Posted By:Scott & Molly
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Hola, I'm a single parent father of my 5yr old son.
My heart & soul, & why I put "Everything happens 4 a Reason" as my headline.
Plenty of negative things/situations have come across my/our path in the last few years. Lost my house, car etc., My Son's mother was the root cause of the path I'm now on (the Good & the bad)
In the end, She has not seen, spoken or even sent him a birthday gift N over a year & half now....
But, believe it or not, I have no hard feeling or negative attitude
towards her. This is her loss, not our. She gave me something wonderful....thats bigger than any material thing in the universe. Negativity was one of the reason we split-up. I'm not a negative person....don't like to argue (especially with the person u luv (thats suppose 2 have your back) & thats what she wanted to do all the time ...fight & argue. Thats a whole lot of wasted energy...Negativity!
I have a beautiful, smart little child that I get 2 watch grow! And would go thru it all again, not to miss a day in his life.
Now, as I come out of the struggle (seeing light at end of the tunnel) Starting over is always hard, that life. But, I'm a stronger person going through this. I hope to get back into music production... I use to DJ and produce beats/music/ remix (small time) That was my art. But I'm NOW in a spiritual & financial pursuit. I am running an online marketing biz (in order 2 B N my sons life as much as I can) www.WeHit.ws
Seems like everybody is online (buying, selling) and this thing is continuously growing. I might as while get MY SPACE,(ha,ha, I made a funny) but seriously, the real reason is my Son, It's just us against the world......so we have 2 make the best of whats out here.
********UPDATE OCTOBER 2006******** Some of U who know me(personally or from myspace) known of my situation with my Sons Mothers, well as it turns out (As I told some of U) that the door is always open (Jenna, the ball is in her court)4 her 2 reestablish the relationship with her Son. Well, faith has step-up for my Son, because since His 5th Birthday (a few weeks ago) she has talked 2 him several times, sent him some gifts (which he loved) & even sent some $$$ for him. Everything happens 4 a reason: I never talked bad about his Mother to Him, I never gave the impression that his Mother didn't care about him. He's only 5 & so far its just how things are. But He says things now when mentioning is Mother with what i can only describe as proud. He even said that he was happy that he had talked 2 his Mommy one day. She lives in another state so he hasn't seen her but this is a step forward for him. and thats what counts.
On another note: 4 those that may be in a similar situation. Think about the children first. Don't let the situation between the parents be instill on 2 your kids. If one fails to step up 2 the plate. Then the other has 2 B the BIGGER person & accept the responsiblity 2 do what is best for the Child, & negetivity in any form should not B protrayed 2 the children, Hate/negativity IS TAUGHT & easily pick up by the younger one. With all the BS going on in this world, our children SHOULD & CAN find PEACE within their own families at least. Maybe, just maybe some of these children will learn 2 RESPECT themselve & other human beings and not turn into monsters as they grow-up. Think about it.
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