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Stefanie (aka: cancer warrior)

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The best thing to do if you really want to know more about me and what I do is to GOOGLE my name.... Stefanie LaRue (aka: cancer warrior). HAPPY READING!
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I am a young advanced breast cancer survivor taking action to help prevent another young woman from being MISdiagnosed with such a devastating, life threatening disease.
I feel like kickin cancer's ass and taking all it's game! HA!!
First let me say that I posted this particular profile pic (that I took towards the end of my chemo treatments) to simply GET PEOPLE'S ATTENTION so that more may read the important, educational message that myself and so many of my peers are trying to spread. IT COULD BE LIFE SAVING FOR YOU or someone you know!!!
THIS JUST IN...
News Release
FOR IMMEDIATE REVIEW
L.A. Breast Cancer Activist Honored With Survivor Circle Award
Fairfax, Va., October 16, 2007 – The American Society for Therapeutic Radiology and Oncology is pleased to announce that Stefanie LaRue of Woodland Hills, Calif., has been selected as the 2007 Survivor Circle Award winner. Ms. LaRue will be presented with her award and a $1,000 cash prize on Sunday, October 28, 2007, at 8:00 a.m. at the Los Angeles Convention Center during ASTRO’s 49th Annual Meeting, which will take place October 28 through November 1 in Los Angeles.
The Survivor Circle Award recognizes a person living with cancer in the Los Angeles metropolitan area who has devoted his or her time to helping others who are living with cancer in their community. Ms. LaRue was diagnosed with Stage-4 Advanced/Metastatic Breast Cancer in 2005 at the age of 30. Before receiving her diagnosis, she was misdiagnosed by three doctors who told her that she probably had a breast infection because she was too “young and healthy” to have breast cancer. Ms. LaRue now devotes her time to educating men as well as women and the medical and insurance communities about diagnosing breast cancer and preventing misdiagnoses in women under the age of 40. “It is always inspiring to see a person who is diagnosed with a very devastating type of cancer at a young age turn that experience into an opportunity to educate and help others who are in a similar situation,” said Louis Harrison, M.D., a radiation oncologist at Beth Israel Medical Center in New York City and president of the Board of Directors for ASTRO. “Ms. LaRue’s dedication to her cause will hopefully raise awareness that breast cancer can strike at any age.”
According to the Young Survival Coalition, an international, nonprofit organization dedicated specifically to the issues and concerns of young women with breast cancer, there are more than 250,000 women in the U.S. under the age of 40 who are living with breast cancer; however, there is no effective screening tool for this age group.
Ms. LaRue founded the LaRue Foundation as a platform to build awareness of breast cancer in young women. Her mission is to prevent more women from being misdiagnosed strictly because of their age and not fitting “the profile”. She is a Project LEAD graduate and is actively involved in the Young Survival Coalition, American Cancer Society, Living Beyond Breast Cancer, Y-ME National Breast Cancer Organization, the Metastatic Breast Cancer Network, and the Los Angeles Breast Cancer Alliance, as well as other organizations. Ms. LaRue has also attended the National Breast Cancer Coalition Conference in Washington, D.C., testifying in front of Congress for the past two years as one of the youngest of 600 women lobbying for passage of the National Breast Cancer and Environmental Research Act. While receiving radiation therapy treatments at UCLA, Ms. LaRue was a participant in the award winning documentary “The Quiet War,” a movie profiling five diverse women living with Metastatic Breast Cancer. “I wish I would have heard about someone like me, at my age, getting breast cancer before I got sick,” Ms. LaRue said. “That is why I am so dedicated and passionate about truly branding breast cancer in younger women. There are new voices, new faces affected by this disease and people need to pay urgent attention to the message…this could happen to you, too!”
The Survivor Circle was established in 2003 as a way for ASTRO to give back to the cities that it visits during its Annual Meeting. Each year, ASTRO partners with two local organizations to establish relationships with patient advocacy organizations and radiation oncologists and to raise money to support these groups in their work to help people living with cancer and their loved ones. This year ASTRO has partnered with The Wellness Community – South Bay Cities and Vital Options International. The ASTRO Annual Meeting is the premier scientific meeting in radiation oncology and attracts more than 11,000 oncologists of all disciplines, physicists, biologists, nurses and other healthcare professionals from all over the world. The theme of this year’s meeting is “Treating Cancer while Preserving Quality of Life” and the program will promote interdisciplinary collaboration and the exchange of ideas, information and practical solutions for prevention, organ function preservation, treatment options and quality of life for patients.
For more information on Survivor Circle, the Survivor Circle Award or ASTRO’s 49th Annual Meeting, please visit www.astro.org. For more information on radiation therapy, please visit www.rtanswers.org.
If you would like an interview with Ms. LaRue please contact Beth Bukata at 703-839-7332 before October 26 or on site at 703-431-2332.
ASTRO is the largest radiation oncology society in the world, with 9,000 members who specialize in treating patients with radiation therapies. As the leading organization in radiation oncology, biology and physics, the Society is dedicated to improving patient care through education, clinical practice, advancement of science and advocacy.
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Ok, so I must say... THIS WAS A PRETTY COOL AWARD TO RECEIVE! Wanted to share this press release to insprire others to get more involved in advocacy and DO YOUR PART,however you can, in whatever field you choose. Words are not enough, action brings about change!

CNN interview 1/17/07

I can't tell you all enough how pleased I was that this interview made the front home page of CNN's website! HOW EXCITING!! It makes me feel so good to know that all of our combined efforts are paying off! Way to go cancer survivors!!! They are PAYING ATTENTION! I encourage you all to keep sending in your stories. THEY MUST BE HEARD!!! Again, it's wonderful that CNN felt this "topic" was newsworthy enough to move our interviews from the HEALTH section to the front home page. HOORAY!!
I am a Young Breast Cancer Warrior. I am focused on BCP&E... Breast Cancer PREVENTION and EDUCATION of younger women being diagnosed/misdiagnosed with breast cancer.
Breast Cancer is VERY real in women yonger than 40 years of age.
Quality of Life is extremely important, especially when you have been given a specific time period of survival (like me). I have chosen to live beyond that time frame and to do something of real signifigance.My mission is to educate the medical profession and general population about the possibility of a breast cancer diagnosis/MISdiagnosis in younger woman under the age of 40.
The sad reality is that at some point in your life, every one of us WILL be touched by breast cancer. If you already have, you know how terrible of a disease it really is, and you probably understand the seriousness of what we are trying to accomplish.
Pass this on to anyone and everyone that might want to help out with the cause.
Speaking of passing it on... I am now hosting my very own radio show called SPEAK ON! that is internet broadcasted on BIGMEDIAUSA.com The following link is an archive of my first show. I interviewed two of my fellow breast cancer sisters in which they graciously shared their personal stories. After logging on to this link, click on the Journey Circle tab (on the left) and then click on the SPEAK ON! link (on the right).
http://www.bigmediausa.com/show.asp?sid=473/
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Also... THE LATEST AND GREATEST FROM MY PHOTOGRAPHER FRIEND LANGDON
http://web.mac.com/mynameislangdon/iWeb/Site/stefanie%20laru e.html
Stefanie LaRue’s Bio:
Stefanie LaRue is a young survivor. Stefanie was diagnosed with Stage 4 Metastatic (advanced/life threatening) breast cancer. She was only 30 years old. She was given one year to live.
Two years later, Stefanie LaRue is very much alive. After aggressive chemotherapy, surgeries, radiation and physical therapy, Stefanie has emerged as a dedicated activist. She is focused on breast cancer prevention, early detection and education. She specifically concentrates on branding the awareness needed for breast cancer diagnosis/misdiagnosis in younger women under the age of 40 – a diagnosis that was previously unknown and unspoken. She feels as though the days of hearing “You’re too young to have breast cancer” are OVER!!!
She has become nationally known as the young breast cancer warrior, sharing her life in the award winning documentary, THE QUIET WAR, presented by Susan G. Komen for the Cure, and international documentary A DOG'S LIFE. Television appearances/interviews include CNN, NBC NEWS, FOX 11 NEWS GOOD DAY LA LIVE, KTLA Channel 5 NEWS, KVUE Austin, TX, Susan G. Komen’s NEWS FOR THE CURE, Lifetime’s Health Corner, The Hallmark Channel, INSTYLE Magazine and numerous radio, newspaper and internet broadcast radio interviews. Stefanie was also a spokeswoman for the 2007 Revlon Run/Walk campaign and has testified in front of congress on Capital Hill in Washington DC.
She is also a very active and proud member of the Young Survivors Coalition (YSC), Living Beyond Breast Caner (LBBC), a Project Lead Graduate through the National Breast Cancer Coalition (NBCC), Susan G. Komen for the Cure, Metastatic Breast Cancer Network (MBCN), San Antonio Breast Cancer Symposium (SABCS), California Breast Cancer Research Program (CBCRP), Los Angeles Breast Cancer Alliance (LABCA), board member of Y-ME National Organization and a member of the USC Norris Cancer Center’s Cancer Survivorship Advisory Counsel attending all annual conferences, events, fundraisers and meetings.
Stefanie is also the recipient of the 2007 (ASTRO) American Society of Therapeutic Radiation Oncology Survivorship Circle Award.
Stefanie has been invited as the honorary speaker for numerous special events including the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life events, Susan G. Komen’s Fashion for the Cure in Beverly Hills, USC’s Women’s Health Association meetings, USC’s College Campuses against Cancer event and the Heal Breast Cancer Foundation’s Awards Gala event. She is a patient navigator for several hospitals volunteering her time and guiding young women to case specific information and resources.
Stefanie is a passionate advocate, survivor, cancer sister, educator, volunteer, daughter, environmentalist, animal activist, sports enthusiasts, mother to her dog Milly, fashion model for print and runway, volleyball player, and a leading spokeswoman for a no-nonsense, real life. She is celebrating the woman she feels she was meant to become.
Stefanie, and women like her, are the new faces and voices of breast cancer.
The following pic is the DVD cover for a documentary that I shot this past summer (2006) about 5 women living with Metastatic breast cancer. To view more details about the film log onto...
http://www.affinityfilms.org/
Click on the following link to see that our film,THE QUIET WAR, WON the Reel Women in Film Festival here in Los Angeles this past March 2007. Again... HORRAAAY! It is so rewarding to know that there were over 2500 submissions in the documentary category and our film was selected to win. How prestigious!
Reel Women Film Festival of Los Angeles Program Book
MY STORY:
What you are about to read is a sumarized version of the journey that I have been on the last 16 months of my life. I hope you all feel my words in your hearts and share this experience and message with others. Here we go.
I was diagnosed in November 2005 with Stage 4 Metastatic (life threatening) Breast Cancer. I was given one year to live. I was only 30 years old. My family and I are still reeling from the shock of all this, as you can imagine, particularly because I was assured several times by my doctors that I was too young to have breast cancer. Guess what? I wasn't! I am writing this not only to share my story with you, but also in the hope that I might be able to help change the way the medical profession, insurance companies and people in general view breast cancer. It is one of my many goals to change the medical mark up and protocol for young women, allowing for possible early detection, diagnosis and treatment.
People generally think that breast cancer is a disease that affects only mom or grandma. Not so. Aggressive and life threatening breast cancers are infecting the younger generations, myself among them. For these reasons, we have a much lower survival rate. A Stage 4 Metastatic (life threatening) diagnosis means cancer cells have spread outside of the localized area (the breast), beyond the lymph nodes and into the body’s bloodstream. From there the cancer cells can attach, host, and attack any part of the body at any time by invading bones or organs or both. Who is really educated on this subject? More importantly, who is paying attention? Sadly, not many. This misguided view of breast cancer drastically affected my battle with the disease, and I am not the first to be overlooked in such a manner. That is why I feel compelled to do my part to help deliver the message about breast cancer diagnosis/MISdiagnosis in younger women. In my case, a one month earlier detection could have made a life changing/saving difference.
On Saturday evening, October 15, 2005, a gentleman I was dating at the time found a lump in my right breast. He immediately brought it to my attention and expressed his concern that I see a doctor right away. I have to admit I was surprised not just by his discovery, but by the fact that I had not discovered it before. For the rest of the weekend I couldn’t forget about the lump. I found myself constantly rubbing, mashing, and massaging my breast trying to figure out how it's exact size. I started to worry about the possibilities of what it could be.
On Monday I called the doctor’s office that was listed on my insurance card. Because I was a new patient (no records of prior illness because of good health) they couldn’t get me in right away, so my appointment was set five days later on Friday, October 21st. After my doctor examined me he had a look of uncertainty that I found unsettling. He actually asked if I had been bitten on my breast. After somewhat amazedly confirming that he was referring to a sexual bite, I answered him with a quick NO. He then explained that some women get what is called Mastitis, which typically occurs in breast-feeding mothers. He said that while rare, some “non-mothers†? do get Mastitis. I asked him about the possibility of this being breast cancer. He said I was too young and healthy looking and added that breast cancer is generally not painful or sensitive to the touch like what I was experiencing. He also stated that my mass did not fit the profile as it was not a defined lump. Naturally I agreed because I was taking good care of myself, eating healthfully, and working out. Still uncertain about my condition he prescribed an antibiotic and Vicodin for the pain, telling me to call him in a week if I didn’t feel better.
A week later I didn’t feel any better. I was running a low-grade fever every day at work and having hot flashes (didn’t know what those were at the time but certainly do now!) I was having EXTREME pain in my right breast and surrounding area, and was starting to notice my nipple retracting. That was unsettling. I had to show this to my doctor. Upon my return, he examined me again still believing what I had was Mastitis. I told him that it was strange but in those 10 days I was certain the lump had grown. He didn’t seem to agree after examining it once more but recommended I see this cancer surgeon who had operated on his father. He told me that he trusted this man with his father’s life when he had cancer and was certain that I would be in good hands. He then emailed the cancer surgeon explaining my situation and that I should see him right away. This began my nightmare.
By the time I got in to see the surgeon my symptoms had worsened. I asked my mom to drive in from out of town to attend this appointment with me, as I had faced the prior ones alone. I could tell she too was really starting to worry about the lump, regardless of the message that my primary care doctor was sending that I was too young to have breast cancer. After measuring my lump at 4 centimeters, the surgeon said exactly the same thing and sent me home with more antibiotics and Vicodin. I ended up going home with three different rounds of antibiotics and no tests. I could feel this so called “infection� growing inside of me and continued to express my concern to my doctors. I felt like they were not listening to me, but because they didn’t seem to be worried I kept telling myself that it was nothing serious. So wrong.
After returning once more to see my surgeon with no improvement, he scheduled an ultra sound. A large, inflamed mass was identified. The head of radiology came into my room to double check the tech’s results. He then asked me to get dressed and to come into his office for discussion. My nerves were twisted. He showed me my x-rays on the light boards and explained that though the mass was rather large, 4.6 centimeters large, and that it looked like I had a lot of inflamation, he felt strongly that it looked like a breast infection. Wrong again! This was doctor number three.
I finally had an incisional biopsy (that I felt I really had to push for), yet even in the recovery room I was told again by my surgeon that he doubted it was breast cancer. He believed it was just some kind of rare, strange, unusual breast infection. I was also told that the lab was probably going to take some time in getting back to me, because if he didn’t know what it was then the lab would probably not be able to identify it immediately either. Another incorrect assumption. Much to my surprise, two days later on my way to work I received a phone call from my doctor’s office asking me to come in at an hour's notice. She briefly explained that some of my test results had come back and my doctor wanted to see me. I phoned my mom excitedly believing that the NEGATIVE cancer results were already back and that it was indeed just what all of my doctors had thought… a breast infection.
On Tuesday, November 22, 2005 while sitting alone, I was told that I had a very aggressive kind of breast cancer. I went into shock! I immediately thought I was going to die. My cancer surgeon read from my pathology report these 20 letter words that I have never heard of nor could I comprehend in those moments. I knew that by the look in his eyes what he was reading to me was very serious. If I had known that I was to receive these kind of results I would have not gone to this appointment alone, but I was not prepared by anyone for this possibility. My doctor asked me if there was anyone I needed to call. I said, "I need YOU to call my mom at work and tell her what you have just told me because I can't say these words to her". At that moment I couldn't even say the word "cancer" much less tell someone that I had cancer. Still in shock, I remained composed until I heard my mom’s voice. I could not hold back anymore and the tears started pouring. I told her to sit down and my doctor was going to tell her something. I could feel her heart pounding through the phone with mine. I felt her panic. He began to tell her of my diagnosis. She cried out in tears. Her heart was broken. That is when I began to feel numb. My mom hung up and my doctor asked if there was anyone else to call. After experiencing his cold bed-side manner (time and time again), and how he handled the call to my mom, I decided that it was best for me to handle the call to the man I had been dating who would become my boyfriend. My mom said she would call my dad and the rest of the family in Texas while driving my way. My surgeon walked me back to the front reception area and told his assistant that she needed to call and get me in “STAT� for a Bone Scan, CT/PET scan, chest X-Rays, Blood work and an MRI. Hearing my surgeon use the word “STAT� gave me the shakes. The reality of my situation flooded me with anxiety. I wanted to cry so badly but felt I couldn’t until I walked myself to my car and then it would be ok to let go. That’s exactly what I did.
Sitting in my car in the parking garage, I called my boyfriend and asked him to please meet me at my apartment ASAP. He knew. He could hear it in my voice. I tried to stay strong because I knew I had to somehow drive myself home in one piece after hearing this life threatening diagnosis. Driving back to my apartment alone was extremely challenging. My vision was blurred by the tears that constantly filled my eyes. Once I arrived, I fell on my couch and completely fell apart. I sat there in the dark and cried with amazement that something like this could happen to me. I say this because all I knew of breast cancer was that it happened to OLDER women. NOT women in their thirties. I had never heard of someone my age getting breast cancer. The more I thought about what I was told, the harder I cried. My stomach was turned inside out. Twenty minutes later my boyfriend walked in, took one look at me, began crying, and held me. He held me for what seemed like eternity. He didn’t want to let go. I told him of my diagnosis and that I would completely understand if he needed to leave. Leave ME that is. I gave him that option because I knew this was something he did not sign up for (of course nor did I). This was my battle to fight and I already knew that it would be a heartbreaking one to witness. Completely devoted, HE STAYED!
Upon my mom’s arrival at my apartment she walked in and hugged my so tightly as to never let go again. She cried out in sorrow, “Not my angel baby, please not her, take me instead, please take me instead, this is not how it’s supposed to happen�. I have never seen my mom cry as she did that day. My dad and grandma flew in from Texas that night sharing the same emotions and shedding the same tears.
Less than 48 hours away was Thanksgiving Day. I told my boyfriend (who informed my friends) as well as my family that I did not want ANY cancer discussion. I wanted the day to be festive and fun, not depressing with sadness and tears. Besides, my Dallas Cowboys were playing that day and that game is something me and my family look forward to every year. And it was as I wished.
Friday, the day after Thanksgiving, it was time to go back to work. Not to my current job but to the hospital. I had my first CT/PET scan. The following Monday I was scheduled for a bone scan. Tuesday I had extensive blood work and an appointment with the gynecologist due to 2 weeks of irregular bleeding. The first thought by all was my cancer had spread to my ovaries. A vaginal ultrasound proved negative for cancer. Thank goodness! Wednesday I had a 2 hour full body MRI. MISERY!! Especially when you are closter phobic! It was also a day of results from my oncologist. Sitting in my oncologist office with my boyfriend, family, and best friend present, I was told there was a spinal lesion on my T12 vertebrae. If in fact this proved to be cancer I was given one year to live, if i was lucky. My oncologist then scheduled a “STAT� (there’s that word again!) spinal bone biopsy for Friday. My nerves were on edge. I needed a second opinion ASAP!
After being referred to a highly credible breast cancer surgeon (by my boss’ wife who had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer) at a leading breast cancer center I was immediately scheduled for multidisciplinary consultations. After three frustrating days of trying to find out my spinal bone biopsy results from my first oncologist, the current nurse practitioner said that she would call over and get the results for me. She did just that! Unfortunately, she had to be the bearer of bad news. I was upgraded to Stage 4 with bone mets. The cancer had spread beyond my breast into my lymph nodes and spine. The visions that invaded my mind were so horrific! Again, I felt sick to my stomach. Now I am really going to die. I thought about getting my affairs in order and writing a will. After all, this was the clear message that I was receiveing from the doctors. Then I said to myself, “wait a minute, I am only thirty years old! This can’t be happening�. Sadly, it was. It seemed bad news was never-ending that day.
Within three weeks I started chemotherapy. By that time my lump measured over 8 centimeters. My tumors were a constant reminder of the cancer that had invaded my body. For that reason, I welcomed the chemo. Prior to starting chemo, I had a direct line portocath inserted into my left arm. Thank goodness again because my hands and arms were bruised and my veins collapsed and ripped from constant attempts and insertions of IV and shot needles. Chemo treatments consisted of six hour infusions, three weeks apart, for six months. First week post treatment I developed a neutropenic fever. I was rushed to the emergency room where I spent 10 hours experiencing hallucinations, 104 fever, and excruciating body and bone pain. The kind of bone and joint pain I felt was absolutely UNBEARABLE! I will just say this: I was in SO MUCH PAIN that I did not want to be alive experiencing it any further. I was ready to “check out". My white blood cells had dropped to 0.0! I had NO protection to fight any germs, yet, I was in the ER for 10 hours with nothing but sick people. The ER doctors said they had never seen anyone’s white blood cells “bottom out� to 0 the way mine did and especially at the rate in how fast they dropped. I was admitted to a high level quarantined room for the next three days over Christmas. Only my mom and boyfriend could visit me. No other visitors or any deliveries (flowers/balloons, etc.) were allowed in my room because of possible germ transmission. Due to my white blood cell count bottoming out, it was ordered that everything and everyone who was allowed in my room was sterile. Being quarantined for seven days following future infusions was now mandatory. Because of severe dehydration due to diarrhea and vomiting, Hydration treatments were also added to my regimen.
Some of the intolerable side effects of chemo included nausea, vomiting, lack of appetite, severe diarrhea, and body cramps. Loss of memory from “chemo brain� was the most frustrating and embarrassing side effect. By this time, I had dropped 20 pounds. I couldn’t taste anything for the thick coating of toxins on my tongue. I developed hemorrhoids from the severe constipation due to the Vicodin for pain management. As an added bonus, the chemo forced my body into early menopause. With this came (and are still present) blazing hot flashes, drenching night sweats, and grave insomnia. I was told that I could never have children because the presence of estrogen in my body would feed my cancer. My doctors warned me that if I did get pregnant while under going treatment, either decision made, I would probably die. I was emotionally devastated. I wondered how people could live through this. I now know first hand it is truly mind over matter.
I spent my 31st birthday in February 2006 participating at the Young Survivor Coalition (YSC) conference in Denver. There I found many other women close to my age living with breast cancer but few with Stage 4. I was relieved in a sense because I felt so lost and alone after my diagnosis. The YSC is specifically geared toward and focused on women who are diagnosed at 40 years of age or younger. This is the only organization that exists for young women like me. I had just finished my third round of chemo and of course was still bald at the time. I was relieved to be among many, many other young faces and bald heads. I needed to relate to someone that truly understood what I was going through because they were living through the same nightmare.
In May 2006, I was given the opportunity to attend the National Breast Cancer Coalition Conference (NBCC) in Washington DC. There I learned of the NBCC’s Agenda, exactly what it stood for, and what it meant for me. While on Capitol Hill, I met with numerous Congressmen and women sharing my story and lobbying to pass the National Breast Cancer and Environmental Research Act (HR 2231) which is top priority on the NBCC’s Agenda. By choosing to go bald (without my wig) it is my belief I made a strong impact on Congress members as well as my fellow cancer sisters. I was one of the youngest of 600 women attending this conference. There are now 234 members in the House and 64 Senators signed on to this bill. My efforts paid off. My face was remembered. My voice was heard.
For me, a price was paid. While in Washington my legs, ankles and feet began to swell. At times, I found it very difficult to walk. Upon my return home to Los Angeles, I was wheel chaired from plane to plane because of connecting flights. By the time I landed back in LAX, my feet no longer looked like my own. The change in altitude had taken its toll. The damage was done. I suffered from a serious form of Edema. I was immediately put on bed rest and given a prescription of sexy compression tights (to wear for 3 months) of which I still have to wear today when flying. Now after surviving two surgeries, the removal of a tumor over 4 centimeters, and 20 lymph nodes, I am now classified as NED: No Evidence of Disease. YAAAAAAAAAYYYYY!!!
In closing, it is critical I share my experiences and knowledge with as many other daughters, sisters and girlfriends, whose lives have been sent into turmoil by a breast cancer diagnosis. Cancer knows no color, age, or sex. It has no boundaries. This happened to me, and it can happen to anyone. It has changed my life forever. I want to help deliver the message, young women CAN and DO get breast cancer! Statistically, cases in younger women are on the rise, a fact that contradicts the established notion that women under 40, rarely, if ever, get this disease. Breast Cancer is the leading cause of cancer death in women ages 15–54. I have been told by my doctors it is not a question of "IF" the cancer reoccurs, it is a question of HOW, WHEN, and WHERE it reoccurs. They said to me and my family "It is all about Stefanie having quality of life for the time she has left".b
My passion is to be a spokeswoman for myself and other young women living with Breast Cancer. It is imperative we be our own advocates in this battle and make our own choices. While lecturing at charity fund raisers, events, hospitals, high schools and universities I want to be a voice that is heard and a face that is not forgotten. I want to give hope to young women and insight to the uneducated. I am a young cancer warrior with the power of pink on my side!
Please help me educate others by forwarding my story/message. Help me to prevent another young woman from being misdiagnosed. It could save a life. Join me in my efforts to be a vehicle that creates an awareness and a better understanding for this unnecessary loss of life. Together we can make a difference.
Thank you for YOUR TIME, compassion and consideration.
Sincerely,
Stefanie LaRue
Stefanie LaRue's Stats:
Currently 32 years of age
DX 11/22/05 at age 30
Stage 4 Metastatic
Her2 negative
ER positive
PR negative
8+ cm primary tumor
Neoadjuvant chemo: TAC (Taxotere, Adriomysin, Cytoxin)
2 right lumpectomies
20 lymph nodes removed, 4 positive
7 weeks radiation
Reconstruction
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PDC: Prevent, Detect, Cure!
I consider myself a warrior! What is the definition of a warrior? One who is engaged in or experienced in battle.
One who is engaged aggressively or energetically in an activity, cause, or conflict. This, is me.

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KVUE News, Austin, TX 10/09/07
They are breast cancer survivors, including Stefanie LaRue, 32. “Younger women can and do get this, too,” said LaRue. She was diagnosed with stage four ...
http://www.kvue.com/news/top/stories/100907kvuebreastcancer- cb.154b02702.html

FOX 11 NEWS GOOD DAY LA LIVE with Jillian, Dorthy and Steve 10/27/06
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Stefanie LaRue Shares Her Tale of Survival
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My interests include the following:
Raising awareness about the unique needs of young women who are battling breast cancer. Women diagnosed in their 20s and 30s face unique challenges with treatment, fertility, child care issues, work, financial obstacles, sexuality and relationships.

Advocacy: outreach to the local, state, and national governments to pass and fully support the Breast Cancer and Environmental Research Act Bill (HR2231).

Environmentally safe, chemical free products. For example: FOOD, toiletries, cosmetics, clothing, household, and interior home furnishings

Research: investigating and conducting studies about what contributing factors from the environment cause breast cancer.

MY TOP BREAST CANCER RESOURCE LINKS:
Dr. Susan Love's Breast Book... THIS BOOK IS THE BREAST BIBLE!!!

Young Survival Coalition: EXCELLENT (and the only) organization specifically for young women under the age of 40 diagnosed with breast cancer
http://www.youngsurvival.org/

National Breast Cancer Coalition: Grassroots Advocacy in Action
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Now, where my HEART lies...
As many of you may know, I am a HUGE animal lover and I am quickly becoming an animal activist too! NOTHING breaks my heart more than to hear stories of animals who have been abused and/or neglected or whom have been put to death in tourchering ways. It simply makes me sick to my stomach! I am a very passionate supporter when it comes to animal rights... which at this time, they have none. WE, as a society, NEED TO CHANGE THIS!!! ESPECIALLY after what has happened with the enourmous pet food RECALL in which hundreds of animals have died. What recourse do pet owners as well as the suffering animals have? NONE! WHY?? Because animals are still considered "property". Well... MY DOGS ARE CONSIDERED FAMILY and are treated as so! And so I say...

A PRAYER FOR THE ANIMALS
Hear our humble prayer, O God, for our friends the animals, especially for any that are hunted or lost or deserted or frightened or hungry; for all that will be put to death. And, for those who deal with them we ask a heart of compassion and gentle hands and kindly words.

Make us, ourselves, to be true friends to animals and so to share the blessings of the merciful.

Until one has loved an animal, part of one's soul remains unawakened. - Anatole France

THE STAMP... PLEASE READ the following story and follow the instructions at the end! Thank You.
Like most elementary schools, it was typical to have a parade of students in and out of the health clinic throughout the day. We dispensed ice for bumps and bruises, Band-Aids for cuts, and liberal doses of sympathy and hugs. As principal, my office was right next door to the clinic, so I often dropped in to lend a hand and help out with the hugs. I knew that for some kids, mine might be the only one they got all day.
One morning I was putting a Band-Aid on a little girl's scraped knee. Her blonde hair was matted, and I noticed that she was shivering in her thin little sleeveless blouse. I found her a warm sweatshirt and helped her pull it on. "Thanks for taking care of me," she whispered as she climbed into my lap and snuggled up against me.
It wasn't long after that when I ran across an unfamiliar lump under my arm. Cancer, an aggressively spreading kind, had already invaded thirteen of my lymph nodes. I pondered whether or not to tell the students about my diagnosis. The word breast seemed so hard to say out loud to them, and the word cancer seemed so frightening.
When it became evident that the children were going to find out one way or another, either the straight scoop from me or possibly a garbled version from someone else, I decided to tell them myself. It wasn't easy to get the words out, but the empathy and concern I saw in their faces as I explained it to them told me I had made the right decision. When I gave them a chance to ask questions, they mostly wanted to know how they could help. I told them that what I would like best would be their letters, pictures and prayers.
I stood by the gym door as the children solemnly filed out. My little blonde friend darted out of line and threw herself into my arms. Then she stepped back to look up into my face. "Don't be afraid, Dr. Perry," she said earnestly, "I know you'll be back because now it's our turn to take care of you.
No one could have ever done a better job. The kids sent me off to my first chemotherapy session with a hilarious book of nausea remedies that they had written. A video of every class in the school singing get-well songs accompanied me to the next chemotherapy appointment. By the third visit, the nurses were waiting at the door to find out what I would bring next. It was a delicate music box that played "I Will Always Love You."
Even when I went into isolation at the hospital for a bone marrow transplant, the letters and pictures kept coming until they covered every wall of my room. Then the kids traced their hands onto colored paper, cut them out and glued them together to make a freestanding rainbow of helping hands. "I feel like I've stepped into Disneyland every time I walk into this room," my doctor laughed. That was even before the six-foot apple blossom tree arrived adorned with messages written on paper apples from the students and teachers. What healing comfort I found in being surrounded by these tokens of their caring.
At long last I was well enough to return to work. As I headed up the road to the school, I was suddenly overcome by doubts. What if the kids have forgotten all about me? I wondered, What if they don't want a skinny bald principal? What if I caught sight of the school marquee as I rounded the bend. "Welcome Back, Dr. Perry," it read. As I drew closer, everywhere I looked were pink ribbons - ribbons in the windows, tied on the doorknobs, even up in the trees. The children and staff wore pink ribbons, too.
My blonde buddy was first in line to greet me. "You're back, Dr. Perry, you're back!" she called. "See, I told you we'd take care of you!" As I hugged her tight, in the back of my mind I faintly heard my music box playing . . . "I will always love you."

Subject: Breast Cancer Stamp Booklet
We need those of you who are great at forwarding on information with your e-mail network. Please read and pass this on. It would be wonderful if 2007 were the year a cure for breast cancer was found!!!! This is one email you should be glad to pass on. The notion that we could raise $35 million by buying a book of stamps is powerful! As you may be aware, the US Postal Service recently released its new "Fund the Cure" stamp to help fund breast cancer research. The stamp was designed by Ethel Kessler of Bethesda , Maryland . It is important that we take a stand against this disease that affects so many of our Mothers, Sisters and Friends. Instead of the normal 39 cents for a stamp, this one costs 45 cents The additional 6 cents will go to breast cancer research A "normal" book costs $7.80. This one is only $9.00. It takes a few minutes in line at the Post Office and means so much. If all stamps are sold, it will raise an additional $35,000,000 for this vital research. Just as important as the money is our support. What a statement it would make if the stamp outsold the lottery this week What a statement it would make that we care. I urge you to do two things TODAY:

1. Go out and purchase some of these stamps.
2. E-mail your friends to do the same.

Many of us know women and their families whose lives are turned upside-down by breast cancer. It takes so little to do so much in this drive. We can all afford the $1.20. Please help & pass it on.

OTHER INTERESTS include volleyball, concerts, movies, softball, reading, running, rollerblading, hiking, jet skiing, dancing, horseback riding, racing doonbuggies and traveling.

Did you know?....

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I'd like to meet:

(and go on their shows!!)... OPRAH, Al Gore, Tyra, Ellen, Dr.Phil, Activists/Advocates, breast cancer survivors, people who are "HIGH ON HOPE" and want to IMPACT others and make a difference in this world. I would like to "meet-n-teach" politicians, medical professionals and the general public to educate and help prevent another young breast cancer diagnosis/MISdiagnosis (like myself) from occuring.

God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.

Your Boobies' Names Are...
Elvis Boobie Name Generator

Music:


Audra Mae, Melissa Etheridge, Stevie Nicks and Fleetwood Mac, Pink Floyd, The Eagles, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Joe Cocker, The Fray, Kieth Urban, Sarah McLachlan, Bon Jovi, Christina Aguilera Justin Timberlake, Josh Grobin, Stained, Coldplay, Goldfrapp, Sugarland, Martina McBride, Carrie Underwood, Brooks and Dunn

Movies:

An Inconvenient Truth (documentary with Al Gore), My Life, My Life Without Me, Life as a House, Can I Get a Life... (just kidding!), Sweet November, Blood Diamond (Djamon is brilliant with his intense performance), Casino Royal (LOVE Daniel Craig!!), Closer (Clive Owen is DELICIOUS!!!), The Inside Man (Clive again), Mystic River, Primal Fear (GO Ed Norton), Braveheart, Terms of Endearment, Steel Magnolias, The Last of the Mohikans, Heat, Rain Man, Dangerous Beauty, 9 1/2 Weeks, Wild Orchid

Television:

Entourage, Rescue Me, House, Grey's Anatomy, Deadwood, 24, Lost, Southpark (thanks T for the intro), Rockstar Supernova

Books:

Dr. Susan Love's Breast Book (my BIBLE), Conversations with God, It's Not About the Bike, The Alchemist, In Cold Blood (thanks again T)

Heroes:

THOSE WHO SPEAK OUT AND TELL THE TRUTH
THOSE WHO FIGHT FOR A CAUSE
THOSE WHO HAVE ALTERNATIVE VIEWS
People who make a difference like activist/advocate Dr. Susan Love.
Animal Activists
Both of my grandmothers... VERY strong women
My dog/child Milly for being a survivor through all that she has endured in a very short amount of time (like me) She helped save me, she has helped heal me and she has brought such joyful happiness back into my life.
My mother: its hard not to shed a tear when thinking of this horrific diagnosis and all that we have been through, separated and together
My Integrated Oncologist Dr. Kenneth Conklin: I strongly believe he has TRULY HELPED SAVE MY LIFE! I salute the rest of my oncology team of doctors, nurses and even the administration staff at the UCLA Revlon Breast Cancer Center, the radiation department and the Tedd Mann Center for their excellence in quality care, never ending kindness and for always greeting me with a smile!
Angelina Jolie: She is inspirational for young single women (like myself) to have a different outlook on having a family by adopting children (especially when you may not be able to have them naturally)
Fran Visco, President of the National Breast Cancer Coalition (what a DYNAMIC woman!!)
Kim Zander (34), Marcela Vargas (31), Sandrine (31) and Maria (Ree) Bruno (read article below): may you all sleep peacefully with the angels........
ARTICLE TO READ:
Girls and Their Dogs
Stefanie LaRue and my sister Maria (Ree) Bruno
Stefanie LaRue was on GoodDay LA this morning spreading the word about her discovery of a lump, then multiple misdiagnoses of, and finally her actual diagnosis and battle with Stage 4 breast cancer. Her story is similar to my sister Maria's in that she had been misdiagnosed for years (likely due to a misconception about likelihood of cancer in younger women). That misconception is a big part of Stefanie's message, which has been in the back of my (and I'm sure in the rest of my family's) mind as to whether or not it could've made the difference in saving my sister's life. Stefanie is now classified as NED: No Evidence of Disease after having courageously faced an onslaught of difficult surgeries mixed in with rounds of chemotherapy. There's nothing so wonderful as to watch her vitality as she begins a likely lifelong dedication towards bringing attention to such a worthy cause. She truly is a fighter, a warrior! ReeRee was too. Go Stefanie!
posted by T Bruno Jr at 10:14 PM

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FACE LIFT for my profile

Hello everyone! Just wanted to let all who read this that I am FINALLY  updating my profile. Yes, I  know it has been too long but better late than never right!?! I have good reasons why I ...
Posted by Stefanie (aka: cancer warrior) on Fri, 02 Nov 2007 06:51:00 PST

Check out this event: Breast Cancer Education

Hosted By: Los Angeles Breast Cancer Alliance Los Angeles Breast Cancer AllianceWhen: Thursday Oct 11, 2007 at 7:00 PMWhere: Wilshire Boulevard Temple11661 Olympic BoulevardLos Angeles, CA 90024United...
Posted by Stefanie (aka: cancer warrior) on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 10:02:00 PST

Updating my profile...

Please be patient with me as I have been traveling quite a bit for the past four months which explains (or at least gives me a good excuse) why I have not so much as checked my emails, updated my...
Posted by Stefanie (aka: cancer warrior) on Tue, 12 Dec 2006 03:48:00 PST

Another BIG day on my road to recovery!

Today is a very special day for me. I officially graduated from radiation and received my diploma. YAAAY!! I am sooooo very happy to have completed my seven weeks of  treatment! I wanted to celeb...
Posted by Stefanie (aka: cancer warrior) on Fri, 25 Aug 2006 12:15:00 PST

HOT IN COMPRESSION TIGHTS!!!

WOW!! What a day today! Another one survived!!...
Posted by Stefanie (aka: cancer warrior) on Wed, 28 Jun 2006 09:41:00 PST