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bobbie

you told me i could order the moon, babe, just as long as i shoot what i want.

About Me

"Work, worry, toil and trouble are indeed the lot of almost all men their whole life long. And yet, if every desire were satisfied as soon as it arose, how would men occupy their lives, how would they pass the time? Imagine this race transported to Utopia, where everything grows of its own accord and turkeys fly around ready-roasted, where lovers find one another without any delay and keep one another without any difficulty: in such a place, some men would die of boredom or hang themselves... thus, for a race such as this, no stage, no form of existence is suitable other than the one it already possesses." ---schopenhauer, "on the suffering of the world"
"At that instant he saw, in one blaze of light, an image of unutterable conviction, the reason why the artist works and lives and has his being--the reward he seeks--the only reward he really cares about, without which there is nothing. It is to snare the spirits of mankind in nets of magic, to make his life prevail through his creation, to wreak the vision of his life, the rude and painful substance of his own experience, into the congruence of blazing and enchanted images that are themselves the core of life, the essential pattern whence all other things proceed, the kernel of eternity."
---thomas wolfe, "of time and the river"

there are the haves and the have nots,
the bodies whose limbs partake
in the aching rhythms,
the tethered passions,
the sidelong kisses
as steady as a bulleting monorail,
the kind whose desires burn off
the excitement of a stimulating phrase
that globes overhead,
a snow-drop of a lunar beam
that in all its glib quickness
manages a tender brush of its hand
against the very notion of eternity
---except from a poem of mine, 'the halves and the wholes'

I wish I could say I was the kind of child
who watched the moon from her window,
would turn toward it and wonder.
I never wondered. I read. Dark signs
that crawled toward the edge of the page.
It took me years to grow a heart
from paper and glue. All I had
was a flashlight, bright as the moon,
a white hole blazing beneath the sheets.
---dorianne laux, "facts about the moon"
At times it is a good life, with the evening sun
gilding the abbey tower, the brook's cold waterssliding past and every hour in my Book
a blank page, vellum pumice-stoned
to chalky lustres which my inks suffuse:
saffron and sandarach and dragon's blood,
azure and verdigris. Monsters and every type of beast
curl round the words. Each man here has a past,
and each man reasons for his faith. I wronged
a woman once and nothing I did after could atone
or throw a light upon the blackness of that deed,
whose harm lay in the telling, not the doing.
My floor is strewn with thyme and rosemary
to mask the odours of my craft – fish glue,
gum resins, vinegar and oils. With these I shape
the hosts of the redeemed, and every face
takes on the features of a face I've known
and every angel's face beneath the shadow
of its many coloured wings is hers alone.
---julia copus, "breaking the rule -- the art of illumination"
"I really believe that if there's any kind of God, he wouldn't be in any one of us -- not you, not me, but just this space in between. If there's some magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone else, sharing something. Even if it's almost impossible to succeed. But who cares? The answer must be in the attempt."
---from before sunrise

bobbie, 23. i'm a passionate person. would like to think i am a creative one. i want to be a graphic designer. i'm into psychology. i'm an avid chicago-sun times reader, and i like to read the new yorker, specifically the fiction section. sometimes i read the 'girly' magazines, but i prefer to cut them up for collages. i'm into the art of romance. i love art. i love poetry. i love music: old-school 80s dance and pop, indie, twee, electronic lo-fi, synth, shoegaze, dreampop. trembling blue stars are my favorite band. i've wanted to be a writer since i was 7 years old. i'm thinking about self publishing my own material. i have my own website. i am nothing you'd expect.i'm a lover, not a fighter, but i'm not afraid of confrontation. i get described as intense a lot. i was a vegetarian for 13 years, & am now a semi vegetarian. sometimes i spend hours in adobe photoshop. i can't be with anyone romantically who doesn't inspire me, or who doesn't make me want to write. i always make sure to express how i feel. i'm incredibly open & i wish more people were the same. i'd rather not be lied to because you think it will protect my feelings. i'm not a morning person by nature, but my job offers me no other choice, so i've become one. i have a strange affection for colored pencils. i can't live without my cell phone. i think introspection is terribly important. in the jealously realm, i'm the typical scorpio. etiquette is very important to me. people tell me i worry too much, or care too much. i really want to go to spain, & london, someday. i think there's nothing better than good conversation or a great connection. my favorite starbursts are the red ones.
my mom died of cancer when i was 18. for the first year after she died, i didn't think about it much. sometimes now, i miss her. i wish we'd been closer.
i work for a farmers insurance office in highland park, illinois, full time. i am gone 10-11 hrs a day, 5 days a week. i'm a property & casualty claims CSR. it's certainly not my dream job....but it's making me a decent living right now. insurance is actually more interesting than one might think. i've seen so many photos of smashed up cars!
I am more human than anything, but at times I don't feel like it. I'd rather be self aware than happy. I do as much as I can to celebrate life, to go for the things I want, to find my dreams, those constellations in the sky. I know what I want from life. I don't always know how to get it, but I'm doing everything possible, and probably fucking up a lot along the way. I'm too sensitive and too passionate and when I love something, or someone, I give my whole heart to it. I believe love is hard to come by, but I want it more than anything. I like challenges. I believe that when you want something so very much you will have it no matter the cost.
note: i usually don't friend people unless they message me first. unless i think you're incredibly interesting merely from your profile. and if you have no inert interest in speaking to ME as an individual....not just as part of your mass amalgamation of pixel-people....then go away. thanks. ;)
We don't fall in love: it rises through us the way that certain music does - whether a symphony or ballad - and it is sepia-coloured, like spilt tea that inches up the tiny tube-like gaps inside a cube of sugar lying by a cup. Yes, love's like that: just when we least needed or expected it a part of us dips into it by chance or mishap and it seeps through our capillaries, it clings inside the chambers of the heart. We're victims, we say: mere vessels, drinking the vanilla scent of this one's skin, the lustre of another's eyes so skilfully darkened with bistre. And whatever damage might result we're not to blame for it: love is an autocrat and won't be disobeyed. Sometimes we manage to convince ourselves of that.
"and when i speak of neurosis i really mean nothing more than what we used to call romanticism: that is, wanting the impossible and then being unhappy if it was found to be impossible."
...saints have no moderation, nor do poets, just exuberance.
put your ear down close to your soul and listen hard.

My Interests

being a sillyhead, movies, poetry, paper/collage art, astrology, psychology, philosophy, learning about religion, art, massage, graphic design, writing, japanese plants, music, shopping, good conversation, kissing, pillow fights, home decor/furniture stores, dancing, photography, tea (ginger-peach!), thai food, travel, self-publishing, sleeping, thinking, big cities, culture.

I'd like to meet:

first and foremost...new friends! especially new female friends, as i don't have many of those. people in chicago...i moved here in 2006 from kenosha, WI & previously lived in the far-northern suburbs.
people who actually want to get together and DO interesting things....aside from seeing blockbuster movies and eating at chain restaurants (though i like those too, just not CONSTANTLY.) this world really has a lot to offer, and i don't have a lot of free time...i'd like to spend the time i do have exploring all of it.
intelligent people who are fun yet can carry on a great conversation. people who are passionate about things, people with drive, people who can talk, yet listen. out of the ordinary...
and people...who are, truly, genuinely, interested in getting to know me as a person.
people who like any of the following: indie/twee/new wave/synth-pop, prince & other bad-but-oh-so-good 80's musicians, before sunrise/sunset, graphic design, writing (poetry in particular), art in general, html, great conversation.budding, creative, business-savvy entrepreneur types who want to help me start my own graphic design company. i'm not business-savvy, but i'm ambitious...!
anyone who's read plato's republic. merely because you'd impress me. (i've read but parts of it, in high school.)
...and maybe even the marius to my cosette. (triple bonus points if you know what novel these characters come from, or even care enough to impress me by googling them and pretending you do.)

Music:

80s dance, new wave, indiepop, indie rock, twee, electronic lo-fi, shoegaze, dreampop, synth, alt-country, jazz, ambient, prince (i think musicology sucks, however), madonna, sheila e, lisa lisa and cult jam, trembling blue stars/field mice/npl, phoenix, tahiti 80, bjork, belle & sebastian, aberdeen, the orchids, blueboy, the sugargliders, heavenly, secret shine, hitparade, monograph, ivy, the wake, east river pipe, talulah gosh (& really, nearly anything sarah records ever put out!) the bangles, emm gryner, the sundays, basement jaxx, juliana hatfield, liz phair, kate bush, orange juice, saint etienne, my bloody valentine, tristeza, the arrogants, sebastien tellier, the cure, death in vegas, the smiths, slowdive, ulrich schnauss, jesus & mary chain, new order, squarepusher, mazzy star, smashing pumpkins, cocteau twins, tristeza, jackson browne, morrissey, depeche mode, leona naess, tullycraft, the pretenders, new pornographers, jeff buckley, nina simone, beaumont, neko case, band of horses, absinthe blind, elvis costello, kevin tihista's red terror, the go-betweens, ben kweller, blondie, the jackson five, new edition, death cab for cutie, elliott smith, the cardigans, emiliana torrini, piano magic, the temptations, ani difranco...so much more...love music! ask me for more...

Movies:


before sunrise/sunset, eternal sunshine, when harry met sally, reality bites, sleeping beauty, garden state, love actually, vanilla sky, lost in translation, napoleon dynamite, the notebook, high fidelity, mean girls, catch me if you can, secret window, waking life, serendipity, pretty in pink, trainspotting, bridget jones' diary, wings of desire, magnolia, old school, 13 conversations about one things, adaptation, american beauty, breakfast club, roman holiday, one true thing, down with love, run lola run, like water for chocolate, closer, the fountain, me & you & everyone we know, sideways...i am sure i can think of more...

Television:

i don't really watch tv much.....but when i do, i dig TLC, the style network, discovery/discovery health, project runway, and GILMORE GIRLS.

Books:

julia copus, alice munro, franz kafka, anne sexton, thomas wolfe, ernest hemingway, dorianne laux, charles bukowski, elizabeth bishop, eva salzman, william faulkner, joyce carol oates, charles baudelaire, nikki giovanni, philip larkin, ts eliot, sharon olds, ee cummings, margaret atwood. (can you tell i really like poetry?)

Heroes:



and all of those lucid hearts, whose strength of emotion has never stopped them from baring all.

My Blog

new writing...

not on the same pageis a phrase they've been dissecting for years:the consonants and vowels swallowed whole in an alphabet-soup world of misunderstanding, etymologies and psychologies barely buoyantam...
Posted by bobbie on Thu, 31 May 2007 08:33:00 PST

with a squeeze and a sigh and that twinkle in your eye...

1. i'm disappointed.2. my throat hurts like MAD. 3. nearly all the new albums by my long-adored bands just aren't up to par with their older stuff. new orchids album BLOWS. new trembling blue stars is...
Posted by bobbie on Thu, 31 May 2007 04:58:00 PST

pondering & photos.

"The world breaks everyone, and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If y...
Posted by bobbie on Sat, 26 May 2007 11:40:00 PST

and this is a storm if i ever saw one.

i am all kinds of sad and frustrated. and lonely. extremely lonely. but the other day, i bought elizabeth bishop's 'edgar allen poe & the jukebox', which was a bright spot. she's such a marvelous ...
Posted by bobbie on Fri, 11 May 2007 08:19:00 PST

the supernova factory, burning out before your very eyes since '83.

i give up. i surrender. i don't know what i'm surrendering to, or for, but i feel like there's this stupid little stalwart part of my heart and soul that just never sits down and never shuts up, no ma...
Posted by bobbie on Tue, 08 May 2007 07:36:00 PST

it's the little things in life.

i'm really excited about this elliott smith release coming out on tuesday.
Posted by bobbie on Sun, 06 May 2007 04:50:00 PST

i went to the Passion Museum and all i got was this stupid t-shirt.

Passion doesn't get one nearly as far as I'd hoped it would. It's one of the things I hate wasting most....there's nothing more pitiful and sad than wasted passion. Then again, not to be that person, ...
Posted by bobbie on Wed, 02 May 2007 08:59:00 PST

heh, celebrity lookalikes.

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Posted by bobbie on Sun, 22 Apr 2007 08:21:00 PST

neko case show.

...it was amazing. she played all my favorites, well, except the song 'favorite'. what wasn't so amazing, however, were the asshole people at park west that had a problem with my camera. i only manage...
Posted by bobbie on Sat, 31 Mar 2007 08:18:00 PST

the voyage - baudelaire

(i did not write this. as the title says, it's baudelaire. i only WISH i possessed this much talent) sharing for the sake of its beauty....he's been a favorite of mine lately. The Voyage, Charles Baud...
Posted by bobbie on Tue, 27 Mar 2007 07:57:00 PST