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SINGLE MOM...and so much more!

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About Me


I am a single mother of four GROWN folks. I am God's chosen vessel, created with a divine purpose. I do not acquiesce to familial or societal limitations or expectations. Instead, I define myself based on ALL the things God says I am: more than a conqueror, the head and not the tail, above and not beneath, blessed in the city, blessed in the field;
Who do YOU say you are?
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I DEFINE ME!

I am the President and CEO of my life. My life is a reflection of my choices, so I will make wise choices and be accountable for my actions. I am a divine being created with a purpose that I will strive daily to fulfill. God made me an original, so I will act original, think original, BE original; I will not die a cheap copy!
Dreams are seeded inside of me that I will make my reality. I'm not afraid to think for myself because I have the courage that it takes to be ME. The criticism of others will not subvert my purpose because I'm in the driver's seat of my life. If I should ever question who I am, I will seek validation and guidance from my Creator.
I add value to any environment that I enter; therefore, suicide is never an option--I know this world is a better place because of ME.
I LOVE TO SHOP!!!
I love to travel, read, write, go to gospel plays, discuss the bible, and correspond with people of like mind.
SHOPPING!!!
I have a shoe fetish; I love my heels.
SHOPPING
SHOES
SHOPPING



My Interests

WHAT IS A SINGLE MOM?

She's a phenomenal woman doing phenomenal things

SHE'S AN INVENTOR EXTRAORDINAIRE

Joy Mangano, Inventor Extraordinaire (Self-wringing Miracle Mop, Huggable Hangers) - Divorced Mother of 3 children

SHE'S A MEDIA SUPERSTAR

Cathy Hughes, Founder and Chairperson of RadioOne - Mother at 17. Later married, and then divorced. She is the first African-American woman to head a firm publicly traded on a New York stock exchange in the United States.

Her son, Alfred Liggins, III, who attended Wharton School of Business, is President and CEO of RadioOne and chairman of TVOne.

SHE'S A MODEL & MOGUL

Kimora Lee Simmons, Fashion mogul (founder of Baby Phat), Author, Model,Mom - Divorced mother of 2 daughters

SHE'S A PULITZER PRIZE NOMINEE

Maya Angelou, Dancer, Poet, Author, Pulitzer Prize Nominee - Teenage mom

SHE'S FORMER EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Susan L. Taylor, Former Editor-in-chief, Essence Magazine; Author - Former single mother of 1 daughter

SHE'S A WIDOW OF THE CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT

Betty Shabazz, Coretta Scott King, Myrlie Evers, Widows of the Civil Rights Movement

SHE'S ROYALTY...PERSONIFIED

The Late Princess Diana, Princess of Wales, Humanitarian - Divorced mother of 2 sons

SHE'S AN ADVOCATE

Sarah Ferguson, Duchess of York - Founder, Children in Crisis and The Sarah Ferguson Foundation; Spokesperson for Weight Watchers International; A 2005 global ambassador for Ronald McDonald House Charities’ World Children’s Day - Divorced mother of 2 daughters

SHE'S AN OVERCOMER

Paula White, Minister, Life Coach, Author, Motivational Speaker - Former Single Mom

SHE'S A FRIEND

Gayle King, Editor-at-Large for O, The Oprah Magazine - Divorced mother of 2

SHE'S AN AMERICAN IDOL

Fantasia Barrino, Season 3 American Idol Winner, Grammy Award-nominated R&B/soul singer, Broadway actress in The Color Purple - Teenage Mom

SHE'S AN AMERICAN JOURNALIST

Katie Couric, Former co-host of NBC Today, First woman solo-anchor of the weekday evening news on one of the three traditional U.S. broadcast networks - Widowed mother of 2

SHE'S A FIRST LADY

LisaRaye Misick, Actress, First Lady of the Turks and Caicos Islands - Former single mother to 1 daughter

SHE'S A RESTAURANTEUR

Paul Deen, Restauranteur and Emmy-Award-Winning Personality - Divorced mother of 2 sons

SHE'S A FORMER MAYOR

Sharon Sayles Belton, Former Mayor of Minneapolis, MN - Was a single mother to a disabled mother child before becoming mayor

SHE MARRIED A GRAMMY AWARD-WINNING R&B AND POP SINGER

Tameka Foster, Wife of Usher Raymond, IV - Divorced mother of 3

SHE RAISED A PIONEERING SURGEON

Dr. Ben Carson, Neurosurgeon, Medal of Freedom Recipient - Raised by a single mom.

Dr. Carson performed the world's first successful operation separating twins joined at the back of the head in 1987.

SHE RAISED AN ACTOR

Tom Cruise, Actor - Mother separated from his abusive, alcoholic father when he was 12

SHE RAISED AN ACTRESS

Sarah Michelle Prinze (nee, Gellar), Actress - Estranged from her father. Raised as an only child by her divorced mother.

Halle Barry, Actress - Raised by a single mother

SHE RAISED THREE DOCTORS

Sampson Davis, Rameck Hunt and George Jenkins, also fondly known as The Three Doctors - Raised in the projects by single moms.

Dr. Hunt is a Board certified internist at University Medical Center at Princeton and Assistant Professor of Medicine at Robert Wood Johnson Medical School. Dr. Jenkins serves as Assistant Professor of Clinical Dentistry at Columbia University. Dr. Davis is a Board Certified Emergency Medicine Physician at St. Michaels Medical Center and Raritan Bay Medical Center. Davis is also consultant for the Violence Prevention Institute focusing on gang awareness and preventative medicine in Essex County.

SHE RAISED A JUDGE

Judge Greg Mathis, The Judge Mathis Show; The youngest elected judge in Michigan history - Former gang member (Errol Flynns), in and out of jail as a teen - Mother raised 4 sons as a single mother

SHE BIRTHED A MEDIA TYCOON

Oprah Winfrey, Media Queen - Born to a single mother

I'd like to meet:

Jesus Christ, but I'm in no hurry...See you when I get there.

Susan L. Taylor, Cathy Hughes, Angela Bassett. People who define themselves from the inside out.

Music:

I LOVE Gospel music

Movies:

Love & Basketball, Two Can Play That Game, The Color Purple, Philadelphia, Malcolm X

Television:

Sunday Best, America's Most Wanted, Forensic Files, HGTV

Books:

No Disrespect
Think and Grow Rich, a Black Choice
A Child Called "It"
Rich Dad Poor Dad
Makes Me Wanna Holler

Heroes:

Jesus Christ, Me

My Blog

Poole pleads guilty in beating death of 4-year-old

This is so ridiculous.Does anybody besides me think she got off easy?Demond Reed, 4Carla Poole, 37A Minneapolis woman accused of beating her cousin's four-year-old-child to death while she was babysit...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 07:38:00 PST

Download Suze Orman’s Book, "Women and Money," Free

If you missed it the first time, she's giving it away again. Follow this link to download Suze's book free. You must do it within the next 24 hours. http://www2.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/200802/tows_...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Thu, 26 Jun 2008 02:37:00 PST

Mama said, Mama said

These are some of my favorite quotes.  Share your favorite(s) by posting a comment on my page. Make him stroke your mind before your behind Get something in your head before you get in...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Wed, 25 Jun 2008 11:32:00 PST

3-year-old uses song lyrics to call 911 for mother

Teach 'em young A 3-year-old girl used a simple song her mom made up to teach her how to call 911 to summon help when mom fainted. When the 24-year-old and 3-months-pregnant Jessica Eaves fainted, ...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Wed, 25 Jun 2008 11:10:00 PST

Greener Grass

Is "everybody's" grass greener than yours? Does "everybody" get lucky while life keeps dealing you a bad hand? Is "everybody" better off than you? I have two questions: 1) Who is "EVERYBODY"? 2) ...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Wed, 25 Jun 2008 08:59:00 PST

Conflicted Society

Is it human nature to want what we don't have? Or, are we just a conflicted society: Old folks want to be young. Young folks want to be old. Married people are acting single, while single people are ...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Wed, 25 Jun 2008 08:22:00 PST

Job Offer - Is she serious?

I got a job offer last week to work as a Project Coordinator. Here's the actual email I received: Contract is in St. Paul, Minn and pays 9 per hourWould that work? My response was did she READ my res...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Tue, 24 Jun 2008 06:21:00 PST

Black Doctor Earns Medal of Freedom Award

Another single mom success story!   WASHINGTON -- President Bush on Thursday presented the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the nation's highest civilian award, to leaders in medicine, government, ...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Fri, 20 Jun 2008 06:56:00 PST

Girl takes father to court over class trip

First, they say you can't spank your children. Now, you can't take things away without the judge overruling your decision? What is this world coming to? What's up with kids running the house and paren...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Fri, 20 Jun 2008 05:36:00 PST

Glamorizing Pregnancy? - Seventeen High School Girls Keep Pact To Get Pregnant Together

As summer vacation begins, 17 girls at Gloucester High School are expecting babies  more than four times the number of pregnancies the 1,200-student school had last year. Some adults dismissed the st...
Posted by SINGLE MOM...and so much more! on Fri, 20 Jun 2008 06:03:00 PST