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Sir Hafez

WHEN LIFE IS RESPECTED, IT IS ENJOYED. I'M LEARNING TO LOVE LIFE A BIT MORE

About Me

I am alot different than just you normal kinda guy. I'm me. A free spirit. A freelance stage tech who loves life to more than just the fullest. But the funnest... I'm more worldly than most. A live and let live type with a sadsistic edge and since of humor sometimes. And I have to be that way in DC. LOL I'm from Atlanta. I'm a musician/percussionist and DJ, a poet, and actor, and singer, and history buff. a sensual massuse and a very open and friendly freaky kinda guy. But very selective of whom I meet or deal with. I value the few friends I have and love to find more now that I have moved to DC. But it's not that easy to find good folks here so far...but I'm not in a rush to just find anyone. I love life and it loves me back. I don't do drama. My kid is grown, I'm not gay or bi, and I'm single and ok with it for now. I'm new to this site and wonder what it has in store for me here. I would love to find a good spades partner and I'm 420 friendly. But not a head...lol I love to have fun. And would like to have someone to join me in my journey. I'm not a amature...and not normal... Not in a wierd way...just a bit more open and free than most. And i try to be up front and real at all times...I speak my mind and try to not be a pest. But I'm not someone to play with...unless we are undressed and consenting adults...lol Ya feel me?
What Does Your Birth Date Mean?
http://www.blogthings.com/whatdoesyourbirthdatemea...

What your birthdate means for your life.


Sir Hafez wants you to check out a photo on MySpace in the baby pics album
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseacti...

My Grandson Sir Kymani and my baby Gangsta...*grin*respect

My Interests

Stage work...preforming.Meeting cool folks that are drama free and friendly.Live'n a good life by helping others...and maybe they may do the same.I'm a low "maintnance" kinda guyBlack Man In An Elevator

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I'd like to meet:

I would love to meet someone cool to hang with. Someone not normal... Someone worldly and sensual, and even downright freaky. With no drama or hang-ups. I love meeting new people. And I'm very open and real. I try to keep things up front and on the table from the jump. And I would hope to meet the same. Someone who is comfortable being themselves. With no hang-ups and a free spirit who is in touch with their sexuality and themselves. Someone who stimulates my intelect as well as my loins. Someone who loves to injoy life together...like a Bonnie to my clyde. A good Spades partner, dancer, and manager. A help mate. With soul... A grown ass woman. With spunk. A person to become my good and even best friend. But i'll settle for just good friend for now. Sexy and self drivin to be more than just average. A partner. And I'm also looking for some cool folks that are into having one more good friend too. And willing to work at it for a very long time...and not just through a few good times. Do you feel me?

A Black American - Def Poetry Jam
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_KKyw8V-l0

Brother Smokey

Music:

I love me some ole school funk and R&;B clasics. And I'm into that old NY/Chitown house music and club music from the dance and kinda disco era. Some of the new funk-jazz style grooves are cool too. P-funk. Blues, Jazz, and even classical and some funk country too. If it moves or makes ya move? I dig it. And live music is da bomb to me. I'm a ex-DJ so I have 6000 records in storage...so I guess I'm into alot of different styles of music?

Movies:

I love them old black-exploytaion movies. And clasics. Action is cool. martial arts clasics are cool. I'm not really into most horror films cause the brothers always get killed first...lol Romance is cool but I try not to get misty in mixed company. It really depends on who I'm watching them with...I kinda like movies that have folks in them that look like me...LMBAO

Television:

I don't really watch TV...I know what it will do to your brain!

Books:

WOW...I'm all over the place with my reading...just ask if your that interested.

Heroes:

My mom, dad and Jim Brown, Mohomad Ali, and Bill Cinton (i think his marraige is kinda interesting) But I think I admire alot of folks who helped us be where we are now...and that's alot of folks!

Millie Jackson & Isaac Hayes - Do You Wanna Make Love
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3KmNUp56DE

One of the good time, feel good albums from 2 of my favorites...respect

My Blog

Yes we can. But how much change can we tolerate?

When you live your life as a fad or a faze? You kinda loose a great deal of time and memories out of shame and guilt of past life experiences. But when you live your life without reason? You find mo...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Sun, 19 Oct 2008 03:24:00 PST

Consistency verses coochie.

I never asked to become a Poly Dominant. But it was the only title I could find that described kinda the life I live in a respectable manner. But that definition does not come close to the life I liv...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Sat, 18 Oct 2008 11:08:00 PST

My life, My way....

As a active Dominant in the D/s, S/M, Poly BDSM Lifestyle? I am kinda stuck in a certain direction for my lifestyle house and life as it is constructed. I really am into what I claim to be. So for Me...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Thu, 16 Oct 2008 11:13:00 PST

You could USE some dominance in your life?

No matter who you are. No matter what you do. No matter why you do it. No matter how you do it. If something is missing in your life? If something is needed in your life? If something is important i...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Tue, 14 Oct 2008 01:38:00 PST

Friends? What are they really good for?

Everybody aint made for everybody else. Even when you think you have some things in common. "Some things" aint enough to make a productive connection in a lifestyle structure with someone who is not ...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Tue, 14 Oct 2008 09:19:00 PST

Sunday Sufi study...

Are you able to give more than your seek to receive what you desire? What is worth more? Why? I Know The Way You Can Get I know the way you can get When you have not had a drink of Love: Your fa...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Sun, 12 Oct 2008 07:09:00 PST

Publicly private pride and predjudice

We all have portions of our lives we live in different ways We have different public policies and private possibilities Providing that we prove we can produce Positively *smirk* Sometimes the things...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Sat, 11 Oct 2008 07:20:00 PST

The Ghetto is My Dungeon, I shall not want!

It was a dark funky night in the corners of HellSome call it the inner city ghettoLand of Thugs, Pimps, pushers and crackhead alcoholics providing the sounds of poverty, pain and pleasure to the beat ...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Wed, 08 Oct 2008 03:47:00 PST

Obamaism in kink?

We all have been blessed to be living in a new day in this world A new reality A new lifestyle A new freedom A new openness of our sexualities A new ability to reach further than ever before globally ...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Tue, 07 Oct 2008 03:04:00 PST

Learning how to do your submission and why...

The number one cause for the failure of any type relationship is: Lack of knowledge of each other enough to wish to care for them better than the need for selfish indulgence But in a D/s, BDSM type...
Posted by Sir Hafez on Mon, 06 Oct 2008 12:57:00 PST