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THIS PAGE IS FOR RESOURCES ONLY....I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL..PLEASE CALL 1-800-SUICIDE OR 911 IF YOU DON'T LIVE IN THE U.S. LOOK FOR YOUR NUMBER TO CALL IN BLOG...THERE IS HELP!! IT HELPS MY HEALING TO HELP OTHERS UNDERSTAND.INSTEAD OF KEEPING THE DOOR SHUT WITH TABOOS,STIGMAS,HALF-TRUTHS AND IGNORANCE.My name is Paulette. My son is the high point of my life.He is what makes my life worth getting up for.I lost my father on August 29,2005 to suicide.In his mind there was no other way out,I am trying to help make people aware of the services available if you are feeling as he did.There is hope and there is help.Depression and mental illness are real and dangerous without the proper help.You will find phone numbers you can call on this page.The people who answer these calls are trained and many have been were you are.They can help you and help you get the help you need.Suicide is a permanent solution to what is in most cases a temporary problem.I wish I had known what my dad was going throw before he made his choice.I didn't understand why he had took his own life until I read the note he left.But the majority of suicides do not leave notes.I was lucky his was very detailed as to what was going on in his life.But it still was not the right choice.I wish he would have told me so together we could have taken care of things.But no matter how many wishes of that I send out nothing can change the out come now.Don't let in be too late for yourself or a loved one.Know the signs and no where to go for help. SUICIDE PREVENTION---HERE FOR LIFE--IF YOU FEEL SUICIDAL PLEASE GET HELP NOW....SOMEONE COMMITTS SUICIDE EVERY 16 MINUTES IN THE UNITED STATES-----THINKING OF SUICIDE CALL 1-800-SUICIDE, TEENS CALL 1-877-YOUTHLINE, AND VETERANS CALL 1-877-VET-2-VET OR CALL 1-800-273-TALK... WHATEVER YOU DO PLEASE GET HELP. *EACH SUICIDE intimately affects at least six to seven other people. *One out of every 64 people in the U.S.,or 4.47 million has lost a family member or friend to suicide. *Between 6 and 7 million people worldwide, including 190,000 in the U.S. lose someone close to them to suicide each year.

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| View Show | Create Your Own Suicide is the 11th leading cause of death in the U.S. In the U.S. more people die by suicide each year than die because of HIV or homocide.Males are 4 times as likely to die by suicide than females-although females attempt suicide 3 times as often as males.White Americans are more likely to die by suicide than Americans of other racial backgrounds.Suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death among those Americans between ages 15-24 and second leading cause of death among those between the ages 25-34.Suicide rates increase with age.Elderly people who die by suicide are often divorced or widowed and suffering from physical illness.There is a strong association between suicide and mental illness. 90% of suicides that take place in the U.S. are associated with mental illness, including disorders involving the abuse of alcohol and other drugs. 50% of those who die by suicide were afflicted with major depression and the suicide rate of people with major depression is 8 times that of the general population.Suicide is a preventive health problem. HOW CAN YOU HELP SOMEONE WHO IS THREATENING SUICIDE? 1.Be aware. Learn the warning signs. 2.Get involved.Become available.Show interest and support. 3.Ask if he/she is thinking about suicide. 4.Be direct.Talk openly and freely about suicide. 5.Be willing to listen.Allow for expressions of feelings.Accept the feelings. 6.Be nonjudgmental.Don't debate whether suicide is right or wrong,or whether feelings are good or bad. 7.Don't lectureon the value of life. 8.Don't give advice by making decisions for someone else to make them behave differently. 9.Don't ask "Why?" This encourages defensiveness. 10.Offer empathy,not sympathy. 11.Don't act shocked.This creates distance between you. 12.Don't be sworn to secrecy.Seek support. 13.Offer hope that alternatives are available.Don't offer glib reassurances; that only proves you don't understand. 14.Take action.Remove means such as guns or stockpiled pills. 15.Get help from individuals or agencies specializing in crisis intervention and suicide prevention. From the American Association of SuicidologyIF YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT A FAMILY MEMBER,A FRIEND,OR YOURSELF, CALL 1-800-273-TALK(8255), THE NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE.A TRAINED COUNSELOR IS AVAILABLE TO SPEAK WITH YOU 24 HOURS EVERY DAY.DON'T HESITATE JUST MAKE THE CALL!!!

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Movies:

I have so many.But my favorites are "Somewhere In Time" ,"Chicago","Wizard of Oz" and "Gone with the Wind" followed by watching the sequel "Scarlet".And Beautiful Mind.

Television:

CSI,American Idol,Big Brother,Ghost Whisper,House,Medium,Bones,Deal or No Deal and I love to watch The Nanny and The Golden Girls


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Books:

"No Time To Say Goodbye" by Carla Fine,"I Wasn't Ready To Say Goodbye" by Brook Noel & Pamela D.Blair,PH.D.,and "Touched By Suicide" by Michael F.Myers & Carla Fine. All very helpfull and great books.

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MEMORIAL FOR DAD @ www.myspace.com/bob082906

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FOR ALL MY FRIENDS AND ANY FUTURE ONES

I got this mail last night over the Trevor Project blog I posted....----------------- Original Message -----------------I'm sorry, but I have to delete you from my friends list. However, you will be i...
Posted by SUICIDE DOSENT HAVE TO BE TABOO on Sat, 07 Apr 2007 06:50:00 PST

How it still affects my life an update that many have asked for

Well it has been a long time since i have actually written a blog on here.But I felt lke something is pulling me to do this so here we go boys and girls...lolI always put stuff on here about what to d...
Posted by SUICIDE DOSENT HAVE TO BE TABOO on Sat, 07 Apr 2007 11:16:00 PST

Trevor Project PSA 2007 help for gay and questioning youth

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One Way Ticket

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Posted by SUICIDE DOSENT HAVE TO BE TABOO on Fri, 06 Apr 2007 09:51:00 PST

PLEA AGAINST SUICIDE

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Posted by SUICIDE DOSENT HAVE TO BE TABOO on Wed, 07 Mar 2007 08:31:00 PST

TEEN SUICIDE UP 18% IN ONE YEAR

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SUICIDE PREVENTION VIDEOS

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SUICIDE PREVENTION VIDEO

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SUICIDE PREVENTION VIDEO

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The 2006 Report on America's Health Care System for Serious Mental Illness

Click on link to get the over all US grade which is a D. And look state by state. It is sad what shape our mental health care is in. Go look at your state. Get the full report and the recommendations....
Posted by SUICIDE DOSENT HAVE TO BE TABOO on Sat, 17 Feb 2007 07:26:00 PST