Driving thru? Thank you for coming... bon appetit... come again soon! I keep having to state the obvious that I'm here for friends and network. I don't date because I'm allergic to men and their bullshit. "I've never known a companion as companionable as solitude." -Henry David Thoreau. I prefer my solitude REALLY; no anger, no hurt, no disappointment, no frustration, no compromise. I like messages and comments but please REFER to my FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions) BLOG or FAQS below FIRST before contacting me!... they REALLY have been asked and answered very often. I'm not a big fan of the word 'FAN' - and YOU, my friends, are the inspiration of my images and the ONLY reason I continue My Space. I'm flattered that you friend request me to be a part of your Barbie doll collection although my appearance does not do justice for a beautiful mind. It's all good, I don't have time for idle chit-chat a.k.a. BS. We have myspace friends for a season, friends for a reason, and friends for life. I can be read like an open book, and it speaks volumes of who I am. My friends subscribe to my blogs because the letters are always written TO them, and they know I never talk out of my ass just to make noise. If you messaged me and I haven't gotten back to you in over a week, most likely it's gotten lost among my other messages. Just write back, I don't bite. I LOVE pic comments BEST because pictures capture and freeze a moment in time that will never be again.“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." These are very wise statements from one Beautiful woman for all women to follow! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him-he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another re-think her choices, and another woman prepare.
You are Maryiln Monroe
A classic tortured beauty
You're the dream girl of many men
Yet they never seem to treat you right
Do you really look like that, are you for real? Yes it's ALL me, the background image is ME too. I created all the images myself with Adobe Photoshop and my model pics with the goal to inspire and bring a smile to your face when your day is done - it's ALL from YOUR feedback! I don't put up 10-year-old pictures unless to prove there's No agin' in Asian and I'm not your typical Asian fetish. I speak my mind in English, Vietnamese, and Spanish perfectly and I laugh as loud as I want to. I am uninhibited and open-minded for the sake of self-development. I AM FOR REAL in every picture, paragraph, survey, blog, quote, sentence, period, and question mark on my page. ********
How to get her attention? DON'T try to get a rise out of me, I'll ignore you. DO your reading before writing. DON'T expect a reply back right away. DO speak intelligently, I don't mind the mispellings. DON'T invade my space and solitude. DO approach me like a perfect gentleman. DON'T think your sweet talk will get you in my pants, they're Victoria's Secret and would be way too small for you. DO give out compliments 'cause women love them, and the best compliment to a woman is from another woman. DON'T walk in front of me I cannot follow, don't walk behind me I cannot see, walk beside me and be my friend. ********
Is it hard to be so beautiful? The product of my pictures is the incentive to maintain my physique. My face glows not because of makeup - it glows because I smile genuinely. Being and looking like myself is not a trial... I only have God and myself to answer to. Men treat me the way every woman deserves to be respected because my page shows that I'm a lady who would never call herself a 'bitch' or a 'ho'. I speak volumes on my page, I know, but the clever literature actually deters stupid people away... believe it or not, I get viewed A LOT but get less messages than you'd expect. ********
Is she full of herself or full of s**t? I don't need to create a larger-than-life autobiography. I posess self-confidence, and I know what I want. Ironically - the more compliments I receive, the more humbled I am. I live by The Golden Rule, and I DON'T appreciate someone examining and dissecting my self-worth because you'll only discover that my heart and mind are not diseased. I'm not infected, but I AM INFECTIOUS. ********
Why did she deny my friend request? I'm selectively dyslexic. Ripley's Believe It or Not, I'm a speed reader and I actually read your entire profile, look at your pics page, and your friends' pics before I reply or accept you. Pretending to be a thug or pimping booty girls on your page is NOT what I'm about. ********
What do you do for fun, tell me about yourself. I don't need to advertise myself that I'm so and so looking for such and such. I enjoy stimulating intelligent conversations and respectful comments. I like to be a MUSE for your inspirational pleasure and peace of mind so A-MUSE me. ********
Do you have IM? NO. I-M only me. I go and chase after my dreams instead of sitting at home by the computer hoping my future will fall on my lap. ********
Would you be interested to go out with me for a cup of coffee? Is that all I'm worth? No, sorry I DON'T DRINK COFFEE... I don't drink alcohol or smoke either - I don't mind that you smoke but don't exhale. I'm a sarcastic smartass and I take words literally because there's truth to EVERY sarcasm! Just because I reply to you doesn't mean you're given an instant ticket to see the Greatest Show on Earth. If I was interested in you to be a part of my circus act, you'd know it.********
Is she crazy or am I? Those who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, usually do. Insane people are always sure that they are fine. It is only the sane people who are willing to admit that they are crazy. You can always trust the information given to you by people who are crazy; they have an access to truth not available through regular channels...call me Crazy. I would lose my job if I met the DSM-IV criterias for obsessive disorder or psychotic behaviors. Stalkers need not apply. I'm a tiny toon not a looney toon!********
Can you send me some more pics? SURE! My website, www.MyHaliGirl.com, will be coming soon to a cyberspace near you! ..
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Where in the world is Hali??? I live out of my suitcase visiting close relatives in Cali or photoshooting with photographers. I'm often found at the Playboy Mansion parties pole dancing in lingerie or stuffing my face at the buffet table and sipping on a Shirley Temple. I'm not trying to win any popularity contest I don't even know about, but I do want to share my passion for life, love, and beauty. Show me some love and feel free to copy and paste my banners on your page! Thank you so much for believing in me. xoxo
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