Anything and everything to do with my babies, aka doggies Lucia Maria de Caridad "Lucie" Hill y Herrera, Zoe Elisabeth "Zozieboo", and kitty Chloe "Meowmy Meow"; spending precious time with friends and family; reading; education and its equitable distribution;
traveling but not in a touristy way; cooking; serving and participating within my community; crossword puzzles; preservation and passing along of arts, culture, music, dance, song and other cultural traditions;
shopping; any and all holidays and any reason to celebrate or make a party out of even the tiniest littlest event (and it will last for days!); pedicures and other spa-like indulgences; planning and organizing events; candlelight; immigration/migration patterns and transnational communities; dark organic really good chocolate;
artichokes; flowers but especially red ones; being near the sand/water; learning new languages; barbequeing; listening to really old and really young people;
any kind of shrimp and other shellfish; being under the stars and moonlight; gardening, in particular my herbs, tomatoes and flowers;arts and crafts/sewing/embroidery; learning to paint with canvas and oil;
collecting vintage Caribbean dolls, books and paintings. And there are some people that say that I spend an inordinate amount of time with my cell phone....
My ancestors as they crossed the mighty oceans; as well as a myriad of other unsung and influential people. As one of my dear older Cuban uncles as well as my own grandmother say repeatedly, "I LOVE YOU FOR YOU!" And I do. I enjoy meeting people of all ages and backgrounds with their unique quirks and dreams and life stories.
Loud, LOUDER and LOUDEST!!!! En vivo (live), in the streets, percussion-based African, Caribbean or Mediterranean. But I also appreciate many other genres.
I attended my first concert at three days old, I think it was the pianist Van Cliburn who, as an accomplished pianist and organist in her own right, my mother would not have missed for the world. As a girl I was forbidden by my father to play drums as I always wished for, but instead put my musical talent into piano, flute, violin and viola, playing with a youth orchestra for many years as well as performed at many recitals and attended Young Musicians and Artists camp in the summer.
But ever determined, I used to sneak out my window and practice on an old tree stump on the patio when my father wasn't home. I even purchased a drum kit once at a garage sale when I was about 13 years old, paying it off in installments over weeks and months with my allowance money and as I couldn't bring it home stopping by the owners garage every day on the way home from school.
My love of percussion has carried over into adulthood and I organize festivals and events featuring percussion based music of the African Diaspora, working on such local events as Carifest, Homowo, Brazil Carnaval and Micareta, and within the Cuban, Haitian, Brazilian and other local communities.
The one song that never fails to bring tears to my eyes, along with all the songs that my father and grandfather used to sing around the house that I wished I remembered all the words to, is Un Monton de Estrellas by Palo Montanez.
MY NEW FAVORITE-EL BENNY!
About the life of Cuban son master Beny More. A must-see!
I adore movies!!! My Netflix queue is several hundred deep at any given time and when I get impatient there's always Movie Madness and if I'm really hard up, a (gulp) Blockbuster a block away. And of course ON DEMAND....when it works
I enjoy a very wide variety; about the only things I don't really like are most science fiction, anime (sorry Juan Carlos), British tv/movies, and I can't watch horror movies by myself or right before I go to sleep.
Some of my alltime and recent favorites are Mambo Kings, Black Orpheus, Scarface, Buena Vista Social Club, Maid in Manhattan, Sound of Music, Balseros, Selena, Beloved, The Godfather (especially part II), Houseboat, Milagro de Candeal, Sabrina (original and remake), Man of Fire, Ghost Dog, Original Sin, Raisin in the Sun, Red Violin, A Price Above Rubies, The Songcatcher, Mad Hot Ballroom, Maria Full of Grace, Apocalypto, Island in the Sun, Sugarcane Alley, Memoirs of a Geisha, Hustle and Flow, The Painted Veil, Last King of Scotland .....
I take my movie watching seriously whether at home or in the theater, and like to do it classic with popcorn and junior mints or red vines and rootbeer and on occasion pizza, or a little more sophisticated with a steamed artichoke, saffron mussels or crab legs and a glass o vino, or like to pair the movie with an appropriate food for a full sensory experience.
My dream, inspired by my nostalgic memories of the drive-in on Sunday nights as a teenager and a summer of late-night Netlix on the laptop outside under the stars and moonlight with the bbq and tiki torches, is to set up a little mini outdoor community movie theater in my spacious front lawn projecting onto the gray wall of my neighbors house which borders my garden, maybe big enough for about 12-20 people.
Working out the legalities...and getting rid of the mosquitos. Maybe by next summer unless we all wanna huddle round the chiminea with lots of layers and a rain canopy. Hmmm....
I'm more of a movie girl than a tv girl and you'll usually only find me watching tv right before I go to bed to put me to sleep or on as background noise if things are too quiet (its a Cuban thing!). I fall WAY under the national average of 30 hours a week, thank God! And I am soooo not a channel surfer (I think its a guy thing!). But on those occasions when I do watch I enjoy:
La Esclava Isaura
Damages
Perry Mason (if I'm home sick, a nostalgic childhood tradition accompanied by camping out on the sofa, Jel-lo water, spoonfuls of honey with a crushed aspirin inside and all the Godfather movies)
old-school Law and Order
Nick at Nite reruns
HGTV home-fixer-upper shows while I'm cooking
Pay-per-view heavyweight boxing
World Cup FUTBOL!!!-it doesn't matter what time of day or night if its one of my teams but those 3am matches are a little rough on a girl's sleep schedule.
I read fairly weighty materials to keep up with my professional and academic interests, so for leisure reading prefer novels.
Anything historical but not necessarily factual and relating to the Caribbean, Africa, and particularly migration stories; or my newest interest, the Chinese Diaspora in these parts of the world, which is based on the sudden interest of the Chinese government in restoring diplomatic relations and the Barrio Chino en Havana and other Caribbean places as well as having (finally had the time to) read Christina Garcia's Monkey Hunting.
I also belong to JaneAnne Peterson’s absolutely amazing bookgroup and follow along as I can with a wide variety of interesting reads, however the meetings are across town early Saturday mornings and if you know me and my schedule you know that’s difficult at best...despite the delicious and scrumptiously planned and prepared themed food which accompanies a lively discussion and high caliber and intelligent company in her gorgeously restored home.
I will also confess to a few trashy inherited and sentimental "Aunt Mary novels", named after my great aunt Mary who as an attorney/judge traveled frequently for both business and leisure and bought them at the airport to read on the plane, swearing by them as a sleep remedy.
My grandmothers Frances Smith Brigham and Marian Edith Oswald Hill, my great-grandmother Eda Helene Funeczan Oswald Kurucz, my great aunt Betty Hill Winchenbach and my dear 88-year old friend and surrogate grandma LaDessa, who have all taught me by example that with unconditional love and true happiness comes sacrifice and pain and a lot of bumpy roads and even more patience, but the end result is well worth the effort for the right person. True love can be eternal, transcending our earthly lives and the love of a good man is something you carry with you forever. My quest for Mr. Grow-old-with and how I will spend the next half of my life is largely informed by their wisdom.
My mom for loving me unconditionally and always being there when things get rough, and my Ant ooO" Janet and "Other Mother" Ann, for helping her. They way I plow through life at times this is more than enough work for three amazingly strong and resilient women, all whom I admire and love very much. They keep me on track and looking at the big picture.
My dad for always letting me cry in his arms and not letting go til my tears stopped, holding me on those same shoulders to see Cuba for my first time as the sun set off the Florida coast, then later sending me as an adult. For playing tooth fairy and Easter bunny and leprechaun and Santa to always make our holidays magical. For not getting mad when I borrowed his favorite sweaters and even generously offering his not-even-worn-out socks for Christmas stockings so they would be big enough to hold the coconuts and oranges he unfailingly remembered to put in every year, and for insisting that we could open presents at midnight despite our bedtime. I always opened Ant Janet's cause it was usually the smallest one and I knew whatever was inside would be spectacular.
My step-parents Kit "S'momma" and Mitchel (he will get his nickname one of these days).... Both my parents were very lucky their second times around to find and even re-discover (Mitchel and my mom were long-lost high school sweethearts) the most amazing people, and so am I, for now I have four parents
My baby brother for doing life the conventional way, college, marriage, baby, and now your first house, after living in mom's basement for well, a while. That takes alot of courage and I am relieved you didn't end up being a 24/7 gamerboy. Je je je. Even though I bet you still sneak it in now and then when you're wife's not looking...You are certainly no failure to launch now that life has taken over and I am very proud of you!! And you sure gave me a gorgeous niece. Someday when I am ready I will return the favor. Our babies would have been only four days apart, if that, and I live vicariously through your parenting experiences, watching you with great pride at what a good father you are, until my time comes again. There is nothing like your own and never can be, but little Audrey is certainly the next best thing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
My stepsister Amy was taken from us at such a young age and taught us that life can be all too short. I learned so much from her in our short time together and she will be with me forever. Refuse to be taken for granted, wear whatever the hell you feel like, and always paint your nails. We gave you back to Ochun and Yemaya so I know you will come again and I already see you in Rachael Amy, your namesake.
My entire family for making the holidays and even the little things in life so extraordinary and taking the bad times with the many good and important. I can't wait for my turn to pass these things along to my children and grandchildren as I blend them with another chain of traditions.
Dr. Candice Goucher and all the other women who have shown me that you can combine a marvelous profession with the passions of motherhood and lead interesting and rewarding lives without damaging your children or your career. Here's to wading into the water to greet the sun with a big round belly and nursing while writing your dissertation. It can be done.
All my many other teachers/mentors along the way: Jan Hobson(Ibaye) RuthAnn McKenzie (Ibaye), Mike Kwong, Bob Medici, Bob Slayton, Don Walker (Ibaye), Paul Bender, Izac Bales, Marc Zwerling, Dan Bernstine, Marvin Kaiser, Cathy Evleshin, Mary King, and so many, many more.
Drs. Kofi Agorsah and Jack Corbett, whose committment to education, internationalization in its most pure and uncorrupt sense, and selflessness is above all else in their lives and has guided and inspired me as a student, teacher and administrator.