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Happiness depends upon ourselves. ~ Aristotle

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First off, I'd like to make it known that I am NOT a therapist or a doctor, nor am I affiliated with any type of organization whatsoever. I am someone that suffers from depression/anxiety & panic attacks/ and ADHD. I am currently working towards a degree in Human Services and I'm enjoying every single minute of it.
Now... a bit about me: My depression has been a part of my life ever since I can remember. There have been times when I have been so low and so lost that I just didn't want to go on anymore. I still experience moments like that, but each time I am able to (thankfully) get through them. Therapy and medication help, but they are not the complete answer. I have had (and still have) to do a lot of "homework" in order to fully understand this illness and to learn different ways to cope with it. I have learned a lot and have found many inspiring books which have helped me greatly through my dark times. My depression is a never-ending battle, and I know that. I know that it is most likely stuck with me for the rest of my life, but that doesn't mean that I have to let it control my life. I am the one with the control.
The purpose of my site is to share my stories and coping methods that I have learned in order to hopefully help someone else. It is a lonely world when you're feeling your lowest, something I completely understand, but you don't have to be alone. There are people that care and who will listen (WITHOUT JUDGEMENT) to you. Sometimes that is all we are looking for - someone to listen without trying to "fix" you. Especially those that have no idea what depression is like. That is when it is most frustrating, when people who have never suffered from depression think they have all the answers and that if you would JUST listen to them, all your problems disappear!
Lastly, this site is dedicated to those who suffer or those who are affected by depression, anxiety, OCD, ADHD, bipolar, or any other mental illnesses. Most importantly, always remember you are NOT alone! I encourage everyone to share their thoughts/ideas as to what has helped them get through rough periods in their life. We can certainly learn from each other ~ the ones that know what it is like living with these challenges day in and day out.
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Sometimes life gets too hectic to be able to sit down and enjoy a book... that's when these wonderful magazines come in handy! Each one of them offer wonderful advice and also help to rejuvenate the soul.

Click on any of the magazine covers to be directed to their webite:

From Positive Thinking's Website:

SPIRITUAL SPACES

Photograph by Botanica/Jupiter Images

A Good View
My cats love my window seat, even though the view isn’t spectacular. That’s where they watch leaves scatter, chat with birds, curl up for a nap in the sunlight and wait for me to come home. Every day I take each cat for a walk on the patio while the other sits at the window and waits his turn. Seeing a cat (or two) on the window seat…for me, that’s the best view there is. It reminds me to be more like my cats—to be patient and generous and to see beauty in the tiniest things. —Sue Galloway, Malvern, Pennsylvania

photography by Dudley Reed

I ease into an old rocking chair at my in-laws’ cabin on Brant Lake in the Adirondacks. I look out at the water and the mountains and rock in rhythm with the gentle waves. I feel so close to God amid the beauty of his creation. A relaxation technique I once learned is to fill your mind with a peaceful scene. This setting is what I always picture. —Peggy Frezon, Rensselaer, New York

photography by Mario de Lopez

Think of Los Angeles, and most people think of movie stars. Not me. Give me the beach and the Santa Monica Pier. When my children were small, I used to bring them here to enjoy long, lazy summer days in the Pacific air. Now that they’re grown, I come here to rejuvenate myself. Smelling the sea air and seeing children run gleefully back and forth reminds me of my kids and lifts my spirits to no end! —Rosemarie Peters, Los Angeles, California

When life gets hectic, nothing soothes my spirit more than sitting out on the patio, taking in the wooded beauty of our backyard waterfall. Birds sing, squirrels scamper about and sunlight filters through the trees, casting a soft glow over everything. The sound of the water never fails to carry my troubles away. What a setting of utter serenity! —Susan Karas, Yaphank, New York

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Helping others makes you feel good about yourself... I "adopted" a child from Honduras and just love receiving letters from him! It also makes you really think about how blessed we are having what we have. There are people out there who live in complete poverty - making only $200 a year! Think of how just a few dollars a month can make such a huge difference to someone...

After looking into the legitimacy of these programs, I found that Children International is a great organizaiton with most of your money actually going to the child you adopt.

Click here to find out more information:

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Another way you can help is by donating blood. I try to donate whenever as I can. It takes just a short amount of your time and it can help to save so many lives! What better way to feel good about yourself!? :)

Click here to go to the American Red Cross website and to find a location near you:

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I found this site a while ago. All you do is enter your zip code and it will bring up any volunteer opportunities that are in your area:

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Links to other sites:






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I'd like to meet:

Those who are suffering from depression, those who have suffered from depression in the past, or those who have a loved one suffering from depression. Depression is not something that a person can just "get over" and just learn to "deal with it". It takes a lot work and a lot of support. I would like to meet people who understand this and who would like to share their stories. I would like to meet those who are either looking for support or who are able to give their support. Depression does not control our lives, WE have control over it - it is just a matter of realizing it.

Photos from Max Taylor Panoramas: www.maxtaylor.com

I'd also like to add that if I send an "add friend" request to you it is for a reason. Either I feel that we have a lot in common regarding depression, etc., or I like your attitude towards life - whether it is positive or sarcastic. I'm not a judgemental person at all and I DO have a sense of humor. I try to send a message first because I know a lot of people don't like it when you don't... but sometimes I don't - so sorry about that. However, if you DO accept me as a friend I WILL respond with either a message or most likely a comment. I do appreciate all the support everyone has been giving. You are all true friends. Oh, and by the way... don't feel like you need to send me a message first before requesting me as a friend... I don't mind that you don't. :)

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BELOW ARE SOME VERY HELPFUL SITES WORTH CHECKING OUT:

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CLICK ON ANY OF THE IMAGES TO GO TO THEIR SITES FOR MORE INFORMATION:



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U2 "Stuck in a Moment (That You Can't Get Out Of)"

Music:



Music has gotten me through so many tough times. I don't know what I would do if there wasn't music in the world. The following is a list of songs that meant something at one point in my life... these are only a FEW of the many songs that I love - these are all I can think off right off the top of my head right now...if you get a chance, try to find these songs and listen to them and see if they speak to you!

Elliott Smith
"I Better Be Quiet Now" - Figure 8
"Easy Way Out" - Figure 8

Tori Amos
"Crucify" - Little Earthquakes
"Silent All These Years" - Little Earthquakes
"God" - Under the Pink
"Jackie's Strength" - From the Choirgirl Hotel

Marvin Gaye w/Tammi Terrell
"Ain't No Mountain High Enough" - Anthology

Gary Jules
"Mad World" - Donnie Darko Soundtrack

Paul McCartney
"Another Day" - Ram

Wilco
"How to Fight Loneliness" - Summerteeth
"She's a Jar" - Summerteeth
"Kamera" - Yankee Foxtrot Hotel

Beck
"Lost Cause" - Sea Change
"Golden Age" - Sea Change

Bob Marley
"Three Little Birds" - One Love
"Positive Vibration" - Babylon By Bus

U2
"Stuck In a Moment You Can't Get Out Of" - All That You Can't Leave Behind
"Beautiful Day" - All That You Can't Leave Behind
"Who's Gonna Ride Your Wild Horses?" - Achtung Baby

Indigo Girls
"Closer to Fine" - Indigo Girls
"Galileo" - Rites of Passage
"Love Will Come to You" - Rites of Passage

The Beatles
"Getting Better" - Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band
"Let It Be" - Let It Be
"Help!" - Help!
"Here Comes the Sun" - Abbey Road

Van Morrison
"Underlying Depression" - Days Like This
"Into The Mystic" - Moondance

Aimee Mann
"Wise Up" - Magnolia Soundtrack
"One" - Magnolia Soundtrack

Sarah McLachlan
"Angel" - Surfacing
"Full of Grace" - Surfacing
"Mary" - Fumbling Towards Ecstasy

Loudon Wainwright III w/Iris Dement
"Pack Up Your Sorrows" - Bleecker Street

Movies:

So many movies, so little time (in no particular order) ...

Mind the Gap
Little Miss Sunshine
Lost in Translation
Love Liza
Lovely & Amazing
Pieces of April
Me Without You
The Station Agent
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Playing by Heart
Run Lola Run (Foreign)
Sideways
Garden State
Girl Interrupted
American Beauty
I Heart Huckabees
Amelie (Foreign)
Magnolia
Maria Full of Grace (Foreign)
Twin Falls Idaho
Reality Bites
Singles
The Royal Tenenbaums
Memento
Happenstance (Foreign)
Mulholland Drive
Vanilla Sky
Beautiful Girls
Donnie Darko
The Virgin Suicides
Ghost World
Rushmore
Shaun of the Dead
He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not (Foreign)
Dirty Pretty Things (Foreign)

Television:

A few excellent shows worth watching:

Six Feet Under ~ ABSOLUTELY THE BEST SHOW EVER
Dead Like Me
Freeks & Geeks
The Office (BBC)
Scrubs
Arrested Development
Entourage
Rescue Me ~ Truly a "guy show" but with good messages/good humor

Books:

The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living - The Dalai Lama
Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life - Jon Kabat-Zinn
Inner Peace for Busy People: 52 Simple Strategies for Transforming Your Life - Joan Borysenko
The Simple Living Guide - Janet Luhrs
Voluntary Simplicity: Toward a Way of Life That Is Outwardly Simple, Inwardly Rich - Duane Elgin
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, A Toltec Wisdom Book - Don Miguel Ruiz
Man's Search For Meaning - Viktor E. Frankl
In The Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want - Iyanla Vanzant
From Panic to Power: Proven Techniques to Calm Your Anxieties, Conquer Your Fears, and Put You in Control of Your Life - Lucinda Bassett
The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment -Eckhart Tolle
Tuesdays with Morrie: An Old Man, a Young Man, and Life's Greatest Lesson - Mitch Albom
Mere Christianity - C. S. Lewis
The Power of Positive Thinking: A Practical Guide to Mastering the Problems of Everyday Living - Norman Vincent Peale
On the Road - Jack Kerouac
Into the Wild - Jon Krakauer
Undercurrents: A Life Beneath the Surface - Martha Manning

Heroes:



My Blog

You Never Know Where Life Will Lead You

I was feeling down last week and decided that I needed to write in my journal. I knew it had been a long time since I wrote in it, but when I opened it up I couldn't believe that the last time was in...
Posted by Depression Support on Wed, 03 Oct 2007 10:15:00 PST

Stress Busters from Positive Thinking Magazine

EXERCISEEver want to go for a walk, just to "get the juices flowing" or to "clear your head"? Well, it works! When you exercise, your body circulates mood-boosting endorphins (also known as the "runne...
Posted by Depression Support on Fri, 24 Aug 2007 12:19:00 PST

It's Been a While

Hello All,I just wanted to take a moment to let everyone know that I'm STILL HERE! :) Life has been very hectic for me lately. As some of you know, I've been busy house hunting - and believe me - it...
Posted by Depression Support on Sat, 07 Jul 2007 09:59:00 PST

Suicide Rate High for Asian-American Women

I came across this article while browsing through CNN.com. I thought some might find it helpful... Push to Achieve Tied to Suicide in Asian-American WomenBy Elizabeth CohenStory Highlights:" Suicide ...
Posted by Depression Support on Thu, 17 May 2007 08:42:00 PST

Update: The Dalai Lama Lecture

Friday, May 4 I was finally able to see the Dalai Lama speak  - IN PERSON.  I truly enjoyed being a part of it and to just be in his presence was enough for me... What I loved most about his...
Posted by Depression Support on Thu, 10 May 2007 11:38:00 PST

Virginia Tech ~ My Heart Goes Out To You

Yesterday I was going to go off on a random tangent complaining about my life and all the issues that I'm dealing with right now. Then the killings at Virginia Tech occured. Then I decided that my pro...
Posted by Depression Support on Tue, 17 Apr 2007 11:41:00 PST

"Desiderata" by Max Ehrmann

Desiderata by Max Ehrmann Go placidly amid the noise and haste,and remember what peace there may be in silence.As far as possible without surrenderbe on good terms with all persons.Speak your truth qu...
Posted by Depression Support on Fri, 13 Apr 2007 01:46:00 PST

The Little Book of Stress

I came across this little book while I was trying to find a different one on my bookshelf. I think it was a sign - This book cracks me up - but I love dumb humor. Just because we're dealing with dep...
Posted by Depression Support on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 10:35:00 PST

Feeling Betrayed

My recent posting "Understanding Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns in Your Family", was out of frustration and anger towards my Mother. When I came across this article I felt it really hit the nail...
Posted by Depression Support on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 10:45:00 PST

Understanding Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns in Your Family

Understanding Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns in Your FamilyMany people hope that once they leave home, they will leave their family and childhood problems behind. However, many find that they exp...
Posted by Depression Support on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 09:53:00 PST