Alex Bio "A Woman is Born, Not Made, Regardless of Original Physical Gender" - Hi, I'm known on the TG scene as Alex T'Girl, and I won the Miss TG Scotland title in 2004. My new life embraces the clubbing scene at weekends where I can, with me having been to many of the top UK and Ibiza clubs of late. I love House/Trance/Electro tunes and mixes. OK, to get onto my bio details and past life: I'm now separated from my former Wife who was very much my soul mate, and have two fab young children from a lovely 17 year marriage who I still thankfully see on a regular basis. At the moment I'm a full time pre-op Transsexual woman from Scotland, UK, but my gender reasignment surgery is due on the 17th November 2008. I had minor facial surgery done recently on my brow ridge, but have retained my main features as naturaly born. I'm now into my 40's, 5'10' in height, weight about 155 pounds, and love everything about being the woman I should have been at birth. I'm now working as a Female Manager within the rather macho Construction Industry, which I used to work in as a male. I have known from as early as four years old that I was different from the average boy at School. I remember watching the girls playing dressing up games in the Wendy Houses, and very much wanting to join in, and be one of the girls. The pressure even at that age to conform and only do boyish things was so strong, that I went off on the male track of life which society in general expects. So I went through life trying to be as masculine as I could, and even managed to be picked half way through the line up of boys for football rather than being last. This had been a great achievement for someone who would rather have been a girl. I never totally managed to achieve the full macho male persona, and had to put up with the odd gay boy chants, and even received a beating in the 80's for looking too much like a girl during my New Romantic stage. I dressed in my Mothers clothes in secret when ever I had the chance all through my teenage years. I always fantasized about being a girl, and dressing up in pretty dresses. I even cryed, and wished before going to sleep at night that I would be magically transformed into a girl before I woke up the next day. The dressing urge did fall dormant for a few years when I became very interested in girls sexually. I never really managed to get off with girls in the same way as other guys, because I think I came across more as being one of the girls when in their company. I had also been told by a previous girlfriend that I was just too nice, and that we should just be friends! I never could work out when seeing a lovely looking girl whether I wanted to be with her, or be her? I married the woman I fell in love with, but kept the girly side a secret for a long time until one day she found my feminine stash by accident. All hell broke loose, and we almost split up at that time over the find. However, with gender consultant help, a lot of talking and understanding between both of us, we started to get through life together again. It had been very hard for us both, but she did allow me to explore my feminine side, although she took nothing to do with this side of my lifestyle. Sadly, my wife couldn't take living with a partner transitioning into another woman, and we agreed to move off to live our own lives. I'm on a continual feminine journey of discovery, which means I'm becoming more feminine in nature as time passes. I am a sensual girl who doesn't like to show what I still have of my maleness, which I hope to correct one day soon. As I said earlier I love dancing all night to House, Trance, and Electro dance tunes, and have been to the top clubs mostly in the north of the UK, and Ibiza on holiday with my best friend Steffi. I also love having sexy (but clean) pics taken of me, and I'm glad to share some of them with you here at Myspace. You can see more of my pics at the Flickr photos link below. Enjoy. Love, Alex. xxx
The Journey. -
I ask ‘what's life all about', for I don't have a clue? A journey full of ups and downs in search of something new.
The path twists and turns with choice of junctions forming my way. Where wrong decisions leave me climbing mountains come what may.
My destination is still very unclear. For no one lights up the paths for you my dear!
The road of ignorance and misunderstanding can be hard going at times. With no warnings given by bigots who have set their mines!
Friendships have been gained with a lot of good people along the way. I hope they with my family will be the ones to help me find peace one day.
Alex T'Girl.
My Flickr Photo page, Personal Bebo Site, and Blogger's Blogspot URL's =
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Alex Tgirl http://alextgirl.bebo.com/
MySpaceTV Videos: Alex Interview at Hide and Sleek 2005. by Alex
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids....
A basic video interview with Alex by Stephen at hide and Sleek. Sadly the picture and sound quality is poor, but worth a listen and watch all the same if interested in Transgendered issues.