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Ok. I'd like to make it known right away that I am not nearly as one dimensional as My profile might elude to, but the BDSM lifestyle and scene has become a big part of My life, and it is something I want to share.
Since My discussions about the scene have taken over My little corner of MySpace I figured why not go all out. I have started a BDSM Video Blog (or Vlog) where I will answer questions, and otherwise speak about my feelings, thoughts, and desires for the BDSM scene. I encourage all who are reading this to write to Me and ask Me questions about BDSM, specific topics like technical aspects of SM (i.e. how to use a flogger, paddle, etc), emotional aspects of relationships in scene, and in particular I would like to hear from people new to the BDSM kink who would like to know more and get involved. If you'd like to know more, ask. Write to Me. I am putting Myself out there to help, and the worst I will do when asked any question is say "I don't know."...and maybe beat you if your question is really dumb...but that's rare. :)
Below is a list of BDSM and other organizations I support. Take a look and click on any of them to go to their homepages.
The Eulenspiegel Society (TES)
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)
The New England Leather Alliance (NELA)
And My favorite BDSM club in the world.
Paddles NYC

My Interests

My first novel, Boundless Love: I Love You Two, now available on Amazon.com. Click the cover below to order!

My Condom Usage Video. I'm just trying to spread some good information.
Condom Usage

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My second safer sex video, covering Dental Dams, anal sex lubrication, and latex gloves. Please watch, enjoy, and share.
Safer Sex video: #2, protection for other types of sex.

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The flogging action video.BDSM Video Blog: Episode 7 (2 of 2)

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BDSM Video Blog, episode 6: Pinching, Pricking, Scratching and Scraping.BDSM Video Blog: Episode 6.

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BDSM Video Blog, episode 5! I'M BAAAAACK!BDSM Video Blog: Episode 5.

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Get this video and more at MySpace.com Good food, good music, and the right company to enjoy them with. BDSM. Paintball. life, love, and the pursuit of happiness. COFFEE!!!!

I'd like to meet:

People from any and all walks of life who are interested in what I have to say. Plain enough.

Some of you may have started talking to Me while I was single, and searching for partners and relationships. I am very happy to say that I am no longer searching, because I have found a wonderful woman. She is My love, My submissive, and My partner in life. I love you sweety.

My chat room. Talk amongst yourselves.

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The New York City Sci-Fi/Fantasy Meetup Group!

Music:

Anything done with passion and intent. For that reason I hate 99.9% of dance music, it's too mechanical to have a heart...with the exception so far of DJ Shadow. Otherwise I will listen to anything done well. I could be at a hardcore show one second, and then go to a Irish pub and listen to folk classics the next.

Movies:

Seven, Saw, American History X, Fight Club, Anything with lots of explosions, Black Hawk Down, LOTR, and of course...Porn!

Television:

I'd rather play on the computer than watch TV....heck, I'd usually rather watch my toenails grow than watch most TV.

Books:

Maybe too many to list, but recently I really enjoyed I Lucifer by Glenn Duncan, LOTR (Maybe my 15th read through), The Hyperion series by Simmons, Anything by Clancy.

Heroes:

The first human to look at a cow and say "I'm going to squeeze that sack under that beast, and whatever comes out, I;m going to drink it!" True Bravery...oh yeah, and
Condom Man (see My friends list)

My Blog

Ever get overwhelmed?

I have been going through internet burn-out lately. I sat down one day and realized I was treating my online resources like an obligation, and not a venue for entertainment. I was feeling ...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Sat, 10 Nov 2007 12:00:00 PST

Recovered, and ready to NaNo!!

In My last blog I mentioned that I had to have a surgical procedure to remove a kidney stone. For someone like Me who enjoys administering pain and eliciting screams I have to say, I'd never wis...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Mon, 29 Oct 2007 10:14:00 PST

The worst pain I have ever felt.

5 milimeters may not be big, but when it's a kidney stone rolling through my system it's enough to bring Me down hard. I am sorry for My long absence, but I was undergoing a series of hospitaliz...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Wed, 17 Oct 2007 09:53:00 PST

NaNoWriMo

November is National Novel Writing Month (abbreviated as NaNoWriMo)!!For those of you unfamiliar with the endeavor, it is a simple concept that is wonderfully complex in it's execution. People f...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Fri, 05 Oct 2007 10:10:00 PST

Check out this event: Florentine Flogging with Sir J.

Below is the information for My lass on Florentine Flogging. I am proud and excited to be a presenter for The Eulenspiegel Society and to be teaching something I am so fond of. If you can attend, pl...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Fri, 05 Oct 2007 06:49:00 PST

Auto-Erotic Asphyxiation

Let Me state up front that this is NOT a how-to sort of blog. I just had a situation arise yesterday that made Me want to spread the word about a problem that I keeep hoping w...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Wed, 03 Oct 2007 09:56:00 PST

Feminists and BDSM: A question.

This blog is definitely more of a question for My female (or female identifying) fans than any kind of a statement. When I recorded My blog on masculinity and the scene, I was speaking somewhat ...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Tue, 25 Sep 2007 08:31:00 PST

Check out this event: Wicked Faire: The Labyrinth.

I want to let everyone know I will be selling, signing, and doing some reading from My novel, Boundless Love: I Love You Two at Jeff Mach's Labyrinth this weekend. I hope any of you who can come, wil...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Mon, 24 Sep 2007 09:34:00 PST

Im holding it in My hands!

I received a package this morning from My publisher, Caged Heart Publishing. When I hastily opened the package I stood for a minute in awe of what I was holding. I had My first copy of My ...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Sat, 22 Sep 2007 11:23:00 PST

Elitism in the scene.

There are elements of the human psyche that get amplified in the BDSM scene, in particular when you get more publicly involved. The BDSM scene is a great place to be able to express your sexuality,...
Posted by Jarod "Sir J." Lojeck on Thu, 20 Sep 2007 03:58:00 PST