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About Me

I'm not really good at the "About Me" question, there are so many sides of "Me," that I'm never quite sure which to tell. I'm not saying that I have dual or multiple existenses ... but I'm certain there are aspects of what makes me me that would bore some people silly.

For example, I'm sure you don't want to hear about the "Insurance Professional" me ... hell, I don't even want to hear about that ... it is merely a means to paying the mortgage and putting food on the table.

Then there is the "Wife/Daughter/Sister" me. I can't really tell you much about that part. Oh, there are stories to be told, and they may yet find an audience, but right now, there are living participants in those sagas that may object to me airing the collective dirty laundry ... especially in a forum that doesn't involve royalty cheques.

So, that leaves precious little else ...

There is the "Me" that thought she could write erotic fiction. It was a passing phase, but I did get one good story out ... You can read "The Dream" at Best Erotic Stories.

There is the "Me" that works with Distributed Proofreaders to create e-books for Project Gutenberg . I think this is a worthy "Me" to mention. In my role as a Content Provider and Project Manager, I spend a good deal of my "spare time," scanning books that are now in the public domain. With thousands of other volunteers, we convert these works into e-books ... to be enjoyed by generations to come. I finally feel as if I have a legacy.

To me, every book is an opportunity to learn, to expand my mind, to blow my mind, or, to escape into the realm of someone else's mind. The power contained is a well-written book has been demonstrated time-after-time in our meagre history.... The fact that the Bible is used as a justification for unthinkable autrocities proves that even poorly-written books contain power. Then again, that stands to reason, really. Have you read the "consecrated" slaughter, rape, molestation and whatever else the authors of that tome considered holy? The only good parts (in my humble opinion), are the erotic utterances of King Solomon. Don't let the captions fool you! He wrote some steamy stuff.

On that note, I guess I will finish with one last "Me" ... for this one, I will quote from my webpage (which I need to spend some time updating):
Many external labels have been applied to me. Most of them are true. The ones that I can readily accept and identify with are: nullifidian (one who has no beliefs); atheist (one who has no god-belief); secularist (one who wishes for a separation between religion and government/public areas) and humanist (one who stands for equality of all people and strives to help fellow humans). I am also an agnostic. "Huh?", you say, "how can you be an atheist and an agnostic?" This is one of the questions I hear often enough that I figured it was safe attributing it to you ... the answer is simple: they deal with different areas of the brain. atheist/theist deals with belief. I have no belief, so I am atheistic; agnostic/gnostic deals with knowledge. My position is that none of us has the knowledge required to determine the existence of a deity, so we are all, theists and atheists alike, agnostic.

Well, there you have it ... "Me." Actually, a lot more about me than most people know.


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You Are Cookie Monster
Misunderstood as a primal monster, you're a true hedonist with a huge sweet tooth.
You are usually feeling: Hungry. Cookies are preferred, but you'll eat anything if cookies aren't around.
You are famous for: Your slightly crazy eyes and usual way of speaking
How you live your life: In the moment. "Me want COOKIE!" The Sesame Street Personality Quiz

My Interests

I have a varied collection of interest ... and they change from time to time. I'm not shifty or afraid of committment, I just think that all sorts of things are neat and I don't want to die with (m)any regrets.

Some of my current interests:Project Gutenberg and Distributed Proofreaders - a.k.a. the digitization and preservation of literature lately I have been on a self-improvement kick ... I have hit the gym and am in the process of transforming my somewhat soft body back into its former athletic form. In the three month period from April 1, 2006-June 30, 2006, I have converted 10% body fat into lean mass and have shed 15+ pounds ... I'm not telling how many I still have to go! Ancient Civilizations Comparative Mythology (including religions) Something few people knew prior to this ... I want to compete in a triathlon. Endurance swimming used to be my thing (gotta love muscle memory!!), so I'm concentrating on running and cycling now. Reading ... reading ... and oh yeah, more reading I recently got back into one of my former hobbies ... stained glass. I made a wedding gift (ice bucket and tray) and a pair of candle holders for a silent auction to raise funds for . Apparently the candle holders did quite well.

I'd like to meet:

I once remember a "Parlour" type game that asked a similar question ... If you could invite 5 people to dinner, who would they be and why? I always had a tough time keeping it to 5 people. Also, I'm pretty sure that the conversation would be lacking, since most of the lists I compiled had too much in common to make for scintillating discussion. You can hardly start a food fight when you all agree~

Since this forum isn't restricting me to any set number, I'll list a few names ... I'm going by the rules in the old parlour game ... they can be alive or dead

Alive (last time I checked)Val Kilmer James Hetfield Richard Dawkins (I actually had the pleasure in Nov. 2005, but it was so cool, I'd like to do it again with more time for conversation) Michael Shanks Madonna - as in the pop-culture queen of controversy .. not the virgin mother of the christ-child in Christian tradition Simon LeBon John Bon Jovi

DeadDouglas Adams Jim Morrison John Norman - author of the Gor Chronicles Charles Darwin Emperor Marcus Aurelius Diogenes of Sinope David Hume Denis Diderot Hammurabi Wm. Lyon McKenzie King - who wouldn't want to meet a Prime Minister that kept company with prostitutes and held séances while seeking counsel from his canine companion ... oh, the days when the media left well enough alone! Samuel Clemmons Ernest Hemingway John Steinbeck J.R.R. Tolkien K'ung Fu-zi (Confucius) Caligula, and his "horse-advisor" -- actually, let's bring McKenzie King's mutt too ... maybe the horse & dog will have something to discuss. Freddie Mercury

Fictional/Mythological CharactersDr. Daniel Jackson -- I know ... Michael Shanks is already listed ... Aragorn Sherlock Holmes Artemis Gaea Dionysus/Bacchus Isis and Osiris Ishtar Captain Ahab Chaos - The god that started in all (in Greek mythology) The person who gives a damn

A puzzling phenomenom ... Will Power

I stole the idea for the puzzle from Joel Lightman Band's page. Love the idea~!

When I saw the following scene in Niagara Falls, it spoke to some inner yearning ... the sheer will to survive when faced with an awesome, overwhelming power ... I call it "At the Brink." The tree in this photo is growing out of Table Rock, only a few feet from the edge of the Horseshoe Falls. It was taken on a cold, grey day in February 2003 on one of our (with my husband) day trips to Niagara Falls.

Music:

BANDS

    SFD!!! Metallica Linkin Park Disturbed Supertramp Prozzak The Art of Noise Audioslave The Tea Party AC/DC Bad Religion Theory of a Deadman Nickleback Three Doors Down Thornley The Canadian ROCK scene kicks ass!! Okay, I'll admit it ... I'm a product of the 80's ... 80's Hair Bands and New Wave (Modern English, R.E.M., Depeche Mode, Duran Duran)
SONGS
    "Sorrow" and "Little Girl" - Six Feet Deep "Wherever I May Roam" and "The God that Failed" - Metallica "Dear God" - XTC "Crucify" - Tori Amos "Numb" - Linkin Park (the lyrics seem to define my life) "Headstrong" - Trapt "Personal Jesus" - Depeche Mode "Closer" - NIN "The Logical Song" - Supertramp "Don't Fear the Reaper" - Blue Öyster Cult "Silent Lucidity" - Queensryche

Movies:

    Stargate The Deerhunter The Usual Suspects Things to do in Denver When You're Dead Heavy Metal The Doors (Val Kilmer is hot, Hot, HOT!) LOTR Trilogy The Big Chill Grease! St. Elmo's Fire Twelve Angry Men

Television:

I don't generally watch a lot of television, but I do like Crime Investigation shows. I'm not a huge fan of Sci-Fi, however, if you add Ancient Civilizations, Mythology and a good dose of Richard Dean Anderson, Michael Shanks and Christopher Judge, I'm definately game to spend an hour drooling, er, I mean, watching the screen. The following are shows that I have watched frequently:Stargate SG-1 Stargate: Atlantis Law and Order Law and Order: Criminal Intent Law and Order: SVU CSI: Crime Scene Investigation CSI: Miami CSI: NY JAG Criminal Minds Documentaries on Ancient Civilizations, Archæology, Crime Investigation, Mythology, and the like ... usually on A&E, Discovery or The History Channel

Books:

    Anything about Evolution Sword of Truth Series by Terry Goodkind Sleeping Beauty Series by Anne Rice Bible Myths and their Parallels in Other Religions by T.W. Doane Ilios; The City and Country of the Trojans by Henry Schliemann

Heroes:

    My mom ... I have to say it. She is 50% behind my being here and 100% behind me having no reason to be on Jerry Springer My spousal unit ... anyone who can put up with my antics for the past 14 years (and counting) deserves a pair of tights and a cape. Now that would be an interesting sight ... She'll kill me for this, but ... WeZr (ya know who you are)! Thanks for showing me to the edge and letting me go over ... you've taught me that life is too important to take seriously all the time. Brad & the band (a.k.a. SFD) ... kudos for having a dream and the balls to make it happen. My baby brother ... If you keep working to win the battles, kiddo, you will eventually win the war. One day at a time ... that's what it takes!