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BJ

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About Me

most people totally bug me and yet, somehow, i am lucky enough to be surrounded by some of the most awesome fucking friends. In my own words, which i never get tired of hearing, i'm a cute, modest, way-too-smart, smart-ass, all-around good-guy-handsome-faced-dude who is seriously attitude and baggage free. albeit lippy and somewhat snarky, but not like some little BETCH. i way overuse phrases like "whateve" and "duuuuuuuude" and i make no fuckin' apology for it. however, i will apologize for brutally abusing "way" way too much. i'd like to think i'm fairly clever, but could in fact simply be retarded. i f**king love to laugh. i am, in all probability, a giant lesbian. i can spend hours shopping at Amoeba Music or Home Depot, but i find Fred Segal and LASC (or any form of accessory shopping) to be torture. if you can shoot pool and blow smoke rings, you're someone i wanna know. if you can reference jerri blank as easily as dorothy parker, i'd think you were reeeeeally special (but not in the short-bus, helmet wearin', pull-ups needin' kind of way). if you know the NHL, i'll marry ya. i'm happiest with a jack daniels in hand, hanging with my buddies. i tend to have a low tolerance for stupid people and bigots. i'm a guy's guy who genuinely likes just being a guy. and i love a challenge....and by the way...my guurls ryann and kristen kick massive amounts of butt!

My Interests

I was raised on a healthy diet of parental neglect and MTV, with liberal doses of second-hand smoke, skateboarding injury, bong water, nintendo, and sitting too close to the television...so, with what i can only imagine is a copious amount of chromosomal damage, breeding stock i'm likely not. but i am a font of useless pop culture trivia with an exceptionally high alcohol tolerance, making me the ideal drankin' buddy. i am good for a night out on the town with occasional thought provoking and insightful banter. or i can just as easily try to look cute and sit in silent judgement. in my bedroom you will find: clothes long lost under the bed, a hockey stick, a battered nerf football, way WAY too many lesbian folk CDs, and a mattress that, fortunately, can't talk. i don't need my business being all 411ed around this damn town. i think "The scent of a woman" is a totally fucking wierd and kinda creepy title for an al pacino flick. i enjoy an exciting and lucrative career as a stunt double for Dakota Fanning. i think that every single jack johnson song sounds EXACTLY the same. i'd like to meet baby jessica or any baby who has fallen into a well...that would be cool. i don't get the whole "i'm wearing my baseball cap askew" fashion statement 'cause it makes me think the wearer's skull might be dented or crooked or somethin'. can someone please stop the polo shirts with the collars worn up gig? and more revolting,those skinny knit outdoor neck scarves worn indoors...yeah, i'm sure you're all chilly at Bar Marmont in your belly exposing t-shirt and low-slung jeans, thank-god for the long, threadbare polo scarf! now you're comfortably warm! the fuck?!i think BLAIR is sexy, but JO is way sexier.Favorite on-screen sex scene: "Bound." not any specific scene, the whole damn movie... and there WAS some HOT sexual tension between mr. drummond and his various housekeepers on "Different Strokes."The celebrities i've been told i resemble most: antonio sabbato jr. (wasn't he great on "But can they Sing?"...not.so.much) or john stamos when i skip the gym for a few weeks.The best or worst lie i've ever told: 1) I don't know how to smoke from a bong... 2) I have no idea where that dime bag came from.i am totally into inde-music, boarding, blades, hat-trick, disco, corona, industry, and useless pop-culture trivia. did i mention inde-music?!?

I'd like to meet:

russell brand because i think he's HI-larious. Maura Tierney because i think she's HI-larious and i want to sleep with her. mostly, i'm just looking to kinda expand on my group of friends. basically i like hanging with smart, witty, handsome-mugged, studly good guys and wicked cool chicks who know the difference between looking beautiful and actually being beautiful. the people closest to me are dudes who don't hate who they are and know how to be strong in their own skin. have a good heart, a reasonably functioning brain, and rock the joint. it would be ideal if you were not a sociopath. and conversation skills are always a plus. *AND SERIOUSLY* i feel i must really REALLY emphasize the not-a-sociopath part (if you aren't sure, you likely are one). i have been getting far too many emails from crazy mother-fuckers with "super-hot webcams" (not interested), a lot of bible people all out to convert me (again, totally not interested. born once, just thrilled with the end result), people trying to sell some shit, and some just generally wierd fucking profiles. i'm not trying to be a total dick, i love edgy, original thinkers, people who are risk takers, take-no-prisoner ass shakers and general hotties...but if you've got some webcam and your boyfriend left you penniless in Vegas two weeks after moving out there and your super-fine webcam booty is paying the bills, i ain't buying...and you're probably crazy. my mailbox has been deluged with that tearjerker at least once a day. also, i'm nearly certain that i'm not gonna have a whole lot in common with any random 14-year-old, so if you are one of the many under-18-year-olds with a private profile who's been trying to friend me, it ain't gonna happen. it's not that i think the Kid's not smart... it just seems kind of pervy.

Music:

fiercely into sleater-kinney, ani difranco, matt nathanson, franz ferdinand, damian rice, modest mouse, juanes, holly figueroa o'reilly, the gossip, bonde do role, artic monkeys, sinead o'connor, concrete blonde, sara bareilles (but i know i'm gonna fuckin' start hating her "Love Song" that they brutally abuse as the "men in trees" theme), ari hest, christopher jak, emm gryner, aimee mann, ellis, afghan whigs, my chemical romance, greg dulli, robbie williams, alex lloyd, peter searcy, eric himan, graham colton, garbage, johnette napolitano, Panic! at the disco, PJ harvey, holly brook, jann arden, maria mckee, scott thomas, third eye blind, my morning jacket, skin, pretty girls make graves, texas, scissor sisters, jon mclaughlin, bratmobile, the killers, augustana, the bangs, lloyd cole, tim finn, melissa ferrick, lesbians on ecstasy (big fuckin' surprise there), gavin degraw, filter, bikini kill, sons and daughters, tegan and sara, peaches, the thrills, the bangs, and, uh...heart. AND any tragic 80's new wave. img src="http://images.deepbox.com/media/funny/91.gif"

Movies:

"layer cake" "serenity" "lock, stock, and two smoking barrels" "the bourne ultimatum" "eastern promises" and "mystery, alaska" all kick quite a lot of butt. "the descent" and "dog soldiers" scare the hell out of me. "kissing jessica stein" "lisa picard is famous" "mean girls" and "bringing up baby" make me laugh my ass off. "high art" "suddenly naked" "the trip" "yossi and jagger" "juno" "dopamine" "P.S." and the film short "dare" are the best rip-your-heart-out and cry like a bitch love stories (which i will publicly deny any knowledge of watching) and "sixteen candles" is just the BALLS.

Television:

virtually everything on HGTV and National Geographic. ESPN ONLY during hockey season. "law and order: SVU" "ER" because A)it is still one of the best acted shows on television B)i'm totally in love with maura tierney. seriously.in.love. C)i was in med school...i have certain fucking loyalties. i'm addicted to "robot chicken" on adult swim, "MXC" on Spike is Hi-larious, "mad men" "burn notice" "south park" "samantha who?" "strangers with candy" "nip tuck" "campus ladies" "weeds" "la femme nikita" "scrubs" and "kath and kim." i stupid love "ugly betty" and "the L-word," which is seriously one of the best shows on the tube. to work with talent like lisa cholodenko, rose troche, and gwen turner would be fucking amazing. i will lock myself into my house and watch "felicity" for hours, but only in private, so keep that shit quiet. i've developed this horrible fascination with "the real world/road rules challenge" and it sucks and i may put my own eyes out if i can't stop watching it. i cannot miss an episode of the new "battlestar galatica" on the sci-fi channel, but if confronted with that admission i would also plead the 5th. and even though it's kind of a chick flick, i used to love "grey's anatomy" which totally blows this season. it's both not funny and gay, which is a deadly combination for a TV show. lazy, lazy fucking writing. damn, now i've started watching "smallville" so i'm offically an R-tard...and now i've stopped watching "smallville" 'cause it truly sucks this season, too. yea for stupid!!

Books:

reading books is hard! "are you there god, it's me margaret?" is currently on my nightstand because i love teenage-first-menstruation memoirs. not. the bitter, chunky pre-teen girl in me likes "blubber" and i enjoy the "nancy drew mystery series" because i fancy myself a teenage sleuth with girl-on-girl tendencies. a puzzling caper, for instance? "who drank all of MY beer and left chips on the floor???" oh, wait...it was me. see? case solved. next. aight......my true literary hard-on is REALLY "Dry". and i love "possible side effects" for obvious personal reasons. "flesh and blood" "the year of ice" "naked" and "white teeth" are bloody brilliant.

Heroes:

ani difranco is one of the few who is not influenced by labels...she creates true beauty. arianna huffington is a fucking genius and should be president. all of you girls and boyz who continue to show compassion to strangers, all of you brave fuckers who choose to go on living and fight the good fight, even in this current climate of aggression and distrust. And seann william scott, but he is kinda not so much a hero as he is a total man-crush...argh, how gay.

My Blog

bored.

now i'm pretty much immobilized, recovering post-surgically while my spine fuses back together with what is hopefully bionic, but probably most likely just rusted paperclip applian...
Posted by BJ on Thu, 01 May 2008 04:54:00 PST

open letter to my tall girlfriend.

when i said GIGANTIC i did not mean large-boned-gal, i meant tall. and by tall, not freakishly tall, just attractively taller-than-average. by "nice rack" i meant to say you have a nice rack.and ...
Posted by BJ on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 09:10:00 PST

its all about me.

here are some things i've been pondering: the new commercial for denture adhesive "efferdent with scope" with the super-old, super-horny couple making out in the backseat of a car is totally...
Posted by BJ on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 07:41:00 PST

heath ledger is dead. the fuck!?

heath ledger apparently overdosed in new york a couple of hours ago. brad renfro last week. the fuck? seriously fucking sad. two talented, beautiful, young guys overdosing.i met brad renfro ...
Posted by BJ on Tue, 22 Jan 2008 03:49:00 PST

i LOVE Peter Searcy (but not in the gay way).

ok...maybe a little in the gay way. uh, pontificate much? i totally love this time of the year. not necessarily for hanukkah or new year's eve or even for the gross displays of public drunkeness (by m...
Posted by BJ on Sat, 15 Dec 2007 05:13:00 PST

black-eyed

life has a powerful fucking left hook.i followed the feint. my mistake.
Posted by BJ on Wed, 31 Oct 2007 11:47:00 PST

dude? uh...no, i was NOT high...

so...i saw a UFO this weekend. seriously. i was not high. i had only one drink (and anyone who knows me knows that it takes far more than one pissy drink to cloud my judgement. i can maintain with eno...
Posted by BJ on Mon, 17 Sep 2007 01:30:00 PST

flash gordon blows.

...if only. so, the sci-fi channel's latest attempt at original series is a re-tooling (emphasis on Tool) of "flash gordon" and it totally sucks hard. how is remaking an old, old, old, old t...
Posted by BJ on Fri, 17 Aug 2007 11:19:00 PST

SHOOTING FISH

welcome to my D-list.so...the other night on sunset boulevard, i thought i had run into crazy-sexy-homeless guy again. for those poor souls who regularly read the incredibly deep thoughts th...
Posted by BJ on Thu, 19 Jul 2007 06:12:00 PST

it's on, bitches!

aight, kellogg's announced today that because of lawsuits from fat parents of fat children, starting next year they will no longer use cartoon characters to promote their cereal. they also say that th...
Posted by BJ on Thu, 14 Jun 2007 03:12:00 PST