Extranice Female

____________________________________________________ A diamond can only be found when it is seen, and I see you. I want "everyone" to know that "anyone" is welcomed to be my friend. Okay, so even though Jesus Christ is my Lord… I am stating “even if you do not claim Jesus, even if you do not believe in God, even if you do not believe there is a God. Now you wonder why would someone that loves the Lord accept someone who does not love the Lord. Simple, Jesus not only died for me and you who believe… He also died for those who do not believe and are alive knowing that one day they may believe before they die. Therefore my page is open for “everyone”. Afterall the Lord said, “come as you are”. And true believers accept everyone for who they are. It is religious folks who have a closed heart and a closed organization and I am not religious. Religion is a “form of Godliness and holiness”, they try to act holy, look holy, talk holy and point their holy finger at all others who are not showing the religious form. There is a difference between "Religion" and "Christianity". Afterall it was the religious sector that crucified Jesus. If anyone turns you away from being there friend do not let it hurt your feelings and/or bother you in any kind of way because "whomever turns you away" is the same as someone that does not know about "Christianity" possessing the power of Jesus Christ and having "Love" within their heart because real love and true love does not turn you away, the love of God will warm your heart and your soul. Jesus was not accepted by some, so you will not be accepted by some as well. And I will add, if you bring it upon your self to be mean and or cause a situation that turns someone from you, then that is a different matter. But if you are respectful and considerate of others, there is no reason why anyone should turn you away. "You are not alone regarding the way you are treated by this person or that person". We are all imperfect human beings. On an individual basis we need to realize who we are and accept who we are... and then realize that other individuals also have their own self (in other words)... we are all unique, we are all different... no one is an outcast, although some people think that some are. How can anyone say someone else is an outcast when they themselves are not in a perfect mold (per se'). If we accept who we are and accept someone else for who they are, then we can come to grips with more of an understanding that we can only be accountable for our actions and no one else's. We can not blame others for how we are treated. Yes, "life is unfair" and to put it in another perspective, "life is not even". When we as individuals open up our hearts and lives to the experience of sharing who we are with someone or other persons (example; a group structure, etc...) we will be on a path that no one but the Lord will know where it will lead. We will not know the comings of the curves and turns and climbs and free falls... we are up for the element of surprise in our lives period. Who is the "all knowing but the Lord". So as we have people in our lives and we have the Lord first in our lives... then we are still "imperfect" but we are in a relationship with a perfect team (the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost). With our imperfect ways, we sometimes mess up in life… but there are judges on this earth and they are official (as it is a job for them, they are employed to be a judge) and then there are some people who believe that they are a judge, not employed as one, and they judge for free, pointing at whomever their finger will point toward, but not at themselves because they are so holy then thou... bless their hearts. But getting back to the real deal. We should not ever think we can judge someone by who they are and for whatever reason we feel that we should. Because when we stand before the Lord at judgement time... I guarantee that the Lord will not be asking for anyone elses opinions ... the Lord does not need assistance at all. With all of the Lords words available to us we should take advantage of the availability and stand on His word, read His word, grasp His word, believe His word and "try" His word. What we do not understand, pray and ask the Lord for understanding... if we keep making the same mistakes over and over again, pray about it and hopefully we will get it right. Our journey is really a "trying" journey, "we are trying to walk it" and the devil is trying to get you to stop walking it. It is a journey that must be determined with "purpose in our heart". Our lives are not about us, our lives are about the Lord. I enjoy the simple things in life. I am happy and enjoy life in general. I like encouraging people and adding joy in people's lives. You know like; "a kind word", "being considerate", "being honest but with tact and respectful of other's feelings". I am a confidant and know it is best to mind my own business. If anyone wants to share their business with me, I will lend an ear and share my opinion if requested "I'm not a counselor" but "I am a friend"... your business is your business and I treat it like that. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Also, I am compassionate and if someone comes my way heart broken I will try to lift their heart. I am not perfect and never will be but "people's lives are tough enough without anyone adding more hurt in their lives". There is nothing wrong with being kind to people and if more of us would grasp that to heart then it would help spread some love in this world. If I sound weak and naive, my comment is: "I'm not" (a smile) well hey, wouldn't you rather know someone "nice" then to be treated mean? Wouldn't you? In regards to people, my phylosophy is: "Respect all people for who they are", if people like to be around you let them, if they dont like to be around you try to help them out and stay away if you can or at least make yourself less noticeable... in other words when it comes down to it, the fact of the matter is we are all human beings no matter what our skin color is, no matter what walk of life we are living, no matter who is who and what is what, a heart is a delicate part of our being and we should treat everyone's as such... although we can not make everyone happy, we can try to be kind and if we mess up we can apologize. Simple ways of life involve simple measures, "you be you and I will be me". ..