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About Me

One day I got fed up with reading one travel adventure novel after another, watching National Geographic specials, and knowing my life was on automatic pilot. So I decided it was time to take a risk - quit my job, sell my old pick-up and head for the Orient. Beijing to be exact. Where I signed a one-year teaching contract as a "foreign expert" at the University of Science and Technology. New beginnings.Blissfully I boarded the plane taking me to China. The mysterious Orient! Asia! The Silk Road.On the flight over the Pacific I found myself hitting my head against the window with the horrible knowledge I was an idiot. I didn't know how to speak Chinese! I had exactly $125.00 in my purse, no travelers checks, no nice safe savings account in the bank at home . . . I must have experienced a nervous breakdown that was the only possible reason for why I was on that damn plane.And then we landed and there she was - in all her centuries old splendor. Eagerly I explored the immensity of the Great Wall,the faded beauty of the Forbidden City, and the almost sad, but stalwart, stone soldiers at Xian; all the while groping to understand this fascinating culture. And over the days and months not only did all my fears dissolve; I evolved. My world view changed, expanded, and was enhanced beyond what I thought possible.Well, I didn't come home after my year's contract was up. Nope I continued to teach in China four years. Why? Because somewhere along the way, I discovered I didn't want to be a one-year tourist/teacher, taking photos, making snap observations and then scurrying home to amaze friends with funny travel stories.No, I wanted to truly live in China, not for the wonder of continued exploration and the thrill of 'adventure' but to understand the country and her people. And I will be forever grateful for that journey which altered my life irrevocably.I'm now back home, retired from teaching, and convinced that someday I may just write that photo/journal I'm always talking about - the one where I write about my experiences ranging from staying in tiny mountain villages where no white person had ever been, to spending nights in dark, smoke-filled Mongolian yurts trying not to vomit the salty yak buttered tea I was constantly offered.And even though I haven't written that great travel book yet, it hasn't stopped me from still traveling as much as I possibly can. Been to Florida and Seattle within the last 3 years and plan on traveling some more. I love to meet people, experience life to the fullest, and gaze at stars from foreign shores.
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My Interests

Travel: U.S., Canada, China, Mongolia.
Reading. Photography. Rock Hunting. Hitting fleamarkets, garage sales, used book stores. Going to movies, out to dinner, or just lounging around.

I'd like to meet:



These are just a small sampling of the people I hope to meet in this, or another, world.
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So many who were, or are, lovely young men, talented and unique writers, and women I greatly admire.

Photos I've Taken That Have Acted As My Muse

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Some Favorite Quotes

"The World is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page. St. Augustine

Don Juan: What do you know of great love?
Have you ever loved a woman until milk leaked from her as though she had just given birth to love itself,
and now must feed it or burst?
Have you ever tasted a woman until she believed that she could be satisfied
only by consuming the tongue that had devoured her?
Have you ever loved a woman so completely
that the sound of your voice in her ear could cause
her body to shudder and explode with such intense pleasure
that only weeping could bring her full release?

Don Juan: There are only 4 questions of value in life, Don Octavio.
What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made?
What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for?
The answer to each is the same: only love.

Music:

Johnny Cash, Jimmy Buffett, Elvis, Patsy Cline, Don Williams, Bob Seger and the Silver Bullet Band, Jim Croce, .

Favorite Songs: "Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes" "Walkin' After Midnight" "Softly As I Leave You" "Turn Out The Light and Love Me Tonight" "Against the Wind"

Movies:



All Pirates of the Caribbean! Original first 3 Star Wars (the rest kinda sucked),Lord of the Rings trilogy, Harry Potter movies, Indiana Jones, 40 Year Old Virgin, Sleeping in Seattle, Casablanca, Arsenic and Old Lace.

Television:

Star Trek: the original, old Turner classic movies.

Books:

The Hobbitt
Fav authors include: Tolkien, Hemingway, Jack Kerouac, Clive Cussler, Elizabeth Peters, Jack DuBrul, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and J. K. Rowlings

Heroes:

My dad Donald Mynning, Jr.

My Blog

China's "Golden Lotus Feet" - The Foot Binding Practice Explored

(This photo was taken from a San Fran newspaper in the 1800's, many Chinese came to the U.S. during that time to work on the railroads.)Legend has it that foot binding began in China during the Song d...
Posted by mary on Wed, 16 May 2007 04:53:00 PST

Nanjing, a Hard Sleeper Train, and Naked Chickens

During my years as an expat living in Beijing, China, I was often asked to visit my students' homes, these side trips proved to be entertaining, informative, and sometimes pretty miserable. During my...
Posted by mary on Thu, 12 Apr 2007 07:56:00 PST

Beijing to Shanghai, or the Death March of Bataan

Traveling by train in China can be a lot like sex for sale: Lots of unusual and different positions, often cheap, sometimes romantic, and generally downright dirty. I feel I have to mention right of...
Posted by mary on Sun, 08 Apr 2007 10:55:00 PST

Walter Reed Hospital, Bldg. 18, Mold, Broken Elevator, Bad Plumbing & Home to Wounded Troops

I was furious to discover that only now have military officials decided actually get off their fat butts and sign some papers to "fix up" Building 18 of the Walter Reed Army Medical Center - after so...
Posted by mary on Tue, 20 Feb 2007 10:19:00 PST

Two poems I had written for 2 sons, & one for Johnny then the man.

Regrets(when they were young and so was I)Grief over losing my two sons comes to me at unexpected times - for every step they take into manhood is a step awayfrom the innocence and faith only childhoo...
Posted by mary on Tue, 20 Feb 2007 05:04:00 PST

Mahjong, fireworks in the snow, and a big-eyed fish

Last night my Chinese friends and I celebrated Chinese New Year's Eve and we began the evening playing a rousing game of mahjong, and even though I am a newbie I managed to win 3 out of 4 games to my ...
Posted by mary on Sun, 18 Feb 2007 09:36:00 PST

FAT CHOY!! It's the year of the Boar!

In mid-February of this year, China will face the world's biggest annual mass migration of people, the Ministry of Railways in China estimates the country's railways "will carry 156 million passengers...
Posted by mary on Sun, 04 Feb 2007 12:18:00 PST

Pfizer, Big houses, Health Insurance, Iraq, Gas, & Life Sucks

Rumor has it that Pfizer is leaving Ann Arbor, and we already know that the big three auto-makers are continuing to lay off, or let go, hundreds of workers here in Michigan. Every week I pass by some ...
Posted by mary on Fri, 26 Jan 2007 01:41:00 PST

Mud-caked crystal rocks, Florida sunshine, Molly Goodhead, and Sir Galahad

After enduring lousy cold, wet, windy Michigan weather for months on end, I was offered a chance to travel to Florida and spend a week or so. A normal person would have been thrilled, and I was; but ...
Posted by mary on Thu, 25 Jan 2007 10:13:00 PST

My New Year's Resolution OR Just Where Are All the Rich Old Single Men Anyway?

According to About.com the top 10 New Year's Resolutions are:1. Spend more time with family and friends.2. Fit in Fitness3. Tame the Bulge4. Quit Smoking5. Enjoy Life More6. Quit Drinking7. Get out of...
Posted by mary on Tue, 02 Jan 2007 10:19:00 PST