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slavegirl debbie

Blood may be thicker than water, but leather is thicker than blood. Master Skip Chasey

About Me

NOTE: INFORMATION ABOUT SOUTHWEST LEATHER CONFERENCE CAN BE FOUND IN MY BLOG.
i identify as a queer, het, bdsm-bi, leather, slavegirl. my journey has been a very spiritual one, where i've found bliss and great meaning in service. i've become very steeped in leather culture and have found a deep love and appreciation of 'traditional' protocol. i also LOVE SM and there's alot more about that at the end of this section.
i am grateful to be involved in a hot relationship with a Leatherman in Orange County. His name is DADDY BO and He's my Daddy and Sir. What can i say about Him? He has honor and integrity. He lives a Leather Lifestyle and is very involved in the community. He has my devotion. He's compassionate, honest and humble; patient and courteous. And He has a wicked sense of humour! i love to sit at His feet; worship His boots; and serve Him in every way. And yes, the sex is HOT! He brings out the best in me. i am truly blessed.
i am honored to be a student of a gay leather Master in Los Angeles (my Sir and Teacher are two different people). Through Him, my leather journey became forever tied to my spirituality. i have awakened to deeper levels of consciousness, awareness, obedience and surrender and i have finally learned what it means to remain in the stillness. He has allowed me the privilege of following His family protocol which means more to me than i could ever put into words. i am forever grateful.
Outreach, education and service are of the utmost importance to me. It is an honor to currently serve as Marketing Team Lead of SOUTHWEST LEATHER CONFERENCE and Promotion Coordinator of PEOPLE OF LEATHER AMONG YOU . i am the founder of L.A. FUK ; have presented several BDSM workshops on Relationships and Roles; and produce/lead an annual LEATHER PASSOVER SEDER in L.A. Oh! And i'm also a devoted BUTCHMANNS junkie!
Prior service includes stints with the LOS ANGELES LEATHER COALITION , EAGLE L.A. and INSIGHT AT LAIR DE SADE . It has also been an honor to have mentored several women new to our community over the past few years.
So how can a het female be queer? When it comes to sex, i crave cock, pheromones and muscles. But when it comes to BDSM, i've played with men, women and transgendered people who identify as gay, lesbian, dyke, bi, and het. It's about the shared energy between us, not what's between someone's legs. i'm deeply drawn to leather culture and find myself in the midst of (and very attracted to) gay, dyke and queer energy. It's just how i'm wired!

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So what kind of SM play does this slave enjoy? Bare handed and gloved Spankings are by far the most erotic experiences for me, but i enjoy so much more!
Spanking & Impact Toys: Canes, Floggers, Hands (Bare or Gloved), Paddles, Riding Crops, Whips. Other Impact Play: Bastinado, Body Punching, Face Slapping, Hair Pulling, Kicking, Spitting. Edge Play: Breath Control, Knife Play, Violet Wands. Sensation Play: Cigar Play, Clothespins, Hot Wax, Fire Play, Vampire Gloves. Bondage Related: Bondage, Blindfolds, Cages, Gas Masks, Hoods, Handcuffs, Mummification, Restraints, Sleepsacks, Spreader Bars, Suspension. Other: Biting, BOOT WORSHIP!, Crawling, Depilation, Eye Contact Restrictions, Human Furniture, Verbal Humiliation. Genital Play: Butt Plugs, Genitorment, Medical Play.
And of course, whatever pleases You Sir!

My Interests


HOT YUMMY PIX!

WANT TO HONE YOUR SM SKILLS? LEARN MORE ABOUT BDSM? LOS ANGELES OFFERS WORKSHOPS EVERY WEEEK! CHECK THESE OUT:

I) MONTHLY WORKSHOPS: 18 & OVER WELCOME


1st & 3rd Saturdays
INSIGHT AT LAIR DE SADE
6628 Lankershim Blvd.
North Hollywood, CA. 91606
www.lairdesade.com

1st, 2nd and 3rd Saturdays
THRESHOLD
11300 Hartland St
North Hollywood, CA 91605
www.threshold.org

1st, 3rd, 4th Sundays
THRESHOLD
11300 Hartland St
North Hollywood, CA 91605
www.threshold.org

3rd Tuesday
OCLA
Workshops held at
CM Hurt Studios
13121 Brookhurst St
Garden Grove, CA 92843 www.ocla.org

4th Wednesday
AVATAR LOS ANGELES
Workshops at MCC
5730 Cahuenga Blvd
North Hollywood, CA 91601
www.avatarla.org

1st, 2nd, 3rd Wednesdays
THE PLEASURE CHEST
See website for location
www.thepleasurechest.com

3rd Thursday
People of Leather Among You
Workshops at MCCLA
8714 Santa Monica Blvd
West Hollywood, CA
www.play-la.org

II) MONTHLY WORKSHOPS: GENDER SPECIFIC

4th Saturday
AVATAR LOS ANGELES
Leather Lab Series (Men only)
MCC North Hollywood
5730 Cahuenga Blvd
North Hollywood, CA 91601
www.avatarla.org

2nd Saturday
LA RAWW
Program Mtgs (Women only)
Downtown LA, CA
(See website for address)
www.laraww.org

LOOKING FOR A PLAY PARTY? SOCIAL? BONDAGE BALL? CHECK OUT THE EVENTS CALENDAR TO THE RIGHT OR GO TO:

WWW.FREEWEBS.COM/LALEATHERBDSM

GROUPS.YAHOO.COM/GROUP/SOCALSMEVENTS

I'd like to meet:

i'm here to communicate and connect with Leatherfolk and other Kinky Pervert Types in Los Angeles and around the country. i am also here to provide Educational Resources for newcomers to our lifestyle and community (see resources in my blog). Lastly, i'm here to promote a myriad of interesting local and national events -- some of which i'm involved with and others that just plain interest me!.. Rob Zombie – Living Dead Girl

My Blog

WHAT IS LEATHER?

Since the Town Hall Meeting, several people have been asking "What is Leather REALLY about?"  If you've been wondering ... Is Leather just about clothing? Is Leather a philosophy or is it a ...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Fri, 07 Sep 2007 03:07:00 PST

Southwest Leather Conference: Register Now!

SOUTHWEST LEATHER CONFERENCE"THE QUEST: JOURNEY INTO THE ELEMENTAL"JANUARY 11-13, 2008 IN PHOENIX, AZWWW.SOUTHWESTLEATHER.ORG   In the year 2000, a new idea was born. To create an event that ce...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Wed, 05 Sep 2007 08:25:00 PST

RECAP OF TOWN HALL MEETING

RECAP OF TOWN HALL MEETING  OF THE FETISH, LEATHER & BDSM COMMUNITIES OF L.A.SUNDAY AUGUST 19, 2007 For full Meeting notes, please visit www.freewebs.com/laleatherbdsm/townhallmeeting.htm &n...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Wed, 05 Sep 2007 01:07:00 PST

Post Gastric Bypass: 60 Pounds and Counting!

i decided this evening to share my weight-loss journey here, with total openness and honesty. There are alot of personal details to follow but i feel called to do this. So here we go.Well, in case you...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Sun, 08 Jul 2007 01:32:00 PST

Merging Leather/BDSM With Spirituality

SPIRITUALITY AND BDSM/LEATHER1) PEOPLE OF LEATHER AMONG YOU (PLAY) Meets the 2nd Thursday of every month in at MCCLA in West Hollywood, CAhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/PLAY_LAPLAY is a social and edu...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 03:16:00 PST

BDSM & Leather Resources for the Curious

BDSM & LEATHER EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES TERMINOLOGYwww.domsub.info/glossary.htmlwww.f etishexchange.org/lingo1.shtml  www.submissive1.homestead.com/Domsub101.html  EDUCATION FROM A LEAT...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Thu, 31 Aug 2006 07:28:00 PST

Of His Black Leather Boots 1/22/2004

i wrote the following poem after leaving the het community in Spring 2003. i had broken off with my former Dom in June 2003, and was preparing to enter the leather community. A ton of reading had enth...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Sun, 08 Jul 2007 12:16:00 PST

Learning and growing at His feet 10/23/2005

Written about my Teacherat my leather weekend in Charlotte Together In Leather 2005www.togetherinleather.org And here i find myself once again at yet another leather conference. i've never been to Cha...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Tue, 06 Dec 2005 03:00:00 PST

The Joy at His Feet 9/17/2005

"The Joy at His Feet"written about my Teacher Joy, happiness and heart a~flutter! In His presence again. Talk and conversation never ending As the sharing, learning and laughter ebbs and flows. Took a...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Tue, 06 Dec 2005 02:56:00 PST

In His Presence 6/2005

In His PresenceWritten about my TeacherJune 29, 2005in His presence i am naked even when fully clothed in His presence i am slave and girl in His presence i feel so alive He has allowed me to follow H...
Posted by slavegirl debbie on Tue, 06 Dec 2005 02:53:00 PST