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MamaDeb

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About Me

My heart belongs to 5 children; I am the mother of three wonderful young men who had their world shattered by dysfunction. Instead of wondering why or placing blame, I can honestly say that each of them have turned out to be someone I can honestly say I like.... All the pain didn't destroy their wonderful foundation or they wouldn't be who they are...... Two others also own a piece of my heart and I love them as though I had given birth to them....Little man I love you to infinity plus and to pluto and back....and baby girl your the daughter I always wanted.I love totally and have suffered the depths and heights of loving....I only ask that who ever has my heart .....cherish it and don't let it shatter.
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My Interests

My interest include music....I have loved everything about watching music being created and seeing music come to life ....I love flowers and animals and listening to the birds sing...I like fresh air and walking....I love art and appreciate anyone who can sing, paint, or create....I like honesty, peace, and calmness....and I love to watch movies.

I'd like to meet:

You, if you have laughter in your eyes and warmth in your heart. We all need true friends in our lives, someone who you can depend on to be truthful. What is life without trust?

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Music:

My son once said to me...."Just think mom....when you hear this song on the radio....you will know that every woman out there will wish it was written for them, but you know it was written for you..... "Dear Baby"

Movies:

Recently I saw myself in a movie titled "Diary of a Mad Black Woman" (even though I'm not black) it hurt sooo much to see me in that light....but it was true...It has affected my whole being and I will always have a place for this movie in my heart......I like anything funny....sometimes I don't feel like I laugh enough and a good funny movie is all it takes....I like movies with heart and especially liked the childrens movies that I got to see with "little man". The other type of movie I like is of course action movies ...especially martial arts....

Television:

The weather channel and Grays Anatomy

Books:

My interest in books has always been fictional adventure stories, historical novels and I spent a lot of time in mystery novels. I have boys ....John you and your "Hirams Red Shirt", Kevin and "Gary Paulson" , Donald and your "I Spy Books", but oh my what an artist.
Your Birth Month is August
Ambitious and strong, you find it easy to be successful.
You are brave and stubborn. No one's going to set your limits!
Your soul reflects: Strength, character, and devotion
Your gemstone: Peridot
Your flower: Poppy
Your colors: Orange, red, and light green What Does Your Birth Month Mean?
Your Birthdate: August 1
You are a natural born leader, even if those leadership talents haven't been developed yet.
You have the power and self confidence to succeed in life, and your power grows daily.
Besides power, you also have a great deal of creativity that enables you to innovate instead of fail.
You are a visionary, seeing the big picture instead of all of the trivial little details.
Your strength: Your supreme genius
Your weakness: Your inappropriate sensitivity
Your power color: Gold
Your power symbol: Star
Your power month: January What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Heroes:

It seems the first heros in my life have been woman...the first was my grandmother....she was everything good and great....the second is my mother...she has endured soooo much and for 4 feet 10 (maybe) she sure is fiesty. They are the ones who taught me about love and family.My sons and I mean all 4 for living todays curse of divided homes.

My Blog

Something other than Cancer

It has been a month or so since my last blog and I want to share that I am feeling fabulous.  I have so much joy in my heart to be where I am after everything I have experienced.  I am ...
Posted by MamaDeb on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 08:14:00 PST

Faith

I feel way too good to even think about this past year, about cancer, surgeries, chemo, the recent tissue rejection.  I can't even think about spending 8 years in love with someone who took my sp...
Posted by MamaDeb on Sun, 07 Oct 2007 09:50:00 PST

OUCH

No one has to tell me about the power of positive thinking.  Last year when I was diagnosed with cancer I would actually get angry if anyone even came near me with negative thoughts or what ifs.....
Posted by MamaDeb on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 08:15:00 PST

Life is beautiful

Hi, As most know for me....life couldn't be more beautiful!  I got the word that my margins were clear, the tumor was 1/2 cm in size and that my nodes were negative.  That as you must know i...
Posted by MamaDeb on Tue, 28 Aug 2007 12:15:00 PST

She’s back

Hi, Here I am on the flip side....I can't believe it's early in the am Saturday and I can't believe I've done this for the second time.  It is hard to just rest and heal (actually I hurt).  ...
Posted by MamaDeb on Sat, 25 Aug 2007 10:05:00 PST

Skyblast at PNC Park

Yesterday was the much awaited SKYBLAST at PNC Park.  I worried my pretty little head off about the weather and finally decided "If it rains on my parade&oh well".  I met Kev and Kayla at Bu...
Posted by MamaDeb on Sat, 18 Aug 2007 05:26:00 PST

could use some loven

Hi, I still can 't believe my life is not perfection and that I have stresses, so many that my barrel is full and it's spilling over.  I am momentarily catatonic, totally imobilized by my thought...
Posted by MamaDeb on Tue, 14 Aug 2007 08:25:00 PST

Birthday

Wow,  Prior to my upcoming surgery....I get a special treat!  Kevin and Kayla are giving me the best birthday present ever.... .. type=..> .. if (typeof urlDecode == "undefined") document_w...
Posted by MamaDeb on Mon, 06 Aug 2007 09:32:00 PST

surgery update

Hi there everyone! It has been a surreal week, but I have finally found out that my masectomy will be on August 21st.   I will have an overnight stay at McGee's Womans Hospital.   ...
Posted by MamaDeb on Sat, 04 Aug 2007 08:28:00 PST

another update

Hi, I still don't have a date for my surgery, but I did meet with one of my surgeons today.  I'm feeling very happy because I will not have to have a latitumius flap done.  This means that t...
Posted by MamaDeb on Tue, 31 Jul 2007 08:31:00 PST