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iamspirited

Be true to your essence...

About Me


What can I say about me...a lot, actually!! (Ha, ha!!! I'm kidding, just kidding.) I'm actually a very vibrant, spirited and humble person. Quite often, I'm told I'm attractive. I guess it's true. And, while I finally accept this "fate" (LOL!), I don't let it go to my head. The way I look is not, by far, my most attractive trait, but I guess it doesn't hurt! (I'm actually turned off when people stop at the physical and fail to take the time to get to know "me".)There's so much more to me than what meets the eye...just ask my family and friends! Well, if you knew them, you could. But, I guess you'll have to just take my word for it! LOL! While I can't summarize "me" in words (a person's essence is more an experience), I'll try and share some characteristics: I LOVE to laugh! I love anyone who makes me laugh! And, quite frankly, I crack my own self up...often!! ~*~ I love people and am tender hearted towards those who are weak or vulnerable. ~*~ I hate bullies...in any capacity. ~*~ I love PEACE! I will not, for family, friends, career or other, compromise my PEACE! It's something I truly treasure! Umm, what else...really, I'm just cool and down to earth.To clarify, I'm not on this site looking for a husband, lover or a one night stand. Really, I'm not LOOKING for anything (seque: if you are, however, check out my blog entitled "What I'm Open To" before you leave). Rather, open to the experience of something special. "People" are my passion! Well, next to God...and my baby girl...and, yeah, my family and friends... Well, they're people, so I guess I'm saying the same thing! LOL! Anyway, you get the point!Anyhoo, thanks for stopping by! And, lastly, I'd like to leave you with...PEACE ~

My Interests

My MySpace mood setter...Sade...Got "real" Hip Hop?!!What 'chu know 'bout dis?!!FLASHBAAAAACK!!!

I'd like to meet:

People with whom I find a soul connect ~ Lives that enrich ~ 360 degreers

* . . About You . . *
Eye Color:: Brown
Hair Color:: Black
Height:: 5'7"...5'10" in heels which are inevitable
Favorite Color:: Category: Earth Tones
Screen Name:: I Am Spirited
Favorite Band:: Earth Wind & Fire
Favorite Movie:: My Fair Lady
Favorite Show:: Columbo
Your Car:: Toyota 4Runner
Your Hometown:: Downey, Cucamonga, etc...moved around!
Your Present Town:: Los Angeles
Your Crushes First Name:: Uhhhh...Chuckie Booker (not the singer)
Your Grade:: Huh?!!
Your Style:: Sophisticated
* . . Have You Ever . . *
Sat on your rooftop?: Nope
Kissed someone in the rain?: Oh...yeah...! (That would be Kendall...good memory!)
Danced in a public place?: Sure
Smiled for no reason?: There's always a reason
Laughed so hard you cried?: Absolutely...frequently!
Peed your pants after age 8?: Uh...yeah! Extenuating circumstances! LOL!
Written a song?: Yes, actually
Sang to someone for no reason?: Always a reason...if just to amuse
Performed on a stage?: Yes (High school talent shows, open mic)
Talked to someone you don't know?: All the friggin' time!
Gone out of your way to befriend someone?: Never; never had to
Made out in a theatre?: Kissed, yes; made out...Naw!
Gone roller skating since 8th grade?: Oh, yeah! World On Wheels...clack, clack!!
Been in love?: Yes, from what I understand of it
* . . Who was the last person to . . *
Say HI to you?: Gentleman I passed on the way back from lunch
Tell you, I love you?: My baby!
Kiss you?: My baby!
Hug you?: My baby!
Tell you BYE?: My baby!
Write you a note?: My baby!
Take your photo?: An old friend of mine with his camera phone
Call your cell phone?: Queen Vanessa
Buy you something?: Boss bought me breakfast
Go with you to the movies?: Fam-bam
Sing to you?: Spidey
Write a poem about you?: That I know of...Jamal Sparks (in Vegas now)
Text message you?: My baby!
Touch you?: In what way? LOL!
* . . What's the last . . *
Time you laughed?: Today...bought 5 minutes ago! Frequent occurrence!
Time you cried?: Over a month ago...glad those days are over! :)
Movie you watched?: At the theatre? Don't recall. At home, Grease!
Joke you told?: Not enough room in this little box! LOL!
Song you've sang?: Luther! "Oh my love, a 1,000 kisses from you is never too much..."
Time you've looked at the clock?: Just now 'cause of this question! Ha!
Drink you've had?: Alcoholic or non? Drinking 7Up, right now.
Number you've dialed?: Travel desk...booked W Times Square in NY
Book you've read?: Finished? Mein Kampf (Hitler) Reading Sea Change by Robert B. Parker now.
Food you've eaten?: Burrito, rancheros-style from La Salsa
Flavor of gum chewed?: Cinnamon (Altoids)
Shoes you've worn?: Pumps, of course!
Store you've been in?: Nordstrom, of course!
Thing you've said?: "Ha!" (Just now)
* . . Can You . . *
Write with both hands?: Yes, but not well with the less dominant
Whistle?: Eh-eh...I do alright, I guess
Blow a bubble?: Yup!! A big ole fat one, too!
Roll your tounge in a circle?: Yup (just tried!)
Cross your eyes?: Yup
Touch your tounge to your nose?: Heck naw! (But I can tie a cherry stem with my teeth and tongue!)
Dance?: Yup
Gleek?: What? (Guess that's a no!)
Stay up a whole night without sleep?: Yes, but not very productive the next day!
Speak a different language?: Pig Latin! (Not really a language, is it?)
Impersonate someone?: Never tried...I'll get back on that one
Prank call people?: "Can" I prank call people? Hell, I'm 37 years old...why?!
Make a card pyramid?: I don't think so, but I play the hell outta some Dominos!
Cook anything?: Yup...and WELL! (But, I'd rather eat out!)
* . . Finish The Line . . *
If i were a ...: "...guardian angel, I'd take double and triple shifts."
I wish ...: "...upon a star, to follow where you are. I wish upon a dream, to find out what it means..."
So many people don't know that ...: "...I'm oft times sad over the ways of the world."
I am ...: "...truly blessed."
My heart is ...: "...pure."

Music:

MOS DEF, pretty much! LOL! Uhhhh, who else...LOL! Whoa, this list could go on forever, but here we go...randomly: Sade, Minnie Ripperton, Roberta Flack, Aretha Franklin, Patti LaBelle, Anita Baker, Chaka Khan, Natalie Cole ('specially, "I Got Love On My Mind"), Diana Ross (Mahogany!!), Donna Summer, Cheryl Lynn, Dionne Warwick, Miki Howard, Whitney Houston, Teena Marie, Lauryn Hill, India Arie, Goapole, Jill Scott, Floetry, Res, Faith Evans, Diane Reeves, Tracy Chapman, Patti Austin, Angela Bofill, Phyllis Hyman (RIP, sweet lady), Layla Hathaway, Melissa Morgan, Cherelle, Mary J. Blige, Regina Belle, Stephanie Mills, Evelyn Champaign King, Nancy Wilson, Deniece Williams, Janet Jackson, Meshell Ndegeocello, Fantasia, EnVogue, Mariah Carey, SWV, Stacy Lattisaw, Betty White, Diana Ross, Anne Murray, Doris Day, Judy Garland, Stevie Nicks, Gloria Gaynor, Karyn White, Cher, Barbra Streisand, Carly Simon, Basia (!!!), Madonna, Enya, Olivia Newton-John, Juice Newton ("Queen of Hearts"), Patty Smyth ("Warrior"), KT Tunstall (!!!!), Kelly Clarkson, O'Jays, Sylistics ('specially "You Make Me Feel Brand New"), Tavares ("Penny For Your Thoughts"), The Spinners, The Whispers, Kook & The Gang, Ohio Players, LTD, Temptations, Fifth Dimension, Isley Brothers, Earth Wind & Fire, Gap Band, Staple Singers ("I'll Take You There", "Let's Do It Again"), Frankie Beverly & Maze, Doobie Brothers, Rolls Royce ("Love Don't Live Here No More"), Chi-Lites ("Have You Seen Her"), Main Ingredient ("Everybody Plays the Fool", "Just Don't Wanna Be Lonely"), War, The Miracles, Average White Band, Bee Gees (!!!!!), The Jacksons, Emotions, Supremes, The Whispers, Gladys Knight & The Pips, Ashford & Simpson, Pointer Sisters, Sister Sledge, Switch, Harold Melvin & The Bluenotes (among many, "The Love I Lost" featuring Teddy Pendergrass), Bloodstone ("We Go A Long Way Back"), Champaign ("How 'Bout Us"), Friends of Distinction ("Going In Circles"), Heatwave ("Always & Forever"), GQ ("I Do Love You"), McFadden & Whitehead ("Ain't No Stoppin' Us Now"), Parliament ("We Want The Funk!"), Hot Chocolate ("You Sexy Thing"), Mass Production ("Firecracker!!!"), 3 Degrees ("When Will I See You Again" -- "...when will we share precious moments..."), Rufus (as in what evolved into Rufus and Chaka Khan), The Dells, Midnight Starr, Atlantic Star, Cameo (all time favorite, "Shake Your Pants"), Gap Band (especially "Yearning"), Debarge, Surface, The System ("Don't Disturb This Groove"), Force MDs, Shalamar, Club Nouveau, Klymaxx, Ready For the World, Troop ("All I Do Is Think Of You"), Rude Boys ("It's Written All Over Your Face"), The Time, Vanity 6, Lisa Lisa & The Cult Jam, Expose, Guy, 112, Blackstreet, The Deal, Levert, Tony! Toni! Tone!, Escape, Shai ("If I Ever Fall In Love Again"), Portrait, Jodeci, KC & JoJo, New Edition, Boyz II Men, PM Dawn, Brand New Heavies, Urban Ave 31, Stevie Wonder, Lou Rawls, Curtis Mayfield, Billy Preston, Johnny Guitar Watson, Barry White, Al Green, Isaac Hayes, George Benson, Sam Cooke, Bobby Womack, Marvin Gaye, Michael McDonald, Will Downing (!!!), Donny Hathaway, Larry Ingram, Brian McKnight, Johnny Taylor ("Disco Lady"), Luther Vandross, Peabo Bryson, James Ingram, Teddy Pendergrass, Freddie Jackson, Seal (!!!!), Alexander O'Neil, Jeffrey Osborne, Lionel Richie, Carl Thomas ("Emotional"), Major Harris ("Love Won't Let Me Wait"), Prophet Jones ("Cry Together" -- "...we're not the only people in the world, who go through ups and downs...")Ray Charles, Otis Redding ("Sitting On the Dock of the Bay"), Fats Domino, Charlie Parker, Little Richard, Chubby Checker, Billy Preston ("Nothing From Nothing Leaves Nothing"), Frankie Lymon ("Why Do Fools Fall In Love"), Bobby Blue Bland, Nat King Cole, Lou Rawls, Billy Ocean, Gerald Levert, Tony Terry ("When I'm With You"), Chuckie Booker ("Why You Wanna Play Your Games On Me"), Howard Johnson ("So Fine...You Blow My Mind"), Bill Withers, Terrence Trent D'Arby, Johnny Gill, Keith Sweat, John Legend, Usher, Kenny Lattimore, Smokey Robinson, Rick James, Prince, Michael Jackson, Maxwell, Babyface, Wyclef Jean, Bobby Brown, Jon B., Junior, Tupac, Dr. Dre, Snoop, Notorious BIG, Nas, Jay Z, LL Cool J, Eric B. & Rakim, Big Daddy Kane, The Fugees, Public Enemy (all time fav "Give It Up!"), Boogie Down Productions, KRS1, Stetsasonic, Run DMC, Queen Latifah (hip hop and jazz!), Poor Righteous Teachers (PRT) (!!!), Curtis Blow, Sugar Hill Gang, Dougie Fresh and the Get Fresh Crew, DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince, Slick Rick, Wreckin' Crew, Rob Base, Grandmaster Flash & the Furious Five, D-Nice, Fat Boys, Kool Moe Dee, Bizmarkie ("And You Say He's Just A Friend"), Ice Cube, Snoop, DMX, Salt N Peppa, Camp Lo, MC Lyte, Da Brat, Lil Kim, Mase, Foxy Brown, Naughty By Nature, Heavy D & The Boyz, Beastie Boys, Geto Boyz ("Minds Playing Tricks On Me"), Craig Mack, 3rd Bass, Bone Thugs-N-Harmony, Puff Daddy (before Diddy), Outkast, Kanye West, Pharrell, Kwame & the Polka Dots ("Only You"!), Blackeyed Peas, The Winans, Commissioned, Men of Standard, BeeBee and CeeCee Winans, Clark Sisters, Yolanda Adams, Fred Hammond (!!!), Mary Mary, Kirk Whallum, George Duke, Gerald Albright, Al Jarreau, David, Koz, Grover Washington, Rascal Flatts (country), Dolly Parton, Shania Twain, Crystal Gayle (back in the day), Kenny Rogers, Gatlan Bros., Eddie Rabbit, Alabama, Keith Urban, Bee Gees, Andy Gibb, Eric Clapton (My song, "If I Can Change the World!"!!!), Kenny Loggins (!!!!), James Taylor, Elton John, Sting (!!!), George Michaels, Michael Franks (!!!), Christopher Cross, Bobby Caldwell (!!!)), Barry Manilow, Neil Sadaka, Frank Sinatra, Frankie Avalon, Crosby Steals & Nash, Don Henley, Stephen Bishop ("It Might Be You"), Richard Marx, Dan Hartman, Billy Joel (everything, but notably, "My Life" and "Just the Way You Are"), Ricky Scaggs, Elvis Costello, Bruce Springstein, John Cougar Mellancamp, Rick Springfield, The Beetles, Chicago, The Eagles, Air Supply, Journey, Ambrosia (!!!), Foreigner, Jefferson Starship, Captain & Tenille, Seals & Croft ("Summer Breeze"!!!!!), Mamas & Papas, Cass Elliot aka Mama Cass ("California Dreamin'", "Monday Monday", "Dream A Little Dream", "I'll Be Seeing You"), Bread, Supertramp ("Take the Long Way Home"), Fleetwood Mac (!!!), Boston ("More Than A Feeling"), The Police, Hall & Oates, Genesis, Wilson Phillips, Steely Dan, REO Speedwagon, Queen, Men at Work, Duran Duran, White Snake, Van Halen, Billy Idol, Adam Ant, Ace of Base, Bon Jovi, Twisted Sister, Night Ranger ("Sister Christian"), Wham!, Survivor, Spandau Ballet, Simply Red, Extreme ("More Than Words"), Huey Lewis & The News, Heart (!!!), Culture Club, Thompson Twins, Cyndi Lauper, The Cars, Dexys Midnight Runners ("Come on Eileen"!), Backstreet Boys... Alright, alright, this could go on forever. Trust me! LOL! I think you get the picture, though.

Movies:

Classics: My Fair Lady ("The Audrey Hepburn"), All About Eve (Bette Davis!! & Anne Baxter), Sunset Boulevard (William Holden & Gloria Swanson), The Women (excellent movie! Cast of all women including Norma Shearer, Joan Crawford, Rosalind Russell, Paulette Goddard, Ruth Hussey, Joan Fontaine, Marjorie Main, etc., etc.), Notorious (Cary Grant, Ingrid Bergman, Claude Rains), The Great Dictator (Charlie Chaplin, Paulette Goddard), Citizen Kane (Directed by Orson Welles!!! - cast of awesome characters, most notably Joseph Cotton), Carmen Jones (with Dorothy Dandridge and Harry Belafonte), Patch of Blue (Sidney Portier), Raisin In The Sun (Sidney Portier), In The Heat Of The Night (Sidney Portier), To Sir With Love (Sidney Portier), Guess Who's Coming To Dinner (Sidney Portier), Lillies Of The Field (Sidney Portier), Blackboard Jungle (Sidney Portier), My Girl Friday (Cary Grant - sigh - and Rosalind Russell), Auntie Mame (Rosalind Russell), Breakfast at Tiffany's (Audrey Hepburn, George Peppard), It Happened One Night (Cary Grant and Claudette Colbert), Judgment at Nuremburg (Wow! Burt Lancaster, Spencer Tracy, Montgomery Clift, Marlene Dietrich, Richard Widmark, Judy Garland, even a young William Shatner!), Gone With the Wind (Hattie McDaniel...we know the others in the movie! Gotta give the sistah her props!), Random Harvest (Greer Garson, Ronald Colman), Withering Heights, Tomorrow Is Forever (Orson Welles, Claudette Colbert, little Natalie Wood...around 7 years old!), Double Indemnity (Fred McMurray, Barbara Stanwyk), Born Yesterday (Judy Holiday and William Holden), State of the Union (Katharine Hepburn, Spencer Tracy), The Philadelphia Story (Kate & Spence), Woman of the Year (Kate & Spence), Pat and Mike (Kate and Spence), heck, all things Kate & Spence!, All the Thin Man movies (William Powell & Myrna Loy), The Asphalt Jungle (Sterling Hayden, Jean hagen, Marilyn Monroe - although a small part), Cat on A Hot Tin Roof (Paul Newman, Elizabeth Taylor), Postman Always Rings Twice (Lana Turner, John Garfield...bestill my heart!), all Woody Allen movies, any and everything Alfred Hitchcock, pretty much anything classic!More recent (relatively speaking) stuff...Bridges of Madison County, Yentl (Barbra Streisand!), Love Jones, Sparkle (young Irene Cara), Claudine (Diahann Carroll, James Earl Jones), Usual Suspects, Grease (!!!), Breakin', Two Can Play That Game, Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgandy ("I don't know how to put this, but I'm kind of a big deal. People know me. I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany" LOL!! Another notable, "Well, now, guess what, this is happening. That's how I roll!" ROTFLMBAO! You had to have been there!)...others, but can't affore to expend any brain energy on it just right now![List of some of my favorite actors and actresses who may not be listed above: Audrey Hepburn, Lena Horne, Cary Grant, Katharine Hepburn, Spencer Tracy, John Garfield, Lana Turner, Grace Kelly, Gene Kelly, William Powell, Myrna Loy, Doris Day, Rock Hudson, Dick Powell, Diana Durbin, Jimmy Stewart, William Holden, Kim Novak, Tippy Hedron, Andy Garcia, Marlon Brando, Jane Fonda, Diane Carroll, Lola Falana, Robert Duvall, Denzel Washington, John Travolta, Samuel L. Jackson]

Television:

Turner Classic Movies (TCM) History Channel Court TV A&E

Books:

MOST...I'm an AVID reader!!! My favorite authors, that I can recall right now, are: ROBERT B. PARKER (!!!), Walter Mosely, James Patterson, Janet Evanovich, J.D. Robb, Jillian Hoffman...

Heroes:



My Blog

Well, well, well...

I've always been adverse to change, like things status quo, so I thought. Well, as it turns out, change ain't that bad! Not bad at all... Check out my "Status" change.  Your girl is officially&n...
Posted by iamspirited on Fri, 02 May 2008 10:01:00 PST

He said... (Part IV)

"I love you." I said, "I can't say that back right now. But, I will tell you, it's feeling a lot like that to me, too." He said... "It's okay, take your time...I'm not going anywhere." Wow, folks!...
Posted by iamspirited on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 03:22:00 PST

He said... (Part III)

This weekend, I sat in and observed my "new interest" teach high school math (yeah, he's a teacher) ...never knew Algebra and Geometry could be so sexy! LOL! Anyhoo, we went to an Old School HipHop&nb...
Posted by iamspirited on Mon, 21 Apr 2008 11:21:00 PST

He said... (Part II)

Disclaimer: The use of the word "love" in his text was NOT intended to apply to him and me. It’s poetry, folks! Ain’t nobody in love... But, it sure feels good!   ;o) H...
Posted by iamspirited on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 04:09:00 PST

I got tagged by Evy!

Taaj changed it to 12 instead of 10.  (Then, Lisa changed it back to 10 'cause she didn't want to think that hard!  LOL!)   Write 10 random things about yourself, then list te...
Posted by iamspirited on Tue, 29 Jan 2008 02:42:00 PST

Testing my patience

This escrow sh*t is testing my patience, but I'm strong...I'm determined...God is still in control and...that's all I have to say, right now... * sigh *
Posted by iamspirited on Wed, 07 Nov 2007 04:54:00 PST

I’m in Escrow!! (Austin, TX will wait for me)

Okay, just a quick update... First, my apologies to those with whom I've neglected networking on MySpace over the last few weeks.  I've been away from this forum, but for good cause... I'M IN ESC...
Posted by iamspirited on Tue, 16 Oct 2007 01:10:00 PST

Hard to turn it off

Those who really know me know how hella down-to-earth I am, but also know that I have an intensely creative and abstract nature.  Most have experienced the down-to-earth side first, whi...
Posted by iamspirited on Thu, 30 Aug 2007 11:10:00 PST

Moving

Okay, I have finally come to the conclusion that in order to live the life I deserve to live...economically...I'm going to have to move out of California.  I'm in the market for a home...I make d...
Posted by iamspirited on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 09:46:00 PST

Oh my God...

...literally! Right now, I am praising Him (and laboring to hold back the charge of emotion)! I just want to share that He has REALLY been showing up for me lately...in many, many ways! Through many o...
Posted by iamspirited on Tue, 07 Aug 2007 02:04:00 PST