1927)

The country habit has me by the heart, For he's bewitched for ever who has seen, Not with his eyes but with his vision, Spring Flow down the woods and stipple leaves with sun. ('Winter' from The Land)

NOVELS

Heritage (1919), Challenge (1923), The Edwardians (1930), All Passion Spent (1931)

Biographies/Other works

Knole and the Sackvilles (1922)

Pepita (1937), Saint Joan of Arc (1936), Daughter of France (1959), The Eagle and The Dove (1943), The Dark Island (1934), Grand Canyon (1942), The Garden(1946)

TRAVEL DIARY 1926:

What others wrote about me...:

Victoria Glendinning: Vita: The Life of V. Sackville-West (1983), Robert Cross and Ann Ravenscroft-Hulme: Vita Sackville-West: A Bibliography (Oak Knoll Press, 1999)

p and much more...

My Blog

Virginia & Leonard: both (wo)man of extremes

Virginia Woolf and her husband at the train station. She would rather die in the violent jolt of London than stay in the quiet Richmond. Leonard Woolf: A BiographyVictoria GlendinningAward...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Fri, 02 May 2008 01:30:00 PST

The Celluloid Closet

The Celluloid Closet directed by Jeffrey Friedman and Rob Epstein based on the book of Vito Russo. Interviews with Tom Hanks, Whoopi Goldberg, Tony Curtis, Shirley MacLaine, Harry ...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 03:25:00 PST

Portrait of a Marriage

http://maitresse.typepad.com/maitresse/vita_sackvillewest/in dex.html  ...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Sun, 27 Apr 2008 02:02:00 PST

Walter de la Mare - Tribute by Vita Sackville-West

summary: A tribute to Walter de la Mare originally broadcast in the BBC's Third Programme on the poet's 80th birthday.   full description X/19114. Sd.1. Other poets may command our interest affe...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Fri, 11 Apr 2008 01:35:00 PST

The Mood of Edwardian Society

The Mood of Edwardian High Society It could be said that Edwardian Britain belonged to another age, almost another world. The truth is that time plays havoc with the mind’s perception of things ...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 10:55:00 PST

Sissinghurst - view from the tower

  Sissinghurst - view from the tower - 1 Presented by Dave Parker The archway from the Tower Lawn to the circular lawn & Rose Garden in early Spring What a difference a month makes - the ...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 03:31:00 PST

Sissinghurst - South Cottage

  Sissinghurst - South Cottage - 1 Presented by Dave Parker The seat in this picture was Harold Nicolson’s - he used the ground floor of this cottage as a workroom. The first rose plante...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 03:27:00 PST

poemhunter

http://www.poemhunter.com/victoria-sackville-west/resources/ ...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:46:00 PST

Sun Pisces flying in the Sea of Time

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Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Tue, 25 Mar 2008 10:18:00 PST

I carteggi fra Violet e Vita

http://www.radio.rai.it/radio3/pensieridicarta/index.cfm"... I miei giorni si consumano nel desiderio di te, e le mie notti si spiegano in sogni insopportabili...ti voglio. Ti voglio avidamente, fren...
Posted by Vita Sackville-West on Fri, 21 Mar 2008 03:13:00 PST