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*AMY MCALLISTER*

THE EYES ARE THE WINDOW TO THE SOUL

About Me


~THE EYES ARE THE WINDOW TO THE SOUL~

~AMY MCALLISTER~

I desire to be known for who I am and not for who you think I am or who I look like I am. I am everything but normal! I am a little left of center, deeper than you think, and I am spiritual. I am highly sensitive and intuitive. I can figure most people out within just a few minutes of having a conversation with them or just being around them. I am true and I am real. I am very compassionate yet I am strong. I would never betray anyone. I hurt when others are hurting. I value and respect everyone. I am genuine.
I have loved and lost and from both I have learned as well as gained much knowledge, wisdom and strength. I yearn for those who make me smile. It is not expected, but I love it when someone in my life gives back to the relationship what I give.
My passion is to make a change for our world through the children and my music. I have a strong desire to pave a way for the future generations. I am fascinated by the anomalous. I do not belong to anyone’s virus. Real satisfaction and joy are found from within myself.
If I had to tell you one quality or personality trait of most importance to me in anyone, it is to be “REAL.” There is no reason to be anybody but your true and real self around me. None of us are perfect. I don’t even try to be.
I live and love without restraint. Welcome to my life. I trust you. You burn me… I will forgive you, but most likely you will not have the opportunity to get close to me again.
You have now entered my masquerade. Take off your mask and uncover your facade. I love you and I want to get to know you...THE REAL YOU...just the way you are.
Composed, sure. Organized, most of the time. Structure... part of my past. I am neurotic, but in a good way. I am incredibly real.
With the energy of being real and always positive, I am comfortable in being myself, I have the courage to have new experiences, I have the self~esteem and confidence in myself that allows me to truly be thrilled for other people as they achieve success. I encourage them and give them as much support possible as they live and achieve their own personal mission and dreams. Even when I am jealous... it is always in a good way!
I can become silly and I am the life of the party. I am controlled as is seems, although I have definite insecurities. I am a direct person and a person never has to guess where they stand with me. I am honest and straight up because I wear my emotions on my sleeve, ALWAYS! I would rather have an uncomfortable moment than a fake moment.
I take the most pride in being the best mother to my three beautiful daughters. I started at it at the early age of 16, but I have not one single regret. In fact I feel so very blessed to be fortunate enough to have been able to be a young mom and enjoy every second of their childhood so far. My daughters are my heros. I believe that I learn more from them than they do from me. I am so proud of all three of them and the difference they make in the world every day. They are truly kind, grateful and respectful girls and those are probably the most important qualities and traits that I could pray for them to have acquired in this lifetime. Kenzi is 19~ Megan is 17~ and Maycee girl is 10. I love them with all my heart.
I also take much pride in being the best friend, and I am grateful for all the friends in my life so far, the good and the not so good... for even the friends who have turned on me, have let me down or betrayed me have been a lesson of valuing my loyalty and commitment to friendship! I am a vault and even if someone is not the closest friend, I will and can keep any secret. I value being someone that can be trusted. I love to make a persons day and I am fortunate to be blessed with a love for life and people that is contagious! Seeing the best in everybody is easy and natural for me!
My wish for myself is that i can be the kind of person that will make a huge difference in the world. That I can let go of control and roll with what life brings my way. Knowing and believing there is a reason that I am stuck in traffic, can't find my keys, have to turn back and answer the telephone, or my children are slow at getting dressed in the morning. All the little annoyances that usually frustrate me have a purpose...possibly even saving my life. God is at work watching over me, and I am exactly where I should be every moment. I am discovering the peace and happiness that comes when you enjoy the journey and let go of being so obsessed with the destination. I pray that I always have the strength and courage to follow my heart.
Shoot for the moon, you will be sure to land among the stars... Just remember that the journey there is through our own heart, and no one elses....
~Parents need to have dreams too~
All to often our own identity becomes lost inside of our relationship, our marriage, our children, our job, our position, and/or in the titles that we have been given or acquired. Sub-consciously we hold our soul hostage and it longs to be free. Free to live and be who we truly are. Nothing is by accident and we are given the life experiences necessary to the growth of our own soul. Life is a journey. A journey that truly begins upon the discovery of our own truth. There is not one map for every one to follow, rather a map or inner compass designed for each and every souls individuality. We must follow a personal path to discovering the treasure that lies we have buried and lies hidden in the heart. That which is written in the heart is lost and is anxiously waiting to be found. The treasure to be discovered is our own truth. The truth that makes us who we are. Upon this discovery of truth we are finally free to live our souls purpose, dream and mission. Bigger than any dream we ever dream is God's dream for us. ~Amy
~Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent.
Spread love everywhere you go;first of all in your house. Give love to your children,to your wife or husband,to a next door nieghbor... Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.Be the living expression of kindness;kindness in your face,kindness in your eyes,kindness in your smile,kindness in your warm greeting.~Mother Teresa~
"Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not you. Let others leave their future in someone else's hands, but not you."~Jim Rohn
All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.~ Arthur Schopenhauer
Before you can inspire with emotion, you must be swamped with it yourself. Before you can move their tears, your own must flow. To convince them, you must yourself believe. ~ Winston Churchill
I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy. From the very core of our being, we desire contentment. In my own limited experience I have found that the more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own sense of well-being. Cultivating a close, warmhearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease. It helps remove whatever fears or insecurities we may have and gives us the strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter. It is the principal source of success in life. Since we are not solely material creatures, it is a mistake to place all our hopes for happiness on external development alone. The key is to develop inner peace.~ The Dalai Lama
"Risk more than others think is safe. Care more than others think is wise. Dream more than others think is practical. Expect more than others think is possible. "
~ Cadet Maxim move on.
We have all been or experienced someone who has been on the dark side and then come back to the light. Have compassion and forgive everyone including yourself. If you are having a hard time forgiving someone... forgive yourself first for not forgiving them... cause, God already has!! Amy McAllister
~AND LET US REMEMBER... WE HAVEN’T WALKED ONE DAY IN THEIR SHOES~
"So it is that every person you meet, each soul who crossesyour path and affects you - wonderfully and terribly,briefly or for a lifetime - is here for that reason, andevery relationship you engage in is but a small scene in avast, ever-unfolding human panoply that is being endlesslyenacted for the purpose of your soul's development. Whenyou recognize this, you will suddenly, breathtakingly seethat each person has been brought to you with a high andelegant purpose, that each soul has come to touch your souland teach it, that each relationship exists to hasten yourown soul's beautiful awakening. No longer is anyone a stranger;no longer can any of your relationships be seen as failures or mistakes."~ Daphne Rose Kingma
~THERE ARE NO MISTAKES~
~SEE THROUGH THE EVER SO INNOCENT~
~UNCONDITIONAL & LOVING~
~ EYES OF A CHILD~

~I WISH I MAY PRODUCTIONS~
I WISH FOR THE WORLD~I WISH I MIGHT,
MAKE A CHANGE ~BY SHARING MY LIGHT.
~IN MY DAUGHTERS EYES... I SEE HEROS~
~THE CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE~
I am free, I am an angel, and I take on many formsI laugh and I listen. I am never far away I am never gone at allI am a friend, a good book, or a pink and golden sunsetI am your mama's touch and your fathers helping handYou know me because I am you. You are me through and throughI am unconditional love and you are too!
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I took the " The Aura Color Personality " quiz on gURL.com
My aura is...
violet

In the world of auras, violet is the color of visionaries. Violets are inspired individuals who are filled with enormous amounts of compassion for the human race. They are usually committed to great causes--think environmental or peace activism--that they think will save the world. Read more ...

What color is your aura?

In the world of auras, violet is the color of visionaries. Violets are inspired individuals who are filled with enormous amounts of compassion for the human race. They are usually committed to great causes--think environmental or peace activism--that they think will save the world. Their lives tend to be intense and dramatic because they feel they have the power to change things, even if others find their ambitions unrealistic. Do you feel you have a higher purpose in life? Do you want to change the world? Then you may be happy to be in the company of other folks with violet aura souls!

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LOST AND FOUND
YOUTH ACADEMY
HOPE IS NEVER LOST...
...ONLY FOUND
WHY MUST WE WALK IN ANOTHER MANS SHOES
TO SIMPLY HAVE COMPASSION FOR THAT MAN?
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~Building Reasons And Dreams~
Around Parents and Children in Need~
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The world suffers greatly from self-esteem issues not only in our teenagers, but most of the global community. From grade school aged children on up to our great grandparents, we have discovered the lack of self worth stemming from various tragic and traumatic circumstances that are different and unique to each individual. Some of those being feelings of inadequacy, not fitting in, lack of success, the loss of a loved one, and heartbreak...just to name a few.
It is essential that each one of us becomes aware of our responsibility to acquire self-love. This is the first step to being the person that we are meant to be. We sub-consciously hold ourselves hostage and our soul longs to be freed to be who we truly are.
This is the reason we suffer from inner struggles and turbulence that undoubtedly causes outer chaos and numerous unhealthy and habitual behavior habits in our relationships. Once we discover our truth and are restored with self-love, that love then ignites passion and then we develop the courage necessary for achieving our goals and living our dreams. During this process we are willing to see that our behavior in the past was the cause of unhealthy relationships in our life. During this transition and transformation our behavior habits are changed and corrected automatically.
After restoring and demonstrating a responsibility to yourself, you naturally develop a desire for responsibility to community. You are able to sincerely support others and genuinely share in the excitement of their successes.
Of course there are many other lessons to be learned and knowledge to be gained, a few examples; education, intellectual excellence, personal integrity,and faith. One step at a time we have experienced effectiveness and success through our therapeutic programs and treatments.
We believe in being examples of kindness, respect, love, and honesty, while providing these fine young men with vocational trades of all kinds. It is our goal to help them develop the tools needed for independent responsibility. Teaching through hands on experiences, the happiness, fulfillment, recognition, positive impact on their self-image, and the success that is achieved through hard work.
We have witnessed this process transform young men into establishing a life that values freedom through responsibility. They have overcome fear and isolation. Let go of guilt and the past, they find the courage to embraced failure and view them as blessings that became lessons learned, experiences for growth and building up of character. They develop incredible leadership skills. Protected with insights and practical coping strategies to prevent the falling back on negative, oppositional behaviors.
This generation of young men are the future. We have the desire to offer them assistance and direction in helping them to discover their purpose, talents and their passions to create a change in the world. We encourage each to do his part in paving a way to peace, unity, faith, hope, and pure unconditional love for the next era and future generations. One lost soul at a time.
Lighting Your Way
If I was one thing, I'd be a candle~Lighting the way so you can handle~
Your life easier without woes~Not having to fight with your foes.
I'd help keep you from stumbling over~Things blocking your path to an open door~
If I light your path, life is easier~Even strong winds, my light will not deter.
No matter what, I'm here for you~To cheer you up when you are blue.
Do not fret when times get tough~If things look down or kind of rough.
Just remember, I'm always here...In your heart, close and near.
I will help you out in every way~Happiness and love in your heart will stay.
Don't blow me out, that's one request~Unless it's me you do detest.
I do not ever hurt anyone~Only good deeds are done.
But one day you may leave me behind~You may no longer need my light to shine.
If that day comes, go on your way~And I will hope to see you again one day.
If one day, I don't appear~Do not worry, do not fear~
I may be gone, but in your heart ~The light I gave you did not depart.
It will be there forever and a day~To always bring happiness and light your way.
Farewell for now,I'm needed elsewhere~If your path grows dark, in your heart, I'm there.
So I'm really not gone, just not seen~ I would not leave,I'm not that mean.
Only one simple request that I must say~Please, never forget those who lit your way.
I LOVE YOU BOEY!
I HOLD A CONSTANT PRAYER IN MY HEART FOR YOU AND FOR YOUR FAMILY!
YOU ARE A SHINING LIGHT TO US ALL, LITTLE WARIOR!
BOEY HUGS!!!!!!! MUAH!!!!!!!
I LOVE YOU BOEY!



It’s easy to act as if you are a weathervane, always changing your beliefs and words, trying to please everyone around you. But we were born to be lighthouses, not weathervanes.Imagine a vertical axis running through the center of your heart, from your deepest roots to your highest aspirations. That’s your lighthouse. It anchors you in the world and frees you from having to change directions every time the weather shifts.Inside this lighthouse there is a lens and a light. The light represents who you are when nobody else is looking. That light was meant to keep shining, no matter how dark or stormy it gets outside…when you find that light inside you, you will know it. Don’t let anyone else dim it…and one more thing:REMEMBER TO LOOK FOR THE LIGHT INSIDE OTHERS. IF AT FIRST YOU CAN'T SEE IT, THEN LOOK DEEPER... IT'S THERE.
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~MY ANGEL BROTHER BRAD~
"To bring you laughter each morning and warmth at night...
would bring me joy at all hours."
The heart is the center of the human energy system. The new field of energetic cardiology has revealed that the heart is more than a muscular pump. It has wisdom; it is the metaphysical and energetic center of love, and knowing. It is unfortunate that we have been taught to distrust the wisdom of our hearts. We have become disconnected from who we truly are—spiritual beings having a human experience!
A Forever Friend by Unknown
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; Someone who changes your life by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in this world. Someone who convinces you that there is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is Forever Friendship. When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty, Your forever friend lifts you up in spirit, and makes that dark and empty world suddenly bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, and the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be a-okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete, because you need not worry, You have a forever friend for life, and forever has no end.
""When the heart sings and the spirit soars, the music of life is complete."
"Love is the music the heart sings best."



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Every day I remind myself that my inner and outer life are based on the labors of other men, living and dead, and that I must exert myself inorder to give in the same measure as I have received and am still receiving.
Great spirits have always encountered opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly.
Victory
A failure makes a move to step forward, It begins a life with ambitious victory, A success brings endless happiness, A failure brings memorized sadness.Failure after success is unmemorable, But success after failure is memorable, Life is a mixture of success and failure, It comes and moves like clouds in the sky.A life with good effort fades the failure, Failure falls like a dried leaves of a tree, A metal of gold results after one melts it, Likewise, one achieves success by their effort.A brave aim closes the doors of failure, As it opens the golden doors of success, Failure is step to light a candle in darkness, To result as the light of evermore success.
Bitterness imprisons life~love releases it.
Bitterness paralyzes life~love empowers it. Bitterness sours life~ love sweetens it.
Bitterness sickens life~love heals it. Bitterness blinds life~ love anoints its eyes.
Life can seem ungrateful and not always kind. Life can pull at your heartstrings and play with your mind... Life can be blissful and happy and free... Life can put beauty in the things that you see... Life can place challenges right at your feet... Life can make good of the hardships we meet... Life can overwhelm you and make your head spin... Life can reward those determined to win... Life can be hurtful and not always fair... Life can surround you with people who care... Life clearly does offer its Up and its Downs... Life's days can bring you both smiles and frowns... Life teaches us to take the good with the bad... Life is a mixture of happy and sad...
So...Take the Life that you have and give it your best... Think positive, be happy let God do the rest... Take the challenges that life has laid at your feet... Take pride and be thankful for each one you meet... To yourself give forgiveness if you stumble and fall... Take each day that is dealt you and give it your all... Take the love that you're given and return it with care... Have faith that when needed it will always be there... Take time to find the beauty in the things that you see... Take life's simple pleasures let them set your heart free... The idea here is simply to even the score... As you are met and faced with Life's Tug of War
Our Deepest Fear
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
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Shadows of the Past
Cherokee towns standing silent in the sun.
Clear mountain streams,
Sweet and wholesome as they run.
Trees standing tall in Breath Givers sight.
Reaching up their arms,
In the early morning light.
The sun shines brightly off the temple mound at dawn.
My heart beats strong,
As I hear their powerful song.
The Shakers drive away,
All the fear, and doubt, and shame.
I know they see me here, and I know they're glad I came.
I see many things and the shadows that they cast.
And everywhere I turn,
I see Shadows Of The Past.
A lone rider moves cross the plains at close of day.
He gazes in my eyes,
And then slowly rides away.
Then I see the buffalo, and the giant prairie grass,
And everywhere I turn,
I see Shadows Of The Past.
I see the lodges pitched in a circle by the stream.
I see the peaceful people,
Live, and love, and hope, and dream.
I see many things and the shadows that they cast,
And everywhere I turn,
I see Shadows Of The Past.
I know they see me here, and I know they know my name,
And because of the shadows, I will never be the same.
I know in my heart,
All these things I have been shown,
And no matter where I am, I will never be alone.
I see all these things and the shadows that they cast.
And everywhere I turn,
I see Shadows Of The Past.
Three thousand years ago, there was a Human just like you and me who lived near a city surrounded by mountains. the human was studying to become a medicine man, to learn the knowledge of his ancestors, but he didn't completely agree with everything he was learning. In his heart, he felt there must be something more.
One day, as he slept in a cave, he dreamed that he saw his own body sleeping. He came out of the cave on the night of a new moon. The sky was clear, and he could see millions of stars. then something happened inside of him that transformed his life forever.
He looked at his hands, he felt his body, and he heard his own voice say, "I am made of light; I am made of stars." He looked at the stars again, and he realized that it's not the stars that create light, but rather light that created the stars.
"Everything is made of light," he said, "and the space in-between isn't empty." And he knew that everything that exists is one living being, and that light is the messenger of life, because it is alive and contains all information.
This is what he discovered: Everything in existence is a manifestation of the one living being we call God. Everything is God.
And he came to the conclusion that human perception is merely light perceiving light. He also saw that matter is a mirror -- everything is a mirror that reflects light and creates images of that light --
and the world of illusion, the DREAM, is just like smoke which doesn't allow us to see
what we really are.
"The real Us is pure love."
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him."I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."Late r the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?""All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"God said:"When I made the woman she had to be special.I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfortI gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue with out complaining.I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts or cheats on his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him.And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.""You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

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Reason~Season~Lifetime

One SONG can spark a momentOne FLOWER can wake the dreamOne TREE can start a forestOne BIRD can herald springOne SMILE begins a friendshipOne HANDCLASP lifts a soulOne STAR can guide a ship at seaOne ...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Mon, 22 Jan 2007 07:57:00 PST

Fireflies

A reminder to have compassion for our fellow men $20.00 Sometimes we just need to be reminded! A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked,...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Wed, 04 Jul 2007 02:34:00 PST

~You Shine~

Hugs to you all! I wanted to take the time to thank you for the gift of your friendship. You are extremely talented people with such incredible depth and amazing light that radiates from your souls.&n...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Sat, 30 Jun 2007 12:48:00 PST

~BEGIN AGAIN~

The more passions and desires one has, the more ways one has of being happy. As we grow older we learn the difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love doesn’t...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Fri, 27 Jul 2007 07:14:00 PST

Child Abuse~heartbreaking~TOXIC LOVE~

Cause some dont get that chance........... SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.I didn't mean to spill my milk at dinner last night. SORRY MOMMY & DADDY.I didn't mean to play with my dolls that long. SORRY MOMMY & D...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Fri, 27 Jul 2007 07:07:00 PST

~God Bless Our Troops~ This Breaks My Heart~

You stay up for 16 hoursHe stays up for days on end.You take a warm shower to help you wake up.He goes days or weeks without running water.You complain of a "headache", and call in sick.He gets shot a...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 01:08:00 PST

~A Tribute To Our Troops~

I pray that you all had an amazing and safe holiday with your loved ones. I keep a constant prayer in my heart for all of our service men and women who are sacrificing everything... for each and ever...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Thu, 05 Jul 2007 01:58:00 PST

SEVEN WORDS OF WELL-BEING

SEVEN WORDS OF WELL-BEINGMOVEYour address, your bed, your body, your bookshelf. Take a walk, take a hike, take a step away from stagnating jobs, relationships and life patterns. Change perspective. Mo...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Sat, 30 Jun 2007 12:53:00 PST

The only real antidote is... Love

An update on my crazy life and why I haven't been on my space very much in the last month.Keeping up with three daughters is as much fun as it is challenging!In the past month we planned the wedding o...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Fri, 25 May 2007 05:25:00 PST

Angel friends on my space

Sometimes I cuss myself for not being able to pull myself away from the computer~Up until the last year, my space or anything like it would have been a complete waste of time to me~ I would have never...
Posted by *AMY MCALLISTER* on Sat, 20 Jan 2007 10:29:00 PST