being a sillyhead, movies, poetry, paper/collage art, astrology, psychology, philosophy, learning about religion, art, massage, graphic design, writing, japanese plants, music, shopping, good conversation, kissing, pillow fights, home decor/furniture stores, dancing, photography, tea (ginger-peach!), thai food, travel, self-publishing, sleeping, thinking, big cities, culture.
first and foremost...new friends! especially new female friends, as i don't have many of those. people in chicago...i moved here in 2006 from kenosha, WI & previously lived in the far-northern suburbs.
people who actually want to get together and DO interesting things....aside from seeing blockbuster movies and eating at chain restaurants (though i like those too, just not CONSTANTLY.) this world really has a lot to offer, and i don't have a lot of free time...i'd like to spend the time i do have exploring all of it.
intelligent people who are fun yet can carry on a great conversation. people who are passionate about things, people with drive, people who can talk, yet listen. out of the ordinary...
and people...who are, truly, genuinely, interested in getting to know me as a person.
people who like any of the following: indie/twee/new wave/synth-pop, prince & other bad-but-oh-so-good 80's musicians, before sunrise/sunset, graphic design, writing (poetry in particular), art in general, html, great conversation.budding, creative, business-savvy entrepreneur types who want to help me start my own graphic design company. i'm not business-savvy, but i'm ambitious...!
anyone who's read plato's republic. merely because you'd impress me. (i've read but parts of it, in high school.)
...and maybe even the marius to my cosette. (triple bonus points if you know what novel these characters come from, or even care enough to impress me by googling them and pretending you do.)
80s dance, new wave, indiepop, indie rock, twee, electronic lo-fi, shoegaze, dreampop, synth, alt-country, jazz, ambient, prince (i think musicology sucks, however), madonna, sheila e, lisa lisa and cult jam, trembling blue stars/field mice/npl, phoenix, tahiti 80, bjork, belle & sebastian, aberdeen, the orchids, blueboy, the sugargliders, heavenly, secret shine, hitparade, monograph, ivy, the wake, east river pipe, talulah gosh (& really, nearly anything sarah records ever put out!) the bangles, emm gryner, the sundays, basement jaxx, juliana hatfield, liz phair, kate bush, orange juice, saint etienne, my bloody valentine, tristeza, the arrogants, sebastien tellier, the cure, death in vegas, the smiths, slowdive, ulrich schnauss, jesus & mary chain, new order, squarepusher, mazzy star, smashing pumpkins, cocteau twins, tristeza, jackson browne, morrissey, depeche mode, leona naess, tullycraft, the pretenders, new pornographers, jeff buckley, nina simone, beaumont, neko case, band of horses, absinthe blind, elvis costello, kevin tihista's red terror, the go-betweens, ben kweller, blondie, the jackson five, new edition, death cab for cutie, elliott smith, the cardigans, emiliana torrini, piano magic, the temptations, ani difranco...so much more...love music! ask me for more...
before sunrise/sunset, eternal sunshine, when harry met sally, reality bites, sleeping beauty, garden state, love actually, vanilla sky, lost in translation, napoleon dynamite, the notebook, high fidelity, mean girls, catch me if you can, secret window, waking life, serendipity, pretty in pink, trainspotting, bridget jones' diary, wings of desire, magnolia, old school, 13 conversations about one things, adaptation, american beauty, breakfast club, roman holiday, one true thing, down with love, run lola run, like water for chocolate, closer, the fountain, me & you & everyone we know, sideways...i am sure i can think of more...
i don't really watch tv much.....but when i do, i dig TLC, the style network, discovery/discovery health, project runway, and GILMORE GIRLS.
julia copus, alice munro, franz kafka, anne sexton, thomas wolfe, ernest hemingway, dorianne laux, charles bukowski, elizabeth bishop, eva salzman, william faulkner, joyce carol oates, charles baudelaire, nikki giovanni, philip larkin, ts eliot, sharon olds, ee cummings, margaret atwood. (can you tell i really like poetry?)
and all of those lucid hearts, whose strength of emotion has never stopped them from baring all.