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Reticence

Defunct Toggle Rockers

About Me

Reticence is defined as being "inclined to keep one's personal affairs to oneself." In the band Reticence, music is an outlet to express the otherwise unexpressable. Reticence has a focus on building community and tries to create music that helps people cope and relate. Some songs will delve into interpersonal events while others tell fictional stories to expose idiosyncrasies amidst our culture.Stylistically the music often crescendos from mellow to intense and back again while always keeping an emphasis on melody.

PUBLISHED PRESS QUOTES
“…ReMedial has a smooth, easy feel with flashes of crunchy guitar breaks and syncopated rhythms, a sound that reflects their urge to create something that reaches out to those who don’t necessarily have an expressive platform.”
- Jennifer Whigham, The Pulse, Dec. 7, 2005
“…ReMedial [is] a crunchy, melodic alt-rock disc that welds delicate vocals with searing guitars — sort of like Muse but without all those operatic flourishes.
- Ross Raihala, Pioneer Press, Dec. 8, 2005
“Pretty powerful stuff...”
- Chris Riemenschneider, Star Tribune Dec. 9, 2005

“…the track that will perk up most twentysomethings' ears is "Up Up Down Down," a serene love song encrypted in a video game trick. …If that ain't the most sincere sign of young love, I don't know what is.”
- Lindsey Thomas, City Pages, Dec. 9, 2005
Reticence 21+ CD Release Party: A-List Recommended Event
(Includes Bill Mike article!)
- City Pages, Dec. 9, 2005
“…Reticence knows when to rock and knows when to let the melody and lyrics do the work. ReMedial is a smart album from a group who knows a thing or two about songwriting and has plans to go places.”
(Includes interview with singer Jesse Norell)
- Greg Swan, PerfectPorridge.com, Jan. 10, 2006

“Toggling between pretty crunch-guitar melodies and soft emo-punk ballads, ReMedial is sequenced beautifully with a welcome aural cohesiveness”
- Gentry Boekel, Rift Magazine, January 2006 (full article not available online)
May 12, 2006 7th Street Entry Show: Hot Ticket
"Their debut disc, ReMedial, featured at least one sterling silver track in the 8-bit videogame ode 'Up Up Down Down.'"
- Steve McPherson, The Pulse, May 9, 2006
"Amiable local rockers Reticence team up with a pair of other acts who are flying under the radar — the Icy Shores and the Amber Estate..."
- Ross Raihala, Pioneer Press, May 11, 2006
"They have taken Sunny Day Real Estate, stripped away that band’s penchant for baroque weirdness and patched David Bazan’s (aka Pedro The Lion) ear for a catchy melody in its place." "[Jesse Norell] is officially the nicest person I have ever met."
- Pat O'Brien, HowWasTheShow.com, May 14, 2006
INTERVIEW QUOTE
“Reticence’s music is very dynamic with swelling, mellow interludes that lead into heavy rock parts. What seems to be consistent is an emphasis on melody. Their songs are often strangely both complicated and singable.”
– Sam Keenan, Misplaced Music Radio Program Director

My Interests

Music:

Member Since: 5/4/2005
Band Website: reticencemusic.com
Band Members: Jesse plays guitars and sings frequently. Kristof plays bass and sings from time to time. Kyle plays drums and puts our stuff on tape (or harddisk).
Influences: Pedro the Lion, Muse, Love-cars, Toad the Wet Sprocket, Model Engine, Hum, SDRE, Spin Doctors, Guster, Jump Little Children, Death Cab for Cutie, Run DMC, Live, Dominican Bachata, Theodore Roethke, Edgar Allan Poe, The Legend of Zelda.
Sounds Like:

Record Label: Independent
Type of Label: None

My Blog

Breaking Up

After a wonderful 4-year run, Reticence is breaking up.Kristof Marden and Kyle Bonderson have decided to pursue other projects and life/time commitments. The parting is 100 percent amiable and I'm sur...
Posted by Reticence on Thu, 27 Jul 2006 07:17:00 PST

List of Past Shows

I'm not going to lie... I'm proud of where, when and whom with we've played (syntax?). Below is a list I will update from time to time. Past Shows 05/12/06 (Friday) @ The 7th Street Entry with Th...
Posted by Reticence on Thu, 04 May 2006 11:29:00 PST

Top 11 Minnesota bands to watch out for in 2006

All of these bands have released a CD recently or will have one out in 2006 or both. I highly suggest you check out their new material and catch them live this year. They will make waves and youll pr...
Posted by Reticence on Wed, 04 Jan 2006 02:48:00 PST

Top 10 Front-to-Back CDs

This list of mine appeared in the Dec. 21-28, 2005 issue of the Pulse of the Twin Cities. It's in regards to "front-to-backer albums" or albums you can put on and listen to all the way through and fee...
Posted by Reticence on Thu, 29 Dec 2005 08:15:00 PST

Dream Show

Our CD release party will be with two of the best bands in Minnesota, if not the universe. Please check them out:Cloud Cult - Guitar, Bass, Drums, Keys, Cello, Violin, Male and Female vocals. The...
Posted by Reticence on Mon, 10 Oct 2005 02:12:00 PST

Songs 1,2 & 3

I just posted the first 3 songs on our new album to be released on Dec. 9, 2005. They might be tweaked a little before all is said and done. Here's a gist of what they are about:Competition Drives -&n...
Posted by Reticence on Wed, 05 Oct 2005 08:29:00 PST

Band Name, Album Name

I thought some of you might be interested to know the meaning behind our band name and new album title, so here you go:Reticence - the inclination to keep your thoughts, feelings and personal aff...
Posted by Reticence on Wed, 05 Oct 2005 08:07:00 PST