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Hello, world.
..I am a FORCE in life. I am a HARD EARNED accumulation of the application of my life experiences. I have a COURAGEOUS HEART that is steely insulated by my FAITH IN GOD. I love to have a drink, but I don't need alcohol to be FUNNY, SOCIAL, SPONTANEOUS, or UNINHIBITED. I am the PROUD MOTHER of a beautiful, wise, personable, and humorous son and a strong, dramatic, and intelligent daughter. Although they are so different, they are both ME. I believe GOOD PARENTING is bred from SELF-SACRIFICE and LOVE, and you get ONE CHANCE to do it right. I don't like it when people use the fact that they had children as an excuse to be irresponsible. I don't like it when parents use their children's love as an affirmation of their parenting when they're not parenting well. Children will love their parents irregardless of what they give or don't give them. I am a CARING person. I believe people have a RESPONSIBILITY to be kind to each other, even to the people we don't like, especially to the people who aren't kind themselves. I believe there are two powers in the universe, and the only way to combat evil is with LOVE. I am a WRITER, a MANAGER, a LEADER, an ARTIST, a TEACHER, a CREATOR, a CHEF, a DECORATOR, a SISTER, an ACTRESS, a DAUGHTER, a HOSTESS, a MOTHER, a THINKER, a FRIEND. I love being single...although I am married! I am always working for GOOD in this lifetime, and because of that, it's senseless to me (and frustrating beyond belief to my husband!) to allow a partnership to compromise my goals and ideals. I beleive LAUGHTER IS THE BEST FORM OF MEDICINE. My personality is DYNAMIC. I BELIEVE in RESOLUTION, NOT ANGER. I don't think money is indicative of success. I like people who are DIFFERENT, but I DON'T RESPECT people who think they are SUPERIOR because of it. I think CLASS is determined by one's CORE VALUES of daily living. I CANNOT STAND whiners and people who cannot take responsibility for their lives, their choices, and their consequences. I LOVE my FAMILY. I find Martyrs cause wasted energy by their choice to be a victim in an attempt to get sympathy for it. I don't need child support to determine the quality of life my children will have. I love to TRAVEL and long for the GROWTH that only comes from EXPERIENCING UNFAMILIARITY. I DESPISE mean people and addicts, because they manipulate love to cause pain. I believe drug addiction is devil possession in its rampant ability to harm and destroy. I don't understand why people who have experienced harm because of a substance in life would participate in its use. I'm a SUCKER for POTENTIAL. I won't say anything behind someone's back that I won't say to their face. I am a FIGHTER for what is right and CONFIDENT because God is my source of reference. I see BEAUTY in the smallest things. I feel the SUCCESS of people's lives will ultimately be determined by their ABILTY to LOVE.

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My Blog

Fourth of July!

You are invited to our Annual  (for the 2nd year anyway! Looks like it might be on the way to tradition!) Fourth of July Party! WHEN?         & nbsp;&...
Posted by on Sat, 28 Jun 2008 11:06:00 GMT

The $5100 Dilemma

As many of you know, Matt's ex-wife took him back to court for child support (What? Matt? In court for child support?!), staying true to her claim that she was going to spend her life harassing Matt f...
Posted by on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 14:14:00 GMT

How is my pregnancy going?

Uh, it's a blast.(???)Being that my left calf is competing with my stomach on which one can grow larger, I'm thinking, thank heavens there's only a month and a half left!Actually, asides from the hosp...
Posted by on Sun, 20 Jan 2008 17:59:00 GMT

How is married life treating you? (i.e. Have you gotten divorced yet?!)

I thought I'd post some of the answers to the most recent and frequent questions I've been receiving in blog form since everyone in my friend's box my not be that interested in my married life, especi...
Posted by on Sat, 03 Nov 2007 06:20:00 GMT