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Jayson

days and nights falling by

About Me

Hmmm...I'm fun, honest, sensitive, passionate, caring, emotional, thoughtful, & laid-back. I love watching tv in bed, thunderstorms, macaroni & cheese, massages, and the sound of wind blowing through the trees. I'm a huge music fan and a drummer who plays guitar as a hobby. When I'm not listening to music or playing it, I'm usually thinking about it. It's one of the greatest forces in my life and has been a constant passion for me since I was a child. I can't imagine a world without it. I'm also really into movies and enjoy most anything related to arts and entertainment. Taking road trips to other cities to see bands has become a hobby in the past few years and has generated some great memories and friends. I'm adventurous and spontaneous when the mood strikes me, but I'm also very dependable, loyal and responsible, which I think makes me a great friend. I'm a great listener and I take the time to understand what others are interested in. Most of the time when I first meet someone, especially of the opposite sex, I'm pretty reserved and have to get to know them a little and connect on a personal level before my personality truly comes out. I guess I'm shy that way. I have a wacky sense of humor that's almost always "on" and I can find humor in most everything. I'm not above laughing at myself sometimes as well. I don't have a problem admitting my mistakes either. It takes a lot to stress me out and I'm good at calming other people down, but I don't like to spend much time around people who are excessively dramatic. I've always been told I don't act my age. I'm a funny, silly guy and I'm always open to new experiences and adventures. --Why should we be in such desperate haste to succeed, and in such desperate enterprises? If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music he hears, however measured or faraway. - Henry David Thoreau

My Interests

music, movies, reading, ethnic food, travel, time with friends, pop culture, working out

I'd like to meet:

I'd like to meet people that are willing to take the time to really get to know me. I love people who can be child-like and silly without worrying about every little thing. My philosophy is: If I'm going to worry it should at least be about something that's happening instead of something that "might" happen. I don't think relationships, friendship or otherwise, can exist without effort, and it's rewarding and challenging to get to know someone and understand what makes them happy and fulfilled. "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans." - John Lennon

Music:

Some of my favorites in fairly random order:Cheap Trick, Deep Purple, KISS, R.E.M., U2, Pretenders, Queen, Keane, The Beatles, Elvis Costello, The Police, Pink Floyd, The Who, Kansas, The Cars, Pete Yorn, Boston, Fleetwood Mac, Soul Asylum, Journey, Def Leppard, Bruce Hornsby, Rush, World Party, Tracy Chapman, Van Halen, Peter Gabriel, The Sounds, Blondie, AC/DC, Dio, The Smithereens, Megadeth, Liz Phair, INXS, Queensryche, Motorhead, Norah Jones, Live, The Knack, James, Suzanne Vega, Tears For Fears, Bob Dylan, Del Amitri, Dire Straits, Led Zeppelin, Red Hot Chili Peppers, 10,000 Maniacs, Nirvana, Ozzy Osbourne, Kate Bush, Toad The Wet Sprocket, Ramones, The Outfield, Hole, Alice Cooper, The Sundays, The Cranberries, No Doubt, Sarah Brightman, Matthew Sweet, XTC, Counting Crows, The Wallflowers, Lou Reed, enya, Blackmore's Night, The Donnas, Sinead O'Connor, BoDeans, Loreena McKennitt, The Cure, Pearl Jam, Johnny Cash, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, Scorpions, Styx, ELO, The Darkness, Michael Penn, Steve Earle, Roxette, Concrete Blonde, B-52s, Warren Zevon, Jackson Browne, Graham Parker, Madonna, Hayseed Dixie (my friend's band), John Denver, Dido, Midnight Oil, Tori Amos, Josh Rouse, The Cure, Bob Mould, They Might Be Giants, Iron Maiden, Garbage...I love 80's music and dig some hair metal when I'm in a frivolous mood. I have greatest hits only by Human League, Culture Club, Men At Work, Howard Jones, Psychedelic Furs, Simple Minds, Echo and The Bunnymen...Poison, Cinderella, Warrant, Dokken...If I listed all the artists I like it would take 3 times this much space!

Movies:

High Fidelity, School Of Rock, This Is Spinal Tap...I'm into all kinds of movies, but usually don't watch them over and over and don't have a lot of favorites, really. I am a fan of Adam Sandler and John Cusack, though, and I usually go see their movies when they come out. A few movies that come to mind that impacted me in the past few years have been Gangs Of New York, Hotel Rwanda, Cinderella Man, and The Pursuit Of Happyness. I also dug the Lord Of The Rings movies, Gladiator, Almost Famous, King Kong...I even like romantic comedies. ;-)

Television:

24, Grey's Anatomy, The Office, Lost, Desperate Housewives, ER, Boston Legal, Survivor, Surreal Life, SNL...I think that's about it, though I got sucked into American Idol this last time. Freak And Geeks was one of my favorite shows ever! Most tv is kind of lame and I don't want to spend any more time on it than I already do, but it's entertaining sometimes.

Books:

My favorite books are musician's biographies like The Dirt, Walk This Way, KISS And Make Up...I recently read Conversations With Tom Petty and Contents Under Pressure (about Rush)...both great books if you're a fan. I used to read self-help books, but at this point I've helped myself about as much as I can. You can only read so much of that stuff before it all runs together. As far as magazines, I've been a consistent Rolling Stone reader for years. I also read the Nashville Scene every week and All The Rage every now and then as well. They're both free weekly local papers for those of you that aren't from around here. :-)

Heroes:

My grandmother was my greatest hero. She somehow remembered everything about people she had met and truly cared about anyone she came in contact with...simply an amazing woman with an incredible memory. My mom took after her and is equally amazing.

My Blog

Movies I saw in 2006

Ah, 2006 certainly wasn't the best year for movies, but I still managed to find quite a few good ones. As last year, I've marked the ones I rented with an asterisk and the ones I saw on tv with two as...
Posted by Jayson on Tue, 09 Jan 2007 08:48:00 PST

I'm a Democrat / we've been Bushwhacked

I wouldn't feel like I was being completely honest with people who are reading about me if I didn't mention that I think pretty much every decision our current president has made has been either ...
Posted by Jayson on Sat, 22 Oct 2005 08:41:00 PST

Scotland & Ireland rocked

I just got back from spending 8 days travelling on the road with Hayseed Dixie.  Of the 5 shows I saw when I was there, only one wasn't completely sold out and it was in a town they had never bee...
Posted by Jayson on Mon, 02 Oct 2006 04:51:00 PST

As of 9/20, I'm gone to Scotland & Ireland until the end of the month!

I almost never post new blogs because I figure people don't want to hear my crazy opinions or read about mundane, everyday stuff, but I figured it was worth posting to say that I'm leaving on Wednesda...
Posted by Jayson on Tue, 19 Sep 2006 05:16:00 PST

Snakes On A Plane...

freakin' rocks!  It's a thriller, suspense, and action movie all rolled into one, plus there are a few funny moments mixed in as well.  It's the most entertaining movie I've seen in ages and...
Posted by Jayson on Fri, 18 Aug 2006 10:22:00 PST

Movies I saw in 2005

To give an idea of the number of movies I watch, I decided to list them here for people to peruse.  Feel free to send a message to discuss anything movie-related with me.  I watched them all...
Posted by Jayson on Thu, 29 Dec 2005 09:26:00 PST

There She Goes / true love does exist

It recently occurred to me that the song There She Goes by The La's is actually a song about doing heroin.  If you take it at face-value you think he's singing about a girl, but every line i...
Posted by Jayson on Wed, 26 Oct 2005 09:53:00 PST