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Lidia aka MONROE

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About Me


ABOUT ME:
I should start out by telling you that I am Eastern European - Romanian. I think it's important for you to know this because I am very not American. Although I speak with no accent, my Romanian roots are deeply engrained in me. I see this as a good thing. To be a mixture of two cultures, Romanian because of the way I was raised, and American because I grew up here, gives me a personality that is unique. I'm very relaxed and laid back. When I love, I love with my whole heart. If I am your friend, I am your real friend. If you ever turn into my enemy, nothing you said to me while we were friends will be revealed; to me it's like attorney-client privilege. But I am also Eastern European, which means I can be pretty rutheless if stirred up. My weapons are not physical, although I won't hesitate to fight if needed. My weapons are mental. You mess with me, you will get a warning or two; keep doing it, and see what happens. I know it sounds shocking that I have this rutheless side, but I have used it very few times. It takes a lot for me to blow up, and in all fairness, I do give ample warning. It's just that people see me as this soft, sweet girl, and they think they don't have to take me seriously. But those who know me sense a strength in me and stay off my toes. In general, though, I think I put up with a lot before I push someone out of my life. So I'm actually one of the nicest and real people you will ever know. So don't worry about stepping on my toes: as long as you're yourself and don't purposely keep doing things to stir me up, you'll be fine in my book even if I don't like you.
People, especially guys, think I am hard to figure out. I guess I am mysterious, and it's because I am a little absentminded (I take after my dad). I just can't be there mentally when something bores me. I'm always drifting off somewhere else. But engage me in an interesting conversation and I will remember every detail. So don't confuse my absentmindedness for lack of intelligence. I have a very high IQ, went to college at a very early age, and was in the Honors College. So when I act like I don't know what's up, when you think I don't have you figured out, when you think I don't understand your motives, watch out. In all fairness, I don't play dumb because I want to play with your mind. It's actually because I have a deep belief in people, I see deep in their souls, in their pain, through their shallowness. So even when someone thinks they're getting one over on me, I see right through it, but I understand. I understand that this society has given us so much ease and opportunities that we don't know what it means to feel pain or depth. That we end up constantly trying to look for ways to one-up each other, instead of seeing the opportunities to help and bring one another up. Had we been exposed to a little more pain, had we vistited other countries and expanded our limited views, we would have bettered ourselves and our country; we would not be facing shallowness and selfishness at every turn.
MY ASTROLOGY:
Virgo sun (Taurus dec.), Sagittarius ascendant, Libra moon (house of Aquarius). What does this all mean? Virgo: calm, organized, perfectionist. Virgos are a good match for most signs because they're adaptable and easygoing. Sagittarius rising: I love to travel and I can't live in the same place for too long. I can't bear to be tied down to a single location. I prefer freedom to financial security, but I guess financial security brings freedom. Libra moon: I don't like to argue and I avoid arugments; but if I feel something's not right (thus tipping my scales) I will do what I can to get things back to a balance that feels right to me. Taurus dec.: I'm very easygoing and have a good sense of humor, but can be set in my own ways. Moon in house of Aquarius: detached and absentminded; no matter how passionate I may seem I am actually at my core very detached from everything and everyone. I'm sometimes unpredictable cause I can't bear to be stuck in a mundane life, but don't have the heart to stand up to people and just tell them, and the next thing they know I'm moving to NY in one week (that's how I moved to LA, ha ha). Astrologically I'm a good mixture of earth, fire, and air, but very little water (thankfully, I wouln't want to be weighed down by all those emotions). This makes me very down-to-earth yet airheaded, firey and passionate yet unable to truly feel emotions, grounded yet spiritual.
I live in beautiful LA! I just moved out here from Vegas about a year ago, but I still have a lot of friends out there and visit them often. I've traveled a lot, and love it. I can't sit still for very long. A little about me... I was born in Brasov (Transylvania), Romania. I speak Romanian, so you can also write to me in Romanian, or French, German, Spanish, and Italian. If you want to find out more about me, I just set up my blog ASK ME ABOUT ME where you can ask me about myself and see what responses I've given to others.
I'm a singer and musician and I'm in the process of recording my CD. For those of you who are asking to make beats for me, thanks, just send me a message and I'll let you know how you can send them to me. If I like something, I will buy it, record my voice and then post it up on my site and give you props for the track. I'd love one day to record a music video in my hometown Transylvania at the Dracula castle - that would be the ultimate!
I'm also working on a career as an actress. I want to do film, and I am determined to play a Superhero in a movie. What kind of Superhero do you see me playing? - I'd love to hear your input.
Check out all my beautiful girlfriends on my top page.
Also, I have to tell you about my favorite fighter, also on my top friends (BLACK KOBRA): he's a world champion kickboxer and undefeated pro boxer. I begged him, so he's going to be training me for my Superhero role. I want to make sure I get all the moves right ;)
WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET:
My dad and sisters in heaven. My dad died of cancer, as did my sister Ronella, who was my best friend, and my little sister Dori (who I named my daughter after) died in a drowning accident at a church youth camp. I miss them very much, and their lives are an inspiration to me every day.
Benjamin Franklin: he was one of the most remarkable men who ever lived. He is the founding father of so many luxuries we enjoy today (libraries, the post office, hospitals, electricity, fire department, and many more). He accomplished so much during his lifetime, that he is the only non-president who's face appears on the American bill, given the highest honor - the hundred dollar bill (why we call them "Benjamins").
Cleopatra: she was one of the greatest seductresses of all times. She had a way about her, even in the company of powerful men, she stood her own and had so much sex appeal to make men fall in love with her for their lifetimes.

My Interests

Music:

Member Since: 7/18/2006
Influences: MY FAVORITE MUSIC:

KRS ONE: LIFE:
Room for Squares:
The College Dropout:
Late Registration:
Love Deluxe:

Voyage to India:
Infinite Possibilities:

The Miseducation Of Lauryn Hill:
Continuum: powered by frazy.com

MY FAVORITE BOOKS:

The Art of Seduction:
The Prince:
Choosing Civility: The Twenty-five Rules of Considerate Conduct:
The Compleated Autobiography by Benjamin Franklin (Completed Autobiography):
The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living:

Linda Goodman's Love Signs: A New Approach to the Human Heart:
The 48 Laws of Power: powered by frazy.com

---- Check out my friend Celeste Marie:

Record Label:
Type of Label: None

My Blog

HOW TO CAPTURE A MAN'S HEART FOREVER...

Here's how to have more game than he does...CONFIDENCE: If you get anything from this blog, walk away with this one: have utmost confidence in yourself. Believe in yourself and show it. Walk with your...
Posted by Lidia aka MONROE on Fri, 08 Dec 2006 08:55:00 PST

HOW TO GET A HOT GIRL

GENTLEMEN, LISTEN UP...My girls and I get a lot of emails saying things like "How does a guy get a girl like you?". So to answer your question, I am leaving some tips from me and my girls that will ho...
Posted by Lidia aka MONROE on Mon, 23 Oct 2006 02:18:00 PST

my philosophy....

I am an Artist...a Philosopher...a Scientist...a Kheprian......i walk through this world sifting through these human experiencesand i observe... strategically i immerse myself in the depth of their em...
Posted by Lidia aka MONROE on Thu, 07 Sep 2006 04:27:00 PST