sex worker rights, performing with Debby Doesn't Do It For Free, queer rights, sex & gender and sexuality diversity, paganism, rubber duckies, anarchism, animal rights, peace and non-violence activism, social justice, furry, gender, Barbie, butch-femme, sex radicalism, queer theory, tattoos, reading, writing, performing, zines and other DIY publications and media, mid-century modern furniture and design, hair pulling, biting, kissing, being tactile, coffee, mango, banana, pineapple, nuns, clowns, cats, dogs, bears, snakes, adelie penguins, lions, tigers,(oh my!) cheetahs, ocelots, costumes and dress ups, frocks, corsetry, lingerie, red, pink, purple, femme body modifications, trying new vegetarian recipes, cooking in general, planning and preparing amazing, indulgent multi-course dinner parties, serving afternoon teas, going on picnics, crafty stuff, altered art (books, shrines, toys, etc) and assemblage, pushing the envelope, the absurd, sacred whoredom and whorish histories and culture, peer education, community development, empowerment, operationalising progressive values in work practices and life styles, pirates, Furry, My Little Pony, femme visiblity and pride, genderqueer, reading erotica and political theory, making shrines and altars, yoni art /mythology /symbolism, ancient mythology, being stronger, smarter and more capable than you all in heels and a tight skirt, surrealist and conceptual art, kitsch and frou frou, Catwoman, lawn flamingos, genderfuck, eating Japanese, Indian, Thai, Italian food.
Nose bleed heels - particularly stilettos.
It sounds like I'm such a well rounded individual; with so much going on, but some days, all I really care about is LOLCats....
I'd like to meet:
Queers, whores, activists, pirates, clowns, cats, nuns, etc.
If you are a straight non-trans guy (excepting Vince Noir) - please don't bother messaging me or sending friends requests (unless they come with large amounts of money, of course), I really am a dyke, honest.
Music:
Barbra Streisand, Neneh Cherry, Nina Simone, Dolly Parton, Peaches, Prince, PJ Harvey, 70s funk, Bhangra, Michael Franti, Ike and Tina Turner, Beastie Boys, Arrested Development, Aretha Franklin, Boy George, Bjork, Massive Attack, Tricky, Amy Winehouse, Pansy Division.
Movies:
The Secretary, Being John Malkovich, Delicatessen, When Night Is Falling, Laura, Edward Scissorhands, Ed Wood, Psycho Beach Party, How To Marry A Millionaire, XMen trilogy, Chocolat, The Wizard Of Oz, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Rear Window, Dishonoured Lady, Grease, Calamity Jane, The Celluloid Closet, Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, To Catch a Thief, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, Barbarella, Some Like It Hot, The King of Comedy, Glen or Glenda (for the octopus), True Romance, Heathers, Pirates of the Caribbean, Dial M for Murder, Live Nude Girls Unite!
Television:
The West Wing, Sesame Street, Batman, Bewitched, Gilligans Island, Wonder Woman, House, The Muppet Show, The Mighty Boosh, Powerpuff Girls
I try to focus on the positives as much as possible, but I hate, hate, hate how almost every movie, TV, music and literature representation of sex workers must drag out the tired ‘pathetic victim’ or ‘mercenary bitch’ clichés and I am really driven to murderous rage by the fact that the whore character must be killed off by the final scene…. All to reinforce the idea that a life of whoredom leads to a sticky end and therefore must be avoided if you know what’s good for you.....
Books:
Whores and Other Feminists edited by Jill Nagle, The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, The Yoni: Sacred Symbol of Female Creative Power by Rufus C. Camphausen, Another Mother Tongue by Judy Grahn, Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins, Macho Sluts by Patrick Califia, Public Sex by Patrick Califia, Anne Rice’s Sleeping Beauty Trilogy, Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters, Written On The Body by Jeanette Winterson, Skinny Legs And All by Tom Robbins, Sex Changes by Patrick Califia, Cunt Colouring In Book by Tee Corinne ,Whores in History by Nikki Roberts, Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen, The Femme and the Leatherdaddy by Carol Queen, Tricks and Treats edited by Matt Bernstein Sycamore, Pomosexuals edited by Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel, Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov, Brazen Femme edited by Chloe Brushwood Rose and Anna Camilleri.
Heroes:
Carol Leigh (aka Scarlot Harlot), Ghandi, Carol Queen, Patrick Califia, Kate Bornstein, Don Dunstan, Gough Whitlam, Mirah-Soleil Ross, Miss Piggy, Lee Bowery, Boy George, Dr Martin Luther King, Jr, Bettie Page, Vince Noir, Hanne Blank, Catwoman, Peg Bundy, Betty Rizzo (from Grease)because I've never been Sandra Dee...Activist queers and whores everywhere inspire me with their courage and dedication.
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