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BaddAss MisterJ

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About Me

Calm, cool, collected, erected. He has two interests: (1) sex and (2) leaving women in trembling heaps as he walks calmly for the door. While he closes it behind him and leaves her forever, her wounds may never heal. And this is after just the first date. Luckily, he's not particularly interested in, or deserving of, a long-term relationship. So at least the damage is limited. When he *does* date, he never act needy, and he somehow still manages to get what he want. Lust moves him, and he's selfish about it. He seeks that special someone who can bring him pleasure while he steamrolls them. He probably masturbates a lot... & Admits it. In general, his life is exciting and full of risks. He likes challenges, games, and physical relief. And he's meticulous, efficient, and intelligent, just like that guy in Top Gun, Maverick.Who is "Badd Ass Mister J?" Badd Ass Mister J has a special zeal for life!!! Mr. J is a very balanced person. He has clear goals in life and dreams he hopes to pursue while still being practical about the realities of life. He refuses to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of him. Love is the same way. Despite his natural charm, he can't pretend to care for someone if he's missing a deep connection. Mr. J has lots of friends who really enjoy listening to his jokes and great stories. In fact, he puts the ones he loves ahead of everything else. He's ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special. His biggest challenge may be finding time to connect given his busy (and often frantic) life. What's dating all about to Badd Ass Mister J? Badd Ass Mister J believes dating and life in general is about learning and growing as a person. Mr. J has a great skill for connecting with people, so dating comes relatively easily to him. However, it's hard for him to have a real intellectual connection with an attractive woman. Hopefully, he's found a way to "go with the flow" in dating as he already does in other parts of his life. Badd Ass Mister J faces two major challenges in finding the love of his life. First, because Mr. J's mind is so busy making sure he says and does the right things on dates, it's hard for his deeper and caring self to come through. It feels risky to share this part of himself but most women need this emotional connection. Second, although having a vision of what Mr. J wants can be helpful, the risk is that his high standards can get in the way of loving a real-life imperfect woman. Quirks Women notice about Badd Ass Mister J Like all men, Badd Ass Mister J has his strengths as well as his quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, Mr. J wants to find someone who will love and accept him "warts and all." Though he has lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person who understands. Here's a small list of some of them: ** While others debate about where to go and what to do, Badd Ass Mister J can honestly say "I don't care." Even though Mr. J is an easy-going man and open to anything, some people get frustrated because he doesn't express his opinion or they see his cooperation as indifference and lack of involvement. ** At times Badd Ass Mister J can get so caught up in a conversation that he talks more (and louder) than most people. ** Badd Ass Mister J is more cautious about getting into a commitment or saying "I love you" than most other men.Hi WOMAN!!! Now that I have your attention, here's a lil something about "Mr. J." I live in L.A., but most of my time is spent in Pasadena, cause that is where I work & play. I enjoy the little things in life like a gentle breeze or the sound of the running water of a little creek. I like the outdoors whether it be a grassy field on a sunny day, the warm sand between my toes of a beach sunset, or the a cool breeze while on hiking trail. I live by the philosphy that the best things in life are free, so I like to take advantage of any free event going on in this city. It's not that I'm cheap, but hey there are people attending that free event also so how bad could it be!!! I just recently cut my hair for the 4th time (June '07) to donate to Locks of Love. They'll use it to make wigs for children who lost their hair to Chemotherapy or Disease. I cut off over 13" so I'm still trying to get used to it, also my long Goatee & Fu Man Chu Mustache (I had to cause I couldn't eat BBQ ribs comfortably). I like going to midnight movies to see cult films like The Goonies or a horror like The Exorcist/The Omen. Mr. J is known for his Culinary Arts, and has a reputation of hosting great parties for friends & family w/ lots of great food to eat. You outta see how my Thanksgivings are like!!! On my freetime, I involve myself in Volunteer Community Service projects to help people and certain causes in need. If I got you hooked from reading this, then this is where I turn you away, cause I'm a big fan of professional wrestling. I know what you are thinking "But isn't wrestling fake?" Hey if women have their soap operas, then men have thier wrestling!!! I especially like the History of Pro Wrestling and the life of the people who molded it to what it is today. I dig sports too like Basketball, Baseball, and Football, but what I really like is Women's sports like Womens Soccer and Softball. There's something about women playing their hearts out that is soo inspiring and sexy! For the past few years now, I've been dabling in my new hobby and obesssion, CERAMICS. There's something about the feeling of clay in your hands as you create mud into something sooo artful. I've become quite good at it, and it really helped w/ my anger manangement issues along w/ teaching me on how to have patience in life. I play guitar, because you can't bring a piano to the beach (I can play piano too), and have been playing for over 6yrs now. I love KARAOKE, and I must admit, I am a karaoke whore & ham. I can't help it!!! My latest venture is learning Salsa Dancing and I'm pretty good! It's more like Flirting than it is dancing, but it's fun!

My Interests

Having soooo much FUN & Laughter till you PEE!!!, Softball, Baseball, Basketball, Ceramics, Karaoke, Dental Laboratory Technology, Going to Dog Beaches, Cooking, Making funny faces @ my doggie just to see that confused look in her face, Searching for the best taco in L.A., L.A. Works, Volunteer Comunity Service, Learning to Salsa Dance, 69-ing, Introducing people to my T-Mobile SideKick BaddAss Data CellPhone, chatting and keeping up w/ friends on A.I.M., flirting w/ a gals who are shy,

I'd like to meet:

Who is Badd Ass Mister J Looking For? She'll be passionate!!! Badd Ass Mister J is looking for a woman who can be his soul mate AND playmate in life! She's a woman with great integrity and the strength to stand up for causes she believes in. Like most women, she's not afraid of her emotions. In fact, the two of you will probably share an immediate, passionate connection. She's shy and a little hard to get to know. But she's worth the effort for Mr. J! One-on-one, he wants to find a very warm, easygoing and understanding woman. He may find it's like awakening a hidden princess! Though she may not always put it into words, she's in touch with her emotions and will do spontaneous and romantic things to express her feelings for him. Overall, it's important for Badd Ass Mister J to be with someone who is almost always cheerful and has an optimistic outlook on life. The ideal person Mr. J is seeking shares a number of positive qualities with him, including: ** She has her eye on the future and has big goals and dreams for what she wants out of life. ** She's independent and won't be overly dependent or clingy. ** She believes in letting life happen and not being too pinned down by doing any one thing. Opposites sometimes attract!!! Badd Ass Mister J wants to share his life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style he has. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. Still, sometimes differences can help create a "spark" and excitement about each other. Part of Mr. J wants to be more like her, or at least have her unique style in his life. She could be good for him in many ways such as: ** Her quiet and gentle nature can have a calming effect on Badd Ass Mister J and release him from having to be "on" all the time. ** She can help balance Badd Ass Mister J when he becomes too caught up in his thinking and planning and need to take care of himself emotionally. Quirks Badd Ass Mister J can tolerate The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a woman who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) Mr. J's "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make him unique. Mr. J seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with his "ideal" woman: ** Badd Ass Mister J can enjoy her enthusiasm for new ideas without taking her plans, which are often unrealistic, too seriously. ** Badd Ass Mister J can understand that it's hard for her to talk about love and her feelings for him. ** Badd Ass Mister J can appreciate that her big heart lets her be swayed too much by emotions and a desire to keep her friends and family happy. Downside of Badd Ass Mister J's "ideal" In addition to her quirks, Mr. J's "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, her quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, these quirks are the "flip side of the coin," or the extreme end of qualities he otherwise finds appealing. For Example: ** Her hesitancy to go to parties or out with large groups could stand in the way of staying connected with Mr. J's friends and doing some of his favorite activities. ** She can be overly sensitive and dramatic at times. So to summarize it all up, here is a list of good qualities and challenging qualities (or shit that pisses him off) of the type of women he likes. Good Qualities: ** Cares deeply for a few very close friends. ** Comes up with lots of great ideas about how to do things better or improve the world. ** Sensitivity to emotions promotes greater insight and compassion for you and others. ** Not afraid to make tough decisions and move ahead. Challenging Qualities: ** Has little desire to branch out and meet new people. ** Creative ideas are often impractical or unrealistic. ** Emotions can cloud judgment and thinking. ** Jumps too quickly to make decisions, because waiting is so hard to do. SEX!!! "Romantic Sex" Good sex is important to Badd Ass Mister J, but it's only one of many ways you connect with his partner. To Mr. J, life is about finding balance, and a romantic and satisfying sex life is a key part of his vision. Is she sexually compatible? Badd Ass Mister J is looking for someone who values the quality of sex over the quantity. Ideally, Mr. J likes someone who is talented at keeping sex new, fun and exciting. What's ahead for Badd Ass Mister J sexually? A good sexual match plays a key role in Badd Ass Mister J's "ideal" relationship. Mr. J's kept his "wild," sexual side in check, but with the right woman he could open up the floodgates and let his sexy ideas and temptations flow. Letting go doesn't come easily to him. Mr. J probably feels pushed and pulled from two sides. One side wants to feel sexually free. In fact, making love offers a rare opportunity for him to "get out of his head" and stop thinking for a while. In contrast, the other side feels threatened if sex gets too intimate or emotional. A good woman won't mind pacing things, especially if it makes Mr. J more comfortable and daring in bed.IF you are strong, confident, adventurous, positive, brave, can throw a ball, hit a ball, kick a ball then you are in. If you don't mind getting dirty in the mud while having fun in it, then you are in. But all in all, I'd like to meet someone who is comfortable w/ herself and confident in her beliefs in life, as well as a sense of adventure of trying new things for the first time and not "Eww, Eww. ." everything in disgust. I DO have a doggie, & I do "do the dog test" to any woman who I bring into my life, so I guess this woman must love nature & animals. There are other tests I do like the Karaoke Test to see how confident & wild she can get. So I guess I'm looking for someone who can carry a tune of some sort. I find women who play instuments very intriguing & if she can overtake a crowd w/ her musical talents, then it would be great. I like a woman to be funny & have a great SICK sense of humor, cause my life is just full of the kind of laughter that makes you roll on the floor & hold your sides and your PEE back, while tears start to come out of your eyes; also someone who is NOT afraid to laugh. If you can cook or have the time to learn something new to cook, that that would be great too. I'd love to teach & learn something new. You don't have to be perfect cause no one really is. It takes guts to write & meet someone new, so I will gaurantee to you that I will have the patience to meet you & get to know you & not rush into anything big. Afterall I would like to start a relationship w/ a friend first, rather than lover (for a change). I have all the time in the world for YOU! So step up to the plate, and see if you can get on base with me!

Music:

80's Music, Glam & Classic Rock, Heavy Metal, Club, Techno, Trance, Disco, Richard Cheese & Lounge Against the Machine, Alternative, Jazz, Jazz-Classical-Folk-Flamenco-Bolero Guitar, Incendio, Van Halen (not Van Hagar), Tony MacAlpine, Steve Vai, Doug MacLeod, DLG (DarkLatin Groove), Breakfast w/ The Beatles, Zydeco, Old School Rap before it got Booty or Gangsta, Live HOT Salsa bands, Mash Up D.J. Mixes, The Atomic Punks, GirlBands and Front Grils that kick ass like The Donnas, The Go-Go's, Go Betty Go, Whole Lotta Rosies, The Bangles, Veruca Salt, No Doubt, Steffani, Garbage, Thundherstruck, The Iron Maidens, No Duh, Check out this video: Kelly Clarkson &Metal Skool sing Journey

Movies:

Erotique, Quills, Como Agua Para Chocolate, The Tao of Steve, The Goonies, The Last Dragon, The Debut, American Adobo, Best of the Best, Top Gun, History of the World part 1, Blazin' Saddles, Young Frankenstien, Enter the Dragon, The Omen, Kama Sutra: A Tale of Love, The Cowboys, The Man Who Shot Liberty Vance, All of the Rocky Movies (Except Rocky Horror), Pirates of the Carribean: Curse of the Black Pearl, Mean Girls, Freaky Friday, Dracula 2000, The Guru, National Treasure, Grease, The Sound of Music, Sixteen Candles, The Joy Luck Club, Dazed and Confused, The Truth About Cats and Dogs, A Clockwork Orange, The Last Dragon, Revenge of the Nerds (All of them including Booger Gets Married), Night At The Blue Iguana, Striptease, Disclosure, The Game, Rhinestone, Lust in the Dust, Better Off Dead, Cheech & Chong's Up in Smoke and Next Movie, The Girl Next Door, Chicago, Curse of the Jade Cat, The China Cat, The Mask of Zoro, Swept Away (Original Italian Version in Black & White, not the Madonna Version), Risky Business, 9 1/2 Weeks, Blaze, Lolita, Horseman on the Roof, Hamburger. . . The Motion Picture, Draw, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, House of Flying Daggers, Saving Private Ryan, Brave Heart, Gladiator, Airplane, Top Secret, All National Lampoon movies, Tom Cats, Runaway Bride, Monster's Ball, The Fifth Element, Raging Bull, Carrie (The Original), Wild Things, American Pie Movies, Boogie Nights, What's Cooking?, All Seymore Butts (Adam Glasser) movies, anything w/ Shannon Hewitt

Television:

Buscando Amor, The OC, Alias, Law AND Order, Law AND Order SVU, Law AND Order Criminal Intent, Grounded For Life, The Simpsons, King of the Hill, Cooking shows on PBS & The Food Network, Raymond, King of Queens, Nova, This Old House, Days Of Our Lives, Desperate Housewives, Extreme Make-Over Home Edition, Conan O'Brien, Jimmy Kimmel, Nightline, All of the NEW StarTrek Series, Boston Legal, Frontline, Independent Lens, NUMB3RS, C.S.I., Grey's Anatomy, WWE Wrestling, Dotch No Ryori Show, Dotch Cooking Show, Cooking Showdown, Gilmore Girls, Operacion REPO, Arrested Developement, One Tree Hill, American Idol, Dancing With the Stars, The War At Home, The Knights of Prosperity, 3 1/2 Men, How I Met Your Mother, HBO's Real Sex Series, Three's Company, Oprah, The Tyra Banks Show, America's Test Kitchen, CSI Miami, CSI New York, ABC World News NOW, The World According To Jim, The George Lopez Show, American Dad, Family Guy, LOST, What About Brian?, Smackdown, Raw, Mad TV, Friday Night Lights, Saturday Night Live, Family Business, Heroes, 'Till Death, The Office, My Name is Earl, 30 Rock, Smallville, That's So Raven, Ask This Old House, Ugly Betty, Reba, Becker, Fraiser, Decisiones, Asi Es La Vida, Ebert and Roeper At The Movie, Men In Trees, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, October Road, TMZ TV, L.A. Ink, Nip/Tuck,

Books:

Como Agua Para Chocolate, Striptease, Tap Tap, Cook Books, The Complete Works of William Shakespere, Greek Mythology, Who Moved My Cheese?, The Giving Tree, The Rock Says. . ., Admiral Sir Henry Morgan King of the Buccaneers, Captain Kidd and the War against the Pirates, The Pirates Lafitte The Treacherous World of the Corsairs of the Gulf, THE ZEN of FISH The Story of Sushi From Samurai to Supermarket by Trevor Corson

Heroes:

People who made people laugh w/o making a sound! Bill Irwin, David Shiner, Buster Keaton, George La Fayette Fox, Charlie Chaplin, Harold Lloyd, Lucille Ball, Harpo Marx, Marty Feldman, Buckwheat, Chevy Chase, Silent Bob,

My Blog

In memory of my doggie "Nu Noo the Dog" July 1993 -- Feb. 25, 2008

I've never really talked about this till now, cause it hurt soo much inside. ..NuNoo The DogBut Nu Noo the Dog came into my life in July of 1993 ( I think before the 4th of ...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Thu, 08 May 2008 08:13:00 PST

Dodger Stadium Make-Over Plan

DODGERS Dodgers' McCourt unveils stadium makeover plan......Among the renovations, planned by 2012, would be a dedicated bus lane near the stadium and two parking garages plus additional...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Fri, 25 Apr 2008 12:00:00 PST

The price of beer will go up by the start of 2008!

http://mobile.latimes.com/detail.jsp?key=59895"Beer prices to hop on shortages" November 14, 2007 12:00 AM SUNNYSIDE, WASH. -- Fans of Snipes Mountain Brewery's cloudy Hefeweizen relish the subtle whe...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Mon, 19 Nov 2007 07:55:00 PST

Article: Porn in the San Fernanado Valley!!!

http://lang.dailynews.com/socal/editorial/inter/x_valley/xxx _valley_main.html Porn in the Valley Explore this six-part series exposing The Valley's porn industry. I thought this expose' was ver...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Thu, 01 Nov 2007 02:41:00 PST

Diners. . . stand up for your rights already!

MANIFESTO Diners, stand up for your rights! Feeling like frustrated with restaurant service? Here's what you deserve. By Leslie Brenner, Los Angeles Times Staff Writer October 24, 2007 You arrive at ...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Thu, 25 Oct 2007 11:57:00 PST

L.A. Times article: "Animal welfare issue boiling"

FOOD Animal welfare issue boiling Many firms in the industry have moved to undertake a number of changes in response to customer concerns. By Jerry Hirsch,  L.A.Times Staff WriterJuly 2, 2007 Ve...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Thu, 05 Jul 2007 04:39:00 PST

The Sushi-Man Journey Ends. . . I got a job!

Well I guess last Tuesday the 12th, I officially became an employee of the Morongo Casino, Resort and Spa http://www.MorongoCasinoResortSpa with a 7:45am New Employees 7 hour orientaion. I started to ...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Mon, 18 Jun 2007 11:41:00 PST

This is why I love Keira Knightly. . .

Maybe it's just cause she Britsh, and has that English wit and attitude. But what I love is her honesty about everything!  Read why. . . --"Mr. J" *********** http://www.people.com/people/article...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Mon, 21 May 2007 12:03:00 PST

Sushi Man trying to get his carrer started UPDATE

Last I left you guys, I haven't been sleeping. Well it seems like Ihave been sleeping just after midnight now. Which is pretty good! I'm now starting to get call backs on my resumes, and I got two las...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Thu, 03 May 2007 09:06:00 PST

"CHILES" The World's Oldest Condiment!

http://mobile.latimes.com/detail.jsp?key=27495"Chiles' kick is an old story, scientists find"By Karen Kaplan, L.A. Times Staff WriterFebruary 16, 2007Thousands of years before ketchup, mayonnaise or G...
Posted by BaddAss MisterJ on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 12:31:00 PST