Works of Love...are
...Works of Peace...
Everything that irritates us
about other people, can lead us to an
understanding of ourselves.
~Carl Jung~
I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately,
to front only the essential facts of life,
and see if I could not learn what it had to teach,
and not, when I came to die,
discover that I had not lived.
I did not wish to live what was not life...
I wanted to live so sturdily and so Spartan-like
as to put to rout all that was not life...
to drive life into a corner to know it by experience
and be able to give an account of it in my next excursion."
~Thoreau~
Twelve Signs of a Spiritual Awakening
(Source Unknown)
.1. An increased tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen.
.2. Frequent attacks of smiling.
.3. Feelings of being connected with others and nature.
.4. Frequent overwhelming episodes of appreciation.
.5. A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than from fears based experience.
.6. An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment.
.7. A loss of ability to worry.
.8. A loss of interest in conflict.
.9. A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others.
.10. A loss of interest in judging others.
.11. A loss of interest in judging self.
.12. Gaining the ability to love without expecting anything in return.
- Get Your Own
Real Happiness with Love
don't be afraid
to love someone
totally and completely
love is the most fulfilling
and beautiful feeling in the world
don't be afraid that you will
get hurt
or that the other person
won't love you as much
there is a risk in
everything you do
and the rewards
are never so great
as what love can bring
so let yourself get involved
completely and honestly
and enjoy the possibility
that what happens
might be the only real
source of happiness
--AVL--
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"What is it that should trace the insuperable line? ...The question is not, Can they reason? nor, Can they talk? but, Can they suffer?"
--Jeremy Bentham, philosopher
"Nothing will benefit human health and increase chances of survival for life on earth as much as the evolution to a vegetarian diet."
--Albert Einstein, physicist, Nobel Prize 1921
Perfection is finally attained, not when there is no longer anything to add, but when there is no longer anything to take away.
-- Antoine De Saint-Exupery
Well Done is better than Well Said.
-- Benjamin Franklin
Let him that would move the world, first move himself.
-- Socrates
There is always hope when people are forced to listen to both sides.
-- John Stuart Mill
"Our task must be to free ourselves . . . by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty."
--Albert Einstein, physicist, Nobel Prize 1921
"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated."
-- Mahatma Gandhi, statesman and philosopher
"Non-violence leads to the highest ethics, which is the goal of all evolution. Until we stop harming all other living beings, we are still savages."
--Thomas Edison, inventor
"Animal factories are one more sign of the extent to which our technological capacities have advanced faster than our ethics."
--Peter Singer
"You ask people why they have deer heads on the wall. They always say, Because it's such a beautiful animal. There you go. I think my mother's attractive, but I have photographs of her."
--Ellen DeGeneres
"If man is not to stifle his human feelings, he must practice kindness towards animals, for he who is cruel to animals becomes hard also in his dealings with men. We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals."
--Immanuel Kant
"To my mind, the life of a lamb is no less precious than that of a human being."
--Mahatma Gandhi, statesman and philosopher
"Just as iron rusts from disuse, even so does the inaction spoil the intellect."
-- Leonardo Da Vinci
It's important that people should know what you stand for. It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for.
-- Mary H. Waldrip
Ignorance is not bliss -- it is oblivion.
-- Phillip Wylie
I am patient with stupidity but not with those who are proud of it.
-- Edith Sitwell
The intelligent man who is proud of his intelligence is like the condemned man who is proud of his large cell.
--Simone Weil
"For as long as men massacre animals, they will kill each other. Indeed, he who sows the seed of murder and pain cannot reap joy and love."
--Pythagoras, mathematician
"The time will come when men such as I will look upon the murder of animals as they now look on the murder of men."
--Leonardo da Vinci, artist and scientist
"To a man whose mind is free there is something even more intolerable in the sufferings of animals than in the sufferings of man. For with the latter it is at least admitted that suffering is evil and that the man who causes it is a criminal. But thousands of animals are uselessly butchered every day without a shadow of remorse. If any man were to refer to it, he would be thought ridiculous. And that is the unpardonable crime."
--Romain Rolland, author, Nobel Prize 1915
"If a group of beings from another planet were to land on Earth -- beings who considered themselves as superior to you as you feel yourself to be to other animals -- would you concede them the rights over you that you assume over other animals?"
--George Bernard Shaw, playwright, Nobel Prize 1925
"In their behavior toward creatures, all men are Nazis. Human beings see oppression vividly when they're the victims. Otherwise they victimize blindly and without a thought."
--Isaac Bashevis Singer, author, Nobel Prize 1978
"I am in favor of animal rights as well as human rights. That is the way of a whole human being."
--Abraham Lincoln, 16th U.S. President
"You have just dined, and however scrupulously the slaughterhouse is concealed in the graceful distance of miles, there is complicity."
--Ralph Waldo Emerson, essayist
"As long as there are slaughterhouses, there will be battlefields."
--Leo Tolstoy author
"What I think about vivisection is that if people admit that they have the right to take or endanger the life of living beings for the benefit of many, there will be no limit to their cruelty."
--Leo Tolstoy author
"I cannot fish without falling a little in self-respect...always when I have done I feel it would have been better if I had not fished."
--Henry David Thoreau, author
"While we ourselves are the living graves of murdered beasts, how can we expect any ideal conditions on this earth?"
--George Bernard Shaw
"Atrocities are not less atrocities when they occur in laboratories and are called medical research."
--George Bernard Shaw
"I do not regard flesh-food as necessary for us at any stage and under any clime in which it is possible for human beings ordinarily to live. I hold flesh-food to be unsuited to our species. We err in copying the lower animal world - if we are superior to it."
--Mohandas Gandhi, statesman and philosopher
"I am not interested to know whether vivisection produces results that are profitable to the human race or doesn't...The pain which it inflicts upon unconsenting animals is the basis of my enmity toward it, and it is to me sufficient justification of the enmity without looking further."
"He is a heavy eater of beef. Me thinks it doth harm to his wit."
--Shakespeare in "Twelfth Night"
"May all that have life be delivered from suffering."
--Buddha
"A righteous man takes care of his beast, but the heart of the wicked is merciless."
--Proverbs 12:10
"I gave up meat when I was twelve. & One day I was cutting up a chicken for my mom, and I hit a tumor with the knife. There was [pus] and blood all over the place. That was enough for me."
--Josh Hartnett
"Being vegan helped me realize I can say and do what I believe is right. That's powerful."
--Alicia Silverstone
"For my part I know nothing with any certainty, but the sight of the stars makes me dream."
--Vincent Van Gogh
I Finally Found Him...(*(*(*AVAV*)*)*)
( in no particular order...)
-VEGAN-
-Not a "top ramen vegan" if this sounds like you, but you are unsure, you need not apply-
- Someone who will grow old with me-
-Someone who loves me for me, and doesn't try to change me, unless it is something I am wanting and willing to change-
-A gentleman/old-fashioned-ish-
-Classy-
-Self-Respect-
-respect for others-
-Honesty-
-Faithfulness-(I'm talking Monogamy!)-
-Ambition-
-Integrity-
-Sense of humor with self and others-
-INTELLIGENT-
-Doesn't mind I wear 4 inch stilettos always! (almost)-
-Doesn't complain that I take two hours to get ready (I am very seldom late because of it)-
-Belief in a higher power and the power of prayer and meditation-
-Independent-
-Self-Reliant-
-A guy who will Be my Best Friend as well as Boyfriend and Lover-
-Compassionate-
-Loves Animals and Doesn't Eat Them!-
-Patient-
-Not a Republican-
-Self-Motivated/goal-driven-
-Not overly a people pleaser-
-Romantic-
-Optimist and Realist
-creative/artistic/musically inclined(singer is a bonus)-
-Someone who will sing to me even if he can't sing well-
-good morals/ethics-
-European sense of style-(or will consider letting me dress him! - not mandatory, but good style is a turn on)
-Will kiss me on the forehead before I fall asleep in his arms-
-Someone who sometimes just can't stop kissing me-
-Someone who sometimes I just can’t stop kissing-
Knows how and when to be well behaved/manners-
-Knows the world is bigger than just this small town of Hollywood or the United States-
-Enjoys equally all night partying and staying in all night-
-non-judgmental/racist/sexist/narrow-minded/shallow-
-NO DRUGS OR SMOKING-
-Hates Offensive Rap Music-
-Knows how to handle alcohol- no alcoholics-
-Prefers wine over beer-
-Both Dominating and Submissive-
-Kinky but not Freaky-
-Loves to Cuddle and Snuggle!-
-Tells me he loves me all the time just because he does-
-if jealous, can handle it without being possessive-
-Self-Confident (as much as anyone ever can be)-
-Knows that being himself is most always the best idea-
-Not arrogant-
-Shows me Love and Affection around his friends-
-Someone I can hold long conversations with about anything and everything-
-Not manipulative and condescending because of insecurities-get real already-we're all insecure, you don't need to be a jerk!-
-Not afraid of showing (me and) the world he loves me-
-Cultured-
Will travel the World with me Someday-
-Cooks actual food, not just something with a george foreman grill-
-open to trying new foods-
Lives a Healthy Lifestyle-
Seeking Inner Peace and World Peace and remains peaceful, and inspired by his obstacles in his journey towards both-
-Will kiss me on the cheek when I least expect it-
-Will never get tired of holding hands-
-Understands the importance of Communication and uses it!-
-Takes care of himself regarding physical and emotional heath and hygiene-
-place is fairly clean...especially the bathroom!-
-will buy me tampons if I need them in an emergency-
-Takes good care of those he Loves-
-Remembers birthdays, anniversaries etc-
-Sentimental-
-calls just to say "I love you and I miss you and wish you were here with me"-
-Remembers, and lovesss the little things-
-Keeps almost everything I give him no matter how ridiculous it might seem-
-Supportive even if he disagrees with my reasoning, knows that everyone has to learn their own lessons in life-
-Forgiving of self and others-
-Doesn't give up easily-
-Knows how to successfully be in a balanced give and take relationship-
-Hates Vin Diesel and all affiliated type movies-
-Loves me in his t-shirt, baggy pajama pants and no make-up looking twelve ( ok, sixteen! ;-p ) but accepts I will probably never leave the house looking like that (unless to the gym =)-
-Enjoys routine as well as trying new things...again: Balance-
-Sympathetic-
-Understanding-
-Will take care of me when I'm sick-
-Doesn't have a temper!!-
-will share a tub of soy ice cream with me-
Give me Fever when you kiss me, Fever when you hold me tight…Fever all through the night-
A Guy who will not flirt with Every girl they meet- if I am not Everything you want, then move on and go be a slut-
-Someone who will be in a serious relationship with me. I don't do the whole "hooking up" thing-
-Mentally and Emotionally Mature and Stable-
-Accepts that I will probably always think I look "fat"-
-Someone who's smile and presence brightens my day and makes all bad things obsolete-
-Supportive, as I would be of him-
-Tells me the Truth even if it hurts me-
-Doesn't assume I know things, tell me!-
-Understands some jealousy is natural, so just assure me! Don't act like I am being irrational for being jealous especially if you have a "flirtatious" nature!-
-Does things for me "just because"-
-Stands up for himself, even if he's proving me wrong-
-Someone I can share ideas, passions and dreams with...and work together to accomplish those things-
-Gets almost as much joy out of helping others as I do-
Loves to give me back massages, and doesn't complain when I ask, and if he isn't that good at them, is willing to learn! haha *wink* hehehe =)
-"...you see everything, you see every part, you see all my light, and you love my dark, you dig everything of which I'm afraid, there's not anything to which you can't relate-and you're still here..."-
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The Invitation : Oriah
It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.
It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.â€
It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.
It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
withme
and not shrink back.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.
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TRYAD.org
*KARMA*
*Alanis Morissette*
*Fiona Apple*
*Tori Amos*
*Katie Melua*
*Eva Cassidy*
*Linda Eder*
*Regina Spektor*
*Kate Bush*
*Jewel*
*Anything Broadway!*
*Frank Sinatra*
*The Andrews Sisters*
*Bing Crosby*
*Bernadette Peters*
*Disney Music*
*Dixie Chicks*
*Ella Fitzgerald*
*Etta James*
*Evanesence*
*Gary Jules*
*James Blunt*
*Jeff Buckley*
*Josh Groban*
*Judy Garland*
*Julie Andrews*
*Julie London*
*Michael Buble*
*Pink*
*Pat Benatar*
*Michael Jackson*
*Madonna*
*Prince*
*Queen*
*Counting Crows*
*Journey*
*Foreigner*
*Snow Patrol*
*Rilo Kiley*
*Sarah McLachlan*
*Save Ferris*
*Tony Bennett*
*Ben Folds Five*
*Stef Bos*
*The Postal Service*
*Anna Nalick*
*The Rat Pack!*
*Nina Simone*
*Doris Day*
*Dean Martin*
*Cole Porter*
*Fred Astaire*
*Ginger Rogers*
*Gene Kelly*
*Nat King Cole*
*Glen Miller*
*Joshua Randin*
*Maria Mena*
*Nouvella Vague*
so much more I'm sure...
Love Is...that Irresistible Desire...
...to be Irresistibly Desired...
"I will have poetry in my life.
And adventure.
And Love.
Love above all.
No... not the artful postures of love,
Not playful and poetical games of love for the amusement of an evening,
But love that... over-throws life.
Unbiddable, ungovernable -
Like a riot in the heart,
and nothing to be done,
Come ruin or rapture.
Love - like there has never been in a play."
If I watch anything, it's these:
*Oprah*
*Jeopardy*
*Antiques Roadshow*
*Sex in the City*
*Americas Next Top Model*
*Will and Grace*
*Project Runway*
*Extreme Makeover Home Edition*
*Conan O'Brian*
*Cooking network*
*History channel*
*HGTV*
*What Not to Wear* (any sort of fashion show)
*Random educational shows on PBS*
PROZAC NATION - BITCH - & More, Now Again by: Elizabeth Wurtzel
The Art of Happiness - His Holiness, The Dalai Lama
Ethics for the New Millennium - His Holiness, The Dalai Lama
Care of the Soul - Thomas Moore
The Picture of Dorian Gray - Oscar Wilde
The Great Gatsby - Fitzgerald
Tuesdays with Morrie - Mitch Alburn
Stanislavski, Checkov, Shakespeare
The Four Agreements - Don Migul
Socrates to Sartre - A History of Philosophy
Ideas of the Great Philosophers
Inspiration : Your Ultimate Calling - Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
Creating Affluence - Deepak Chopra
Currently Reading:
The Artist's Way - Julia Cameron
Acting is Everything - Judy Kerr
How Can I Help? - Ram Dass
Next on my List:
The Power of NOW - Ekert Tolle
~DESIDERATA~
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
Max Ehrmann
AVA'S DETAILS
Status:
Loving Vav
Here for:
Deeper Connections, Networking, Happy/Healthy Friends etc.
Orientation:
Heteroflexible
Hometown:
Second Star to the Right, and Straight on till Morning...
Body Type:
VeganOrganic
Ethnicity:
Aspiring Albino ;)
Religion:
Loving Kindness
Sign:
Cancer/Cancer Rising/Moon in Pisces
Smoke / Drink:
I prefer to be high on Life & Love...and Kombucha!
Children:
Someday....yes, definitely someday... :)
Occupation:
Student of Life/Actress/Artist/Lover of Vav
Income:
Perfect Work for Perfect Pay is Coming My Way!