The ♥Leggy♥Muscle♥Gazelle

I am a psychologist, I specialize in relationship and intimacy issues between couples. I am also an excellent listener and am a loyal, trustworthy friend. If you would like to find out more about my services for your relationship, view my site at :
http://www.gracegniazdowskaphd.com my site is still being worked on, but you can get some general info. You can also google "Sensual Mentality" and my site will come up :o)
I am 5'11 Sexy Playful Silly Voluptuous Feline. Roman Catholic, Intelligent, Educated and Self Employed. I recently relocated to CT from downtown Chicago where I grew up. I miss the social life, my friends and most of all, I miss my success. I lived right by Chestnut and Dearborn and walked to John Hancock Center and Water Tower it was just 2 blocks away :o) I went for vacation to Miami and met my Walter. He was so sweet, kind and gentle that I couldn't live without his gentle touch and sweet words and moved here to be with him. Now I am trying to re-establish my practice here, in this beautiful new state and find new friends. I only open up with people I know, other wise I am very serious and quiet, even shy around strangers. Besides being a psychologist, I am a plus size/tall model. I model my legs lingerie and lips. I do it for fun, the costumes, props and all kinds of places I fly to for my shoots and I absolutely love it. I am size 14 dress, 12 skirt. 38D/32/38.
Someone called me a SEX therapist. Wrong! That is NOT what I do. There is a big difference between intimacy and sex, I am not a sex therapist. I am a psychologist who is doing everything from listening to the very basic problems between a couple, to issues much deeper just to "save a relationship"
A good therapist doesn't dump his/her clients and sends them to someone else, when they need different type of help. I get to know my patients and stick with them through thick and thin, untill I know their love is fixed, re-newed, and it will last... Relationship romance and intimacy is my focus, I don't do what the people on HBO do.
Sorry to disapoint you. I am a psychologist, a doctor, not some dingbat who claims to know what makes people tick in the bedroom. Great love making begins in the mind and heart. You touch a woman through intelligence and romance, not by stuffing her like a sausage.
I understand men are different than women, but without mutual respect and understanding, we can't be great lovers, being great lovers, doesn't mean you can pound her hard, or fast, it's fullfilling her/his needs, whether it's emotional, or physical.... women are tired of brutes and cheapsketes, insensitive selfish slobs, a real lover, reaches their partners needs on all levels, mental, verbal, visual, scensory, a good lover is thoughtfull, sensual, romantic.
The right glance, romantic behavior, kind loving words... nice music, a flower, candle light, a sensual massage, some women simply feel loved when you remember someting she told you, her favorite color, just doing what she asks of you without challenging everything she says, or even getting her the right kind of pads when she needs them... don't be too wrapped up in what your friends will say, will they do your laundry, cook for you, take care of your children and your home, will they keep your bed warm at night when she leaves you? All because it was more important to impress your friends or what "they" will think of you instead of caring what your partner will feel toward you... Once you find a good woman, you must do everything to be a good man "for her", please "her", make "her" happy, not your friends. All your friends are good for, is shooting dumb remarks from their ignorant mouths, they will maybe subconsciously give you bad advice because they, them selves, are jealous of you, being an a**whole doesn't make you a real man in her eyes, what will make you her man, her king, is if you take good care of her in every way... and that, will "turn a woman on" much faster, than the dumb macho behavior most men exhibit most of the time, these days. To most women, your rude, vulgar, macho behavior is a total turn off.
I hear a lot "nice guys finish last" that's because it's only you who thinks you are nice, if you were really nice, she wouldn't be so unhappy, now would she?
I for instance, will never tolerate a man who is vulgar and bossy or not een that, I will not be with someone who has no respect for my opinion, or my simple everyday needs. I can't love or even tollerate a man who forgets (or doesn't care) what is special to me, or who ignores my plans and dreams. Who doesn't ask my opinion on anything or makes plans without asking me, like it doesn't count. Who neglects to get me a flower for my birthday or valentines, or forgets anniversaries.
I will remember every time you make me feel un-important or not important enough. It makes a woman feel unloved and like you don't love her enough, a man who gives me coditions/ultimatums in order to do something for me, doesn't really care about me. Show me how much having me in your life means to you, proove you care about who I am as a person, my heart, my mind, my opinions and theories... but never pretend, I can read you like a book...lol, then and only then, I will show you how a man should be treated.
Treat me like a goddess, your queen, spoil me, and I will treat you like my king... I am not impressed by alpha males, macho men, never was, never will be, at all. I love humble considerate honest loving kind-hearted thoughtfull sincere caring men, I will not settle for anyone less, than a genuine gentleman. It's so simple with me, thoughfulness, respect, being appreciated makes me feel loved... I love attention, I love men who make an effort to impress me. That's what will make me happy, that's a man I will stick with.
But enough about me... lol. Back to the subject ;o)
Women need more than the primal animal sex, yes, quickies are nice, but we need sensuality and romance, quickies are mostly for you guys... and that's what I teach, besides listening and helping my patients with everyday stressful situations we all face today, I also teach couples how to be sensitive, conciderate, even to manage their money, to set up a budget etc,
As I said, everything to save your marriage/ relationship. I help women with their image by designing a meal/exercise plan, help with their self esteam. For women to wear make up or wear less, for men to dress better, to appeal to her/his mate.
Some women spend too much money, it happens when she needs to fill a void in her heart, we all feel good when we look good, we think a pretty outfit will make the black whole in our heart go away, and it does, but it doesn't last long. What we do not realize is that our partner can fill that void, with giving each other more attention and romance, love and intimacy, spend time together, make a date and make it all about eachother. A man who ceizes to notice a womans unhappiness, will start loosing her love and eventually, will loose her. That goes for both genders. After all, you can loose a lifetime in a blink of an eye, love is about how your mate makes you feel when you are with them.
Women will always spend money, after all, you want us to look good for you, but I can teach them to spend "better". Gentlemen you also must realize, you can help her fill the painful void which you create unknowingly, by ignoring her, by disrespecting her, by neglecting her, replace it with warm memories of last night by the fireplace, by remembering how you made her dinner and brought her a glass of wine, how you took her in your arms and slow danced with her... Boys, you blame women for changing and not being as sexual, but try to remember, be honest, you are not the romeo you were, when you were trying to get into our hearts, and our pants. Be real, ok? That was exactly what made us passionate playful and sensual, and when you stop adding charcohl, don't expect the fire to keep burning... I am Not taking sides, just sharing some secrets with you, and explaining.
So you see, I do much more than just teach love making, and I mean "love" making. Even dumb animals know how to have sex, but no one teaches us how to "make love" through our heart and mind. How to get each other in the mood the "right way", and yes, I do teach techniques, but it is only, if that is the couples problem.
Hope now you understand, and will not misconstrue my work again.
P.S I am now available for individual sessions. If you need someone to listen, if you have no one you can trust, and need someone to talk to, if you have issues no one would understand or that you can't share even with your best friend or family... I am here for you. I took a vow to protect your privacy and I will never betray you. I know people gossip, especially your girlfriends as soon as you leave the room. I am sweet, friendly and loyal, with a dulcette voice and calm demeanor. I will not make you feel like you are seeing a therapist, but like you are talking to a good friend.
I am not greedy and will not charge you a lot, my usual fee is very low, $150.00 per session, not per hour, plus the cost of gas. You can pre-pay for the session on my website, or pay in cash when we meet.
To the thrill seeking boys, I am NOT a call-girl, if your intention is to lure me out and make me feel uncomfortable by behaving inappropriately, you have another thing coming. I am a professional therapist...I may be sexy, sensual and I like sensual photography, but I am in no way promiscuous, to me the act of loving is special and meant for someone who truly loves me and I love him back, I don't do casual sex, Ever! If "fun" as you guys call it, is what you want, find someone else. I am here to help people and spread the word about my practice as well to make some good "REAL" friends.