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TheValleyDom

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About Me

I am a hot, sexy , 48 year old, Dominant and Sadist in Los Angeles (SFV) 5'11" 180, Brown eyes, Brown and grey hair, goatee.
While I am looking to create a long term connection, I am not opposed to connections of a shorter term.
I want another who views me as their erotic, emotional, and spiritual salvation and I wish for them to be mine.
The deeper realms are what interest Me the most. The emotional growth. The transformation of boundaries. The spiritual experience. And of course, the hot nasty perverted kinky sex.
I think that it is My big heart, keen intelligence, sharp intuition and my focused sadistic/sensual mind that makes me a truly sensitive and effective Dominant.
I am loving, caring, open, adventurous and inventive. Hey, I even cry at chick flicks.
I do not believe that I need to tear a submissive down to gain control. I know that my submissive's devotion and obedience increases thru my support, my guidance, my caring, and OUR growth.
A submissive gives Me her trust, her heart, her surrender, her obedience, and her body, and it is my responsibility to fulfill her needs, desires and fantasies.
I have spent much time these past years at the Lair, and I am well known there. Ask around about me. I am certain you will hear positive things.
My Ideal Person:
Your age/race are not important.
Body type...not too thin, not too large. I like curves. Flesh is good. Flesh is fun! But I have limits.
What is important is your commitment to exploring your truest emotional, sexual, and erotic desires.
You are, first of all, a Good Person. Fun, Honest, Loving, Open, and committed to discovering your true sexual nature. You like/desire/need erotic pain.
Your experience level is not important. I have had much experience with those new to this magical realm. Newcomers are very welcome.
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Hey girl, take a look at me
Let me dirty up your mind
I'll strip away your sweet veneer
And see what I can find

The queerest of the queer
The strangest of the strange
The coldest of the cool
The lamest of the lame
The numbest of the dumb
I love to see you here
You choke behind a smile
A fake behind the fear
The queerest of the queer

This is what they see me for
I'll show you how it's done
You learn to love the pain you feel
You’ll burn like the sun

The queerest of the queer
Hide inside your head
The blindest of the blind
The deadest of the dead
You're hungry cause you starve
While holding back the tears
Choking on your smile
A fake behind the fear
The queerest of the queer

I know what's good for you
(You can touch me if you want)
I know you're dying to
(You can touch me if you want)
I know what's good for you
(You can touch me if you want)

But you can't stop

"Queer"
Original lyrics by
GARBAGE (Shirley Manson/Butch Vig)

My Blog

My take on The Town Hall Meeting of August 19, 2007

This is what the posting said.........You are cordially invited to a TOWN HALL MEETINGof the Los Angeles Fetish, Leather and BDSM CommunitiesAn alarming number of unsafe SM-related incidents have been...
Posted by on Sun, 02 Sep 2007 18:46:00 GMT