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Lori Williams

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About Me

Lately I embrace my age. My wrinkles, my aches, my scars, physically and emotionally. I have earned the right to embrace them. I am one year away from half a century..a CENTURY! How unbelievable that sounds! But instead of being sad about it, I intend to spend the next 50 years enjoying life, taking chances, not making the same mistakes I have always made, and hopefully, finding a loving relationship that is based on honesty and trust. If I don't find it, it's not meant to be. I intend to get a tattoo for my 50th birthday, go on a cruise, and have sex like I was 25! Maybe with a 25 year old! ;) I am tired of living safe and am ready to take some chances. I might just add a yolk to my eggwhite omelets now and then too!

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Synopsis
My life has been bared like a baby's
bottom, though not as sweet and pure,
nor pretty. My blackest days
live on pages without pride;
where I am a crone, a masked assassin,
a box full of bones.
Where I wait on line for sacred little pills,
build a shrine on a peeling wall,
think motherhood is not all
it's cracked up to be. Where I watch
my father's heart explode into pieces
I still find here and there. Thirty years
is a moment, sometimes. I let wrists
bleed on my mother's white sheets and dodge
fists that break wood and spirit. I bare
my middle-aged breasts and dry vagina
with foolish hopes that don't fool me,
with soulmate fantasies that pass the days
and make me feel like a woman again. Such
ways I have to keep my sanity. Where I see
what happens between hospital visiting hours
with rag doll grandmas and brown liquid
filling an oxygen mask as a mother's goodbye.
I cry in most of my poems,
don't I? Where I confess my sister's hair
makes her blind to things, and I hocked my lover's
diamond ring for a few bucks because I didn't like
gold. Where I drink Merlot until I run naked and wild,
walk the streets at 2am looking for my child, find
his boxcutters in a drawer, drool at the memory
of those pretty, candy cane sheets. Where I sabotage
every good thing, feet blistered from running away,
waking to a day without sun, even when it shines.
Where I am a snail, a turtle, a knife and a cup.
Where I am broken, glued together, upside down
and rightside up. Where I am not a wife, mother
or friend, just simply me. Where I might be a fool
for letting strangers into my sadness, my forever night,
but the truth is -- it's the only way I can write.

My Interests

I like poetry, animals, summer, the ocean, shells, a great salad, mohitos, bare feet, laughing with friends, my cat Lexie, my Beta fish Lil Dubbs, the morning newspaper,long weekends, honesty, even if it hurts, lingerie, cooking, kissing, perfume, true crime books, incense, candles, Blue bunny ice cream, a good night's sleep and being in love. Oh....sex too!

I'd like to meet:

All of you, and...

Music:

nothing you would be interested in! (so I've been told) Basically cornball music, like Manilow, the Carpenters, the Beatles, Doors, my Tommy, and most 50's to 70's music. I just feel the music of today is nowhere near that of those years. So shoot me...

Movies:

The Bridges of Madison County, Goodfellas, Beaches, Titanic, horror movies, documentaries, A Beautiful Life.

Television:

The king of Queens, Seinfeld, I Love Lucy, Honeymooners, American Idol, discovery channel, medical shows, Law and Order SVU (not the other with those two awful actors), daytime court shows like Judge Hatchett and Lopez, Extreme Makeover Home Edition.

Books:

Poetry, true crime, Steven King, biographies, Augusten Burroughs books, especially Running with Scissors

Heroes:

My mom. Our military. Mother Theresa. Ghandi. Dali Lama. Cindy Sheehan. Special Olympics kids. Parents with sick children. Extreme Makeover Home Edition people, Animal activists, and the list goes on. Anyone who stands up for the underdog.

My Blog

Mine (retitled from He Is)

There was a mistake somewhere in that nursery,I thought. There was the huge 11 lb baby, the one with mangled hands, the one so tiny you had to squintyour eyes to see, and him. He was beautiful. No, he...
Posted by Lori Williams on Wed, 02 Jul 2008 06:06:00 PST

1693 65th St. Part One

The Fiore's moved next door in 1968; Darla, a dark dirty looking girl, her two brothers, one blonde and blue-eyed, the other dark like her, and their mother, Marie, a divorcee. Marie wa...
Posted by Lori Williams on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 06:41:00 PST

What There Is

There's no hot water todaythere's no money to buy iteven if I could.There's no frozen spinachor clean towels, no unmade bed'cause he never came home.There's no way to turn back time,there's not enoug...
Posted by Lori Williams on Sun, 22 Jun 2008 09:08:00 PST

Stupidity

It is tiring being stupid;figuring out why, pondering how,listening to smart well-dressed people in elevators and on check out lines trying to pick up an intelligent thought or two. When it's a blond...
Posted by Lori Williams on Wed, 18 Jun 2008 07:12:00 PST

SEASONS

winter they sleep out in the cold,a plethora of old blankets shirts coatsshielding them against the chill  of the streets. they find a subway grate to lay on. there is heat there, but the cops an...
Posted by Lori Williams on Tue, 10 Jun 2008 04:49:00 PST

I am Animal

I am fangs and claws,scales and pincers,ready to pounce on my prey,or whoever gets in my way,mostly myself. I feel feral, like I could fucka hairy beast in the wild, leave a skin and blood trail, give...
Posted by Lori Williams on Sat, 24 May 2008 12:02:00 PST

Howie of 65th Street

Howie used to carry a hammer, walked up and down the alleyway,every day dawn til dusk. He was part of the block, 65th street, 17th Ave. Bensonhurst, 1970. The hammer was poised above his headone ...
Posted by Lori Williams on Fri, 16 May 2008 07:41:00 PST

He Ate All My Almonds ( Tag 8 - Heartache)

They were $3.49 a can, salt and vinegar EmeraldAlmonds. I wanted some tonight and they weren't there.But he was. There there there there there there there there... so hard to get the baby out of his f...
Posted by Lori Williams on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 06:31:00 PST

Sexy Scars (Tag 7 - Body Image)

1971 Bone tumor ankle  parents at bedside before biopsy dad's usual shining eyes dull with angst mommy didn't wear mascara or lipstickworried me more than being in the hospitalchicken parmagiana...
Posted by Lori Williams on Sat, 26 Apr 2008 12:11:00 PST

Bologna, as a Lesson (Tag 6 - Learning)

When I smell bologna, my mind goes back 40  something yearsto the edge of Lake Luzurne where my father used it as bait to teach me how to fish. He made a pole out of a tree branch. I can still se...
Posted by Lori Williams on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 06:36:00 PST